Hello, readers! Today Forced-Bi.com welcomes the lascivious and luscious Goddess Brandon Areana.
Good day to you, Goddess!
Let’s start with the easy and obvious stuff. What name do you go by?
“Goddess Brandon.”
All right. Now, there are various different adjectives that women in your area use. I’m thinking of words like “Alpha,” “Alpha,” “Brat,” “Domme,” “Domina,” “Mean Girl,” “Mistress,” and so on. Which – if any – do you think of yourself as, or prefer?
“‘Domme/Domina’ or ‘Mistress/Maîtresse’.”
Okay, fair enough. Do you have any special reason(s) for this preference?
“No, I just think it best suits me and my personality. I am dominate yet very Goddess-like.”
I agree!
Thinking generally of your role (as you just defined it, above), do you see yourself as engaging in any (or a combination) of the following? A. A lifestyle (I.e., This is who you are… pretty much all the time.). B. A role play. C. A bit of fun. D. Social activism. Or E. A spiritual exercise (E.g., you’re using sex for the pursuit of enlightenment or illumination – for myself, the sub, or both.)
“I can’t pick just one of these. I would say A and E stand out most to me.”
Right on. You’re a complicated person.
I’m going to switch gears a moment and ask you about the guys who seek out your services. How about this: How do you think of them?
“I think of them variously as betas, losers, slaves, and subs/submissives.
“I don’t have one preferred word because I treat all my clients and fans individually, so they get an experience made for them.”
I get that. You customize your interactions.
What got you into the world of domination and fetishes, in general – and forced bi in particular?
“I was naturally drawn to men worshipping and obeying me – even more so if that means you’re paying me to suck cock!”
How long have you been doing this online?
“I have been doing this for over 11 years.”
Do you also have a “dungeon,” studio, or other space for face-to-face, in-person, or real-time meets?
“I do most of my business online. But you can book me for a one-on-one session if you have references from previous sessions, can follow instructions, and pay a deposit to reserve my time.”
You’ve got a mind for business, I see. So… are you aiming to make money, or derive pleasure – or both?
“Money is my pleasure. The rest are just bonuses.”
All right, then!
How much of your energy and time does this take up? Are you doing this full time, part time?
“This is a full-time job. So… a lot. Not to mention everything that it requires to be ‘Goddess Brandon’: Gym time, spa time, salon time, make up time, set up time and more.”
That makes sense. It’s a character you play. You have to look the part.
Are you satisfied with this level of involvement? Would you like to be doing more… or less?
“I’m satisfied.”
That’s awesome. I’m happy for you.
Do you feel comfortable sharing anything else about yourself, on either personal or professional levels? E.g., How old are you? Are you in a relationship? (Conventional? Alternative/BDSM?) What is your sexual orientation? Etc.
“I am 34 years old and am in a relationship. I am straight and have enjoyed toying with men as far back as I can recall.
“Basically, since they were boys, I love nothing more than making men feel like pathetic little boys all over again.”
That paints quite a picture!
Let me get a little bit analytical for a moment.
On the face of it, the “forced-bi fetish” has two components: (1) “force” and (2) “bisexuality.” Let’s handle both, but in reverse order.
Do you think that true “bisexuality” – where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males (but see a further question about problems with so-called “binarism”) – is possible? C, HARD C
“I don’t care.
“All I care about is if the sub follows my orders. What do his attractions or desires have to do with anything?”
Okay!
Which of the following, if any, do you think of the Forced-Bi fetish as? A lifestyle (for you, the males, or everyone), a role play, a power trip for you, a game, a fun activity, a pastime for you, a trap for males? Maybe it’s a combination of possibilities?
“Oh, all for sure on this one.”
There are actually a few names for this fetish. “Coerced bi,” “forced bi,” “forced gay,” etc. Which, if any, do you prefer – and why?
“Any of the above. Same difference.”
In practice, “forced bi” seems most often to apply to men being somehow impelled to perform sexually (or to imagine performing sexually) with other men. However, in theory, it seems that it could apply to other things – for example, to women being impelled to perform sexually with other women – as well. Do you see it primarily in terms of male submission, male and female submission, both, or neither?
“I look at it as mostly pertaining to male submission.”
As far as goes the second core idea, the idea of being “forced” is a little vague. For legal reasons, “forced” probably means something less than literally compelled by threat of force. Which, if any, of the following do you think is most fitting? Coercion, commandment/ordering, encouragement, enticement, inducement, instruction, permission, persuasion, provocation, or seduction?
“Mainly coercion. I’ll definitely apply pressure. But maybe a little of each honestly. I use hints of all that to get my subs to follow my demands.”
What do you think is actually going on with “forced bi”? Does a guy actually change his sexual orientation?
“I don’t know, and I don’t care.
“I can’t see into a person’s head or heart. But, ultimately, it’s not my sexuality.”
Do you think it’s possible for a guy to be a “switch” or “versatile”? (That is, to be able to take on the role of either bottom or top with more or less equal facility, if not enthusiasm.)
“Sure; why not? Some people are a bit of both – active and passive.”
Some women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex. Maybe you like viewing it the way guys might enjoy looking at girl-on-girl sex. Or perhaps you just enjoy the spectacle of it. Or you might even appreciate the gender-bending aspects. Do any of these resonate with you?
“Honestly? None of these, really.”
All right. Everyone respondent is always a bit different. It’s fascinating.
A few women claim to want to date bisexual guys, participate in threesomes with them, etc. Others seem to think that once a guy tries guy-on-guy sex, he’s less desirable to women). This may be a difference of opinion between more dominant and more submissive women. …What do you think?
“I am too far out of the dating pool to know or care, LOL! I have been in a relationship for 10 years.”
Oh? Congratulations, by the way!
“This is also not about me, but them – and the control I can take over them through their kinks and desires.”
Is the forced-bi fetish “healthy” or “unhealthy”? (Here, we mean it is positive and helpful for a male sub’s flourishing, or is it negative and unhelpful?)
“Most of my customers do not actually act this out. In my experience, this is a masturbation fantasy.
“A rare few do go on to explore more in real life.
“But in these cases, I encourage everyone to participate in safe sex practices.
“But, to be honest, most of my Forced-Bi fans are looking to experiment with toys and imagery.”
That’s probably a very realistic appraisal, I think.
Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?
“No. I’m not religious or spiritual at all and this doesn’t factor in for me.”
Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called “binary language” – e.g., thinking in terms of “feminine” versus “masculine,” etc. – when it comes to John Money’s concept of “gender” and sexuality. But forced bi, arguably, has a kind of “bi-narism” built into its name.
Do you see this as a problem for the “forced-bi” fetish?
“I literally don’t give a fuck! Those people don’t pay my bills or make my customers happy and wanting to return for more. They can suck a dick.”
Ha! Don’t sugar-coat it!
All right. Let me turn our attention to something a bit more fun: Forced-Bi activities.
What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching? Anal sex, bukkake, cock sucking, creampies, cum eating, cum swallowing, facials, kissing, rimming, and so on.
“All of the above!”
Nice!
Which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role I want?
“I don’t have a preference. I’ll work with whatever they’re willing to do.”
Do you think that a guy can “just try” sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit? Or is it more “addictive” than that?
“I don’t care. Whatever happens to a guy after a session falls into the category of ‘not my problem.’”
How would you feel if a guy actually got addicted to gay sex?
“I literally don’t care. It’s not my life.”
What are you interested in doing? You mentioned that, for most guys, you think this is all just masturbatory anyway. Are you content to keep things at that level? Or do encourage guys to have real, in-the-flesh encounters with other males?
“Personally, I keep things at the level of fantasy chat. But, also: I don’t care what you do on your own time.”
How “involved” do you like to be? I mean… do you just issue instructions and then leave it to the guys to carry the stuff out – or just think about it?
“I’ll be as involved as my compensation allows. So… that’s really up to him.”
“As involved as your compensation allows” I like that phrase. You’re the consummate businesswoman, it appears. I respect that.
Thinking about Forced-Bi encounters, how do you feel about married men?
“I’m fine with married men. (It’s not my marriage.) But I don’t necessarily seek them out. To be honest, I don’t care either way. (I don’t even ask.)”
How do you feel about amyl-nitrite inhalers (“poppers”)?
“I use them as a tool in customs and cam shows often.”
Do you have any other fetishes or activities that you like to participate in, direct, or instruct? (E.g., “blackmail,” cock-and-ball “torture” [CBT], crossdressing, cum-eating, cum-eating instruction [CEI], humiliation, pegging/strapon, small-penis humiliation [SPH], Etc.)
“I have a long, long list of fetishes and domination that I enjoy – from pegging to foot worship and most things in between. I suggest you check more of my stuff out and see for yourself what all the fuss is about.”
Perfect! And where would interested readers check you out?
“https://stars.avn.com/goddessbrandon#
“IG GoddessBrandon
“Twitter @GoddessB_DomMom
“https://erotifix.com/GoddessBrandon
“https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/20178/goddess-b-s-slave-training-101 and https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/28681/enchanting-masturbation-control- for my entire content list
“https://iwantclips.com/store/1423/madam-brandon
“https://www.sextpanther.com/MadamBrandon
“Sext Me and let’s explore those gay fantasies!”
That’s awesome!
You’ve been fabulous, Goddess Brandon. Thank you so much for being with us!
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