Hello, hello! Today we have – not only a beautiful and commanding Forced-Bi practitioner – but one who really seems to “get” (and get into) the fetish as well!
Welcome! Let’s start with the basics. How do you prefer to be addressed?
“Hello! You will refer to Me as ‘Mistress Zoe Red.’”
Yes, Mistress!
“Although… many of My submissives quite regularly say I have the body of a Goddess. So, ‘Goddess’ is fine as well.”
Ah, yes! I can see they’re right about that, Goddess!
So… common question: How did you get into fetishes in general?
“I got into fetishes first through porn, like many others.”
Same!
“While I had a pretty normal sex life for a while, I always found Myself gravitating towards fetish-oriented porn. Eventually this turned into Domination, which turned into Professional Domination! (Where I am now).”
Haha! Fair enough! What about Forced Bi in particular?
“I got into Forced Bi in particular with an ex of Mine, who loved to be forced to bottom for Me. As time went on and on, I found Myself increasingly turned off by doing anything where I wasn’t in a Dominating position.”
Oh, wow. Right on! You kinda got hooked on Domination!
“I came to the realization that the power dynamic and roleplay is what turns Me on. Any particular fetish is just a way to engage with the power dynamic.”
Are you surprised by your influence? …By the fetish’s popularity?
“I’m not surprised at all by My influence – although I wish it was a bit stronger.”
Relatable!
“As I’ve written in My website, I definitely view men as stressed out. They’re taught to be the ones to make the decisions, be the breadwinner, and wear the pants. I give them the opportunity to let go, if only for an hour.
“So, I’m not surprised at all by the popularity of the fetish. There’s an increasing number of people coming out as bi every day. As being bi becomes less and less stigmatized, the fetish increases in popularity. I get a lot of curious men who want to explore their sexuality, and I’m more than happy to lead the way.”
Oh, yeah?!? Mmmm!
So… on that wavelength: What does the “force” aspect come down to? (Coercion? Commandment? Encouragement? Enticement? Inducement? Instruction? Permission? Persuasion? Provocation? Seduction? Other?)
“‘Force,’ in some sense, means against their will.”
Ooh… yes, Mistress!
“I find all methods to be useful, although some more than others – depending on the sub, and depending on the flow of the session.
“We both know that a sub who comes to Me wants one thing above all. But that is where I differ from others. I make sure ‘it’s forced’!”
Have mercy!
“They have to give up their sense of control and totally surrender to Me in order to earn it.
“As I love playing with My toys, I command them to play along as well. I love to hear them beg, moan, and plead that they ‘don’t want it.’ I want to see them press against their restraints.
“Other times, I may make them do humiliating tasks to get what they desire.
“Last but not least, I’ll often use other parts of My body – such as My breasts or butt – as a way to turn them on. And then… I force them into it!”
Is it, um… getting steamy in here?? Or… is it just me?!
“As I said above, it’s not the act itself that’s the turn on; it’s the loss of control that does it for Me.”
So hot!
Now… do you think that crossdressing, pegging, or strap-on sessions lead a guy into Forced Bi? …warm him up to it, so to speak? Or are they separate fetishes?
“I would say ‘yes.’ I think crossdressing does for sure.
“There’s such a crossover online with the trans/sissy/crossdresser communities that crossdressers don’t really care about their sexuality anymore and have been exposed to enough smut that it’s hard to phase them.”
Porn has ruined everybody!
“Although… I certainly have skewed data on this. By the time half My clients are seeing Me, they’ve already crossed that threshold.”
Haha…right! There’s no “control” group in a scientific sense. They’re rarin’ to go!
“I’m lucky enough to command such beauty that the other half don’t bother with seeing a regular Domme first. They come straight to Me.”
That’s fucking hot! Oops. Did I say that out loud??
Lemme ask you this: Does Forced Bi change a sub’s sexual orientation? To put it dramatically: Can it “make” a guy “turn gay”?
“It absolutely can.”
Mmmm. Oh, wow…
“Once a guy has crossed that threshold, there’s certainly no going back. The only question is: Will the Domme be a part of the equation after that, or not?
“Some men are scared of other men, whereas other men are so filthy that they’ll do anything to feel like they were beneath a cock.”
Holy crap. Why do I get the distinct impression that you paint faces every bit as competently as you paint pictures in my mind!
“Perhaps it would go something like this: A bottom goes from Trans Mistress to femboy / twink and ends up with a husky male.
“Of course, this doesn’t happen to everyone.
“I think some men – especially the sissies – are only attracted to femininity… which is why a Domme needs to be in the room.”
I hear you! 100%
“Even if it’s not attached to Her, Her presence helps them bring out themselves.”
What do you think: Is it “addictive”?
“I certainly can’t think of any man who’s done that who hasn’t gone back.
“There’s only purging your feelings. But they’ll always come back.”
Wow. Just… wow!
I’m curious about your clientele. Are Forced-Bi subs always/usually males?
“They are always male.”
Haha! Fair enough!
“While female subs are amazing, you can’t really do ‘forced bi’ with them. They already know what they want!
“The male is much more fun. With a man, you can brainwash him, hypnotize him, sodomize him… the list goes on.
“It’s the breaking down of the man – and forcing him to love cock – that is such a turn on. Once their dignity goes out the window, it’s game over for them. You can’t really get that aspect with a female sub.”
I literally forgot where I was for a minute. Um… I may a cold shower to continue with you!
You’ve already explained your own attraction to Domination – and topping. But, I wonder: Does that mean you prefer clients who identify as “bottoms”?
“This may sound a little weird, but I prefer clients who (used to be) ‘tops.’”
No kidding?
“I have had so many men I’ve played with say they normally top – and that is such a turn on for Me. As they often say My beauty is ‘intoxicating.’”
I gotcha! Like… you’re the exception? Or… you drive them to act exceptionally?
“It means that My beauty is so strong that I break tops and turn them into bottoms.”
Yes!
“There is nothing sexier than a man who used to love pussy being made into a bottom.
Mmmmm… oh, damn!!
What Forced-Bi activities do you enjoy overseeing? Like… this is in-person more than online?
“I am a professional trans dominatrix, so, I prefer seeing clients in real life, at My Dungeon.”
Very hot!
“Videos and chatting are all well and fine. But nothing beats an in-person session.”
Agreed!
“Good sessions take Me and My sub away from space and time and bring us to a place that is fantastical. While in session it seems like time stands still.
“With that being said, I can’t go into too many specifics, but I greatly enjoy worship of My butt in order to get Me in the mood. If you ever watch any of My videos, you’ll notice that’s a major part.”
Oh, gawd!!
Does Forced Bi arouse you, amuse you, or other? (What fascinates you most: the gay sex or your power? Any memorable sessions you’d care to share?)
“Forced Bi absolutely arouses Me!
“And… it is quite amusing as well. I will admit I have laughed many times at what I’ve done to subs and sissies. I have such a penchant for coming up with degrading/humiliating scenarios that when they are completed – and especially when a sub is aroused by them – I can’t help but laugh out loud.”
Mmmmm… That’s so kinky!
“When a sub is calling himself a ‘bitch’ or a ‘whore’ or a ‘cockslut,’ there’s no way anyone wouldn’t find that funny.”
Haha!
“With that said, I am quite aroused by the whole thing as well. After all, why would I be here if I weren’t?”
Occasionally, practitioners strike me as thoroughly mercenary in their motivations. But, once in a while, a true enthusiast lands on our radar!
How do you see yourself? Are you on the “light side,” playfully promoting healthy exploration; or the “dark side,” corrupting and tempting men to disaster like a mythical siren? Something in between? Something else?
“I find Myself pivoting between both approaches.
“It truly depends on the sub. If he is nervous, scared, and afraid, then I’ll be playful and helpful.
“If he knows what he wants – and knows the corruption turns him on – then I’ll be a lot meaner.”
Anything to get him to submit and, ultimately, bottom?
“Sometimes I even go from one to the other during the play session. The most important thing is: After the session (either right after he gets dressed or if we go out somewhere), I act level-headed, enthusiastic, and collected. I want as much as he does to have a wonderful time playing. If I act in a way that is not synergetic with him, then that’s impossible to do.
“I do love being seen as a siren, though!”
As if I didn’t hope you’d say that!!
Do you have any limits?
“My limits are: No touching My body where I don’t allow; No disrespect; and No breaking any of the ground rules that I have laid out at the beginning of the session!”
Yes, Mistress!
How do you feel about guys “barebacking”?
“If a guy wants to bareback outside of our play, there’s not much I can do to stop him. I sanitize everything before and after the session – including putting condoms on everything! (…especially toys).”
Any opinion on “poppers”?
“I am fine with someone using poppers.
“But… I do find it to be a crutch. You should practice stretching during the days leading up to our session – preferably, while looking at photos of Me!
“Having to use poppers indicates that a man is not adequately prepared.”
I gotcha. And… yes, Goddess!
“With that said, if he wants to use poppers – for example, as an aspect of ‘mind control,’ or for personal comfort – then I am completely fine with that. …That is: if he brings his own, and is experienced with using them.”
Roger that.
What’s your opinion of married men coming to you?
“I have had married men come to Me plenty of times. Some of them come with their wives’ approval. And a few of them even come with their wife!”
Oh, wow… interesting!
“I personally do not like to know about a sub’s personal life until after we’ve played together a bit. I understand it’s something their wives are probably disgusted by – and usually not for a good reason. So, I understand where they’re coming from.
“I wish we lived in a better world, where bisexuality for men was not looked down upon.”
Thank you so much for being so forthright!
Oh…before you go, where can readers find you online?
“All My links can be found here: https://linktr.ee/mszoered
“Most importantly, if you’d like to book a session, visit My website: https://mistresszoered.com/
“I also have plenty of videos on My loyalfans: https://www.loyalfans.com/mistresszoered
“And, of course, My twitter is here: https://twitter.com/mistresszoered”
Thank you so much, Mistress Zoe Red!
“Thank you for having Me!”
The pleasure has been ours!!!
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