Welcome, welcome!
First off, how would you like to be addressed?
“Mistress Kiko.”
Thanks for speaking with us, Mistress Kiko!
I suppose the most obvious question is: How did you get into Forced Bi?
“I have always been fascinated by forced bi. Even before I got into BDSM, I got into the fetish, privately.”
Ooh! That sounds hot!
Let me ask, in Forced Bi, what does “force” actually mean to you?
“It’s mostly coercion and commandment.”
Ah! You like to get your way!
Do crossdressing, pegging or strapon sessions lead a guy into Forced Bi?
“I think these are separate activities.
“But! Forced bi is definitely the next step after these for me.”
I think I get you. You mean that, if a guy is “on his own,” as it were, then they might be separate. But, if you’re involved, then the guy can count on being pushed further?
That makes me wonder, do you think that Forced Bi can change a sub’s sexual orientation?
“No, not usually. But, occasionally, it can change guys’ minds, or make them realize that they have been into men all along.”
Are Forced-Bi subs always/usually males, then?
“Yes, they are usually males.”
Haha! No surprise, there!
Are most of your clients “bottoms”?
“I like playing with both ‘bottoms’ and ‘tops.’”
That’s interesting. I guess it’s takes both to, um… tango!
Are they typically “dedicated” to one rôle or the other?
“Since 90% of my client are subs, I do encourage them to ‘flip’ and become a ‘top’ when I involve them in certain scenes.”
Yes. Ahem! I think I follow you!
What Forced-Bi activities do you enjoy overseeing?
In the first place, I guess I’m wondering: Do you mainly engage in fantasy chat? Or…
“I encourage real, in-the-flesh activities!”
Mmmm…such as…?
“…Like anal sex, cock sucking, creampies, cum eating, facials, frottage, kissing, rimming – everything! I enjoy it all.”
Well! It certainly appears that you do!
“I also enjoy big group scenes – such as bukkake. One of my subs is the party whore, surrounded by a big crowd of men. And I get to direct the action.”
<Fills with envy!>
My! I feel a bit faint!
I can’t resist asking: Does Forced Bi arouse you, amuse you, or other?
“Forced bi arouses and amuses me.”
That’s hot!
“Making someone do what they couldn’t ever imagine doing – or breaking what they have always considered a ‘hard limit’ – is a big turn-on for me.”
When you put it that way, it’s a big turn-on for me, too!
How do you see yourself? Are you on the “light side,” playfully promoting healthy exploration; or the “dark side,” corrupting and tempting men to disaster like a mythical siren?
“Something in between.”
Fair enough!
“Usually, I am on the light side. But it would depend on the client.
“Sometimes, I play a role of corrupting them into the darkness – especially if we are acting out a religious scene.”
Oh?!? “Religious” fetishes, huh?
Speaking of rules – if not rule-breaking! – do you have any limits? For instance, will you “session” with married guys?
“I have no issues with married men coming to see me.”
How do you feel about guys “barebacking” or using “poppers”?
“I am ok to let clients use poppers if they want to.
“I do have issues with barebacking because that would be a safety concern.
“I make sure everyone is safe. Condoms must be used unless all participants are fully tested.”
Gotcha! Well… that news might encourage prospective clients to get tested!
While we’re on the subject of prospective subs, where can they you online?
“You can find me on Twitter / ‘X’: @bondageyou,
“Instagram: @shibari_kiko,
“as well as on my website: bondageyou.me.”
Right on!
And – finally – may I sneak in another consideration (or two!) quickly?
Your social-media handles raise the obvious questions: How do you combine Shibari and forced bi in your scenes? And, relatedly, how does that enhance the scenario?
“Bondage adds to the sub’s vulnerability. When the sub is tightly bound, it’s basically impossible for him to do anything about what’s about to happen.”
Gawd! That sounds intense!
Any parting thoughts or other fetishes that you get into?
“I also play with gender like using new names Natasha, Rachel, Sara. I think feminization is an important part of my forced bi scenes as well.”
Thank you so much, Mistress Kiko!