Today, we have an interview with a well-established – and not a little intimidating! – Forced-Bi practitioner for you to mull over.
Hi, and Happy New Year!
What’s your name?
“Mistress Hecuba (she/her).”
Right on. Welcome!
How did you get into fetishes in general and Forced Bi in particular?
“I’ve always been a pervert.”
Same!
“When I was little, I’d make my Ken dolls have long, make-out sessions – and lay next to each other.”
Ha! That’s interesting! I read somewhere that the famous director Steven Spielberg’s first movie, as a kid, was recording his model trains crashing!
“I love watching men experiencing incredible pleasure, moaning like whales, and begging for it. That a cock is the perfect shape to go into an asshole is something I like to reiterate to my submissives who are just starting on their cock journey.”
Lol! Tho… a fork fits well into an electrical outlet! Either way, the participants are in for something shocking!
So… what do you think the Forced-Bi fetish is? I mean: is it just a bit of fun? A hobby? Experimentation? A lifestyle? Role play? …A trap?
“It can be all those things, depending on what arouses you. But novelty is part of the human experience. Exploration is healthy and we crave it.
“‘Forced’ can be a way to have permission to explore our curiosities, as it removes the guilt and shame of societal constructs that want to categorize us into a sexual binary.”
And, who do you think it “applies” to? Is it for males, only? Mostly?
“No, men don’t get to corner the market on this. It’s for everyone.”
“Rated E,” as the kids say? “For everyone.”
All right, you mentioned the word “force,” earlier. It’s obviously built into the fetish’s name.
What do you do – within legal bounds, of course – to “force” the beta, slave, submissive, etc. into participating in bisexual encounters?
I’m thinking of possible options such as coercing guys, commanding them, encouraging, enticing, inducing, instructing, permitting, persuading, provoking, seducing, or …Is it something else?
“All of it.”
Fair enough. Quite a lot.
“It really depends where they are in their journey and what they find encouraging.
“But, some of my favorite scenes have been with males who had never sucked cock. They shyly admitted they were ‘curious’ about it in the interview process, and during the session I’d seductively coerce them with my strap-on to confess how much they actually wanted it.”
Oh, mercy! You have a thing for newbies and first timers?
“I love it when they cry for it.”
I can imagine!
“That moment when they finally get to kneel in front of a cock, nervously move towards it – and lick it – then shyly look up to make eye contact with the cock owner… sheer heaven.”
It’s quite a heavy situation!
I’m curious, what do you think happens to the sub’s sexuality because of one or more Forced-Bi experiences?
For example, do you believe that a sub’s sexual orientation changes, or that some possibly latent “true self” emerges; etc.?
“Hahahahaha! I love this question – as it gives me so much power!”
Your answer is as mysterious as it is suggestive!
I guess, readers: beware!
Bwahaha!!!
Does Forced Bi arouse you, or just amuse you?
“Does taking my date to a glory hole to impress me answer the question?”
Lol! Possibly!
I might just be that I am failing to note that you changed the subject – because my blood is, um… flowing away from my brain.
Do you think of yourself as operating on the lighter side of things, perhaps somewhat playfully promoting healthy exploration? Or, do you think of what you do in darker terms, maybe something like a mythical siren who was reputed to beckon hapless sailors to shipwreck and disaster? Or something in between?
“All of it.”
You’re impervious!
A very pragmatic view of the fetish, to be sure!
Is Forced Bi usually kept within the confines of fantasy chat, or do you encourage guys to have real, in-the-flesh homosexual encounters?
“I’m always moving men towards actually taking cock for me, whatever that looks like – whether personally, or professionally.”
Oh, my!
Okay, so…! What Forced-Bi activities do you enjoy directing, observing, or talking to subs about? I mean, there’s the “usual” list: for instance, anal sex, bukkake, cock sucking, creampies, cum eating, facials, kissing, rimming, etc.
“My goodness: all of it, darling.”
As if readers weren’t hoping!
“…Especially if they’re nervous!”
Oh? Mmm… That’s hot.
“And… all males should be eating their own cum.”
Ooh, is that so?
“Just makes things tidy and right with the world, right?”
Ha! You’re the Mistress!
Do you want dedicated bottoms and tops, or guys who are willing and able to perform either role?
“No matter what task they are performing, men are bottoms to me, always.”
Lol! I see your point!
And… can a guy “just try” getting assfucked or sucking cock and then quit, or would he become addicted to it?
“Why would you want to quit??”
Mmmm… I’m sure I don’t know!
Are you more fascinated with, or focused upon, the homosexual acts and behaviors themselves, or with your influence and power over the sub?
“Both, darling – but… especially the power.”
I had a feeling!
All right; so… with actual, physical guy-on-guy rendezvous, do you insist that the participants use condoms? What’s your opinion of no-condom, “bareback” sex?
“Whatever the fantasy is, I want to enforce it.
“I’ve had clients who want to move slowly towards not using condoms and everything that involves. And I simply hold them accountable to their goal!”
Again: readers, you have warned!! Lol!
Do you have any limits that prospective subs should know about?
“My limits are: cigarette smoking, wrestling, switching, and …anything illegal.”
I hear you!
Well, Mistress Hecuba: thank you so much for being with us, today!
All good wishes for 2021!
You can find the Chicago-based Mistress Hecuba online at her website: https://www.ladysadist.com/; or on Twitter: @MistressHecuba.
Just a reminder to Forced-Bi fans, we now have a Subreddit (Reddit.com/EnforcedBi) devoted to our brand of deviance as well as a few weeks-old Twitter account (Twitter.com/forcedbisexual)! Find us in either corner of the web — or both places! — and say “hi”!
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