Well, hello, everyone in Coerced-Bi land. We have a special installment for you!
Today, we have the pleasure of speaking with one of the self-styled “OGs” of the Forced-Bi fetish.
Hi! Welcome!
For those who don’t know you, please, introduce yourself! What name do you go by?
“Mistress Samantha Paris, Goddess Sam Paris, Sam Paris and Dr. Paris.”
That’s quite a list! Ha!
Epic!
Now, I can see that you fancy the labels “Goddess” and “Mistress.” Any other adjectives or modifiers that you like?
“‘Alpha Female,’ ‘Domme,’ and …‘Female Supremacist.’”
Right on!
Would you mind telling me a bit about what appeals to you regarding those honorifics?
“I love all the monikers for different reasons and personal moods. They are all powerful and evocative.”
Quite so.
So, I’m picking up “power” as a prominent theme.
Let me ask you: in your fetishistic line of work, what do you see yourself as engaging in? I mean, is this just a job for you? A passionate hobby? A spiritual exercise? Something else?
“I would say it’s a lifestyle because I am an Alpha Female all the time.”
It’s just who you are. It comes through!
“Being a Dominant woman isn’t a choice. A woman is born that way. It can be an evolution over time, or a woman knows early on.”
I take it: you knew!
“I like to say: Show ME a Dominant Woman and I’ll show you someone who was classified in a sexist manner as a ‘Bossy Girl’ when she was young. We just know we are Powerful from a young age. Some of us embrace that and don’t care what society says.
“Also, it’s a role play. At least… in terms of MY career. I try on lots of hats in the Femdom realm daily with clients.”
I can only imagine!
Does that sum it up?
“And there’s an element of social activism. I actually have become VERY socially active, especially in the last few years in regards to Sex-Worker rights, and I feel very strongly about decriminalizing prostitution.”
Interesting.
“I used to consider Myself a feminist, but I don’t like their mainstream attitudes against sex workers, and now consider Myself a full-time Female Supremacist.
“Yes, I have been known to fight with anti-sex-worker feminists on Twitter!”
Ha! Why am I not surprised to hear that?
“I don’t care for women who don’t support other women.”
And how about your clients? May I ask: what words you use to talk about – or talk to – them?
“Subs. Slaves.”
Not uncommon.
“Minions.”
Ooh. That’s a good one!
“Pets. Losers. Cucks.”
You have a veritable smorgasbord of labels for them!
“Good Boys. Puppies.”
Any deeper reasons, or…
“No. I just have always used these terms. I like them best.”
Fair enough!
So, basic question… what got you into all this? Fetishes… Forced Bi…
“I have been in the adult industry for 30 years in December.”
Congrats!
“I started out doing phone sex for MYSELF – running ads, locally and nationally, in the 1990s.
“I wanted to work from home. It never bothered ME to talk about sex, so I figured: why not?”
Indeed!
“MY very first caller was a sissy, closeted-gay guy that wanted to be called ‘Muffy’ and have a forced gangbang with the black football team.”
A sissy right out of the gate! And… quite a goal!
“Let’s just say MY career has come full circle!”
Ha! Right?!?
“I ended specializing in forced-bi, (A.) because I just like the males better. They are not hitting on ME. I am an accepting, non-judgmental female who will also make them push their personal envelope …because life is short, and they are too afraid to do anything on their own and need a Dominant woman to guide them.
“My line of Dr.-Paris-BBC-University videos[1] really solidified the Forced-Bi/Make-Me-Gay path.”
Holy cow! I can surmise!
So… 30 years! You’ve been doing this since…
“Since the late 1990s.”
Amazing!
Truly, one of the Original Gangstas!
And this isn’t all online, right? Or, is it? You have a physical space?
“Nope. It’s just ME online.”
Oh, wicked! That’s awesome!
I always ask: what drives you? Is this a pursuit of pleasure? Profit? A bit of both?
“I get mental satisfaction and really enjoy MY clients.”
Love-what-you-do sort of thing? Nice.
“I also am a businesswoman and full-time entrepreneur.
“So, being successful is also important for ME.
“I really love what I do, and feel very fortunate to be living in the era of the internet and being able to forge MY own unique career path.”
And, you said… this is a full-time gig, so to say? How much of your energy and time does this take up?
“This is way more than a full-time venture for ME. I am working seven days a week in some capacity because I have so many ventures.
“Phone lines, full clip production, fan clubs, photography, cam shows, texting & marketing. I do all MY own everything, so it can get crazy sometimes.”
I believe you!
“I’m gonna need a nice vacation after COVID-19 is under control!”
Is all that too much? I mean… are you exactly where you’re wanting to be?
“I am a workaholic and it’s okay for now during Quarantine. But, yes, I would like to lighten the load at some point.”
For sure. I can appreciate that.
Do you feel comfortable sharing anything else about yourself, on either personal or professional levels? E.g., How old are you? Are you in a relationship? (Conventional? Alternative/BDSM?) What is your sexual orientation? Etc.
“I am 58 years old and very proud pf MY nearly 30 years in the industry. I never lie about MY age because it’s honor to grow older.”
Respect.
“I like people to know and see that you can still be vibrant, dynamic, attractive and powerful as an older woman.”
You make your point vividly, and with verve!
Let me segue a little into a deeper discussion of that fetish that is the peculiar focus of this website, Forced Bi!
So, on the face of it, the “forced-bi fetish” has two components: (1) “force” and (2) “bisexuality.” Let’s handle both, but in reverse order.
Firstly, I’m wondering: Do you think that true “bisexuality” – where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males (but see a further question about problems with so-called “binarism”) – is possible? And, how do you see the Forced-Bi fetish, specifically? Is it an extension of the lifestyle / role-play / activist strands you mentioned earlier?
“I honor that there are some authentic bisexuals in the world.
“The men that contact ME, however, fall into another category: and that’s the closet.
“I have done a lot of intake during MY calls over nearly 30 years. I would say that two things are always common with all of them.
“1.) They grew up in Religious, Conservative and/or Traditional families and environments, and they had same-sex attractions starting in adolescence.
“I enjoy helping men explore that side of themselves – guiding them farther than they would go on their own.
“Some want to be pushed, and I am happy oblige!
“This is a way of life for ME.”
Ha! I’m getting a sense of that!
Let me ask you about the name of the fetish. What do you call it? “Coerced bi,” “Encouraged bi,” “Enforced bi,” “Forced bi,” “Forced gay,” etc.? Any of the above?
“I’m old school and prefer ‘Forced Bi.’”
Oh?
“I’m a bit annoyed at the PC[2] climate that has taken that term away on some platforms. So, I commonly go with ‘Coerced Bi’ and ‘Coerced Gay,’ now.”
Is Forced Bi just for guys? Females and males? What say you?
“It pertains only to males for ME.”
And… what about that word “force”?
As far as goes the second core idea, the idea of being “forced” is a little vague. For legal reasons, “forced” probably means something less than literally compelled by threat of force. But how do you think of it? Do any of these resonate? Coercion? Commandment? Encouragement? Enticement? Inducement? Instruction? Permission? Persuasion? Provocation? Seduction? Something else?
“Ordering – the sub does what I tell him to do. But also, instruction: Dr. Paris guides closeted males to their true destinies!”
So, in a sense, permission as well?
“That’s correct; all MY clients really want cock. I am just giving them permission to go ahead with it.”
So, I have a guess as to what you’ll say, but… what do you think is actually going on with “forced bi”? Does a guy change his sexual orientation?
“No! All MY clients are bisexual – or gay; they just haven’t come to terms with it, yet. ME wanting or encouraging them to service cock makes it easy for them since the onus is now on ME.”
The old guilt-avoidance game.
Is it possible for a guy to be a “switch” or “versatile”? (That is, to be able to take on the role of either bottom or top with more or less equal facility, if not enthusiasm.)
“For the most, part nearly all MY clients have been submissive bottoms. Very rarely will I get a switch. And even they prefer to be sub bottoms but can be versatile if the situation calls for it. But it’s not their top choice.”
Exceedingly interesting.
Some women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex. Straight women sometimes liken their enjoyment to that expressed by straight men who like witnessing two women together sexually. And in the case of two women, it is reasonable to think that participants are not always lesbians or even bisexual. They could just be exhibitionists. Other women might just like viewing gay spectacles. And a few, more dominant types perhaps, seem to find the gender-bending and role-reversal aspects appealing.
Do any of these resonate with you?
“Guy-on-guy sex is MY favorite.”
No kidding? Sweet!
“Always has been.
“I don’t watch a lot of porn. But, if I do, older-guy/younger-guy gay porn and Dom-black-guy-with-sub-white-guy gay porn…”
Is where it’s at?
Ha! Awesome!
A few women claim to want to date bisexual guys, participate in threesomes with them, etc. Others seem to think that once a guy tries guy-on-guy sex, he’s less desirable to women). This may be a difference of opinion between more dominant and more submissive women.
What do you think? A.) Do you think that bisexual guys are (or can be) attractive and desirable? B.) They’re more attractive than straight guys? C.) Less? D.) Maybe less relationship material, but more fun to watch? E.) Are they completely repulsive, maybe, in the sense that them taking it up the ass spoils them for women – makes them untouchable? Or, F.) Is this just make believe, anyway, since “bisexual” guys are really – as you’ve suggested – mostly closeted gays and, therefore, not really interested in women?
“I actually think F.) is the correct answer.”
No kidding?
“As a healthy heterosexual woman, I only want to sleep with men that are worshiping ME in bed. Imagining them thinking about cock (and they do – they all tell ME) while having sex with ME is off-putting and a blow to MY healthy ego.”
That makes me wonder: Is the forced-bi fetish “healthy” or “unhealthy”? I mean, STD risk aside (I’ll ask about that in a moment) is it helpful in terms of the man’s “flourishing”?
“Healthy. I feel strongly that I am facilitating them being able to have a safe space and giving them educated guidance to explore their desires for cock.
“Yes, I believe MY clients are all gay, to varying degrees.
“Productive exploration, self-discovery and being faithful to your true nature is imperative to one’s total health.”
Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?
“Well… it’s a powerful transformative force. Maybe ‘religious’ in that sense.”
While we’re on the subject of powerful transformations… what activities do you encourage your subs to engage in? Are you more of an oral aficionado: cock sucking, cum eating, facials, maybe kissing? Or are you partial to anal play: penetration, rimming, tongue fucking…cream pies?
“I would say: all the above.”
Ha! Nice!
“I want MY clients to be proficient and excel in all the aforementioned activities. It’s their job to service cock at a high standard.”
Oh? You don’t say?!
Do you think that Forced Bi, as a fetish, is getting more popular?
“Absolutely! It’s very commonplace today.”
I kind think so, too.
“I think that is because we have easy access to free pornography, and men are able to watch what they are curious about. And, once they do that, the desire to experiment in real-time grows.”
Agreed.
Do you perceive that the Forced-Bi fetish is being promoted in any way by the so-called “mainstream media”?
“Not that I can see – except… a part of our population certainly has become much more inclusive. So, people are not in fear of losing careers, family, reputation to the degree they once were decades ago.”
Which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role I want?
“I prefer all MY clients to be sub-bottom cum-dumpsters and cocksuckers.”
Well…don’t mince words about it! Haha!
That’s hot…
“I am not interested in tops.”
Are you aroused by forced bi, or just amused by it? None of the above?
“I would say I enjoy it – neither turned on nor amused.”
Interesting.
“I feel as though I am giving them the ‘okay’ and the guidance to be who they really are.”
Do you think that a guy can “just try” sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?
“I believe that the desire to do it the first time is just the icebreaker. After that, MY guys are more comfortable and they are ‘off to the races,’ so to speak.”
Quite habit forming, it seems!
“I have never had a man tell ME, ‘yeah, that wasn’t for me’ – back to women. Quite the contrary!”
All right, so you steer guys along the path. Push them. They should service cock in all ways. You enjoy it. But…
As an exclusively online figure, how do you proceed? I take it that it’s not all fantasy chat? You encourage guys to have real, in-the-flesh encounters?
“Absolutely! Many males start out with fantasy. But, at some point, they take it into the real world, and I encourage them to do so.”
And how “involved” are you? Just issue the instruction and leave it to them? Ask for pics? Vids? Watch via live webcam?
“I have done all of those things. I don’t do in person services so directing in person would not apply to ME. But… everything else!”
Whatever moves the guy along the path to cocksuckerhood?
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What is your biggest focus? Your power? Or the homosex?
“I would say both. I love the power aspect, but I also love watching two men have sex.”
Hard to choose? Ha! That’s awesome…
What’s your favorite thing to have a guy do, or to watch?
What sexual acts, if any, really charge your batteries? Cocksuckers? Anal bottoms? Cumdumps?
“I love it all! No preference, really. Again, I just love two men together!”
I believe you!
I’m almost afraid to ask, but… do you have any limits?
“Nope.”
Lol.
“As long as they are consenting adults I am A-OK.”
Does that include guys having gay sex without condoms (i.e., “barebacking”)?
“I prefer bareback for MY clients. But, they ultimately have to make up their own minds regarding that. Bareback is super-hot though.”
Oh, man… I feel the temperature rising in here!
Relatedly, some Mistresses insist on safety because Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) in a sub are completely undesirable. Others don’t care either way. Some even profess to find it a turn on to see a guy engage in risky gay sex. How do you feel about STDs and STD risk?
“I would say, again, that it’s ultimately the sub’s and his partner’s decision. I prefer bareback and think they should take a calculated risk, if they desire.”
That’s naughty hot!
How do you feel about married men?
“Well, surprise! At least 80% of MY clients are married or have girlfriends.”
Shocking! :p
“They seek ME out, by the way.”
Oh, again, I believe you!
“They have trapped themselves in dishonest relationships because of their inability to be honest with themselves about their true sexuality. I am always telling them to be honest with themselves and their partners and to get out of these relationships so that their wives can be with honest, heterosexual men and they can be with other men, also.”
Oh?
“Very few heed MY advice, by the way.”
For some, the illicitness adds to the excitement, no doubt.
How do you feel about amyl-nitrite inhalers (“poppers”)?
“It’s entirely up to MY sub. Some use poppers and they always have an amazing experience.
“It’s true that poppers relax the sphincter muscle, thus allowing for easier – and larger – penetration.”
Mercy… is anyone else feeling hot?
How do you feel about guys really getting addicted to gay sex? Possible? Not possible?
“All the clients that come to ME are already addicted, and have been for some time. And that’s why they seek ME out to begin with.”
Thank you so much for all your provocative answers!
Just a few final questions…
Do you have any other fetishes or activities that you like to participate in, direct, or instruct?
“Yes, I do.”
Ha! I was hoping! Lol!
“BBC-Forced-Bi,[3] SPH,[4] Humiliation, Foot Fetish, Strap-On Play, Findom,[5] All aspects of Femdom, Goddess Worship, Feminization, Sissy Slut Training, Gender Transformation, Cuckolding, Tease and Denial.”
Right on.
Okay! So… how can fans and other interested readers check out your work?
“I am known as ‘Mistress Samantha Paris’ and ‘Dr. Paris of BBC University’ (in my video clips).
“My main website is www.mistresssamanthaparis.com
“Twitter @GoddessSamParis OnlyFans www.onlyfans.com/samanthaparis
“AVN Stars Fanclub www.stars.avn.com/samanthaparis
“All My Links www.allmylinks.com/goddesssamparis”
That’s amazing!
Thank you so much, Dr.-Mistress! I’m sure more than a few readers will be looking to register next semester!
Notes:
[1] “BBC” = “big, black cock”
[2] “PC” = “politically correct”
[3] See end note #1.
[4] “SPH” = “small-penis humiliation”
[5] “Findom” = “financial domination”