Oh, boy; er… boi! Today, we have a genuine Alpha Female – coming to us from direct from London. When it comes to Forced Bi, this statuesque Mistress is going to, well… tell you what’s up!
Hello, and welcome!
First of all, what is your name? What do you go by?
“My name Is Lady Valeska. I prefer to be addressed as such – or as Mistress Valeska.”
Right on, Lady Valeska. Thanks for being here, today!
In your profession, some practitioners think of themselves as “Alphas,” “Dommes,” “Princesses,” “Queens,” and the like.
Which – if any – fit you? What do you prefer?
“Any of the following options would describe Me well: Alpha, Domina, Mistress, Goddess, and Sadist.”
Fair enough!
What do you see yourself as doing? I mean… is your fetish-related work just a pastime or hobby? Is it merely your occupation? Something deeper? A lifestyle, perhaps.
“It’s a lifestyle – this is pretty much who I am all the time.
“But, it’s also got elements of social activism.
“Both of these apply. I live and breathe FemDom – and also promote a matriarchal system.”
Right on.
Now, what about the flip side, so to speak? How do you see the people who seek you out? What do you call them?
“It varies based on the type of person that I play with and what their kinks are.
“But… some common labels are: slaves, subs, sissies, and gimps.”
“Gimps,” huh? Okay! That’s not one I hear every day!
I’ve got to know: What got you into the world of domination and fetishes, in general – and Forced Bi in particular?
“Forced bi is generally a kink that is taboo for the clients that seek to explore it.
“It is usually a big step for them to take, but also something that is very high on their fetish ‘to-do’ list.
“I love being the facilitator of their kinky fantasies.”
Mmm! Well… we love that you love doing that!
How long have you been doing this online?
“I am a real-time Dominatrix that has had clipstores C4S1 and IWC2 for about three years.
“I just started with My OnlyFans and AVNStars about a year ago, due to the pandemic – and being unable to do real time.”
It’s not uncommon.
But… you do also have a “dungeon,” studio, or other space for face-to-face, in-person, or real-time meets?
“Yes. I have My own play space, Kink Haven. But, I also do sessions in dungeons or hotels.”
Oh, gotcha! Now… you’re from Canada, but Kink Haven is… in London?
What is your goal? Are you aiming to make money, or derive pleasure – or both? …Something else?? Haha!
“This is My profession; so, yes, making money is My aim.
“But the beauty of My job is that it is also something I adore.”
Indeed!
How much of your energy and time does this take up?
“It’s a full-time occupation.”
I had a feeling!
So, I guess… the question is: Are you satisfied with this level of involvement?
“It is definitely very consuming and hard work, not sure if ‘satisfied’ is a word I would use. But, it isn’t something I would change.”
Fair enough.
Okay! Let me ask some questions about the fetish, itself.
On the face of it, the Forced-Bi has two components. It’s got something to do with “force” and something to do with “bisexuality.” Let’s handle both, but in reverse order.
Do you think that true “bisexuality” – where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males – is possible?
“Yes, of course.”
Short and sweet!
What’s Forced Bi, fundamentally? Is it also a blend of activism and lifestyle?
“It is a kink.”
Very true!
What do you call it? “Coerced bi,” “encouraged gay,” “enforced gay,” Forced Bi,” “make you gay,” etc.?
“Any of the above. Same difference.”
Do you see Forced Bi primarily in terms of male submission, male and female submission, both, or neither?
“It can pertain to male or female submission.
“But, I will say that – 95% of the time – it is pertaining to men.”
Care to hazard a guess as to why that is?
“I would say that is because we are a patriarchal society and don’t give much exposure to woman-on-woman play.”
Interesting.
Onto the stickier term!
The idea of being “forced” is a little vague. For legal reasons, “forced” obviously means something less than literally compelled by threat.
What’s left? Which, if any, of the following do you think is most fitting? Coercion? Commandment? Encouragement? Enticement? Inducement? Instruction? Permission? Persuasion? Provocation? Etc.
“I would say all of the above would apply. It is really depending on the client and what the scene is.”
Is that something you have to figure out ‘on the fly,’ as it were?
“Beforehand this is all negotiated, and then the type of scene is conducted based on that.”
Gotcha. Planning!
What do you think is going on with “Forced Bi”? Does a guy actually “change” his sexual orientation?
“I don’t know.”
It’s not like we can see into another person’s head or heart.
“It means whatever the client wants to it mean to them.”
Is it possible for a guy to be a “switch” or “versatile”? That is, to be able to take on the role of either bottom or top with more or less equal facility, if not enthusiasm.
“Yes; why not?”
Haha! I don’t know. Some Mistresses seem to think that guys are usually one or the other – bottom or top – period.
“Some people are a bit of both – active and passive.”
Some women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex. Straight women sometimes liken their enjoyment to that expressed by straight men who like witnessing two women together sexually. What is your opinion of the “optics”?
“I think guy on guy sex is crazy hot. I thoroughly enjoy it.”
Mmmmm! So kinky!
In your opinion, does bisexuality affect a guy’s attractiveness or desirability?
“Bisexual guys are attractive and desirable.”
Right on.
Is the Forced-Bi fetish “healthy” or “unhealthy”? …psychologically, I mean.
“It’s healthy.”
Yeah?
“I want my subs to fulfill their cock-whore destinies.”
Haha! Mmmmm… so hot!
On a serious note, though: What makes it healthy, do you think?
“It’s productive exploration. It aids in self-discovery.”
For some people, I can definitely see that.
Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?
“I don’t care. Frankly, this is of no real interest or importance to me, whatsoever.”
Fair enough. Just curious…
“That being said, I do enjoy playing with someone that feels it is sinful – and exploring that with them.”
Aha…that could be hot!
Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called “binary language” – e.g., thinking in terms of “feminine” versus “masculine,” etc. – when it comes to John Money’s concept of “gender” and sexuality. But Forced Bi, arguably, has a kind of “bi-narism” built into its name.
I guess the question would be: Do you see this as a problem for the Forced-Bi fetish?
“I haven’t given it any thought.”
No problem.
Okay… onto lighter topics!
Forced-Bi activities!
What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?
“All!”
Haha! That’s a whole lot! Right?!?
“Cock sucking… bukkake… facials… anal sex… creampies… kissing… rimming… tongue fucking…”
Oh, gawd!!
I’m getting a bit distracted!
“I love everything forced bi! The people involved love the naughtiness of it all.”
Mmmmm… Yes! Yes; they often do, don’t they?!?
Do you think that Forced Bi, as a fetish, is getting more popular?
“I think it’s staying about the same as it ever was.”
Do you perceive that the Forced-Bi fetish is being promoted in any way by the so-called “mainstream media”?
“No.”
Which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role you want?
“I have no preference.”
Mix and match? Lol!
“I’ll work with whatever they’re willing to do.”
Oh, right on!
Are you aroused by Forced Bi, or just amused by it?
“I’m both aroused and amused.”
Oh, yay!!! Mmmm…
Do you think that a guy can “just try” sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?
“Absolutely.”
Maybe he decides that it’s not for him?
What are you interested in doing? Are we talking mostly online? Mostly in-person? …“Other”? …whatever that might be! Haha!
“I encourage guys to have real, in-the-flesh encounters with other males.”
Mmmm… nice!
“Chat might be the gateway; but I want to see how far they’ll go. …And push them further.”
How “involved” do you like to be? I mean… are you just issuing instructions? Watching, passively? Directing? Etc.
“It depends on the situation. But, I want to be as involved as I can be.”
Mmmm!
Anything really get you going?
“No preference! I love it all.”
Anything goes?
“I just like pairing up males.”
Lol…perfect!
All right… let’s say a few words about limits.
Firstly… do you have any?!? Haha!
For example, how do you feel about guys having gay sex without condoms (i.e., “barebacking”)?
“I’m fine with guys barebacking – if the guys trust each other and are clean.”
No STDs / STIs?
“The sub must stay clean. It’s all about staying safe.”
How do you feel about married men? …for this stuff, I mean.
“I don’t care either way; I don’t even ask.”
How do you feel about amyl-nitrite inhalers (“poppers”)?
“Again, I don’t care either way.”
Whatever floats the sub’s boat?
How do you feel about guys really getting addicted to gay sex? Or… is that even a “thing”?
“The question is malformed. I don’t think they will be addicted.”
Gotcha. Thanks for sticking with me!
Just a few final questions…
Do you have any other fetishes that you’re into?
“I have a huge list of kinks.”
Haha! I figured!
“I adore latex and any kink that involves Me, or My submissive, wearing latex.
“Pegging, sissy play and corporal punishment are also big favourites of Mine.”
I’m sure that interested readers can visit you online and find out more!
Speaking of which…
How can fans and other interested persons check out your work?
“Website: https://ladyvaleska.com/
“Twitter: @ladyvaleskax
“OnlyFans: Premium – OnlyFans.com/ladyvaleskax
“Free – onlyfans.com/lady_valeskax
“C4S: https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/140469/lady-valeska-femdom
“IWC: https://iwantclips.com/store/182528/Lady-Valeska
“AVNStars: stars.avn.com/ladyvaleskax.”
Right on, Lady Valeska! Thank you so much for being with us, today!
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(All images of Lady Valeska are Copyright 2021, Lady Valeska. They are reproduced by Forced-Bi and its affiliates / associates with permission. Higher-resolution versions may be available directly from Lady Valeska.)
Notes:
1“C4S” = “Clips For Sale.”
2“IWC” = “I Want Clips.”