Hello!
First of all, what is your name? What do you go by?
“I go by Delphine. 😊”
Right on!
Now, title-wise, there are a number floating around. What do you like or insist upon?
“I prefer ‘Goddess.’”
Any special reason? Or… you just like the sound of it?
“It feels more authentic for me, personally.”
Fair enough!
Now, in terms of the fetish world – as it were – what do you see yourself as doing? I mean, is this a lifestyle? Pastime? Is it social activism? Something else?
“I am both very kinky and very vanilla in my personal and professional lives. I enjoy an old-fashioned romp in the hay as much as I enjoy my kinky playtime.
“When I play in my professional or personal life – but, especially, in my professional life – it is very important to me that my playmates understand the difference between fantasy and reality.
“Some of the play can be truly authentic, but I need them to know – and accept – the boundaries of the situation.”
It can be easy to blur or confuse the two.
Let me come at things from the opposite angle. There are a number of words that sometimes describe the people who seek out the services of someone like you. What word do you prefer for these kinds of people?
“For each submissive, a different word is going to be what truly puts them in their place and makes them feel that they are where they belong.
“I explore this with my subs and settle on the one that works best for each person.
“I am, however, partial to making them my ‘bitch.’”
Haha! Very good!
So… what got you into all this?
“I have always been a kinkster. And I love the cuckolding fetish, which logically leads to coerced-bi for men, in many cases.”
I don’t think I’ve ever articulated that. But, I can see immediately what you mean!
“I started out as a rope-bondage afficionado, and sank down the rabbit hole from there.”
Haha! It is a bit of a rabbit hole, isn’t it?!
Or, maybe… if a person likes industrial music… a “Nine Inch Nails”-esque Downward Spiral!
How long have you been doing this online?
“I started doing online work at the beginning of the pandemic.”
I keep hearing that.
“But I have been in the adult industry in different ways for the past ten years.”
Awesome.
So… do you still maintain a “dungeon,” studio, or other space for face-to-face, in-person, or real-time meets?
“Yes, mainly in the San Francisco Bay Area.
“Please visit my website yourmusedelphine.com, if interested.”
Right on.
What would you say drives you? Are you aiming to make money, or derive pleasure – or both?
“This is a job that happens to bring me pleasure.
“We all have to work at something!”
Very true!
How much of your energy and time does this take up?
“I do different forms of sex work full time.
“However, kink play is just a portion of my overall business.”
You’re “diversified,” so to say… that makes sense.
Would you say that you’re satisfied with your current level of involvement?
“Yes! I love my more vanilla clients and content as much as my kinksters. Each venue brings me joy in a different way.”
Awesome! Congratulations!
Do you feel comfortable sharing anything else about yourself, on either personal or professional levels?
“I’m in my early 30s. 😊”
Enjoy them!
Now… let me segue into thee Forced-Bi fetish itself.
So, there’s two basic and obvious parts, here: something about “force” and something about “bisexuality.”
Let’s handle both, but in reverse order.
Do you think that true “bisexuality” – where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males is possible?
“Yes.”
Fair enough!
Now, for fetishes, in general, you stressed the importance of distinguishing fantasy and reality. Does that hold true for Forced Bi, in particular? Or, what’s this fetish about?
“Honestly the forced-bi fetish seems to be a way for guys to act out their bisexual fantasies in a venue where it is ‘OK’ for them to do it because I am ‘making them.’
“Many times, I feel like I am just the conduit to allow them to explore.
“And even if they are humiliated by it, I know they love it, because they keep coming back for more.”
I’ll circle back to some of those themes, momentarily.
But… let me back up for just a second and ask: what do you call the fetish? It seems to fly by a lot of names!
“I definitely prefer the terms ‘coerced’ or ‘enforced.’
“All my subs have the option to opt out of something they truly do not want to do.
“However, I’m definitely open to the fantasy that they are being ‘forced.’”
Right on. I’ll ask more about that in a minute, too.
Do you see coerced bi primarily in terms of male submission? Or do you cast a wider net?
“For me, it’s mostly about male submission.”
Okay, as you’ve identified, being “forced” has to be seen through some sort of fantasy lens, for legal reasons if nothing else. So, whatever it does mean, being “coerced” or “forced” has to signify something less than literally compelled by threat.
But, what does it mean? You mention coercion. Any other elements in the vicinity, here?
“In play, it usually comes off as coercion, instruction, or commanding. But, the way I think of it philosophically is permission.”
Aha! I love the distinction that you just made! There’s the make-believe or practical element, but there’s also the philosophical or theoretical layer, as well.
Just to expand on that for a second…
If you see it as permission, then can I assume that you don’t hold that coerced bi “changes” a guy’s sexual orientation?
“Most of the people who want to be ‘forced’ to be bisexual already are.”
Now, do you think it’s possible for a guy to be a “switch” or “versatile”?
“Yes.”
Do you think participation in coerced bi – or in bisexual situations, more broadly construed – affects a guy’s attractiveness or desirability? Or is it absurd?
“This question is absurd – but, not for the reason you mention.
“Bisexual guys are just guys who are bisexual. Why would they be any less attractive?
“I know the fantasy may be that they are ‘losers’ or ‘betas,’ and that is fine for playtime. But, in real life, it’s completely fine for a guy to be bisexual.”
I understand.
I take it, then, that you would view the coerced-bi fetish as fundamentally harmless or even “healthy,” then? …psychologically speaking, I mean.
“It’s healthy.”
Right on. Because…?
“It is just a kink.”
Fair enough.
Okay! Let me pitch you a crowd-favorite question!
What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?
“I love a sub who can take a cock deep down their throat, who can get face fucked, and take a hot load – from whomever I choose – on their face.”
Mmmm… Now you’re making me feel warm! Haha!
And which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role you want?
“In a professional setting, I prefer them to have fixed roles.”
That way, everyone knows what they’re doing, I guess!
Are you aroused by Forced Bi, or just amused by it?
“I love cuckolding, and it is a genuine personal interest of mine. So, it definitely arouses me!”
Awesome! That’s hot!!
Do you think that a guy can “just try” sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?
“Sure. But if he wants to get on my good side, he’ll be back pretty soon to try it again! 😜”
Bwahaha!!! Mmm…
I think I forgot the next question…
Lol!
Oh… here we are: What are you interested in doing? Issuing text-message instructions? Watching via webcam? Directing in-person encounters?
“I mean, it really depends on the person.
“I think people should have encounters if they are able to / comfortable.
“However, for some people, fantasy might be better than reality.”
I can see what you’re saying.
How “involved” do you like to be?
“In a session, I direct, watch, and even participate! 😜”
Oh, gawd!! Brain. Turning. To mush. Haha!!
“Online, I love seeing photographic evidence – if both parties consent.”
Of course.
Biggest focus / turn on? Your influence?
“Yes; it makes me feel powerful.”
Any sexual acts that really charge your batteries?
“I love it all!”
Mmmm… Kinky!
Let’s talk limits for a sec…
Most basically… do you have any? Lol.
“Yes, of course. Many.”
For real.
May I ask?
Condom-less sex, for instance – that is, “barebacking” – yay or nay?
“I only play in person with people who use safe-sex practices.
“However, I’m not opposed to talking about barebacking as a fantasy online.”
Right on.
So… STD-risk fantasies: on or off the table? Do you keep it clean, as it were, or can the conversation also turn toward, well… getting dirty, I guess?
“First of all, the terminology ‘clean’ is a bit inappropriate.
“People who get STDs are not ‘dirty.’ It is something that can happen to anyone who has sex.
“I would definitely encourage you to change that wording!
“Here is an article about that topic: https://www.bustle.com/p/why-saying-someone-has-a-clean-bill-of-health-is-so-dangerous-10047944.”
Thanks for that! We’ll check out the link.
There’s a moral flavor to the clean-dirty dichotomy, for sure. Now that you mention it, a number of words have been brought to our attention lately for having possibly untoward connotations.
“Fetish,” itself, has a lot of religious baggage built into it – just for one example. It started off referring to objects that had alleged magical qualities, or that were used in conjunction with worship ceremonies.
Even the commonplace word “kink” has, historically, often been defined in terms of a contrast between “normal” and “abnormal.” The latter sometimes understood to be synonymous with “perversion.”
And on and on! So, I will have to add to my list, it seems.
“Second, as I said, I only play in person with people who use safer sex practices.
“Online, I’m open to talking about certain bareback fantasies, but I don’t encourage people to take real-life risks.”
I gotcha.
What about married men? Any hesitation there?
“I do not care.”
And what about amyl-nitrite inhalers – so-called “poppers”?
“I do not play with people while they are using substances like this. But, I am not opposed to people using them, in general.
“Again, I am open to talking about this as a fantasy online – but not doing it in person.”
And how do you feel about guys really getting addicted to gay sex? Is that even a “thing”? Is it an aim? What do you think?
“It’s a combination. The reality answer is that I think this question is malformed.
“But the fantasy answers is: I want to get guys addicted to it!
“I love the fantasy of turning a guy into some mindless cock slut bimbo or himbo. Haha.
“But, in reality, I don’t think it is addictive.”
Thanks for that.
Just a few more items – if you have time!
Do you have any other fetishes or activities that you like to participate in, direct, or instruct?
“Bondage, strap on, sensual domination, SPH,[1] cuckolding, chastity, premature-ejaculation humiliation, forced cum eating, and more…”
Right on. And… how can fans and other interested persons check out your work, or get a hold of you?
“https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/1003577518/delphine_x/Store/Videos/
Goddess Delphine, thank you so much!
All good wishes for the 2021!
(All photographs of Goddess Delphine are Copyright 2021, Goddess Delphine. They are reproduced by Forced-Bi.com or its affiliates or associates with permission.)
Notes:
[1] “SPH” = “small-penis humiliation”