Hi! Thanks for stopping by!
Please let everyone know: what’s your name? What do you go by?
“Amy Vodkahaus, a fetish artist…
“The miracle worker. Turning straight men into proper ladies and cock-sucking sissy cum-dumps.”
Mmmm! Coming out, um… swinging!
“Making dreams come true, changing lives – one panty at a time.”
Haha! That’s awesome!
Any particular titles that you’re partial to, as you preside over these transformations?
“‘TS Mistress,’ ‘Trans Domme.’”
Fair enough!
Any special reasons…?
“I don’t need to explain why; my work speaks for itself.”
Right on!
How do you see your relationship with that work? I mean… is your fetish involvement a lifestyle? Just a profession? Something in between? Hobby?
“I live it and I love it.”
Very cool!
“It’s one of those things. Once you get into something, no matter how unfamiliar or unusual it may be, if you’re really into it, then it becomes who you are, and it becomes your life.
“You become really good at it and everything falls in place for you – the people, opportunities, and the lifestyle itself.”
Awesome! Well, I congratulate you!
May I ask: How do you see the people who seek you out?
“The people who seek pro-domme services are usually men who want to give up the power, be submissive, and serve.
“More specifically, the men who contact me are the ones who have been secretly crossdressing – dying to get out in public, to try the real thing, and to be a sissy slut… even just for a night.”
Haha! “Just for a night”?
“Trust me, it’s never a one-time thing. Their lives are changed for good 😉”
No kidding?
Some Dommes and Mistresses tell me that it’s not habit-forming to that degree. They seem suggest that a guy could “just try” getting assfucked and then quit.
“Bullshit. I’ve yet to meet a single guy who does not go back for more. And more. And more!”
Oh, gawd! I shouldn’t find that hot, should I? Lol!!
All right. So, these guys that you introduce to this: what do you call them?
“They are my sissy sluts. https://youtu.be/8NlzrZ6-wXo.”
Mmm… okay, then!
I have to know: how did you get involved in the world of fetishes?
“I’d done drag in my early 20s, and tended bar crossdressed.”
Ooh. Really?
“I quickly learned that I can get away with so much dolled up; men let me do whatever I want!”
Haha! Sounds about right.
“I remember one time leaving a gig, and some dude sucked my cock in the parking lot.
“I had to pee – like… really bad. He said, ‘Just let it go, baby!’ Gladly!”
Omg!!!
“That’s when I figured out, ‘Shit! I should charge for this!’ Ha!”
No doubt!
“Okay, now let’s get serious.
“Crossdressers used to come up to me with compliments and ask me to do their makeup.
“Male-to-female makeovers have been my gig for over ten years now.”
Interesting! And things progressed from there?
“Eventually, a woman hired me to dress up her husband. It turned out that she has been a pro Domme for over twenty years.
“That’s when Madame Ingrid and I became best friends, instantly!
“She taught me so much! I had no idea that I was doing fetish work all along.”
Fascinating!
“Until then, I was not calling it what it was – or charging what it was worth!
“She saw the potential in me and taught me everything, from where to advertise, how to screen clients, standard protocol, rope bondage, and so much more.
“I feel like I learn something from her every time I see her.
“I really enjoy double-Domme sessions with her, nowadays!”
That’s really cool!
How long have you been doing this online?
“Online was never my thing – until the ‘China plague’ happened.
“Until then, it was all real-life sessions, with me.”
It’s not an uncommon report.
“It’s a performance art, really. I dabbled in NiteFlirt, and next thing you know …that took off, too. https://www.niteflirt.com/Mistress%20Vodkahaus
How are you finding online work?
“I love it!”
Right on!
“Turns out, it’s no different.
“I still get to know people better than anyone knows them. And I meet some wonderful regulars.”
Does that mean you’re exclusively online, now? Or… do you maintain an in-person space – a “dungeon,” or whatever?
“Fuck yeah, I have a dungeon!”
Haha! As if I didn’t hope!!
“I built it myself. I make my own implements, too.
“It’s so me – the color, the setup. It’s fully equipped for crossdressing makeovers, rope bondage, and impact play.”
That is you, for sure!!
What’s your aim? Money? Pleasure?
“It’s both!”
It’s a nice combination, n’est-ce pas?
“You’ll see girls come and go all the time.
“You do not go down the path of fetish work just to make a quick buck and expect any longevity out of it. When you’re truly passionate about what you do, and it’s the kind of service that adds value to people’s lives, then they keep coming back. They tell their friends. They share photos and videos. Give you credit. Their friends and followers come to see you too. And it repeats.”
I can appreciate it.
“I love what I do, and I could not possibly do anything else this good.
“It’s who I am; it’s what brings me joy. It’s the reason I go to bed feeling grateful every night. And it’s the reason I wake up grateful every day.”
Again, I felicitate you! You’re in an envious position, no question about it!
How much of your life and time does fetish work take up?
“What I do is who I am, so it’s a natural occurrence for me.”
And… you’re happy with where things are at for you?
“It brings me joy, it’s very satisfying.
“Whenever I do a public scene, people make comments about how they can tell how much I am enjoying myself.”
That’s really great.
“However, I do feel drained after long sessions and need aftercare for myself.”
I can understand that.
“People open up to me, and actively listening for an extended period of time can be exhausting.”
Maybe it reminds you of your days as a bartender!
“It’s not a bad thing at all. But it’s important to reward yourself afterwards.
“Bondage and fetish play are manual skills, and anyone can learn them. But being present and empathizing with the bottom is taxing on you too.
“We share these precious moments, and we are equally involved. After the sessions conclude, bottoms feel relief. And I feel high.
“It’s important to balance things out.”
You seem pretty much like an open book. So, I’m not sure if I even need to ask this. But, usually, I give guests a chance to talk about themselves, personally: ages, orientation, relationship status, etc. – whatever they feel comfortable sharing.
“Not Applicable.”
Haha! I kind of thought as much.
“Even though I am very much a real person, the rules and anxieties of ‘regular’ life do not apply to me.
“Age? Who the fuck cares?
“I get work done all the time, and I’ll probably look the same for another two decades.
“I am not in a relationship. Happily single and independent has always been my thing.
“I give relationships a try every now and then, but I am happiest doing my own thing.
“I love people. I feel loved. There is nothing missing.”
Respect.
Do you think that true “bisexuality” – where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males – is possible?
“Meh. There is that theory that no one is a gold-star gay or totally straight – top or bottom. It’s a spectrum.
“Does it really matter? One finds happiness when they stop caring what anyone thinks. Fag shaming and bottom shaming has been a thing for so long.
“Once you let yourself enjoy what feels good, there is no going back.”
You mentioned that your fetish work is pretty much who you are. Does that apply to this particular fetish, as well? I mean… it sounds like you try to embody the devil-may-care approach that you just summarized. Is that a fair assessment?
“People who see me do exactly that.
“They escape reality and accept who they are – their purpose and their pleasures.”
Given that, does the term “Forced Bi” capture the essence of what you see yourself doing?
“Call it whatever you want: forced bi, feminization, sissification, emasculation.
“It’s fun; it’s consensual; and it’s who you are.”
Right on.
Do you think that a guy “changes” his sexual orientation through all this? Or… what’s actually “going on”?
“People come to me because this is something they dreamed of all along. Many have seen pro Dommes before.
“I was told by one dominatrix, ‘They all come for strap-on play because they’re suppressing being gay.’ Maybe. You cannot generalize.
“The truth is, once you’ve shot a load with a cock in your ass, you become dickmatized!”
Haha! “Dick-ma-tized”? That’s word of the day!
“Sissies book me because I understand them. They need someone accepting, a safe place, and encouragement.
“The same goes for guys who do not crossdress.
“I think the ones that say, ‘It’s not gay if I’m dressed,’ are either in denial, or just delusional.
“It’s sex, it’s good times. Why this urge to justify, explain, and be defensive?
“Enjoy it! That’s all.”
How “involved” do you get?
“I do not personally offer full-service. But, I am a regular at my friend’s sex club, and take many clients there. https://bodyshopclubs.com/
“Some get busy working the glory hole, while others actually hook up in private rooms, or in public.
“Do I think they are ‘converted’? No!
“They did not embark on something new, or suddenly realize this is what they are.
“This is who they were. It’s just that it took a right person to open that world to them, and show them it’s okay, that they aren’t weird or sick, and that there is nothing to be nervous about.”
Is it possible for a guy to be a “switch,” or “versatile”? – I mean… assuming either the bottom or top roles?
“Terms like ‘Dom,’ ‘sub,’ ‘top,’ ‘bottom,’ ‘vers-,’ and ‘switch’ get misused a lot!
“Let’s separate those in two main categories.
“There’s gay sex. Here, the roles are top, bottom, and versatile.”
“Then, there’s BDSM. Now we’re talking about ‘Dom,’ ‘sub,’ or ‘switch.’”
Right on.
“You’re not a Dom only because you fuck rough.”
Haha!
“That’s pretty vanilla.
“Most people switch roles in sex, and I don’t see why they would not. Everyone should experience the pleasures of both.
“In BDSM play, in the other hand, you will run into narrower preferences.
“I know a few who do switch, but I also know many who are strictly subs. I don’t know that many of us who are true, stone-cold Doms!”
That’s interesting!
“It’s a great thing: job security! Haha!”
Lol!
Why do you think that is?
“Is it laziness?
“People are too lazy to learn the skills of bondage and safety, and they decide just to enjoy the service?
“Maybe.
“In reality, the dominant is the one serving the bottom.
“Wrap your head around that.”
Believe it or not, I have had that discussion with a few others.
The idea that once struck me was that the Dom is often – though maybe not always – tailoring sessions according to the sub’s preferences. And again, with a “safe word,” sub’s often have the power to stop a scene. Etc., etc.
“As terrifying and unprofessional it may sound, I don’t ever give a safe word. Then you would have this thing in mind that you can stop the session at any moment and you would never really let go.
“We agree on how far you can go, it’s usually no marks. I can tell how much you can take.
“It’s my space and I do whatever I want. I don’t even allow the sub to leave the dungeon to use the bathroom. They’ll pee in a bottle – and probably drink it too.”
What’s your main focus, then?
“Yes, we get joy from immobilizing you, inflicting pain, humiliating you, and other types of play.
“But it’s a lot of responsibility. Your trust and honesty involved in the play is what brings me joy.
“Also, everyone needs to understand that Dominant bottoms and submissive tops are real things, too!”
I imagine you’re correct, there!
“This is speaking in a non-work setting.
“Think of a female Dominant. She is Dominant, yet gets fucked in her pussy.
“That does not make her submissive.
“She is allowing you to enter her, and she uses you for her pleasure.
“Submissive top guys are the ones who let Dominant bottoms use their bodies, and their cocks.
“They aren’t pushy; they understand that it’s their duty to worship and please the Dominant bottom.
What do you think about the optics?
“I love watching all sex! I love watching people enjoy themselves. It’s wild.
“When I sit in the group room to watch people fucking, it puts me in trance.
“It’s magical – especially the times that I was the one orchestrating the orgies.
“I feel like a sex goddess.”
Haha! The power is a head trip!
Is the Forced-Bi fetish “healthy” or “unhealthy”? – psychologically, I mean.
“I think that living out your forced-bi fantasy is very healthy for you – and a necessity.”
Oh? Why a “necessity”?
“You are a much happier person when your needs are met.”
I gotcha.
“If you prefer to be a dick-pig-cumdump, occasional, Doublelist-posting, door-open, light-out, ass-up, all-loads-welcome type of slut, then you should be one!”
Haha! Mmmmmm…
“Look into Descovy or Truvada. Look up ‘preexposure prophylaxis.’
“I have personally taken – and referred – many people to the clinic that I go to.”
Oh? No kidding?
Do you think of any of this in religious or spiritual terms?
“Jesus can suck my cock.”
Oh, my!
“Religion sucks the fun out of everything. Be your own person and make your own rules and choices.”
I gotcha.
“My typical client is a conservative Christian. Well… until the wig and heels go on, then it’s night-out-on-the-town, swim-in-dick time.”
Lol! Holy fuck!!!
I suppose that some respondents think of this in “alchemical” or spiritual ways that are not necessarily conventionally “religious.”
“I would agree that acting out one’s fetish scenes, and connecting with people that way, is spiritually fulfilling.”
What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching? Anal? Oral? You mentioned cumdumpery! Lol!
“All of it!”
Mmmm!!!
“I like my gurls to embrace their inner sluts. Usually, we go out with my slutty CD friends. So, it quickly turns into a slut off.”
Mmmmm… I’m feeling a bit warm and lightheaded!
Do you think that Forced Bi is getting more popular?
“The forced-bi fetish has always been around. It’s not new.
“I see more married couples open to it!”
Oh, really?
“Many times, I’ve hooked up with male-female couples the swingers club where the night started off like, ‘You’re gorgeous; we’ve never done this before, but…’.
“Next thing you know, the husband is choking on my cock and letting me do whatever I want in front of her.”
Mmmm… Damn!
“I usually take a trans friend with me who’s into women, and she plays with the wife. It’s a win for everyone.”
Mmm! So hot!!
“New generations are more open to being polyamorous and sexually fluid.”
Is any of these being advanced or “promoted” by the so-called mainstream media?
“Of course, the media and pop culture has been slowly normalizing it for us.”
Probably true!
Which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role you want?
“I like my men, used, abused, bruised, and confused. Ha!”
Oh, gawd!! That should sound hot either, should it? Lol!!
“I love men who let themself fall deep into subspace and enjoy the pleasure.”
Mmm… alright, then!!
Are you aroused by Forced Bi? Amused? …other??
“I am both amused and aroused by the theatrics of the situation!
“I’ve had football players; oil-industry workers; all your typical, lawyers, business owners; regular, average Joes; you name it!
“It’s always the same. They all just want to become panty wearing, cock sucking, sissy sluts!”
Mmmm…
“They all want anal play; they all want to be called ‘faggot,’ ‘cunt,’ ‘bitch.’
“I love it!”
I need a cold shower!!!
What’s of greatest interest to you? Are we talking fantasy chats, or… in-person stuff?
“Real-life sessions are my thing.
“Even in my online work, I have guys send me photos and videos of them shoving things in their butt. And I work on getting them to see me in person.”
That’s the best!
And… you’re no “full service,” but you, what’s the word? Facilitate?
“I do everything – like crossdressing makeovers – to get my gurls ready for their dates.
“Sometimes, they just come by to have photos to put up on FetLife or wherever.
“Other times, I get them ready for their cheap-motel-whore-fantasy hookups.
“Just look at Stevie_Slut. I am so proud of her! She is my favorite client, and a friend, at this point. https://fetlife.com/users/8032104
“I’ve also taken guys to bathhouses. And I’ve been with them every step of the way to make sure they get dicked-down like proper fuck sluts.”
Mmmm…!!! (To self: Deep breaths! Deep breaths!!)
What’s your biggest, well… turn on?
“I keep going back and forth wondering how to answer these questions, because I am a professional Dominant and I do not sell sex.”
I gotcha!
“Nothing wrong with it; more power to you if you do. Many of my friends do.
“I just do not want guys coming into sessions with me thinking it’s implied and they’ll get dick from me.”
Understood.
“At the same time, I do want to share about my personal interests, off the clock.”
Ah, yes!!
“I’ve been fucking married – and single – straight dudes for over fifteen years now. It’s my thing.
“They let me do whatever I want.”
Mmmm!!! So hot!!
“You would expect me to date and fuck gay guys?”
No?
“I am not attracted to them, and they are not attracted to me, either. They like masculine features – which is not how I present.
“Straight men see me as their ultimate fantasy: a tall, dominant, dick-having woman.”
Haha!! Yes!
“I enjoy emasculating them – breaking all the rules they were taught. And turning them into my bitches.
“Also, I love tease and denial.
“Just picture a guy in bondage, with a raging hard, on begging to suck my cock, while I jerk off – and laugh – because he is a pathetic cocksucker who can only dream about it.
“Keep crying and begging! Look all you want, but you will not taste or touch. Denied! 😊”
Haha!! Oh, gawd!
What about limits? I mean… do you have any? Lol!
“I hate the look of sounding, and I do not offer that service.
“Also, racial play.
“I am from Europe; so, I am not as affected by it as people born in U.S. But I think it’s just distasteful, and I’ve turned down those inquiries.
“No blood. No scat play!
“Shit happens. But… guys really need to learn how to clean their asses out properly!”
Lol! Many other professionals would doubtless agree with you!
“I took this crossdresser out to a sex club. And, as the night went on – and after she sucked a couple dicks – she was ready to get fucked.
“I asked if she cleaned out, and she said, ‘Yeah, I showered.’
“Bitch, ‘No!’ Incorrect!”
What about STD / STI risk? Any opinions, there?
“Do not expect anyone to tell you the truth.
“It’s up to you to protect yourself!”
Fair enough.
And you already mentioned your affinity for married men, so…
“I love them! I been fucking them most of my adult life. Ha!
“Nowadays, I get paid to feminize them and transform them into whores.”
Mmmm!!
And… any feelings on amyl-nitrate inhalers? “Poppers”?
“I tell all my girls: ‘Two hits and it fits!’”
Oh?! Bwahaha!
Before you go, please let everyone know where they can find you online!
“Talk, text & purchase content: https://www.niteflirt.com/Mistress%20Vodkahaus
“Pro-Domme work: https://www.amyvodkahaus.com/
“Crossdressing Makeovers: https://www.m2fantasy.com/
“Instagram: @amyvodkahaus
“Twitter: @amyvodkahaus
“Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/m2fantasy/
“Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/m2fantasy
“Tumblr: https://m2fantasy.tumblr.com/
“Amazon Wish List: http://a.co/f6jTdMs.”
Well!!! Mistress Amy Vodkahuas, the pleasure has been mine! Thanks so much for being with us and for lending us your views!!
All kinky wishes for 2021!
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That was so informative and in- depth I felt as if I was at that interview. My clit started getting hard and I actually was very turned on.
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