Today’s guest has no patience for stupidity – or repression (whether these come down to the same thing or one is a species of the other.) So… mind your Ps and Qs – and keep your mouth shut! Or you might find your face hole filled with “P” or Ds (possibly mixed with anything else you have lying around the house). Though, admittedly, most of you pervs will probably find those prospects arousing. Rest assured; our nonconformist visitor will have lots of fun manipulating you!
Hello!
Please let the audience know, do you like being addressed?
“Mistress Sasha Rose.”
Right, on! Thanks for being with us, Mistress Sasha Rose!
How long ago did you get into fetishes in general? And what was that like for you?
“I started exploring BDSM in 2009, when I met my first sub. I was feral and inexperienced and was asked to do whatever I pleased.”
Oh, mercy! I’m sure that got interesting!
“I looked around his apartment and found Cheerios and a diaper. I told him to piss in the Cheerios.”
Based on some recent news reports,[1] the piss might have been the lesser of two evils, there!
“I made him to dump whatever he didn’t finish into a diaper, go to the store, and get me some nail polish.”
Gawd! That’s oddly specific!
At what point did Forced Bi enter the picture?
“A couple months later, I traveled to Berlin. That’s where I started toying with forced-bi and humiliation games.
“The rest is history!”
Haha! It sure is! And… we’re glad you returned “stateside.”
I want to touch on theory, if I may. The way you think about and practice the fetish, what does Forced Bi involve? How does it play out?
“Forced Bi is most enjoyable to me within a ‘CNC[2] dynamic’ against the backdrop of an established, long-term, professional relationship.”
I’m sensing that it’s a “trust” issue! You can take things, well… let’s say further under these conditions?
“There is something exhilarating – and fantastic – about being offered full agency to destroy someone and mind-fuck them. I never ‘demand’ submission.”
No?
“It is not necessary. The sub’s eager willingness is a gift that I gladly accept – and then promptly push to the limits of imagination.”
How does all that work itself out? I mean… specifically with respect to Forced Bi? What does “force” mean to you? Are you “plugging in” the requisite impulses?
“The innate desire of the sub must already be present. My job is to cultivate that desire, to coax the sub into acting on it, and – indeed – to mold them into… whatever role I see fit.”
I’m hearing the not-so-faint echoes of that seminal, “do-whatever-you-please” Cheerio session!
What – more specifically – do you like doing with all this moldable “sub putty”?!
“Personally, I enjoy a heavy hypnosis session, leading into a Pimp-and-Ho fantasy.”
Mmmm… “Fantasy,” you say? Only that?
“These games must be played out in public. Public humiliation is a huge turn on for me.”
That’s scary and yummy at the same time!
I’m curious about what cross-cutting fetishes might be, here. For instance, do crossdressing or “pegging” / strapon sessions lead a guy into Forced Bi?
“I do not live my life under any assumptions about anyone. It’s better to be direct and just ask, one-on-one.”
So… it depends, basically?
“Fetishes are not one-size-fits-all. This is my issue with porn addicts. They see a Dominatrix online and assume this is who we all are, or that we all follow the same arbitrary rules.”
They’re giving porn addiction a bad name! (Kidding!)[3]
“Fetishism is intersectional – all these fetishes can coexist; or they can be mutually exclusive.
“Life isn’t simple, and things aren’t that black-and-white. Everyone is different. Don’t feed into that hyperrealist garbage. It’s okay to think for yourself.
“The desire – to suck cock or cross-dress or be pegged – was there way before I entered the picture, and irrespective of my personal beliefs.
“That said, I do enjoy ‘playing around with’ these desires and making them a reality.”
Ah! Now we’re talkin’!
“Nothing bores me more than a dead fish of a sub who can’t think for themselves. I enjoy this sort of tête-à-tête.”
I’m almost afraid to ask this next one. But I will anyway!
In your experience, does Forced Bi change a sub’s sexual orientation? Or… can it?
“I have seen this happen, yes.”
Oh? Interesting. May I ask …where have seen this?
“Mostly on my NiteFlirt line and during my tenure as a guest dominatrix at Pandora’s Box Dungeon, in New York.
“I generally attract serious players. But, occasionally, I will be contacted by a porn addict – someone who went too far down the rabbit hole, and has been fully brainwashed with nothing left inside but the greedy, hungry desire for cock.”
I probably shouldn’t find the last part of that description arousing, should I?
“At this point, the Dominatrix is a sounding board for them.”
Quite an intriguing analogy! On reflection, I have to say that it’s apt.
But may I press you? You spoke earlier of the practical necessity of the sub’s antecedent gay desire. You invoked the idea of “innateness.” Now, there’s the specter of ‘gay brainwashing’ via porn.
I can’t help but wonder: What role are you playing in all this – especially in light of your declared fondness for being given carte blanche to (what was the phrase??): “…push to the limits of imagination”?
“I have helped submissives accept that they are gay, yes.
“But have I turned anyone gay by ‘force’? That is my business! Lol! Use your imagination.”
Bwahaha! Mmmm… ahem… <coughing nervously>
Are Forced-Bi subs always/usually males?
“I would say, yes.”
No qualification? Why do you think that is?
“Because society has conditioned men to accept bisexual women. An obvious example is the girls-kissing-at-the-frat-party trope.”
Fair point.
“I have no sympathy for repressed men. They are the ones responsible for these artificial constructs. And they are hypocrites that deserve to be mind-fucked as I see fit!”
In some interviews I have asked whether my interviewee sees fetish involvement as a sort of social activism. I’m definitely sensing an “activist strain” in you!
“I enjoy watching systems of oppression be easily dominoed – and redefined – within a radical setting.
“Men are not that smart. Just get over it. Everyone sucks dick now. If you’re too much of a loser or coward to live your life how you want, then I am willing to push you, take control of your life, and manipulate it …for fun.”
Yes, well… that is coming through vividly!
At the risk of bringing the conversation back to porn addiction – which topic, it seems, it always lurking around the corner! – what Forced-Bi activities do you enjoy overseeing?
“As I mentioned in my earlier answer, I enjoy a public Pimp-and-Ho fantasy where we start in my dungeon.”
Yes, I remember it well! Haha!
But… well… would you be willing to divulge some of the lustful details?
“I do a full sissy-transformation-and-training session – with beatings. Then, we go ‘on the town,’ preferably in a busy city like New York or in my hometown of New Orleans.
“I will send you to Bourbon Street to make me money!”
Ooh! I see! So… “pimp and ho” is a bit more than a metaphor!
What else do you get into – or, perhaps I should ask: What else do you get your subs into?!?
“I also enjoy bl@ckm@iling fantasies (not for the inexperienced), where I have you on go on Grindr and get filmed being a slut, and then send me the video. I threaten to send it to everyone you know. And, if you don’t do XYZ, I will make sure everyone knows that you are a cocksucker.”
I’m sorry; did I… just …pass out?
Does Forced Bi arouse you, amuse you, or other?
“It depends on the level we are at.”
Oh?! Do tell!
“The baseline is amusing. The arousal appears when I get to watch – or when I am doing forced-bi or ‘cuckhold’ scenarios.[4] I enjoy bringing an alpha male – someone who is comfy and secure in their sexuality – into the mix to …play some ‘games’.”
Yes! Games! I read you – loud and clear!
How do you see yourself? Are you on the “light side,” playfully promoting healthy exploration; or the “dark side,” corrupting and tempting men to disaster like a mythical siren?
“Interesting and deep question.
“I have two wolves inside of me. One takes a nurturing, loving, dominant approach, where we delve into our innermost desires, and push limitations psychologically, and spiritually. The other wolf is a sadistic bully who loves heavy humiliation games.
“Perception is reality. And the only real truth we have is our own, regardless of how others perceive us. It doesn’t matter in the end. Fluidity is important to get the full experience of life.”
We’ve bumped up against some challenging abstractions. Before we close out, I want to ground things a little bit. Do you have any limits?
“My limits are no FTT[5] or Roman.”[6]
Out-of-bounds fetishes. Copy that.
Any practical limitations you’d like to make clear?
“I like doing my business on my own time. I am a solitary person. So, bothering me all hours, or not sending a tribute are disrespectful.
“No falling in love and no stalking me.”
Both occupational hazards in your line, to be sure.
“And if you are ‘topping from the bottom’ or lying to me about your interests, then you will be dealt with in a way that I see fit.”
Fair enough. Anything else that you do get into?
“This is controversial, but I enjoy ‘forced intox’ – as long as it’s in a Safe, Sane, and Consensual environment. And I will not be joining you!
“Do whatcha you wanna!”
A kind of modernized Rabelaisian sentiment!
Oh! Don’t forget to let readers know where they can find you online!
“You can find me on NiteFlirt under the name ‘Mistress Sasha Rose.’
“My twitter is @freaklikesasha.
“I am not very active online. So, check for updates on touring, etc.”
But, just for clarity’s sake… you accept clients via NiteFlirt, mostly?
“I am only accepting Skype and NiteFlirt sessions – unless I am touring New York, where I split my time. I live in New Orleans full time now and only see select submissives here.
“When I am touring, I take my sessions at Pandora’s Box, N.Y.”
What’s the best way for prospective subs to contact you for a session like that?
“You can call or email Pandora’s Box directly to inquire about when I will be back.”
Okay!
Thank you so much for being with us today, Mistress Sasha Rose!
(All images of Mistress Sasha Rose and Copyright, 2024, Mistress Sasha Rose. They are reproduced by Forced-Bi.com with permission.)
End Notes:
[1] Numerous outlets have discussed a food additive called “chlormequat,” its discovery in breakfast cereals, and its link to adverse health outcomes (such as infertility). See, e.g., HERE.
[2] CNC = “Consensual Non-Consent”
[3] Anyone struggling with addiction should seek professional help.
[4] As a terminology note, the word “cuckold” has been around for centuries and refers to any husband whose wife is unfaithful. The subtly differently spelled cuckhold, by contrast, is a neologism that picks out a subset of cuckolds (as usually defined) who – in the words of a relevant UrbanDictionary entry – “…actually gets aroused by knowing or seeing [his wife] in sexual situations with other men…”. See HERE.
[5] FTT = “Full T0il3t Training.”
[6] “Roman [Sh0w3r]” is a euphemism for emetophilia, which you can Google.