Today, Forced-Bi.com welcomes the formidable and voluptuous Goddess Macha.
First of all, just to clarify: What name do you go by?
“I go by Goddess Macha and I allow my subs to call me Goddess, Queen, or if the situation fits, Mommy. But I do not permit the use of Mistress when referring to me.”
As readers are aware, there are various different adjectives, epithets, modifiers, and monikers that women in your area use.
“I am a Domme, but as I mentioned above, I prefer to be called ‘Goddess’ or ‘Queen.’ I don’t enjoy the alternative meaning of Mistress, and while I am both an alpha and a sadist, they [that is, those other qualifiers] feel too restrictive. I can be both a mean brat and a more sensual, encouraging domme; it depends on a variety of factors including my mood and the specific D/s relationship I am interacting within.”
Thinking of your role as you just qualified and defined it, do you see yourself as just having fun, acting out a lifestyle, or engaging in something a little more serious?
“Especially in terms of Forced Bi, this is a lifestyle for me. But it is also a form of social activism. I see female domination as primarily about subverting societal norms, and that is where crusading against the patriarchy is a side effect. I like teaching submissives to reject toxic masculinity as they are on their knees sucking dick for me.”
That paints quite a picture! Reject male toxicity; embrace male ejection?
So, now you used the word “submissive” – and I observe the capital “D” and lowercase “s.” But I wonder: Do you use any other words to designate the people who seek out your services? I’m thinking of words like “betas,” “losers,” “masochists,” “slaves,” etc.
“I use all of these words almost interchangeably – with some care around what each submissive has consented to – as not all are specifically into humiliation, even though I do enjoy it.”
That makes sense.
How long have you been doing D/s online?
“I have been working as a professional domme online for over 2 years now. But I have been involved in the BDSM scene for almost 6 years.”
Do you also have a “dungeon,” studio, or other space for face-to-face, in-person, or real-time meets?
“Yes, I have several dungeons that I use, as well as hotel suites and fly-me-to-you options.”
Do you accept online applications?
“Interested slaves can apply to serve me on my official website only.”
Okay! I’m sure that readers will be fascinated to learn this.
“Incomplete or disrespectful applications will be immediately deleted.”
That’s hardly surprising given your dominance!
Are you aiming to make money, or derive pleasure – or both?
“My concern is both. I will not engage in fetishes that I do not enjoy, but I am also not willing to engage in a D/s relationship without a form a financial submission from the one aiming to serve me. This is nonnegotiable and it is how subs set themselves apart from the thousands of men and women who would gladly serve me for free.”
How much of your energy and time does this take up?
“This is my only active form of income. I do not have another form of work, but in some ways, it is hard to consider what I do a ‘job’ since I enjoy doing it so much.”
That sounds like a good problem to have, n’est-ce pas?
How did you get into doing this professionally?
“It started as a side hobby when I had a vanilla job working for a feminist charity. But it wasn’t long before I was earning much more from being a Domme than I was in my vanilla career.”
That could be inspiring for many people to read.
Are you satisfied with your current level of involvement?
“I’d like to have more loyal local slaves. And I’m always open to more online servitude as well. I prefer to have long-term slaves who serve in what I call a ‘Domme-GFE[1] relationship’ but I also welcome one off session types as well.”
That’s very cool.
Do you feel comfortable sharing anything else about yourself, on either personal or professional levels?
“I am bisexual and polyamorous. I have a boyfriend who I refer to as ‘Bull.’ While he is an alpha compared to the subs who serve me, he is neither my alpha nor my slave. He does, however, provide for me sexually and financially as well. He also participates in cuckolding sessions if it is properly earned by the beta submissive.”
Well it’s obvious that you were serious when you said that you’re a “lifestyler”! Not that I thought you weren’t, mind you. But it seems like you’re into a lot of different and interesting things.
About the ‘Forced-Bi’ Fetish, in particular, though… Let’s get a little analytical.
On the face of it, the “forced-bi fetish” has two components: (1) “force” and (2) “bisexuality.”
Do you think that true “bisexuality” – where a person is more or less equally attracted to females and males (but see a further question about problems with so-called “binarism”) – is possible?
“No; I don’t agree with this particular definition at all. I am bisexual and I have had multiple long relationships with women, but I am more romantically and sexually attracted to men and have had many more relationships with them. This in no way negates or lessens my bisexuality.”
You mean that, in your opinion, the romantic/sexual disparity doesn’t diminish the bisexuality?
“Personally, I believe that without social stigma, a majority of people would identify as ‘bisexual’ and be more open to fluid sexual experiences across their lifetimes.”
That sounds very “Kinseyan.”
There are actually a few names for this fetish: “coerced bi,” “coerced gay,” “enforced bi,” “forced bi,” etc. Which, if any, do you prefer – and why?
“Honestly, my decision, here, is usually based on what each respective clip site allows us to use. Most will allow the word ‘coerced’ but ban the word ‘forced.’ Some even make us use ‘Make Me Bi’ or ‘Bisexual Encouragement,’ and we can’t use anything else listed here.”
I wasn’t aware. But, now that you mention it, I can totally see that being the case.
Here’s a question that has given rise to a wide range of responses from other interviewees.
In practice, “forced bi” seems most often to apply to men being somehow impelled to perform sexually (or to imagine performing sexually) with other men. However, in theory, it seems that it could apply to other things – for example, to women being impelled to perform sexually with other women – as well.
Do you see it primarily in terms of male submission, male and female submission, both, or… neither? Ha!
“This is primarily because being bisexual as a woman isn’t really seen as that taboo anymore, and also because a large portion of porn consumers are male themselves so they imagine themselves in the role.”
In the role of “coercing” two women?
“Remember, female domination is about subverting societal norms, exploring the taboo. So, men sucking cock fits that status but women eating pussy is much more common and accepted in society.”
Fair point.
“But, yes, a female submissive may also enjoy ‘forced bi’ as a fetish for many reasons. In my experience, all my female submissives openly admit to and accept being bisexual and submit to both men and women.”
As far as goes the second core idea, the idea of being “forced” is a little vague. For legal reasons, “forced” generally means something less than literally compelled by threat of force. Which, if any, of the following do you think is most fitting?
- Coercion (Fuck it; I’ll threaten if I want. At least, I’ll apply pressure.)
- Commandment/Ordering (It’s about power; the sub does what I tell him to – period.)
- Encouragement (I’m like a cheerleader; I egg the guy on.)
- Enticement (I’m like a siren; I tempt the guy into bisexual or gay situations – and lure him to his doom.)
- Inducement (The guy does it for rewards: my bare attention; my approbation; my disapprobation; photographs of me; etc.)
- Instruction (I am a teacher; the guy comes to me to learn.)
- Permission (There’s nothing “forced” about it, really. Underneath it all, the guy wants to do this; I just give him the green light.)
- Persuasion (All it takes is a little coaxing. I’m very convincing.)
- Provocation (It’s low-level incitement. I goad the guy. Work him up to the edge and then, if necessary, give a little push.)
- Seduction (The guys are attracted to me. I redirect this away from sex with me and onto sex with other males.)
“C., D., G., and H.”
Mesmerizing combination!
What do you think is going on with “forced bi”? Does a guy actually change his sexual orientation?
“I think most guys explore ‘forced bi’ because they already want cock. But I also believe fully in the power of my hypnosis to get men to engage who are more resistant to the idea. Especially over time and multiple sessions I can reprogram a person to change how they feel about cock and their own sexuality.”
Okay, so… it can literally be mesmerizing!
It depends on the guy, then? Some males are latent (or patent) bisexuals looking for license; others are programmable.
Is it possible for a guy to be a “switch” or “versatile”?
“Switches exist. But we won’t be switching in my sessions, so that’s pretty irrelevant to me. I’m the domme, period, and I hate when subs try to top from the bottom.”
Some women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex. Straight women sometimes liken their enjoyment to that expressed by straight men who like witnessing two women together sexually. Other women might just like viewing “gay spectacles.” And a few, more dominant types perhaps, seem to find the gender-bending and role-reversal aspects appealing. Do any of these resonate with you?
“All the way back to my early university days, I was making men make out with each other at parties to retain my attention. I truly enjoy this fetish and have for as long as I can remember. But I don’t enjoy vanilla gay porn or mmf threesomes[2]; I much prefer the forced context.”
That’s hot.
Okay, so… let me ask you this: A few woman claim to want to date bisexual guys, participate in threesomes with them, etc. Others seem to think that once a guy tries guy-on-guy sex, he’s less desirable to women). This may be a difference of opinion between more dominant and more submissive women. What do you think?
“Bisexual guys are (or can be) attractive and desirable. They’re just one type of guy and their bisexuality doesn’t affect their attractiveness.”
Do you think of the “forced-bi” fetish as healthy or unhealthy, in terms of the male’s sexuality, I mean?
“It’s healthy. I want my subs to fulfill their cockwhore destinies. I’m really freeing them and doing them a service.”
Why do you think of it that way?
“It aids in self-discovery.”
Gotcha; okay.
Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?
“No. I’m not religious or spiritual at all and this doesn’t factor in for me.”
What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?
“Cock sucking/oral sex and cum eating/swallowing.”
Intriguing!
Which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role I want?
“I prefer having one dedicated bottom/passive partner and one dedicated top/active partner.”
Are you aroused by forced bi, or just amused by it?
“I’m both aroused and amused.”
Do you think that a guy can “just try” sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?
“Nope! Once he sucks cock – or takes cock in his ass – he’ll be a cockwhore thereafter. It’s highly addictive.”
What are you interested in doing?
“I encourage guys to have real, in-the-flesh encounters with other males. Chat might be the gateway, but I want to see how far they’ll go. And… push them further.”
How “involved” do you like to be?
“I instruct, watch, direct; All of the above!”
As far as arousal goes, what is your biggest focus/turn on?
“Honestly, it’s all about my power. I get off on my ability to get a guy to do extreme – even gay – things. I don’t enjoy gay porn as much as I enjoy the act of making men do gay things together for me.”
What sexual acts, if any, really charge your batteries?
“I really get off on getting guys to suck cock.”
Do you have any limits?
“I have a few. But they mostly apply to me. Subs can do it all.”
How do you feel about guys having gay sex without condoms (i.e., “barebacking”)?
“I don’t care either way. The guys can do what they want, as long as it’s consensual. (It’s not my ass; and I’m not going to fuck them.) But I will absolutely advise them of the risks and attempt to convince them to use condoms or other safer sex precautions.”
Okay. Along similar lines, some Mistresses insist on safety because Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) in a sub are completely undesirable. Others don’t care either way. Some even profess to find it a turn on to see a guy engage in risky gay sex. How do you feel about STDs and STD risk?
“The sub should be clean. He can bareback. But if he ends up with an STD, some types of sessions may be off the table until risks are reduced or eliminated.”
How do you feel about married men?
“I’m fine with married men. (It’s not my marriage.) Many submissives are married and some of their wives know they session but my priority will always be discretion.”
How do you feel about amyl-nitrite inhalers (“poppers”)?
“In general, I’m somewhere in the vicinity of not caring either way (it’s not my body or health) and tolerating their use (whatever floats the sub’s boat). But, because poppers can make subs more pliable and suggestible, I sometimes prefer that subs use them.”
How do you feel about guys really getting addicted to gay sex?
“It’s a risk I’m willing to take! I mean, it’s what the guy really wants anyway.”
Do you have any other fetishes or activities that you like to participate in, direct, or instruct? (E.g., “Blackmail,” CBT, Cum-Eating; Pegging/Strapon, Etc.)
“There are way too many to list, but the ones most related to ‘forced bi’ include: cuckolding, cum eating instructions, and pegging. Two of my other biggest fetishes are ball busting and erotic hypnosis.”
How can fans and other interested persons check out your work? (Do you have any social media accounts or websites to share?)
“Please follow me on Twitter @GoddessMacha and bookmark my blog at http://GoddessMacha.com which is also where you can apply to serve me either online in text, audio, or cam sessions or in person.
“I am based out of Southern Ontario in Canada but offer fly-me-to-you options for slaves I deem worthy of my time.
“For more intimate and exclusive content, you can subscribe to my fan club at http://OnlyFans.com/GoddessMacha or buy my femdom and fetish clips at http://iWantGoddessMacha.com – I have plenty of forced-bi videos to keep you entertained.”
It’s been a real pleasure speaking with you, Goddess Macha! Thank you for taking the time. Forced-Bi.com wishes you continuing success.
(The Two Images in This Post Are Copyright 2019 by Goddess Macha; They Have Been Reproduced on Forced-Bi.com With Permission.)
For other Mistress interviews, see the following links!
- Goddess Asari
- Goddess Brandon
- Goddess Lilith
- Goddess Macha
- Laci Sedona
- Miss Elena De Luca
- Miss Kelle Martina
- Mistress Ava Zhang
- Mistress Emma Switch
- Mistress Jaa
- Mistress Lux
- Princess Meggerz
- Sabina Erotica
- Selene Pain
Notes:
[1] “GFE” generally abbreviates the phrase girlfriend experience.
[2] MMF abbreviates a “male-male-female threesome,” a subtype of multiple-partner sex where two males interact sexually – and variously – with one female.
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