Her body is a work of art – literally! But, she also exudes that mean-girl vibe. You know what we’re talking about: The one where you start by lusting after her and end up on all fours, getting railed. But… let’s not get ahead of ourselves! Let’s bring out our next guest!
Hello, and Welcome!
Please, introduce yourself to everyone!
“I’m Mistress Valentina. But I’m known on Twitter/X as @MissValiUK.”
Right on! Thank you for talking to us today!
How did you get into fetishes in general and Forced Bi in particular? (Are you surprised by your influence? By the fetish’s popularity?)
“Ever since I can remember, I’ve always been interested in fetishes and quite kinky.”
I like where this is headed already! Haha!
“I originally started being a submissive.”
No kidding?!
“But, gradually learned that I’m definitely a switch, leaning more on the dominant side of things.”
That’s quite a journey; right on!
“As I started to explore my dominance, I came across several different fetishes, including forced bi.”
What attracted you to that?
“For me, the appeal of forced bi is that it involves highly sexual acts – things that men usually wouldn’t do with each other – given that they’re attracted women.
“But their attraction to me is something that pushes a lot of men out of their comfort zones.
“Also, strangely, I had a phase where I would get off to gay porn, specifically.”
I was definitely going to ask about that! Does it arouse you?
“For me, I get personal pleasure from it too.”
That’s hot! So… it’s something of a passion for you?
“I find some kind of pleasure in gay sex, to be honest. At the end of the day, I’m very attracted to men and seeing two men together just ‘does it’ for me.”
Does that translate into the content you make?
“Right now, I’m quite focused on building my clip store, iwantvalentina.com, which has loads of forced-bi content.”
Let me ask you, then: How do you think of the word “force”? What is Forced Bi forcing?
“‘Force,’ for me, means pushing a boundary a little.
“I find that, as a submissive, I like to be pushed really hard by my dominant.”
That is fascinating! You have some inside knowledge of the submissive mindset – so to speak!
“And I tend to enjoy pushing my submissives to the same extent as well.”
That’s kinky!
“I guess I feel that my brand of forced bi is more a blend of encouragement, instruction, enticement, and permission than anything else.”
Kind of sexy cheer leading?
“Basically… saying it’s ‘okay’ to be gay.”
Giving the green light? Right on!
Do you think that crossdressing, pegging or strapon sessions lead a guy into Forced Bi?
“In my experience, I find that all sorts of fetishes can lead to forced bi – not exclusively things like cross-dressing, pegging or strap-on play.”
No kidding? Would you give us a for-instance?
“In fact, it’s a lot of my blackmail and financial domination slaves who find themselves getting into forced bi.”
Oh, I see! Mmm…
“There’s nothing that can hold you back from it. You either get into it, or you don’t.”
Aha. So, is it fair to say you take the position that, for some submissives, Forced Bi is inevitable? They’ll beat a path to that door however they can.
“And there’s nothing wrong with being into it, of course.”
In your opinion, does Forced Bi change a sub’s sexual orientation?
“I don’t believe that engaging in this play can change your sexual orientation. Though, to be honest, who cares?”
Haha! Clients beware!
“I’m from the most liberal city in the UK – the ‘Gay Capital’ of the UK, if you will.”
Is that a fact?
“Generally, it’s considered that sexuality doesn’t matter here. And there’s an ongoing trend of people just not specify what they’re into because, at the end of the day, who cares?
“You’re into what you’re into, and you can’t change that.”
I gotcha. So… there’s a sort of sexual determinism for everyone. In that regard, Forced Bi isn’t special. It’s just one way that things can break.
Are Forced-Bi subs always/usually males? Ever had any females into this?
“Personally, I’ve never had a forced-bi Sub who is female. But I would definitely get off on the concept of that: On the idea of turning a girl gay, basically.”
You and a lot of readers, I suspect!
Do you prefer clients who are “bottoms” or “tops”? Or do you encourage clients to “flip”?
“I find that most of my forced-bi subs are bottoms. And they love being fucked and used by whoever I delegate they should be fucked and used by.”
Mmmm… relatable.
While we’re on that subject…
Is it mostly fantasy chat for you, or do you encourage real, in-the-flesh activities?
“I’ve done a few forced-bi sessions in real life – which have been amazing! They’ve included all sorts of supplementary fetishes – such as spitting, strap-on play, and a bit of cuckolding …with the guy whose cock he was just sucking for me!”
Oh, my! That would be a wild session!!
Are there particular Forced-Bi activities do you enjoy overseeing?
“I’m pretty open minded and don’t really have any limitations on play I enjoy as a domme.”
I am definitely getting that sense from you! Yummy!!
Any memorable sessions you’d care to share?
“My most memorable session was watching a guy that I was dating fuck a guy that’s submissive to me.
“It was possibly the hottest thing I’ve ever experienced.”
Mmmmm… That’s not… on your clip store, by any chance, is it?? (Kidding, not kidding!)
Seriously, though: How do you see yourself? Are you on the “light side,” playfully promoting healthy exploration; or the “dark side,” corrupting and tempting men to disaster like a mythical siren?
“I would define myself as being on the dark side of things.”
Really?!? Mmmm… I think I may need a cold shower all of a sudden!
“I tend to corrupt men and mess them up in a way. That’s really sexy.”
Um… yeah…!
“Sort of pushing them beyond where they thought they could go with their submission. Taking them places, they’ve never explored before and never imagined exploring.”
Well… I – and a lot of the audience, I presume – agree!
Do you have any limits?
“As I said before, I don’t really have any limits, as long as everyone involved in the direct sexual acts is consenting.”
Yes. You definitely did say that!
“Poppers,” for example. They’re totally fine?
“I have no issues with poppers, as long as that person is consenting to them. As far as I’m concerned, it’s everyone’s choice what they do and what they engage in.”
Roger that!
Oh! Don’t forget to let readers know where they can find you online!
“I mentioned iwantvalentina.com.
“There’s also BrightonDominatrix.com.
“And my Twitter/X is @MissValiUK.”
Thank you so much for joining us, Mistress Valentina!
And, please, connect with us: @ForcedBisexual!
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