Today we have an international practitioner – hailing from Dubai and the Ukraine – who is as imposing as she is stunning!
Hello!!! Welcome to Forced-Bi.com.
Please, let the audience know: What name do you go by?
“Mistress Helene Nuar.”
That’s awesome!
Thanks for being with us, Mistress Helene!
Would you mind telling us a little about your background?
“I am a licensed psychologist and also a psychotherapist. My specialization in psychotherapy was sexuality and its problems.”
Oh, I’m sure that comes in handy!
How did you get into fetishes in general?
“At first, I conducted only a few sessions a month, giving my clients the opportunity to make their fantasies into reality.
“Later on, my practice expanded significantly.”
Right on. And how did you end up getting into Forced Bi?
“Some of my clients have Forced-Bi fantasies.”
So, it was only natural to incorporate those into your sessions. I gotcha.
Okay, here’s a language-oriented question for you.
Obviously, for legal reasons, “force” means something less than literally compelled by threats. But… what does it mean to you?
“In fact, ‘force’ does one hyper-important thing, it removes responsibility from the client.”
The ol’ guilt-avoidance game…[1]
“Almost all clients practicing forced bi are latently homosexual. But, for some reason (all different), they cannot – or do not – want to accept their true sexuality.
“The practice of ‘forced bi’ removes from them that burden of responsibility and rejection of their sexuality that these clients have.”
I think I follow you.
You think of it as a pretense that gives clients the excuse to do what they want to do but are too ashamed to do of their own volition – without the make-believe story that you’re “forcing” them.
“When such subconsciously desirable things are done under someone else’s direction, the responsibility is transferred to the person who ‘forced’ them to do it.”
Is Forced Bi the sort of fetish that either attracts a guy, or… doesn’t? Or, let me put it this way: I see that you’re into strapon training, for instance. Do other kinds of session – maybe pegging or strapon, for instance – lead guys into Forced Bi?
“Personally, I do not see a hard rule in this. Everything should be as the parties agree with each other.”
Right on. Everyone’s different?
So… do you think that “Forced Bi” changes a guy’s sexuality? Or… as you stated… is it that the only guys drawn to this fetish are latent homosexuals?
“This is all very individual. This question cannot be answered in general. Forced bi: this is an impetus, in the form of the removal of responsibility.”
You mean… clients are into Forced Bi because it motivates – and excuses – gay play?
“What this will lead to in the long run, one can only guess.
“I have personally seen enough cases when people transfer their fantasies into reality and, when faced with them, realize that either they are not interested in it or they want to leave it in their fantasies.
“Others, having finally done something for so long, dreamed of starting to practice further.”
Is Forced Bi exclusively for male subs?
“I have only met male, forced-bi practitioners.”
Roger that.
Activity-wise, what do you get into? Is this mostly online-fantasy chat, or… real-time, guy-on-guy nastiness?
“I believe that Forced-Bi sessions can only be real; I do not represent them in virtual format.”
Oh, my! All right, then! And that’s variously in Dubai or Kiev?
Readers: Take note! It’s the real deal, or nothing at all!
Is it fair to say that you see your role as a kind of kinky… therapist?
“I like this practice, as well as others, in that I can help a person expand the boundaries of his sexuality and understand more about his essence. I act as a guide to the world of new sensations. Thanks to me, many people have finally found happiness in their sex lives.”
A guide! Yes, I like that.
“Ero-pomp.”
Before you go, let us know about any limits.
In the first place… do you have any?
“I am against sex without a condom.”
Fair enough. What about amyl-nitrate inhalers? “Poppers”? Any opinion?
“I like poppers.”
Ha! Nice!
And… married men?
“I don’t think I should delve into the marital status of my clients; we do not meet on Tinder.”
Lol!
Very true!
Well! Thank you so much for sharing some of your viewpoints with us, today!
Let everyone know where they can find you, online!
“Prospective clients can contact me:
“Through my website: https://en-helene-vip-bdsm.cf/
“On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_mistress_helene__nuar/
“Or on Twitter: https://twitter.com/helene_nuar_/.”
Notes:
[1] This has come up in other conversations, as well. See, e.g., our interviews with Domina Jemma, Dr. Paris, and Miss Mae Ling. For more on this topic, see our introductory post “What Is Forced Bi?”