All you misbehaving miscreants in Forced-Bi Land better shape up! Today, we are having a conversation with Ebony Domme and disciplinarian. So… you better shape up!
Hi! Welcome!
Please, tell everyone: How do you prefer to be addressed?
“Hello, hello! I am Dominatrix Ava Kane – Mistress Ava Kane. But my boys – and everybody – call me ‘Miss Ava’ because I prefer it.”
Right on, Miss Ava! Thanks for being here!
So, how did you get into fetishes, in general?
“I got into fetish when I was a teenager… from my first-ever boyfriend.
“He was into toilet play.”
Oh, my! Was that in Philadelphia?
“He really helped me explore a world that I had no clue existed. I will forever give him a gold star for exposing me for the demon I have become.”
Haha! He created a proverbial monster?!
How did things progress into Forced Bi?
“After him – and a shit-ton of Googling, meeting my best friend, and really busting my ass in this life and craft – I got to engage in forced bi… and polishing up.”
Right! Well… let me ask a bit more about that.
In Forced Bi, obviously, “force” has to mean something less than compelled by threat. But… what does that leave? Coercion? Commandment? Encouragement? Enticement? Inducement? Instruction? Permission? Persuasion? Provocation? Seduction? …Other?
“For other people it will have different meanings or different interpretations.
“For me, it is a commandment.”
Haha! Fair enough!
“You obviously booked a person like me – not for encouragement or to get a reward!
“You went out of your way to look for me to ‘enforce’ your little fantasy of being a bottom bitch. And I’m going to make it happen. And you’re going to like it!”
Mmm… Gawd!
“We will all be happy at the end of it.”
Lol! Very true!
Does it always happen that way? Do guys seek it out, directly? Or, for instance, can other fetishes – like pegging / strapon – lead a guy into Forced Bi?
“Sometimes! Not all the time.”
Everybody’s different?
“They’ll be some who like the fantasy of wanting to indulge with an actual man – or an individual who has a functioning penis – and will start to see that as an option.
“Other times, they don’t. They just want to live within the fantasy and within their own imaginations: imaging what would happen if they could have or if they would have gone through with it.”
Those are major lines to cross! A person may go from considering some act or fetish “unthinkable,” to thinking about it. And that’s a major shift. But, secondly, there’s still a gulf between thinkable and doable!
What’s your opinion? Does Forced Bi change a sub’s sexual orientation?
“More than likely, you liked what you liked before you saw me. You had a thing for what you had a thing for before knowing I even existed.
“But let’s play on the idea that this person came to me as a heterosexual – never in their life indulging in anything of the sort. They may start to have a change of heart.
“Who am I to judge? I’m just here to see you get fucked!”
Haha! Mmm…
You used the phrase “individuals with functional penises.” I’m wondering, are Forced-Bi subs always/usually males?
“For me, yes. I’ve never had a woman or person who has identified as anything other than ‘male’ come to me for this kind of play.”
Understood!
“I’m open to whoever; my doors are forever open to whoever.
“But I mostly get men. And I prefer bottoms.”
Ooh… yeah? Because you can really, um… stick it to ’em?!
Mmm… Now I’m distracted, again!
What Forced-Bi activities do you enjoy overseeing? (Is it mostly fantasy chat for you, or do you encourage real, in-the-flesh activities like anal sex, bukkake, cock sucking, creampies, cum eating, facials, frottage, kissing, rimming, etc.?)
“In person, I enjoy oral and cum eating. My stud is so sweet to force his dick down their throat just so I can watch them gag.”
Aw! Lol!
“Classic anal penetration – make sure you cleaned out!”
Haha! Right?!
“For those who are too intimidated to actually have a man involved, I love it more when it’s me and him in my zone.
“Hearing them beg and moan as I am forcing my strap in him – to my delight.”
Oh, wow!
“Even better when he’s a squealer.”
Gawd!
But… it’s both for you, then: just like… kinky chat or real, guy-on-guy nastiness?
“There are some who are too cautious to take the plunge – to do anything in person. And that’s fine, I do not mind fantasy chat.
“I am hoping to plan a gang up on somebody’s husband when this virus ends!”
Mmm…Ha!
Readers: Might want to take note of that plan!
Does Forced Bi arouse you, amuse you, or other? Or… what fascinates you most: the gay sex or your power? …Something else?
“I love the act. I love seeing a man taking dick – whether it be by me, or by my stud.
“It amuses me a good deal. There’s something about the role reversal, and me having the control, that makes me happy.”
Right on.
Any memorable sessions you’d care to share?
“I had a guy who use to see us. And he was a good time. But I had to terminate him as a sub/client because he started to play the disrespect-rules games.”
That’s a shame.
“He sure can swallow a dick. But, rules is rules! And I don’t play about them, whatsoever!”
How do you see yourself? Are you on the “light side,” playfully promoting healthy exploration; or the “dark side,” corrupting and tempting men to disaster like a mythical siren? Something in between? None of the above? Lol!
“As the devil’s advocate!”
How so?
“I want to lie, and say I am sultry and sexy. But I just cannot pump-fake it.
“Playing with me it’s going to be perverted fun. I want holes filled; I want balls dripping in drool.”
Oh, fuck! Um… that paints a mental picture!
Haha!
But… I gotcha. You mean… you want to help the debauchery along.
“You have been craving this dick for the longest! So, let’s skip the small talk and theatrics.”
And get right to the dirty business!
Mmmm… Now my mind is the gutter!
Do you have any limits? For example, how do you feel about guys having condomless sex?
“My strong limits are barebacking and anything involving minors or ‘little’ play. The rest is pretty open season, for me.”
No, I gotcha. Fair enough!
What’s your opinion of married men coming to you?
“I don’t care if you’re a priest or married. You have a devilish hunger for dick, and I am here to stuff you!”
Mmm… You’re not helping my blood find my brain!
What are your thoughts on guys using amyl-nitrate inhalers?
“As for poppers, or those who use other inhalants for influence, I have a pretty liberal approach towards them – as long as you are safe, and it’s used in moderation.
“Any signs of danger and I am quick to kill a session.”
Right on!
Oh!
Don’t forget to let readers know where they can find you online!
“I can be found on Twitter and Instagram: @DominatrixKane.
“FetLife, AVNStars, NF, SextPanther: AvaKane.
“I am in the process of opening a clip site. And on Tryst.”
That’s so awesome!
Thank you so much, Miss Ava!
(All photos of Miss Ava are Copyright 2021, Miss Ava Kane. They are reproduced by Forced-Bi.com, or its affiliates and associates, with permission.)