Forced-Bi.com is joined today by one of the self-styled “OGs” of the femdom world. And if you have surfed the fetishistic corners of the worldwide web, I would bet that you have stumbled across her.
Please welcome the gorgeous and self-assured, Meggerz!
Thank you for joining us today! First of all, What do you go by?
“Princess Meggerz. I know, wtf is a ‘Meggerz’? I could have chosen a stage name but instead I went with my nickname from mIRC.[1] We’re talking years ago. I didn’t even know what a stage name was.
“And I don’t think it’s worth it now to ‘rebrand’ myself. People know who I am.”
I was just about to ask you to explain where the name “Meggerz” came from! That’s awesome!
So, my next question was going to be what descriptors you prefer – “Domme,” “Mistress,” etc. But, it’s obviously Princess. Yes?
“I coined myself ‘Princess’ years ago when it felt most appropriate. Now a little older and a little wiser, being referred to as ‘Princess’ is cringeworthy to say the least. But I’ll take them all. As long respect is shown, it’s appropriate.”
Fair enough!
Thinking generally of your role as you define it, do you see yourself as engaging in fun, lifestyle, role play, social activism, or something else?
“I see my online persona as role play. It’s my sole profession and I stick to what makes me the big bucks.
“With that being said, I’ve noticed that I am and always have been the alpha in all my personal relationships. I tend to date men who are more interested in supporting what ultimately makes me the happiest, giving me the final say so in all aspects of our life together.
“I also don’t see my work as being social activism.
“At the end of the day I am giving men erections and orgasms. It’s a supply and demand. And I just so happen to be really good at understanding the power-exchange dynamics.
“I think it is empowering for women to be able to make a career for themselves using their minds and bodies, not having to rely on ‘a man’; but without men, we wouldn’t be making money.
“I think it’s most important for women to do what they are most comfortable with. It will reflect in what they do. I am most comfortable with being in control.”
All right. Let me ask about your clients, then. There are a number of words (e.g., betas, losers, masochists, slaves, subs, etc.) that sometimes describe the people who seek out the services of someone like you. What word do you prefer for these kinds of people?
“Submissive. And every submissive I interact with is different. The most common trigger word is to use is ‘loser,’ but I prefer to get to know each submissive and figure out which title is most accurate.”
Intriguing! You seem adept at getting into guys’ minds.
How long have you been doing this online?
“Ha! I created a findom blog back in 2007 (?) when LiveJournal was where it was at! And let me tell you, the ‘scene’ has changed. I’ve witnessed so many girls come and go, so much drama, so much catty hate. I grew up with the ‘original online dommes’ the OG (original goddesses) and I’d like to believe we’ve helped pioneer the fetish web and made it as mainstream as it is today.
“I started camming years before that. I’d have to say I’ve been at it forever.”
Do you also have a “dungeon,” studio, or other space for face-to-face, in-person, or real-time meets?
“I’ve met a few subs in person. Had nothing but great experiences but prefer to keep it online. Long-term subs need only apply.”
What’s your goal? Are you aiming to make money, or derive pleasure – or both?
“Money. I don’t have to ‘work’ for pleasure. ;]”
Roger that!
How much of your energy and time does this take up?
“It’s my only job but I probably only put about 20 or so hours a week into it. Not consecutively either. I’m adding up all the tweeting, messaging, editing, shooting, cam time (which has been a lot less lately)- basically any time in front of a screen that’s not solely for vanilla.”
That’s a hell of a bang for your buck – or bucks for your, um… bang, as it were.
Are you putting in about the kind of time and effort that your would like? Or would you like it to be more – or less?
“I’d prefer it to be a lot less. A snap = a tribute. But alas, I do have to put in a little work.”
I see.
“[At the same time, I’m] 100% satisfied. I have all the time in the world to do what I want to do when I want to do it. I can take as much time off as I need. I could retire today and probably live off my savings for the rest of my life.”
Congratulations! Seriously. According to usual statistics, almost 80% of the population lives paycheck to paycheck.
Do you feel comfortable sharing anything else about yourself, on either personal or professional levels?
“Clearly, I’ve been around a while. I am in a long-term relationship and it’s pretty vanilla. I enjoy my life and I have fun. I party; I chill; I pretend; I live life to its fullest.”
Let me switch into a higher gear. Plainly, this website is centered around the “Forced-Bi” fetish. On the face of it, the fetish has two components,“force” and “bisexuality.” Let me ask you a bit about those.
First, do you think that true “bisexuality” – where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males (but see a further question about problems with so-called “binarism”) – is possible?
“More men than willing to admit are bi-curious. With the push of a woman it’s a lot easier for a man to justify his thoughts and possibly act them out. In fact, I honestly believable most men are bi.”
Okay! So, do you think of the Forced-Bi fetish as a role play, also? Or is it something more?
“I am very actively interested in this in my personal life. My current bf is 100% straight (boo!!!) but there is nothing hotter than coercing a man into getting it on with another man.
“When I was 17 or so I easily talked 2 friends of mine into kissing for beer money. I even snapped a pic. I shit you not. I’d love to share it. Maybe it’s a power trip but I think it’s really just what I’m into.”
As you know, there are actually a few names for this fetish – coerced gay, enforced bi, forced bi, etc. What do you call it?
“Forced gay. Cuz I’m not participating, I’m just watching.”
In practice, “forced bi” seems most often to apply to men being somehow impelled to perform sexually (or to imagine performing sexually) with other men. However, in theory, it seems that it could apply to other things – for example, to women being impelled to perform sexually with other women – as well. Do you see it primarily in terms of male submission, male and female submission, both, or neither?
“Uhhh you can’t force a woman to be bi. She will either be willing to perform sexual acts on another women for fun or attraction. Or not at all. Women are beautiful. Only men can be ‘forced’ into it.”
I find your perspective fascinating!
As far as goes the second core idea, the idea of being “forced” is a little vague. For legal reasons, “forced” probably means something less than literally compelled by threat of force. Which, if any, of the following do you think is most fitting? Coercing, commanding, encouraging, enticing, inducing, permitting, provoking, seducing, etc.
“In clips or cam session, you just tell the guy what he is going to do. And he does it. In real life I like to make men think they are going to get something from me out of it. And maybe they will. But I like to steadily and slowly encourage them into each act. Ultimately, it will be their decision; but they never say no.”
Oh, boy!
What do you think is actually going on with “forced bi”? Does a guy actually change his sexual orientation?
“All men are chasing a fantasy. You need me to encourage you or ‘force’ you into being gay. No problem. Like I said earlier, most men are unadmittedly bi.”
Is it possible for a guy to be a “switch” or “versatile”? (That is, is it possible for a guy to take on the role of either bottom or top with more or less equal facility?)
“In my experience, the more alpha the guy is, the easier he is to ‘force’ into gaydom.”
Some women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex. Straight women sometimes liken their enjoyment to that expressed by straight men who like witnessing two women together sexually. And in the case of two women, it is reasonable to think that participants are not always lesbians or even bisexual. They could just be “attention whores.” Other women might just like viewing gay spectacles. And a few, more dominant types perhaps, seem to find the gender-bending and role-reversal aspects appealing. Do any of these resonate with you?
“LOL ‘attention whores’? They are doing it because A. it makes them feel sexy as all sex should or B. they are getting something out of it other than sexual.
“The inequality makes this question stupid imo. But post my answer, it needs to be said.”
Of course! You have the floor, so to speak!
A few women claim to want to date bisexual guys, participate in threesomes with them, etc. Others seem to think that once a guy tries guy-on-guy sex, he’s less desirable to women). This may be a difference of opinion between more dominant and more submissive women. What do you think?
“I think it all depends on the situation and the attraction to the guy. What does this have to do with ‘forced’ bi?”
Perhaps nothing. Although, for some Mistresses, a key motivator is to “ruin” to male. This ruination could be emotional, mental, physical, or other. But, for one of these Mistresses, part of the appeal (for her) is to make the guy less desirable to other women by “tainting” him or turning him into, well… a cockwhore.
So, let me ask you this: In your opinion, is the forced-bi fetish “healthy” or “unhealthy”? (I mean, is it positive and helpful for a male sub’s flourishing, or is it negative and unhelpful?)
“Healthy. All sexual exploration is if you do it safely.”
Do you think of any of this in religious or spiritual terms?
“Religion is stupid. No.”
Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called “binary language” – e.g., thinking in terms of “feminine” versus “masculine,” etc. – when it comes to John Money’s concept of “gender” and sexuality. But forced bi, arguably, has a kind of “bi-narism” built into its name. Do you see this as a problem for the “forced-bi” fetish?
“No. It defines exactly what it is. A man being ‘forced’ into action upon his otherwise dormant desire. And men pay for Forced Bi because they are just dying to let it out… with permission.”
What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?
“Same as with a straight couple. All and everything.”
Sounds fun!
Which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role I want?
“One top one bottom.”
Are you aroused by forced bi, or just amused by it?
“It’s hot.”
Your forthrightness is refreshing!
Do you think that a guy can “just try” sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?
“Yes, like most fantasies once acted upon, it was just a fantasy.”
Let me ask about your limits. Do you have any?
“Limits are anything not safe. Not just for the sub but for all parties involved.”
How do you feel about married men?
“Married [men] are the most curious. Poor guys marry women who have no fucking clue what’s going on in their man’s head. And I blame the MAN for hiding their true feelings.”
How do you feel about amyl-nitrite inhalers (“poppers”)?
“Poppers are great.”
Lol! Really? Okay.
How do you feel about guys really getting addicted to gay sex?
“Cockwhores are great.”
Goodness! Should guys be careful what they wish for when they approach you? Ha!
Do you have any other fetishes or activities that you like to participate in, direct, or instruct? (E.g., “Blackmail,” CBT, Cum-Eating; Pegging/Strapon, Etc.)
“Chastity; CEI [cum-eating instruction]; the world is my oyster.”
Fantastic!
How can fans and other interested persons check out your work? (Do you have any social media accounts or websites to share?)
“becomeafindom.com <— looking to really make this something useful one day.”
Thank you so much! I hope you had as much fun as I did!
And, from all of us at Forced-Bi.com… enjoy your early retirement whenever you decide to take it!
(Photographs of Princess Meggerz are Copyright 2019 by Princess Meggerz; They are reproduced on Forced-Bi.com with permission.)
For other Mistress interviews, see the following links!
- Goddess Asari
- Goddess Brandon
- Goddess Lilith
- Goddess Macha
- Laci Sedona
- Miss Elena De Luca
- Miss Kelle Martina
- Mistress Ava Zhang
- Mistress Emma Switch
- Mistress Jaa
- Mistress Lux
- Princess Meggerz
- Sabina Erotica
- Selene Pain
Notes:
[1] “mIRC” is a Windows-based Internet-Relay Chat messenger.
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