Forced-Bi land, it’s time to inject something into you besides meat and protein. Of course, I’m speaking about culture! Today’s guest is both sophisticated and svelte. I’m quite sure you’re Forced-Bi experiences could use a dash of class. So, pay careful attention!
Hello, and welcome!
Firstly, please let us know: What shall we call you?
“I am Mistress Euryale.”
Thanks for being with us, Mistress Euryale.
What titles are you partial to?
“I am a Dominatrix, a Mistress, a Goddess, a sadistic nurse, a fetishist and, above all, a Sexploratrix.”
Haha! “Sex-plor-a-trix!” I love it!
May I ask, how did you arrive that?
“I started my journey into BDSM when I was eighteen years old. Before that, I already knew I was ‘into it.’
“I was passionate about books, erotic / BDSM literature included, but I was too young to find any play partner.”
Understood!
“At eighteen, I have had the chance to meet amazing people in France – perverts like me – and we soon became what I would call a ‘BDSM and queer family.’ We were very close, experimenting about sexuality and kinks, friends, lovers and …in between.
“I turned into what I would call a Sexploratrix: everything related to sexuality and kink was of interest to my eyes. But I have never been a swinger.
“At this time, I was not looking for a D/s[1] relationship, but mostly for S&M[2] encounters – in private, but also by exploring parties in Europe.”
Oh, gawd!
Do you mind if I inquire where, more precisely?
“Mostly Paris, Berlin and London.”
I’ll bet that was …enlightening!
“Then I explored all kinds of plays and relationships, and finally – years later –compacted all this knowledge into my career as a Dominatrix, under the name of ‘Mistress Euryale.’”
That’s quite a voyage!
Glad to speak with you!
In terms of your fetishism, how do you see things? I mean, is this a lifestyle? Pastime? Social activism?
“For me, it is a lifestyle, as my sexuality is BDSM.
“It is also a role play when it comes to creating a realistic scene as a sadistic nurse, a merciless boss or a tyrannic teacher, for example.
“Being creative is a huge part of my work as a professional Dominatrix, and it is probably what I like the most. It is also probably the reason why I haven’t gotten tired of this job, unlike other professional activities I have done before.”
Ooh! How intriguing!
“On the other hand, I have other passions in my life, such as photography, filming, aviation, sports, traveling, etc. And, of course, BDSM has nothing to do with that.
“So, when I am flying, for example, I leave my whip on the ground.”
Ha! Well… filming and photography often does, it seems! So, thanks for clarifying!
But… flying!?! That’s awesome!
I’m curious, how do you see the people who seek you out? “Betas”? “Losers”? “Slaves”? Etc. “Subs”? What do you prefer, here?
“I am not really into the betas / losers kink. I actually like men – when they are strong enough to fully embrace their submissive nature. There are not enough of them, unfortunately.
“So, beta and losers don’t resonate for me, even if I totally understand how arousing it can be for the right person.”
Fair enough.
“I would usually call my play partners ‘submissives’ ‘masochists,’ or ‘slaves.’
“Most of my private relationships happen with men who are submissives or switches. But as a Pro Domme, I have met all types of clients: sissies, bottoms, fetishists, cucks, etc.”
I’ll bet that you have!
Did you just start doing this online, recently?
“Around one year. I have been a Pro Domme, hosting BDSM sessions in different physical locations for a while.”
Out of where do you operate, mainly?
“Hong Kong, Paris, Singapore, Australia, Switzerland, etc.
“But I started to produce online content in 2019-2020, when the coronavirus hit us, globally.”
Right on.
But… you still maintain some physical spaces?
“Yes. I opened my dungeon in 2019, in Hong Kong.
“Before that, I had been working in different ‘play spaces’ in Paris and Hong Kong, or while I was touring or traveling in other countries.
“My dungeon is now full of various heavy devices, it would be difficult for me to come back to no-dungeon sessions.”
Haha! It’s an occupational hazard, surely!
What drives you? Money? Pleasure? I’m sensing that’s it’s more than filthy lucre!
“Of course, I am driven by both! I am very grateful that I found a professional activity that is also my passion.”
A lot of people are envious, I know!
“I started early, and I never regretted this choice.”
Well… congratulations!
And you’re …full time, I’m guessing… ?
“It is now my primary occupation, but it is not a full-time one.”
Ah! Fair enough!
“I currently switch between my real-time sessions and my video production activities.
“I also have many other activities, not related to BDSM, that I have time to indulge in, because my main Dominatrix activity allows me this relaxed lifestyle.”
Wow. That is really fantastic – in the colloquial sense, of course!
How do you feel about where you’re at?
“I’m satisfied!”
Do you feel comfortable sharing anything else about yourself, on either personal or professional levels?
“I am usually involved in open-relationships, as I don’t believe in the notion of ‘sexual fidelity’ as a proof of emotional engagement with a partner.
“I believe it actually strengthens a relationship to focus on other elements that make the relationship meaningful and powerful.
“Gender doesn’t really matter to me, as my attraction in people includes the whole spectrum of genders. I like a bit of gender trouble.”
Let me ask you a bit about the Forced-Bi fetish itself, if I may.
On the face of it, the “Forced-Bi fetish” has two components: (1) “force” and (2) “bisexuality.” Let’s handle both, but in reverse order.
Do you think that true “bisexuality” – where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males is possible?
“Yes. Of course!”
I guess this wouldn’t be much without that, n’est-ce pas?!
You mentioned that BDSM, in general, is pretty much who you are. Do you feel the same way about Forced Bi, specifically?
“I would say that depending on the situation. There are different ways to look at the forced-bi fetish, different pleasures that I indulge in.
“Sometimes, it is a way to establish my power on my play partner, by making him push his own boundaries – if he is, of course, ready for this step.
“It is actually comparable to any other BDSM practices. The relationship between the Domme and the sub evolves by exploring more and more, diving deeper into the troubled waters of human psychology.”
I can appreciate that, for sure!
“It is also sometimes a desire coming from my sub, and I am happy to help him explore this part of his sexuality – digging new connections into his perverted brain.
“I also noticed that forced-bi (worshipping men) and CEI (cum-eating instructions) are two kinks that I am into, while they actually are far away from my own sexual practices.
“Is it because I don’t enjoy it myself – that is, being passive and/or submissive to men – and, as a consequence, I am fascinated by the ability of some of my male subs to enjoy it?
“It is somehow sadistic from me to force men to do something that disgusts me.”
That’s hot!
“Last, but not least, I also truly enjoy seeing my male partners play with other males. And this kink has been a part of me for a long time. I am very glad to see a male I am attracted to play with another male – and even more if I am attracted by both of them.”
Mmmm…
“This aspect is not really kinky; it is not really about power play; it is about the pleasure of my eyes.”
Spectacular optics!
There are actually a few names for this fetish. “Coerced bi,” “enforced gay,” Forced Bi,” “gay encouragement,” and on and on. What do you call it?
“It is tricky question, because everyone is so different.
“Labels create a new notion to us, but they also have their limits.
“I would say that I use ‘forced-bi’ most of the time, because that is the common term that everyone understands. And that’s what the fantasy is about: being forced, not having the choice – even if, at the end, it is a consensual-non-consent play.”
Right on…
“Actually, before I started making videos in (around) 2020, I had never heard of other terms than forced-bi, commonly used in the BDSM community. In the online fetish world, though, banking processors blocked the use of the word ‘forced.’ So, in order to buy such a video, you usually have to type ‘coerced-bi,’ for example.”
“Bi encouragement,” “make-me-gay,” etc., etc.!
Do you see all this as geared towards male submission, male and female submission, both, or neither?
“‘Forced bi’ is used for males, because men are obsessed with cocks.”
Haha!
“They usually have a love / hate relationships with them, that make them so scared – and so aroused – at the idea of swallowing cocks.
“Women don’t have this issue with their own gender. So, they don’t need to make a drama out of that.
“The women I know are very happy to play with each other.
“It is funny, though, that being easily scared is called ‘being a pussy.’ It is clearly a man’s behaviour in these circumstances. Am I being mean?”
Haha!!! You have the floor, Mistress Euryale!
What do you think is going on with “Forced Bi”? Does a guy actually “change” his sexual orientation?
“Everything can happen! That’s the beauty of our perverted minds; that’s the reason why I love BDSM plays.”
Oh, wow!
“I would say that they are several reasons why male subs would come to me for a forced-bi session.
“Some come due to a real desire to have sexual interactions with men, because they have deeply repressed bisexual / pansexual desires that they could turn into an active sexuality one day. And, eventually, they might find out they are bisexual / pansexual, or gay.”
“In this case, they need me to reveal this part of them, because they usually carry the guilt of having ‘non-straight desires.’
“Maybe they will realise at the end that they are straight. But, they needed this experience with me, in a safe environment, to know who they really are, what they really enjoy.”
“On the other hand, some men just want to get a deep feeling of humiliation by being pushed to do something they simply don’t like at all:
“Being a ‘cock-whore’ – a ‘cock-sucker’; being penetrated and used sexually by another male, etc. – is, for them, a way to experience a strong feeling of shame or humiliation. And it turns them on.”
You see a taxonomy, here?
“I can break this category into two categories:
“One is related to the fact that these subs will connect the idea of being gay (‘playing’ a gay role) – especially as a gay bottom / passive – to a lack of masculinity. To put it slightly differently, they connect being gay to the idea of not being worthy of women, but only being fit to be a passive partner for other men.
“This notion of ‘traditional’ masculinity has brainwashed a lot of men (and women) to believe that ‘real men’ only have sex with women, while gay men are ‘less than men.’ Adding a dominant woman to the scene, watching and/or directing, reinforces the notion that the female gender – that, according to this narrative, they should sexually interact with – is not an option anymore… because they are not ‘manly’ enough.
“This internalised social construct about male homosexuality is so deeply engrained in their minds, that it has become a turn-on for them to perform forced-bi – even if they don’t have any interest in men.
“The second category is not directly related to the sub’s masculinity, but it can be connected to it. In this case, the sub wants to prove to his Domme that he can perform anything for her, especially what he doesn’t like, and even jeopardise his masculinity and sexuality by having sex with other men.
“The less bearable the experience, the bigger the turn-on.
“For this type, it’s more about a Domme-sub dynamic that is reinforced by highlighting the sub’s ability to perform ‘anything’ for her, than about an internalised social construct that lead to a ‘performance’ involving a female dominant.”
I totally follow you, yes! Fascinating!
Is it possible for a guy to be a “switch” or “versatile”?
“Of course, I believe there is a spectrum of sexuality: tops, bottoms, dominants, submissives, switches – at different levels.”
And you enjoy the visuals, any which way?
“As I said before, I sometimes enjoy watching men playing together, especially when I am attracted to one – and preferably both – of them.
“We call that candaulisme in French: the kink of watching his / her partner having sex with someone else. It is different from cuckolding, in the sense that it is not based on the feeling of jealousy / belittling.”
Well… I just learned something new!
It doesn’t “taint” a guy?
“I really don’t care about what a man has done before me, or what is his sexual orientation in general.
“If he had the courage to explore his own sexuality, experiencing different new situations, and being fully aware of what he truly likes because he tried it, that’s a nice mindset. I wish more men would do that.”
Right on!
Is the Forced-Bi fetish “healthy” or “unhealthy”? – psychologically speaking, I mean.
“Of course, it is healthy.
“I started exploring my sexuality very early, and I am glad I did. Then I could not say otherwise.
“A complete answer would be: it is healthy if done consciously, like anything else.
“Doing something without reflecting on the ‘why,’ can become unhealthy, with time. It doesn’t only apply to forced bi, but to everything in our lives.”
Shades of the Socratic aphorism, “The unexamined life is not worth living.”
Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?
“I wish I could say it is spiritual. But, most men just want to explore their cock-whore identities in a very… practical manner.”
Interesting!
“Nothing stops them from making cock-whoring spiritual, of course.”
It’s possible – just not usual? I follow you.
Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called “binary language” – e.g., thinking in terms of “feminine” versus “masculine,” etc. – when it comes to John Money’s concept of “gender” and sexuality. But Forced Bi, arguably, has a kind of “bi-narism” built into its name.
Do you see this as a problem for the “Forced-Bi” fetish?
“That’s an interesting question. And the answer is, somehow, in the origin of the fantasy itself.
“If men would not have an issue with their sexuality – mostly because of the fear and shame to be bisexual / pansexual or gay – then forced bi would not be such a big kink.
“When we will drop the idea of binarism in sexuality, forced bi would probably disappear, or take another form.
“It is quite common in BDSM. We play with stereotypes, archetypes, and tropes all the time.
“Because our sexuality is inherently political – not because we want it, but because we can’t help it. We all grow up in societies where, very early, we experience – or are afraid of the experience of – shame, fear and humiliation for being who we are. That includes sexual orientation, race, gender identity, etc.
“Many of our fetishes and kinks derive from painful experiences of life in society. Not all of them, of course.
“Forced bi can be related to the shame of being gay. It might also be the case when we practice ‘race play,’ related to racism; ‘rape play,’ related to sexual violence; etc.”
Yes, I can see where you’re going with that.
“However, it doesn’t mean that all BDSM practices are related to a trauma. It means that it is a possibility in some cases.
“Of course, there are multiple ways to deal with these experiences, and walking away without confronting them is another option. I have discussed this matter with several of my submissives, and one of them told me with a smile that he is grateful that he got a traumatic experience when he was a teenager. Why? Because now, he gets insanely turned on when he chooses to confront a similar situation during our sessions!”
Either way, it’s heavy stuff.
Let me lighten the mood, a bit, and ask…
What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?
“Cock sucking and oral sex, as well as anal sex.”
And… which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role you want?
“It depends on my sub and / or partner. Usually, I like my subs to have a dedicated cum-slut role.”
Haha! Mmm…
And, not to put too fine a point on it, but… Are you aroused by Forced Bi, or just amused by it?
“As I said, it depends on who’s involved. I can be mainly aroused; I can also be both aroused and amused. Etc.”
How “habit-forming” is all this? Can a guy “just try” sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?
“I think so, sure.”
Maybe he finds out something about himself and it inclines him one way or the other?
What are you most interested in doing? I mean, is this mostly kinky messaging? So-called “sexting”? Or… via webcam? Or… in the flesh?
“I am not so much into fantasy chat. I usually prefer to make things real.”
Fair enough, and… super kinky!!
In that sort of case, what do you “do”? What’s your role? You’re not simply a passive observer, I expect.
“I sometimes direct and watch in real-life situations.”
Aha!
How do you feel about guys having gay sex without condoms – that is, so-called “barebacking”?
“It depends on my involvement in the scene. As a Mistress, I require my sub to wear condoms, because it is the safe way to go for him. I can accept a discussion about it, if my sub made an informed decision, invoking his responsibility and personal choice.
“For example, recently, a sub of mine changed his mind about sucking cocks with condoms; he is now comfortable without them.
“On my side, involving a ‘risk’ in the game is not part of my excitement.”
Ah! Good to know!
Any feelings about married men? – in this scene, of course.
“I don’t care either way; I don’t even ask.”
Right on.
Before you go: How can fans and other interested persons check out your work?
“Main website: mseuryale.com.
“Daily posts: https://www.loyalfans.com/ms_euryale and https://onlyfans.com/ms_euryale.
“Clips: https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/152249/mistress-euryale,
“https://iwantclips.com/store/556655/Mistress-Euryale, and
“https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/1003042609/Mistress-Euryale/.”
That’s great! Thank you so much, Mistress Euryale!
This has been a really enlightening deep dive into the fetish, itself. Thanks for sharing your insights with us!
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Notes:
[1] “D/s” = “Dominant / submissive”
[2] “S&M” = “sadomasochistic”