Today, Forced-Bi.com is joined by the exalted and sexy Goddess Lilith. She has graciously condescended to lend our readers Her views on the fetish that is the principal focus of this website. Without further ado, here is the Goddess Lilith.
Hello and welcome! Thank you for being a part of this.
Let’s start with an obvious first question: What name do you go by?
“Goddess Lilith.”
Fantastic! Now, there are various adjectives, epithets, modifiers, or monikers that women in your area use. These include “Alpha,” “Brat/Mean Girl,” “Domme / Domina,” “Mistress / Maîtresse,” “Goddess / Princess / Queen,” “Sadist,” etc.
As you just indicated, plainly, you use the word “Goddess,” but are there any other words that you like?
“All of these apply to Me, and I’ve been called each one of them. I like them all!”
Fair enough!
Based on what you’ve just said, I can probably predict your answer to this next question. But I’ll ask it anyway. There are a number of words that sometimes describe the people who seek out the services of someone like you. Do you call such people “Betas,” “Losers,” “Masochists,” “Slaves,” or “Subs / Submissives”?
“Again, I like all of these terms and use all of them. Different terms apply, depending on their personality, and/or role in My Empire.”
Their “role” in your “empire,” huh? Are you thinking of this as a make-believe Queendom? How seriously do you take what you do? What kind of role do you see yourself playing? Is this just role play? Social activism?
“For Me, it is not make-believe at all. This is My way of life – and I have helped many Women find their inner strength and confidence by introducing them to this lifestyle. I love knowing that I am contributing to Female Empowerment through My role in this lifestyle.”
So, it’s a combination of lifestyle and social activism. Interesting!
How long have you been doing this online?
“Over 10 years.”
Okay, so since about 2008-2009? Wow. You’ve gotten a lot of experience by now.
Do you also have a “dungeon,” studio, or other space for face-to-face, in-person, or real-time meets? Or is this strictly online only for you?
“I have a space, yes. But I am very particular as to who I include in my circle.
“Interested readers may apply.”
Okay! I suspect that more than a few readers may take you up on that!
And let me ask this: What are you aiming at? Pleasure? Money? A bit of both?
“Both Pleasure and Money.”
Very cool.
How much of your time does this take up? Is it a side project?
“It’s a full-time job.”
Wow. Congratulations!
Are you satisfied with where things are at for you?
“Yes.”
That’s awesome.
Your fans and our readers might be interested to find out a bit more about you on a personal level. Is there anything that you feel like sharing?
“I have many other interests outside of BDSM. The most notable of those is My love for heavy metal music and the fact I have been a singer in a touring black-metal band for over 10 years. The band is called Sorrowseed, and includes fantasy-themed songs, as well as BDSM-based songs.
“I am married to an Alpha Partner of 3 years, and We together have Dominated and owned several slaves jointly. The cuckolding lifestyle is very strong in some individuals, and We love playing that way very much.
“On the subject of forced bi, many of the hopefuls that approach both of Us, are looking for forced-bi experiences. More than We were expecting – it is a bigger fetish than most realized. Our cuckolding and Alpha Couple humiliation website can be found at http://www.SwedishLovebirds.com, and Our twitter is: @PerfectPair9969.”
That’s a great segue. I’m curious do you think that true “bisexuality” – where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males (but see a further question about problems with so-called “binarism”) – is possible?
“I have two answers. For one, I say ‘Yes, of Course’ it’s possible. But, also, I really don’t care who any given sub is attracted to. All I care is if my orders are followed.”
Any special name that you call this fetish? Coerced bi, forced bi, forced gay, etc.
“Any of those.”
Underneath it all, what do you see the forced-bi fetish as?
“It’s just for fun.”
Your fun, I expect!
In practice, “forced bi” seems most often to apply to men being somehow impelled to perform sexually (or to imagine performing sexually) with other men. However, in theory, it seems that it could apply to other things – for example, to women being impelled to perform sexually with other women – as well. Do you see it primarily in terms of male submission, male and female submission, or both?
“It mostly pertains to male submission. But it can pertain to female submission as well.”
The idea of being “forced” is a little vague. For legal reasons, “forced” probably means something less than literally compelled by threat of force. Which, if any, of the following do you think is most fitting?
“There are a few things going on, here. Firstly, I think it involves coercion. I apply pressure, in the name of pursuing my fun.
“But it also involves encouragement. I’m like a gay-sex cheerleader; I egg the guy(s) on.
“Finally, I think there’s a bit of enticement. In this respect, I’m like a mythical siren, tempting guys onto the ‘rocks’ of bisexual or gay situations.”
Basically luring the guy to his sexual “doom”? Crazy!
I wonder: What do you think is actually going on with “forced bi”? Does a guy change his sexual orientation? For example, does he go from being straight to being gay?
“Honestly, I don’t care. It’s not my sexuality.”
Is it possible for a guy to be a “switch” or “versatile”? (That is, to be able to take on the role of either bottom or top with more or less equal facility, if not enthusiasm.)
“I think it’s possible for a sub function as a switch. But, in my opinion, he’ll either be a bottom or a top at heart.”
Women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex for different reasons. What, if anything, do you find enjoyable?
“I do like the gender-bending and role-reversal aspects of forced bi.”
Some women seem to think that bisexuality makes a guy more attractive. Others suggest that it actually makes him less attractive – perhaps because it undermines the traditional conception of masculinity. What do you think? Does bisexuality affect a guy’s attractiveness?
“Bisexual guys are (or can be) attractive and desirable. After all, they’re just one type of guy. Really, I don’t think their bisexuality affects their attractiveness.”
From the standpoint of the sub’s psycho-sexual health, do you think that forced bi is healthy and positive or unhealthy and negative?
“Oh, it’s a healthy thing. I want my subs to fulfill their cock-whore destinies! I’m really freeing them and doing them a service.”
Really? Why do you say that?
“It’s productive sexual exploration for the sub. It aids in the sub’s self-discovery.”
Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?
“Not really. I’m spiritual in other areas of my life, but I don’t see the relevance here.”
Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called “binary language” – e.g., thinking in terms of “feminine” versus “masculine,” etc. – when it comes to John Money’s concept of “gender” and sexuality. But forced bi, arguably, has a kind of “bi-narism” built into its name. Do you see this as a problem for the “forced-bi” fetish?
“Nah. I don’t think it matters. At least, I don’t care.”
What forced-bi related activities do you most enjoy watching?
“Actually, more than the sucking or fucking, I enjoy foot worship, cock trampling, and cock-and-ball torture (CBT).”
Which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role I want?
“I prefer having one dedicated bottom and one dedicated top.”
Are you aroused by forced bi, or just amused by it?
“Definitely amused. I can’t believe some guys are so stupid. But it sure is entertaining.”
So, just a point of clarification. Earlier, you suggested that forced-bi is healthy for the sub because it assists in sexual exploration and self-discovery. But, if it amuses you and makes you think that the subs are stupid, then how is that healthy?
“It’s both. It can be either. It depends on the sub.”
Gotcha. Do you think that a guy can “just try” sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?
“Sure. Maybe he likes it; maybe he doesn’t.”
What are you most interested in? Just chatting about forced bi, or getting guys to actually do it?
“I encourage guys to have real, in-the-flesh encounters with other males. Chatting about it might be the gateway. But I want to see how far they’ll go. And maybe push them a bit further.”
How involved do you like to get?
“I like to watch guy-on-guy action via webcam. Sometimes I direct and watch in real-life situations as well. At the very least, I want to see photographic evidence that the sub went through with sucking cock or getting fucked.”
What is your biggest turn on?
“Honestly, it’s all about my power. I get off on my ability to get a guy to do extreme – even gay – things.”
What sexual acts really charge your batteries?
“My favorites are humiliating acts like dirty-foot worship, a guy being put in chastity by another male, and a sub being used as a spittoon.”
Do you have any limits?
“I have a few limits. But they mostly apply to me rather than to my subs. Some things I’m not willing to do. But subs can do it all.”
How do you feel about guys having sex without using condoms? That is, engaging in so-called “barebacking”?
“I don’t care either way. The guys can do what they want, as long as it’s consensual. It’s not my ass; and I’m not going to fuck them.”
How do you feel about the guys’ risk of being exposed to or contracting sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)?
“I do My part to warn them about the dangers, and it is up to them how they want to proceed. I do encourage safety, but am open to humiliating them for acquiring an STD if they prefer to be reckless – as I know that is part of the thrill for some of them.”
What do you think about married men participating in this fetish?
“I don’t care either way. I don’t even ask.”
What’s your opinion on amyl-nitrite inhalers (“poppers”)?
“I prefer that subs use them. Poppers make subs more pliable and suggestible.”
Have you thought at all about the possibility that, through the forced-bi fetish, a guy might become addicted to gay sex?
“I have no idea. But we can perform the experiment!”
Do you have any other fetishes or activities that you like to participate in, direct, or instruct? (E.g., “Blackmail,” CBT, Cum-Eating; Pegging/Strapon, Etc.)
“Erotic hypno-play is one of My absolute favorites. I also enjoy financial Domination, cuckolding, chastity training, cage training, ball-busting, trampling, being served domestically, and very occasionally pegging, with the very luckiest of My personal slaves only.”
How can fans and other interested persons check out your work? What social-media accounts or websites would you like to share?
“Best place to become familiar with Me is http://www.GoddessLilithVideos.com – at this link, you should purchase videos to view My style of Domination. I can also be tributed at this link, if you want to submit a slave application to be considered – but do note that I am picky and accept only the most respectful and obedient slaves!
“I can also be found on Twitter: @GoddessLilith66
“Snapchat: Goddess.Lilith
“Instagram: GoddessLilithDomme
“I am on all of the major clip sites – however, there are some impersonators out there who are not the original Goddess Lilith – so be sure you’ve found the right one if you search Me out there! Look for the fiery hair! I’ve also had black hair during periods of My life. I have also been referred to as the ‘Sadistic Princess,’ so you may see that on My video pages as well.”
Thank you so much, Goddess Lilith!
Forced-Bi.com wishes you all the best to you in your kinky future endeavors!
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