Goddess Kikka Jennie: Exclusive Forced-Bi Interview

Hello!

Thanks for being here.

Tell readers, what name do you go by?

“Goddess Kikka Jennie.”

Hi, Goddess.

So… a couple preliminaries. Besides “Goddess,” are there any other adjectives or titles you enjoy? “Alpha,” “Mistress,” etc.

“Just Goddess.”

Fair enough.

“I feel ‘Mistress’ means I am the ‘other woman.’ Goddess is one to be adored and, above all, one to be thought about all day but never actually reach physically / sexually.”

An unattainable object of devotion. I follow you.

In light of that, what do you see yourself doing, fetish-wise? I mean, is this a religious expression or spiritual exercise? A lifestyle? Just a bit of fun?

“It’s a lifestyle, for sure. This is who I am.

“But there is a definite spiritual element as well.”

Right on.

Thinking about it from the standpoint of the people who seek you out… what adjectives apply to them? “Betas”? “Losers”? “Subs”?

“Mostly, I call them ‘slaves’ or ‘subs.’”

It’s not uncommon.

“I prefer a longer-term relationship which has many levels – not just one aspect of play.”

Things can certainly get to deeper levels that way. (No pun intended!)

Really basic question: What got you into the world of domination and fetishes, in general – and into forced bi in particular?

“I enjoy control in many forms. I have grown, over the years, to enjoy a huge mix of delicious fetishes, as I have explored more.”

Delicious! I like that!

“I first got into kink with my sexual awakening.

“It was a huge eye opener and I did have a name for being a little kinky. But this aspect of myself didn’t explode until I started more online and I learned that there is more to kink besides bedroom play.”

Interesting!

“I enjoy being a voyeur as well as being in control.

“When I had a sissy offer a real-time session with another sissy, I enjoyed the exploration of such together in a wonderfully close connection.”

You mostly enjoy watching, passively?

“I can get aggressive – for example, by forcing the head, or teasing – or playing games such as cock or strap on.”

So many options!

“The options create more creativity in play.”

No regrets?

“I haven’t looked back!”

How long have you been doing this online?

“As a Professional Domme? Several years.

“But many more years beyond that in terms of dabbling, exploring and learning.”

Do you also have a “dungeon,” studio, or other space for face-to-face, in-person, or real-time meets?

“Yes. I have a personal play space as well as touring in apartments in the United Kingdom.

“Interested readers could apply.”

I was just going to ask!

Are you aiming to make money, or derive pleasure – or both?

“My concern is both pleasure and money.”

How much of your energy and time does this take up?

“It’s a full-time occupation. But I do work part time elsewhere – ‘vanilla’ life.”

Are you looking to expand? Do more? Less?

“I’m satisfied where things are at.”

Good for you.

Do you feel comfortable sharing anything else about yourself, on either personal or professional levels? E.g., How old are you? Are you in a relationship? (Conventional? Alternative/BDSM?) What is your sexual orientation? Etc.

“I was born in October of ’86. (So… do some math!) And I have been in a relationship with my partner for over 13 years.

“They are not really into kink, but come along to munches and rope classes – as well as let me practice on them.

“Kink relationships… I have a few under me – ‘owned’ or in training, but always look for further projects to learn and play with.

“I love the training aspect, making contracts and building a relationship together. They all pay to be under me, and prices vary depending on the level of training, contact and offerings.

“Top kinks vary depending on mood. Generally. its petplay, strapon, bondage, water sports, sissification and impact play. I love selling my worn panties especially if it’s the ones used in real-time sessions.

“I am bisexual but prefer the female form. What’s not to like? 😉”

Indeed!

“Random other information… I am a fully trained counsellor, as well as many other professional qualifications.

“I play dungeons and dragons; I am a gamer, avid reader and huge horror fan!”

That’s awesome!

“My favourite drinks are coffee, local beers and local gins.”

Thank you so much for sharing!

I want to ask you some theoretical questions for a few minutes.

On the face of it, the “forced-bi fetish” has two components: (1) “force” and (2) “bisexuality.” Let’s handle both, but in reverse order.

Do you think that true “bisexuality” – where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males (but see a further question about problems with so-called “binarism”) – is possible?

“On the one hand, I want to say: ‘Yes, of course!’ How could you have a bisexuality-related fetish without that?

“But, on the other hand, I really don’t care!”

In other words, just get the guy to follow orders?

“I do it that way, also – which is what makes me hot! Subs following orders but not into the kink? True submission!”

Which of the following, if any, do you think of the Forced-Bi fetish as?

“For me, it’s a combination of a power trip and just a fun activity!”

There are actually a few names for this fetish. “Coerced bi,” “Coerced gay,” “Encouraged bi,” “Enforced bi,” “Forced bi,” yada, yada. Which, if any, do you prefer?

“I refer to it as ‘coerced bi’ or ‘forced bi.’”

In practice, “forced bi” seems most often to apply to men being somehow impelled to perform sexually (or to imagine performing sexually) with other men. However, in theory, it seems that it could apply to other things – for example, to women being impelled to perform sexually with other women – as well.

Do you see it primarily in terms of male submission, male and female submission, both or neither?

“For sure, it mostly pertains to male submission.

“I think this is due to females being more open about their sexuality and exploration. So, it’s more taboo and exciting for males to be ‘pushed’ into bi experiences.”

I can see that.

As far as goes the second core idea, the idea of being “forced” is a little vague. For legal reasons, “forced” probably means something less than literally compelled by threat of force. Which, if any, of the following do you think is most fitting? Coercion? Commandment? Encouragement? Enticement? Inducement? Instruction? Permission? Persuasion? Provocation? Seduction? …other?

“For me, it’s a blend of commanding or ordering and encouraging.

“It is definitely about my power to get the sub to do what I want. But, it’s also sometimes more laid back – where I egg him on.”

What do you think is actually going on with “forced bi”? Does a guy actually change his sexual orientation?

“I’d say: ‘weak yes.’ I think some guys can be trained to respond to male-on-male stimulation and this can alter their orientation over time. Maybe not all guys. It depends.”

Is it possible for a guy to be a “switch” or “versatile”? (That is, to be able to take on the role of either bottom or top with more or less equal facility, if not enthusiasm.)

“Sure! Why not? Some people are both somewhat active and somewhat passive. Again… depends on the person and situation.”

Some women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex. Straight women sometimes liken their enjoyment to that expressed by straight men who like witnessing two women together sexually. And in the case of two women, it is reasonable to think that participants are not always lesbians or even bisexual. They could just be exhibitionists. Other women might just like viewing gay spectacles. And a few, more dominant types perhaps, seem to find the gender-bending and role-reversal aspects appealing.

“I do like gender-bending and reversing traditional roles!”

A few women claim to want to date bisexual guys, participate in threesomes with them, etc. Others seem to think that once a guy tries guy-on-guy sex, he’s less desirable to women). This may be a difference of opinion between more dominant and more submissive women.

What do you think?

“Doesn’t make a difference at all. You date who you like, and it doesn’t matter the orientation of their sexuality.”

All right.

Is the forced-bi fetish “healthy” or “unhealthy”? (Here, we mean it is positive and helpful for a male sub’s flourishing, or is it negative and unhelpful?)

“It’s healthy.

“I want my subs to fulfill their cock-whore destinies! I’m really freeing them and doing them a service – as long as it’s safe!”

If you think it’s healthy, why is it healthy?

“It aids in self-discovery.

“I think you should always build and explore; never stagnate.”

Right on.

Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?

“I think it’s a power dynamic. But not as in spiritual power or anything religious, exactly.

“Though… it can be a form of offering – to me!”

Ha! Interesting point.

Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called “binary language” – e.g., thinking in terms of “feminine” versus “masculine,” etc. – when it comes to John Money’s concept of “gender” and sexuality. But forced bi, arguably, has a kind of “bi-narism” built into its name.

Do you see this as a problem for the “forced-bi” fetish?

“I haven’t given it any thought.”

Right on.

And now for the moment readers have been waiting for! Let’s touch on the Forced-Bi activities.

What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?

“Cock sucking or oral sex! And also cum eating and cum swallowing.”

Do you think that Forced Bi, as a fetish, is getting more popular?

“Yeah. I do actually think it’s getting more popular.”

Do you perceive that the Forced-Bi fetish is being promoted in any way by the so-called “mainstream media”?

“No. I don’t think that.”

Okay.

So… Which do you prefer? Having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role I want?

“I definitely prefer having one dedicated bottom bitch, and one dedicated top! But …I’m equally happy for both to be bottoms in this!”

Oh, and you use peg them both?

Does that arouse you? Amuse you? Forced bi, I mean.

“I’m aroused only. It’s hot!

“But I think it’s mainly the control and power of the situation rather than the act.”

Do you think that a guy can “just try” sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?

“Sure.

“Maybe he likes it; maybe he doesn’t.

“Try it to see if fantasy and reality work.”

What are you interested in doing?

“I encourage guys to have real, in-the-flesh encounters with other males. Chat might be the gateway; but I want to see how far they’ll go. And push them further.

“Many back out for real-time meets but it’s fun to discuss how they would be used.”

I’ve heard that more than once. A few Mistresses stress that just going for it is vital – if, I mean, it’s to be more than masturbatory fantasizing.

How “involved” do you like to be?

I mean, do you just give an order and then leave it to the subs to carry out? Do you ask for photos or video? Do you direct or watch via webcam? Direct in real-life, face-to-face situations?

“All of the above! I have done – and enjoy doing – all that stuff!”

So, your biggest focus or turn on is …the power?

“Honestly? Yeah. I love the power angle. I get off on my ability to get a guy to do extreme – even gay – things.”

What sexual acts, if any, really charge your batteries?

“I love cocksuckers! I really get off on getting guys to suck cock.

“But I also love cum eating. And I have inventive ways guys can suck condoms clean of cum.”

Do you have any limits?

“Yes, of course.

“I have many limits. And I insist upon certain limits with respect to my subs as well.”

For example? How do you feel about guys having gay sex without condoms (i.e., “barebacking”)?

“I totally oppose guys barebacking.

“I insist on safe sex; it’s too dangerous otherwise.”

An understandable position.

Relatedly, some Mistresses insist on safety because Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) in a sub are completely undesirable. How do you feel about STDs and STD risk?

“The sub must stay clean. He needs to practice safe sex.”

Again, thinking about Forced-Bi encounters, how do you feel about married men?

“On this one, I don’t care either way. I don’t even ask.”

How do you feel about amyl-nitrite inhalers – so-called “poppers”?

“I tolerate their use. Whatever floats your boat.”

How do you feel about guys really getting addicted to gay sex? Is that a thing?

“I have no idea. But …we can perform the experiment!”

Ha! Right?

“Let me grab my lab coat and clipboard. Any willing subjects???”

Lol! You’re a blast.

Do you have any other fetishes or activities that you like to participate in, direct, or instruct?

“Many, many, many other fetishes!”

Why am I not surprised? What are you into? Give us a few examples.

“I use and explore a lot, from ‘pet play’ and strapon sessions to cum-eating tasks and CBT.[1] And, of course, sissification.”

Sweet.

And how can fans and other interested persons check out your work? Hit me with your social-media links.

“www.onlyfans.com/kikkaj – updated daily.

“www.kikkaj.com

“www.twitter.com/kikkaj

“www.fetlife.com/users/2372787

“I am on many ‘clips’ sites which are linked to my twitter – and updated with a clip weekly.”

Fantastic!

Goddess Kikka Jennie, thank you so much!

Take care!

(All photographs of Goddess Kikka Jennie in this post are Copyright 2020 Goddess Kikka Jennie. They are reproduced here with permission.)

Notes:

[1] CBT = Cock-and-ball “torture.” This fetish typically employs gadgets such as clamps and chastity or penis “cages,” weights, and so on. One has to be careful, here!