All right, Forced-Bi and bi-sex lovers! Today, we’re going to be picking the brain of the sexy Zoey Laine!
Hello, and… happy new year!
So, is your real name Zoey?
“My name is Stephanie, but I’ve been going by ‘Zoey Laine’ for about six years now.”
Right on.
So… when you’re involved in a Forced-Bi scene, how do you prefer to be addressed?
“I use the terms ‘Goddess’ or ‘Mistress.’”
Any special reason?
“I feel like they just work best with my personality.”
Fair enough!
Is this a lifestyle thing for you?
“It’s more of a roleplay.
“I do it a lot while I’m working and in my personal life. But I switch when I feel like it.”
Aha. Very kinky!
It’s mostly playful, then?
“I do think it is a fun type of social activism against the patriarchy as well.”
Now, as far as the guys go… how do you think of them?
“‘Betas,’ ‘losers,’ ‘masochists,’ ‘subs’…”
It runs the gamut?
“I decide based on my client’s personality, because I think they all have slightly different meanings.”
What got you into the world of domination and fetishes?
“I started experimenting when I was eighteen with BDSM and fetishes. I loved it. It felt right to me.
“I’m a naturally dominant person. So, doing these things felt very natural – and I’ve been doing it ever since.”
Yummy! How did that lead to Forced Bi?
“Forced bi is something I was introduced to by some friends in my BDSM community, and I just loved the way it makes others experiment, themselves.
“I also just think it’s a huge way of dominating someone compared to other aspects of the domination fetish.”
Agreed.
How long have you been doing this online?
“Since 2015.”
Do you also have a “dungeon,” studio, or other space for face-to-face, in-person, or real-time meets?
“Currently I only have an online space, but am reopening an in-person space within the next year.”
Oh, nice! Best of luck with that; keep us posted!
What drives you? Is it a purely mercenary motive?
“I’m aiming at money and pleasure, both.”
And… how much of your time do you spend with …all this?
“It’s a full-time occupation.”
Roger that. You satisfied?
“I am satisfied, yeah.”
Congrats!
May I probe a bit further into the Forced-Bi aspect?
For instance, is true “bisexuality” possible?
“Yes! Of course!”
I know it can seem like a goofy question, given the nature of the fetish! But, some participants say “no.”
Is Forced Bi also a roleplay?
“Meh. It’s a combination: part lifestyle, part roleplay.”
Any power aspect?
“It’s a power trip, for sure. But’s it’s all in good fun: a game.”
Do you have a preference, name-wise? …for the fetish, I mean …between “coerced bi,” “Forced Bi,” or whatever.
“Nah. Any. All. Same difference.”
Is Forced Bi an exclusively male thing – form the standpoint of the subs, that is?
“Not necessarily. Female could be subs, too.”
As far as goes the second core idea, the idea of being “forced” is a little vague. For legal reasons, “forced” obviously means something less than literally compelled by threat of force.
What does that leave you with?
“I think it boils down to commandment or ordering a sub. But see… in my world of domination, boundaries are discussed beforehand. So, once we are ‘in’ – and a safe word isn’t being used – they will listen to, and abide by, every command. And I will command them into partaking in forced bi.”
Do you think Forced Bi can actually “turn a guy gay”?
“I don’t know. Ha!”
Fair enough. I always ask.
“I can’t see into a person’s head or heart.”
It’s a black box, for sure.
How about this one? Is it possible for a guy to be a “switch” or “versatile”?
“Sure. Why wouldn’t it be possible?”
Ha! I’m sure I don’t know. I can only say that more than a few Mistresses convey the idea that guys are usually (even “always”) one way or the other.
What do you think of the “optics”?
“I like viewing guy-on-guy sex!”
Mmm… Nice.
“I mean, hey… men enjoy girl-on-girl sex!”
Too true!
How does bisexuality – or participation in Forced Bi – affect a guy’s desirability, in your opinion?
“I think most bisexual guys are more attractive than straight guys.”
Oh? No kidding?
“It makes for some exciting bedroom possibilities!”
Readers: Take note!
So… I’m getting the sense that you think this is all healthy. Or am I off base?
“Fetishism is healthy, as long as it’s done in a healthy way – both physically and mentally.”
Oh? Because…
“It’s productive. It’s experimentation – a part of healthy self-discovery.”
I gotcha.
Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?
“No.”
Right on. Just curious.
“I’m not religious.”
I get answers all over the map.
Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called “binary language” – e.g., thinking in terms of “feminine” versus “masculine,” etc. – when it comes to John Money’s concept of “gender” and sexuality. But Forced Bi, arguably, has a kind of “bi-narism” built into its name.
Do you see this as a problem for the “Forced-Bi” fetish? B
“No, not at all.”
Ha! Fair enough.
Okay… some fun ones!
What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?
“Definitely cock sucking and oral sex!”
Mmm… Yeah?
Anything else?
“Oh… anal sex!”
Aha. Now you’re talking!
Do you think that Forced Bi is getting more popular? Any opinion, there?
“I think it is getting more popular.”
Any promotion in the “mainstream media”? I mean… that you have detected?
“I don’t know about that one.”
Do you like switches? Or… what’s your preference?
“I prefer having one dedicated bottom buy or beta, and one top.”
A kind of emasculation angle for the sub?
Are you aroused by Forced Bi? Amused by it?
“I’m aroused! It’s hot!”
Ooh…fuck! That’s my favorite answer!
Do you think that a guy can “just try” sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit? Or, is it more habit forming?
“Sure.”
Yeah?
“I don’t know: Maybe he likes it; maybe not.”
For your part, what do you find yourself doing?
Is this mostly kinky chatting, or …more?
“A lot is kept at the fantasy-chat level.
“But, I do encourage guys to have real gay sex!”
Mmm…
How “involved” do you like to be? Behind the scenes, just issuing orders? Or…directing? Participating? Probably a lot of webcamming, these days…
“All of the above! I sometimes direct and watch in real-life situations.”
Any limits?
“I do have a few, personally. But, subs can do it all. Lol.”
Including condomless sex? “Barebacking”?
“I’m fine with guys barebacking in a limited sense.”
If they can prove they’re clean?
“Yes. Subs must stay clean.”
Any feelings about married men?
“I’m good with it. It’s not my marriage!”
You won’t turn them away, I guess!
“No. But it’s not like I’m going after them.”
How about “poppers”? Amyl-nitrite inhalers?
“They’re okay.”
Not your main thing, though?
“I tolerate them.”
How do you feel about guys really getting addicted to gay sex? Can that even happen?
“I literally don’t care.”
Haha! Mmm… That’s kinky.
“Well… It’s not my life!”
Very true!
What else do you get into?
“I love blackmail,[1] cock and ball torture (CBT), small penis humiliation (SPH), and chastity-belt control, as well as many others.”
You sound like you’re up to all sorts of mischief!
How can fans and other interested persons check out your work?
“Instagram: Poolpartymyhouse8oclock
“Twitter / Snapchat / OnlyFans: Zoeylainexxx.”
Notes:
[1] “Blackmail,” here is another consensual, roleplay fetish.