Ah, today we have a relative newcomer to the Forced-Bi-fetish “block.”
Hi! Thank you for being a part of this!
First of all, what is your name? What do you go by?
“My name is Mistress Patricia. I like to be addressed as ‘Mistress.’”
Right on, Mistress!
Are you more on the Bratty-Girl / Princess side of the spectrum, or do you have a sharper edge, perhaps leaning more heavily towards the Alpha / Sadist side?
“Sadist.”
Ha! Okay, then!
Any special reason?
“I enjoy realizing perverted ideas on people; that satisfies me.”
Aha. Unleashing your cruel wrath on hapless subbies…
How do you see your fetish entanglements?
“It’s a lifestyle and spiritual exercise for me; it’s a self-actualisation need in my life.”
That’s very self-perceptive.
What about for …well, before I get into that, there are a number of words that sometimes describe the people who seek out the services of someone like you. What word do you prefer for these kinds of people?
“I’d use ‘subs,’ ‘slaves,’ ‘masochists,’ ‘betas.’”
In that order? Do you have some taxonomy in mind, there?
“There are different types of clients that come for different types of sessions.”
I gotcha. Any labels off limits?
“I won’t use ‘losers’ to describe my clients – even though some of them love humiliation and enjoying being disgraced. For me, it’s just some normal needs in their life.”
How did it all start for you? What got you into the world of domination and fetishes, in general – and forced bi in particular?
“I discovered my rubber / latex fetish when I was a teenager. And I’m a bit geeky; I love researching things. Then… I just fell in love with the BDSM world.”
“Research” as in… porn? Were Forced-Bi videos a part of your investigations, then?
“And about forced bi, I think watching guys sucking cock is always a thing to me.
“Difficult to tell how long I have this kind of interest; it’s years.”
You’ve been thinking about it for a while.
“My first time doing this type of session was like three years ago, when I was still learning from other Mistresses.”
Oh, nice. So… how long have you been doing this online, overall?
“In fact, I have only worked as a professional dominatrix for, …almost two years. I’m still kind of new in this industry so I’d say that I ‘just started’ if I had to describe it.”
Roger that!
Well… welcome to the fetish!
And… do you also have a “dungeon,” studio, or other space for face-to-face, in-person, or real-time meets?
“I don’t have my own dungeon, yet. I will have one in the future.”
Something to look forward to.
Does that mean that you only operate in the “online realm,” so to speak? Or…
“Now, I’m renting dungeons to do real-time sessions. The real-time session is where my passion is.”
Oh, fantastic!
Is all this for business or pleasure? Or, maybe… both?
“Both, definitely.”
That’s always fun, when things, um… come together (no pun intended).
How much of your energy and time does this take up right now?
“It’s full time. There’s lots of effort to put in.”
Oh, I believe you! I was just wondering if maybe you were at it part time since you’re somewhat new on the scene.
Are you satisfied with your level of involvement?
“I’m satisfied where things are at.”
Great! Well… congratulations.
Do you feel comfortable sharing anything else about yourself, on either personal or professional levels?
“I’m 32 and in a D/s[1] relationship.
“I’m not a very social person and prefer spending time with my cats and family.”
Ha! Who can blame you?
Let’s dive into the fetish, itself.
On the face of it, the “forced-bi fetish” has something to do with “force” and something to do with “bisexuality.”
So, first question on this, I guess: Do you think that true “bisexuality” – where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males is possible?
“Yes, of course. This is from my opinion that sexuality is flexible and has many possibilities – if you’re open-minded.”
What does Forced Bi mean to you? Is it a hobby? Role play? Social activism?
“I’d say it’s like a power trip. It might become a lifestyle to some people.
“Maybe a combination of possibilities.”
It can be a bit complex. I get it.
Oh, before I forget: What name do you use for this fetish? Do you say, “Forced Bi”? Or are you partial to “coerced bi,” “encouraged gay,” or something else?
“I don’t mind what people call it; it’s all the same thing.
“For myself, I prefer ‘encouraged-bi,’ because it sounds more positive.
“And it’s a beautiful thing to do, I’d like to encourage more guys to do it.”
Ha! Readers: Take note!
But, it’s interesting because, just now you said “guys to do it.” It does seem to be guy-centered. But, in theory, could it apply to, oh – I don’t know! – women?
Or is it mostly for males?
“From my experience, it more often pertains to male submission. But I’d like to force a woman to serve another woman. I just haven’t received this type of session request yet.”
Right on.
Okay… here’s the trickier word: forced. What does that mean?
Let’s be clear: we’re not talking about breaking the law! Participants and practitioners are always responsible to ensure they’re in compliance with all applicable laws.
But… that still leaves a mystery. Is “forced” just psychological manipulation? Seduction? Coercion? Etc. What is it?
“I’d say: ‘encouragement and instruction.’ I encourage the sub to suck a real cock and teach him what should he do.”
Yes, very good.
And what is the result of this “encouragement” and “instruction”? Does your sub change his sexual orientation?
“It depends.
“Some clients are straight in their real life; they don’t have the chance to suck cocks. They’re a bit bi-curious. But, I don’t feel they’d like to change their sexual orientation.
“And some of them are willing to be trained to change the sexual orientation.”
Is it possible for a guy to be a “switch” or “versatile”? Just to clarify: Here, I mean a guy who is able to take on the role of either bottom or top with more or less equal facility, if not enthusiasm.
“I think it’s possible. I know some guys who switch.”
Cool.
And what does watching “do” for you?
Some women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex. Straight women sometimes liken their enjoyment to that expressed by straight men who like witnessing two women together sexually. And in the case of two women, it is reasonable to think that participants are not always lesbians or even bisexual. They could just be exhibitionists. Other women might just like viewing gay spectacles. And a few, more dominant types perhaps, seem to find the gender-bending and role-reversal aspects appealing.
“I enjoy watching guy-on-guy sex for its own sake. And I also enjoy the ‘I made a guy suck a real cock’ feeling. It’s an exciting thing to do.”
So, it’s enjoyable for you on several levels. Fair enough.
Does active bisexuality, or participation in encouraged bi, change your opinion about a guy’s desirability? I mean… all other things being equal.
“Bisexual or not, it won’t affect my feeling for a person.”
I gotcha.
So… just to put a finer point on it, you think encouraged bi is “healthy”? I mean… positive in terms of the sub’s “flourishing” or mental health.
“It’s healthy – both mentally and physically.”
Because… it’s self-exploration?
“It can complete their sexual desires, and it helps with their self-discovery.”
Gotcha.
Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?
“In my opinion, sometimes I feel quite spiritual. Some clients can have a spiritual cleanse during the forced-bi session.”
It’s got a cathartic power, you mean?
Interesting.
That’s a potential positive. Are there any “negatives”?
For instance, nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called “binary language” – for example, thinking in terms of “feminine” versus “masculine,” etc.[2] But forced bi, arguably, has a kind of “bi-narism” built into its name.
Do you see this as a problem for the “forced-bi” fetish?
“No, not at all.”
All right… enough of the linguistic questions! Haha!
What encouraged-bi activities are you into?
“Cock sucking / oral sex, penetrative sex / anal sex, cum eating / swallowing, facials / bukkake, creampies / internal cumshots.”
Oh, my! Mmmm…
That’s a lot of mischief.
I know you haven’t been at it all that long, but… do you think that Forced Bi, as a fetish, is getting more popular?
“I think it’s getting more popular.”
Yeah?
Do you perceive that the Forced-Bi fetish is being promoted in any way by the so-called “mainstream media”?
“Probably. Nowadays, people are more open-minded about LGBT.[3] So people might be more willing to face their bi-curious sides.”
I see your point.
So… which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role you want?
“It depends on the subs’ limits, what we discussed, and how I feel.
“Sometimes, I find a bull for the sub; sometimes I want to see them suck each other’s cocks.”
Mmm… Okay…
And… are you aroused by forced bi, or just amused by it?
“Usually, I feel amused and entertained.”
Haha!
Do you think that a guy can “just try” sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?
“Yes. In fact, he needs to try and before he can know if he likes it or not.
“Some people have the fantasy, but after they really try it, they figure out it’s not like what they imagined.”
Image versus reality.
Where do you fit into that picture? Are you just trying to instigate sexy chat sessions? Or are you trying to push the guys, well… further?
“I encourage guys to have real, in-the-flesh encounters with other males.”
Ooh. Okay! Ha!
How “involved” do you like to be?
“I sometimes direct and watch in real-time sessions – and clip filmings.”
I’m sure a number of readers will be envious!
What is your biggest focus / turn on? Your influence?
“For me, I enjoy the power exchange and the obedience part.”
So, so common for Dommes and Mistresses to say that! I can see how it would be intoxicating.
What kinds of subs, if any, really charge your batteries?
“Cocksuckers, anal bottoms, and cumdumps.”
Shit. Now I’m feeling distracted! Lol!
“I enjoy watching the sub transform into a cock-loving slut.”
Mmmm… wow.
Let me simmer down for a moment.
Do you have any limits?
“Yes, I have some limits.
“With the forced-bi sessions I’ve done, so far are all good, no one has reached my limits yet.”
Is that a challenge? Lol!
May I ask about a few things, specifically?
How do you feel about guys having gay sex without condoms? “Barebacking”?
“If it’s a session, no one should totally trust that other people have clean bills of health. And, since protecting my clients is my responsibility, I’d let guys use condoms.”
That’s responsible of you.
“If they’re not having a session with me, then… I don’t mind.”
It sets up an odd circumstance where some guys might prefer not “sessioning” with you! But… only chatting with you about it, afterward. Ha!
But… you’re just watching out for Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs),[4] right?
“As a pro Domme, I care about my clients’ safety and health.”
I get that. Totally.
“So, I’ll say that I prefer my sessions in the Safe-Sane-Consensual (SSC) category.”
Respect!
“The subs must practice safe sex during the session.”
You’re the boss!
Again, thinking only about Forced-Bi encounters, how do you feel about married men?
“I don’t care.”
Ha! Okay, then! Lol.
And… “poppers”? Amyl-nitrite inhalers? Any opinion on them?
“I don’t mind people using them.”
How do you feel about guys really getting addicted to gay sex? Or, is that not a “thing”?
“It’s fine with me.”
Ha! Mmm… I shouldn’t find that answer arousing, should I? Lol!
“If they find that’s a thing they really enjoy, why not?”
You’re a blast!
What else are you into?
“I have lots of interests, especially CBT,[5] ball busting, strapons, fisting, electric, breath play, milking…”
Plenty of debauchery, there!
Don’t leave without telling us: How can fans and other interested persons check out your work? I understand that you’re based out of London, in the United Kingdom. Do you have any social media accounts or websites to share?
“To schedule a real-time session, go to: https://mistresspatricia.com
“To buy my clips, see: https://clips4sale.com/studio/148677
“and https://iwantclips.com/store/755797.
“Also, subscribe to me: https://onlyfans.com/misspatricia
“https://stars.avn.com/misspatricia.”
Yay! Thank you so much for being with us, today!
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Notes:
[1] “D/s” = “Dominant/submissive”
[2] When it comes to John Money’s concept of “gender” and sexuality.
[3] “LGBT” = “lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender”; sometimes, the acronym is augmented with further categories – e.g., “LGBTQ” = “lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer” and “LGBTQIA” = “lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex, asexual.” I’m sure other, or alternative, formulations could be enumerated.
[4] Sometimes, this is represented as “STIs,” or “sexually transmitted infections.”
[5] “CBT” = “cock-and-ball torture”