Today, we welcome an insightful and well-traveled content-creator, fetishist, and videographer.
Thanks for talking to us, today!
How do you prefer to be addressed?
“‘Domina’ or ‘Goddess Mara’.”
Awesome, Goddess Mara!
How did you get into fetishes in general and Forced Bi in particular?
“Honestly, it came to Me.”
Oh? No kidding?
“I think many submissive men have a curiosity and that either fades away or grows into an itch that they really need to scratch.
“At times, it can even become an addiction – because it’s almost like they have found a new ‘toy’ to play with, or to be… for someone else, in addition to Me.”
I gotcha.
Readers: Be careful what you wish for!
In Forced Bi, what does “force” actually mean? Obviously, it has to come down to something other than being literally impelled by threat.
But… what does that leave? Coercion? Commandment? Encouragement? Enticement? Inducement? Instruction? Permission? Persuasion? Provocation? Seduction? …Other?
“I actually dislike the term ‘forced,’ because it’s literally men wanting My Permission to allow them to be slutty with other men, non-binary, or trans figures.
“They just want a Female figurehead to say it’s ‘ok,’ and facilitate this with them.
“Everyone who has experienced ‘Forced Bi’ with Me has enjoyed it.”
Haha! I believe you!
So… does it always arise directly? Or can other fetishes – for example, pegging or strapon sessions – lead a guy into it? …Or are those separate fetishes?
“I feel like pegging can lead men to want to try it. But most of the interested men who come to Me already know of it, have already done it at least once – or multiple times – but have yet to experience it with a transgirl.”
Mmm… Yummy!
Does Forced Bi change a sub’s sexual orientation? Can it “make” a guy “turn gay”?
“I grew up disliking labels, because I am all-inclusive.
“I consider Myself as ‘pansexual’ – meaning that I don’t care what race, age, or gender you identify with, as long as there is mutual chemistry and natural attraction.”
Ah, interesting.
“I believe that it expands a sub to experience both, if not, all sides and orientations.”
Now… mentioned some guys kind of get hooked or obsessed with this. Can you expand on that?
“It can seem ‘addicting’ in the beginning if the sub really enjoys it, since it is new and novel. But, they always come back to the source of their submission, first and foremost: Me.”
Ha! Fair enough!
Are Forced-Bi subs always/usually males? Or could they be any gender? Do you prefer “bottoms” or “tops”?
“Many of My in-person scenes are with male subs. If they are fetishists who aren’t really into the service aspect, then they are bottoms.
“Currently, I do have a few female subs as well. And one recently commissioned Me to make a half-hour video clip. It’s Me seducing her in a catsuit, with My feet, non-nude pussy and ass, and Me simulating pegging her with a strap-on.
“She claims she is ‘straight.’ But, in reality, she is a slut for Me – and loves to be called like so, when I put her under hypnosis.”
Oh, right on. So… you’re sort of combining fetishes.
“Hypnosis lets her become who she wants to be without her feeling ashamed – coming from a conservative background.”
Intriguing!
What Forced-Bi activities do you enjoy overseeing? And… is this in-person, or mostly fantasy chat?
for you, or do you encourage real, in-the-flesh activities like anal sex, bukkake, cock sucking, creampies, cum eating, facials, frottage, kissing, rimming, etc.?)
“Most of the fantasies My subs have are pure imagination.”
Sounds familiar, for sure.
“Once W/we begin the process of them actually booking a male or transgirl escort, many don’t have the guts to go through with it.
“Very few who are already into their bi-selves, and love serving Me, have created lovely threesomes – with Me as the Dominant. If a transgirl is involved, then the male sub will usually want to submit to both of us. But I am the Domme overseeing all – over the transgirl, as well.”
Haha! Why am I not surprised?!?
“I am happy overseeing anything they would like to do together, as long as My personal boundaries are respected.”
Mmm… Now my mind is drifting…
Does Forced Bi arouse you, amuse you, or other? (What fascinates you most: the gay sex or your power? Any memorable sessions you’d care to share?)
“Being in power of course arouses Me. And, even more so, I love that I can allow two men – or women, or …whoever – to be taken with each other and Myself… figuratively and literally.”
Lol! Mmmm… Mix and match!
“I love the orgy space.”
Oh, gawd!
Mind. Going. Blank.
Bwahaha!
“People may worry about jealousy. But, if you are there to have fun, then there is no reason to be jealous.
“That idea is societal conditioning that needs to be gotten rid of in the play-space.”
And… you facilitate the catharsis?
“I help all parties see this. The more communication, the more fun to be had by all.”
That makes me wonder…
How do you see yourself? Are you on the “light side,” playfully promoting healthy exploration; or the “dark side,” corrupting and tempting men to disaster like a mythical siren? Something in between? …Something else?
“I’m definitely a Goddess of the Light. There is naughtiness – and something filthy – about exploring something that might seem ‘taboo,’ or that ‘may change the orientation.’
“But… who cares?”
Mmm!
“It is My job to see that discoveries are being made in a safe, consensual way.”
Okay. Well, let’s discuss that a moment.
What are your limits?
Do you have any limits? How do you feel about guys “barebacking” or using “poppers”? What’s your opinion of married men coming to you?
“I want all parties who will be participating in escort situations to either contact each other on their last physical check-ups, and to be certified via a website with ratings.
“Since I am not the escort, I make it clear that it is up to them to decide what is the best course of action for themselves. They are adults and should be able to take care of themselves.”
So… condoms or not… at their own risk?
“I always use protection on strap-ons – even when it’s one-on-one – for hygiene.”
Right on.
Any opinions on amyl-nitrite inhalers?
“I’m not a fan of poppers, as they can shift the sub’s judgment during play.
“I prefer to ease parties in with My gloved fingers.”
Oh! Haha! Mmm…
How about married guys? Any thoughts? Feelings?
“Per married men, I have come to terms with this since the beginning.
“In our society, W/we are shamed to fear certain desires, and chastised for wanting to try the ‘weird.’
“Yet, the most repressed are the ones who seek alternative lifestyles the most.”
Interesting.
“People who have partners – including the sub girl I mentioned previously – are scared to share this side of themselves. Because, once you put it out there, you can never take that knowledge – or judgment – back.”
It’s a bell that can’t be un-rung.
“I’ve had a male sub be called a ‘freak’ for liking tickling.”
Who called him that?
“From his first love, when he told her.
“That’s tragically unacceptable.
“There are married men who have told their wives that this is something they need. And, since their wives are not into Kink, they allow their husbands to participate with a Professional – once a month, or whatever their negotiated timeframe is.
“Wives like this want to know when, but they don’t want to know what goes on.
“I never meet their family; it is strictly business. And, even though W/we get personal, I never ‘go home’ with these married or partnered submissives.”
No, I understand what you’re saying. A lot of variation!
“This is just a taste of the spectrum.
“But hopefully it paints a specific enough picture of My ‘take.’”
For sure! And… thank you so much!
Before you leave us, please let readers know where they can find you online!
“As of March 2021, I am available for select, in-person sessions in the Los Angeles and San Francisco areas.”
Oh, right on. Just… doors open for anyone to apply?
“Proof of negative Covid testing and My long-term regulars are My priority.”
Gotcha.
“I recommend that interested players sign up for My Newsletter, on My personal website, so that they know when I will be traveling Domestically in the United States… and Internationally to Europe and Asia.
“Additionally, on My website, I have a whole menu for remote sessions: from texting, to phone calls, to video conference, and, of course, custom clips.
“I do have My own Chastity Program as well as My Dragon Queen Collection in collaboration with a shop.”
That’s unique!
“More information can be found on My YouTube Channel @ Domina Mara.
“I have a lot of free content on there, as I am an Artist, primarily – weaving BDSM into My craft.”
That’s cool!
“I’ve had many people offer to donate to help execute My visions. So, I have allowed cash tributes and I update My wish lists often.
“These are a list of My links, including clip stores and subscription sites. Enjoy! And thanks for having Me!
“https://www.youtube.com/c/DominaMara
“https://www.instagram.com/maradomina
“https://twitter.com/maradomina
“https://onlyfans.com/dominamara
“https://stars.avn.com/dominamara
“https://clips4sale.com/115042
“https://www.niteflirt.com/dominamara
“https://amazon.com/shop/missmara
“https://www.tiktok.com/@maradomina
Oh, wow! No! The pleasure was all mine!
Well… not all mine! Readers’ pleasure, also!!
All good wishes for the rest of 2021!
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