Hello, hello!
Tell everyone: How should we address you?
“I prefer to be addressed as Mistress Isadora.”
That’s perfect! Thanks for being here, Mistress Isadora!
How did you get into fetishes in general?
“I have been passionate about the sex world since I was a teenager.
“I am fascinated by the power of the fetish-and-BDSM universe. Wearing latex or leather, for example, is very empowering to me.
“As a Mistress, you embody a character. And, if you develop it well, you can become a figure that people want to follow. You can turn your character into a brand.”
And it becomes both a business and a sexual outlet!
How did Forced Bi, well… come into the picture?
“I discovered forced bi a few years ago. Since then, I love subverting the heteronormative limits of men.”
Oh, gawd! I’m feeling hot already!
“It’s as if this game was made for me.”
Do you see it as a game, then?
“Most of all, I think forced bi is a way for men to become more genuinely comfortable with their bodies and their sexuality – because the heteronormativity that our society was built on is a pure construction, not the reality.”
Are you surprised by the popularity of the fetish? I mean… is it a sign of the times?
“I am not so surprised that this fetish is getting more and more popular.
“It is a way for men to be allowed to explore other aspects of their sexuality, since the society still puts pressure on them to be super-manly and obviously attracted to women.
“Plus, opinions are evolving, and homosexual intercourse is less stigmatized than it was a few years ago.”
Let me ask, what does “force” mean to you?
“For me, ‘forced’ means commanded.”
Right on.
“But this term is misunderstood.”
How so?
“Because, of course, as a mistress, I do command my sub to have sex with another guy. But I can only ‘command’ him to do so after he gives me his consent.”
I understand. The industry standard is Safe, Sane, and Consensual!
“For men, it’s usually easier to put the responsibility on a Dominatrix. ‘Yes, I sucked a man’s cock, but I did it for my Mistress.’”
That dynamic has been discussed many, many times on this website! The sub may say: “The Domme ‘made me’ do it!” And even the Domme can say: “The sub wanted to do it anyway!”
“But it’s also a permission to step out of their usual self.”
Pushing the sub beyond his comfort zone.
“For example, it could be a way to explore some femininity by playing the role of a hetero woman towards men.”
That’s interesting. It makes me wonder, do you think that other fetishes – such as crossdressing, pegging or strapon play – can lead a guy into Forced Bi? Or are they separate fetishes?
“Both can be true. Some submissive men engage in pegging, crossdressing and strap-on all the time, but forced bi has never been one of their kinks. They can be two very different games.
“But, it’s also true that these kinds of sessions can sometimes lead a sub to forced bi.”
Why do you think that is?
“Because, when you enjoy the transgression, you can be tempted to push it further.”
I entirely agree with you, there!
What effect – if any – can Forced Bi have on a sub’s sexuality? Can it “make” a guy “turn gay”?
“I don’t think forced bi can completely change a sub’s sexual orientation.
“But I do believe it can unlock something.”
Ooh!
“For example, I know a sub who was purely hetero and became bi because he realized how attracted he was to men.”
It awakened in him desires that had been dormant or latent? I gotcha.
Are Forced-Bi subs always/usually males? Or could they be any gender?
“I think forced bi can be practiced by all genders. But I personally have always worked with cis-gender men.”
That’s typical, I suppose!
Do you prefer clients who are “bottoms” or “tops”?
“Clients who contact me always want to play the bottom.”
Haha! Relatable!
Where do you get the tops?
“The top guys are friends or other sex workers that I offer to work with me.”
Makes sense!
Do you clients ever “flip”?
“I do encourage clients to switch roles. I think every man should try it at least once in his life.”
That sounds like a challenge! Readers: take note!
Now you’ve raised my, um… interest! Is it mostly fantasy chat for you, or do you encourage real, in-the-flesh activities?
“I do only real sessions. So, yes of course, I organize real in-the-flesh activities.”
Only in-person sessions, huh? Okay! Interesting!
May I ask: what Forced-Bi activities do you enjoy overseeing?
“Usually, I stick to anal sex, cock sucking, and cum eating.”
Oh? Is that because of a personal limitation? Or… why is that?
“Because I don’t have more hardcore or adventurous players in my sessions!”
Oh! Haha! Well… surely, someone out there is willing to change that!
“I did a threesome (two tops, one bottom) once. But I definitely would love to push this practice further and organize a bukkake with several men for instance.”
Gawd!!! Mmmm… I think I forgot the next question!
I have to ask: Does Forced Bi arouse you, amuse you, or other? (What fascinates you most: the gay sex or your power? Any memorable sessions you’d care to share?)
“Forced bi arouses me when I do it with my husband as the top guy.”
Okay! I didn’t expect that answer! Hot!! You like watching him top?
“I like seeing him fuck other men.”
What about when he’s not involved?
“But when it’s not with him, it mainly amuses me and makes me feel powerful.”
I gotcha!
“Gay sex turns me on a lot, I love watching gay porn for example.”
Any especially unforgettable session that you’d like to share?
“The most memorable session for me was this old guy – very straight – who wanted to try a cuckolding / forced-bi session.
“Seeing his Mistress having sex with another guy was his first motivation. Forced bi seemed less important.
“But… diving deep into the fantasy of being a ‘good cuck’ to his Mistress, he sucked my man’s cock like his life depended on it – and made him cum. My man was so proud of him! And… so was I!”
Mmmm…kinky!
Here’s a question that’s a bit more impressionistic! How do you think of yourself? I mean… Are you on the “light side,” playfully promoting healthy exploration; or the “dark side,” corrupting and tempting men to disaster like a mythical siren?
“I think I am something in between. Promoting healthy BDSM is definitely my credo. But I also like teasing my subs. And I have fun making them uncomfortable.”
Haha! I believe you – totally!
Let’s talk about limits for a second! It’s too tempting for a would-be sub to get all hot-and-bothered reading stuff like this and go off to email you, well… half-cocked.
How do you feel about guys “barebacking” or using “poppers”?
“I don’t mind guys using poppers.
“On the other hand, I allow barebacking only if all the players are ready to provide me recent HIV and STD tests. If not, everybody uses condoms.”
Fair enough.
What’s your opinion of married men coming to you?
“Many of my clients are married men. I would say I don’t judge them. Relationships are so complicated; you never know what happens in a couple.”
That’s true.
“BDSM is still very taboo. And, especially for men, it is not easy to talk about it.
“Many of them tried to drag their wives into it, at one time or another. But, almost invariably, BDSM never had the same appeal for the wives.
“Others just don’t have the guts to bring up the topic with their wives because they know – or believe – that it would be a waste of time.”
I’ve interviewed so many kinky females that I can’t help but suspect that – quite possibly – a few of these husbands might be selling their wives short!
Thanks so much!
Oh! Wait! Haha!
I almost forgot!
Let the audience know where they can find you online!
“My website is dominatrice-isadora.com.
“You can also find me on Instagram: @Isadora__official,
“X: @Domina_Isadora_, and
“OnlyFans.”
Excellent! Thank you so much, Mistress Isadora!
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