On the fence about Forced Bi? Well… this sensual Dominatrix may be just the one to push you over the edge.
Welcome to Forced-Bi.com! Thanks for taking the time.
First of all, please let everyone know: How do you prefer to be addressed?
“I am Mistress Lienne Dagger. ‘Goddess.’ ‘Muse.’ ‘Manipulatrix.’ ‘Alpha Bitch.’
“I use she/they pronouns.”
Right on, Mistress Lienne! Thanks for that!
Love the word “Manipulatrix,” by the way!
So… basic question: How did you get into fetishes in general?
“BDSM has long been a genuine passion and a lifestyle for me.
“Power is my greatest love. Then my love for pleasure/pain – they are two sides of the same coin – and all things gender bending mindfuckery.”
Pain and pleasure often do seem to go together. Plato somewhere suggested that appetitive pleasures are bound up with pain partly because they remind us of our deficiencies.
How did your appreciation for fetishism lead to Forced Bi?
“I am a very open bisexual. I notice that a lot of guys admit to me they secretly want to suck cocks, but are they shy or still reluctant because of their internalized homophobia or biphobia.
“So, it quickly made me realize I love using my power of seduction to ‘coerce’ them to do gay stuff for me.
“Now I love doing it so much I made a career out of it.”
Haha! Indeed; I see that you have!
For legal reasons, we’re always talking about safe, sane, and consensual play. Given that, in your opinion, what does “coerce” or “force” actually mean?
“For vanilla people, they might think ‘force’ implies a lack of consent, or some kind of resistance to the act. Even though it’s 2021, male-on-male sex is still stigmatized and people still consider it somewhat taboo. And because humans are weird, we sexualize anything we are told not to do.”
Haha! That may be true!
“I think the thrill of doing something forbidden, secretive, and humiliating is the drive for a lot of them.
“In reality, and whether they realize it or not, men who seek this out have been mulling over their obsession with cocks and bisexuality for quite a while, before they buy clips or reach out to someone like me.
“These men usually still have cognitive dissonance about their sexuality and submissiveness, so they fetishize being ‘forced’ into doing something that they (not so) secretly like.
“They like being seduced and persuaded into doing something they wouldn’t normally do without the presence of the ‘Hot Mean Girl.’
“On my end, I see ‘force’ like a push over the edge – a nudge in the direction you’re already geared towards. You just need the right motivation.
“I also have a degree in Women’s and Gender Studies, and I love to make space for people to explore their sexuality with safe practices in both my professional and personal life.
“I like making men confront their repressed desires so much I made it my career.”
So, do men always seek you out for this? Or do you use other types of sessions – say… “pegging,” or strapon play – to lead a guy into Forced Bi?
“Depends, really. Kinks and fetishism are never really clear-cut. Often, multiple kinks blend together.
“People like pegging and Forced Bi for different reasons, but they do overlap a lot. If you already like a plastic dick in your ass, then why not a real one? You know. It’s a slippery slope.”
It certainly can be! For guys who slide down the slippery slope, as it were… what actually happens to them?
For example, does Forced Bi change a sub’s sexual orientation?
“Everyone’s gender and sexuality exist on a spectrum. Also, it’s not static – meaning you can change it over time, as you gain more insight about yourself and your desires.
“One forced-bi session, or buying one forced-bi clip, doesn’t necessarily mean your ‘bi,’ per se.
“But, if you find yourself thinking about it, if you keep coming back to it, then it might be wise to tease out those desires and re-evaluate your sexual orientation.
“As I mentioned, what I do is allow them a safe space and guide them through it.
“Think of your sexuality like a bunch of dials and buttons, you come to me, give me the control, I turn up the ‘dick-sucking’ dial and it’s your choice to keep it there or not.”
That paints quite a mental picture!
Are Forced-Bi subs always – or at least, usually – males?
“Almost always, yes. Haha.
“Cis-men have a lot more cognitive dissonance and resistance around their sexuality, so they seek out this fetish more often.
“I blame toxic masculinity for this. At least they are paying me to undo this.”
Haha! Right?!
“Women and non-binary people have a much more instinctive understanding of fluid sexuality. So, we don’t need to be ‘forced.’
“That being said, though, I would still shove my pussy on a straight girl’s face if I know she wants it. Haha!”
Oh, gawd! I’m getting distracted!
Here’s a reader-favorite query: What Forced-Bi activities do you enjoy overseeing? And… Is it mostly fantasy chat for you, or do you encourage real, in-the-flesh activities?
“It depends on whom I’m playing with, and what mood I’m in.”
Fair enough.
“BDSM is best experienced in the flesh. Fantasy is hot but making it a reality is even hotter.”
Mmm!
“I love mixing forced bi and cuckold in MMF threesomes, where I make the cuck suck the bull’s cock, get fucked, eat cum, and all that nasty stuff.”
Oh, wow!
“If it is your fantasy too and you want to indulge, I made a series of clips called ‘Mean Girlfriend Experience’ on Forced Bi, Cuckold and Chastity. They can be found on my Iwantclips store. https://iwantclips.com/store/849838/MistressLienne.”
Does Forced Bi arouse you, amuse you, or …something else?
“The power trip about it is definitely my biggest turn on.”
Right on.
“And I just love gay stuff, in general.
“Doing this kind of work genuinely brings me so much joy and pleasure words can’t hardly describe. You just have to feel it!”
Ooh! That’s hot!
How do you see yourself? Are you on the “light side,” playfully promoting healthy exploration; or the “dark side,” corrupting and tempting men to disaster like a mythical siren? Something in between? …Something completely different? Lol!
“I think a great Dominatrix knows how to balance both her light and dark energy and can evoke that out of a person.
“This work deals with people’s shadow self, the darkest most fucked-up part of yourself. But, facing that shadow self can help you see the light better.
“I’m a multifaceted woman, with power and talents to break you and mold you. I can build you back up to however I see fit. I can show you the darkest part of yourself and, if you enjoy the shadow, you might stay for a while 😉”
Haha! I suspect many people will certainly be staying a long time!
All right, let me ask briefly about limits? I guess, well… do you have any? Lol.
“My limits are race play, infantilism, scat.”
Gotcha.
“Without my presence, I really don’t care what men do in their own time. And I also don’t care if they’re married or not, as long as they pay to play.”
Of course!
“When men come to me, I practice RACK[1] and PRICK[2] and that looks different for each dynamic.”
Different, um… strokes for different folks.
Awesome!
Thank you, Mistress Lienne!
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Notes:
[1] “RACK” moves beyond the earlier-mentioned concept of “sane, sane, consensual” and develops the composite idea of “risk-aware, consensual kink.”
[2] “PRICK,” here, refers to yet a further notion of “personal responsibility along with informed, consensual kink.”