Howdy, Forced-Bi land! We have another, sexy Goddess for you, today!
Welcome!
How should readers address you?
“I prefer ‘Princess’ or ‘Goddess Abbie.’”
Very good! Thanks for being with us, Princess Abbie.
Let’s start with the basics.
How did you get into fetishes in general and Forced Bi in particular?
“I’ve always had an interest in BDSM and fetishes, ever since I was a teen when a friend shared an ‘electro-play’ clip she found on the internet. Even if I’m not into a particular fetish, I still love to learn about what gets other people off.”
Ha! A student of arousal! Awesome!
“I’ve always been very sex-obsessed in that sense.”
Mmmm… I feel certain a substantial portion of our readership can relate!
And how about Forced Bi?
“I started really getting into forced bi when I started my job as a phone-sex operator.
“Originally, I was fully submissive. But I kept getting requests, particularly from sissies, for femdom. When I finally said ‘yes,’ I had to take a two-hour-long break at the end of the call.”
Because…? You were in a positive state of mind, I hope!
“It was like having an epiphany. I was fully in Domme space.”
Haha! Oh, good!!
“It was a surreal and beautiful feeling where I was like, ‘Oh yes; this is it. I love this.’”
That’s fantastic!
So, now that you’re “in” it, what do you think the Forced-Bi fetish is? For instance, is it just a bit of fun? A hobby? Experimentation? A lifestyle? Role play? A trap? …Social or psychological conditioning?
“I think it is experimentation for a lot of people.
“The subs that request, or tell me they like, forced bi are overwhelmingly men – and a lot of them are questioning. Forced bi helps them dip their toes into their own sexuality and helps them confront their own preconceived notions of what their sexuality is.”
Sounds a bit… therapeutic – in a non-technical, fully legally disclaimed sense, of course 😉
“I also don’t like to use the term ‘forced bi’ for this exact reason. I tend to use the terms ‘bisexual encouragement’ or, more recently, ‘forced-bisexual acceptance,” for this very reason.”
A not uncommonly expressed sentiment.
Who do you think it “applies” to? For instance, is it exclusively for males?
“I don’t think anything is for men exclusively.”
Bwahaha! Fair enough!
What do you do – within legal bounds, of course – to “force” the beta, slave, submissive, etc. into participating in bisexual encounters?
“A lot of my ‘forcing’ is a very seductive, very mind-fucking type of coercion.”
Why does that sound so hot?? Lol!
“I like to have them watch gay porn and masturbate with me. Or we role play about ‘pegging’ where another male eventually gets introduced in the scenario. And then I ‘gas light’ them about how hard they are for the guy – and not for me.”
Now, the “mind-fucking” aspect is coming into sharper focus!
“I also make sure that my sessions are a safe space to experiment within everyone’s personal boundaries. It doesn’t matter to me if you want things on more the vanilla side or not. I offer no judgement – unless you specify that.”
Right?! I’m sure some folks are after the “judgment”!
“That’s not to say that I don’t get rougher with it, though – especially as they book more sessions and get more ‘experience.’
“And… being an actual bisexual myself, I also get people who just want to talk about how I knew I was bisexual and what that is like for me. That helps them as well. Opening up about my homosexual / bisexual experiences helps them open up about and admit theirs.”
Several different layers at work, there.
So… What happens to the sub’s sexuality because of one or more Forced-Bi experiences? Do you believe that a sub’s sexual orientation changes, or that some possibly latent “true self” emerges?
“I think it is definitely the true self emerging.”
Does encouraged bi arouse you, or just amuse you?
“Both.”
Nice!
“But… I find it more amusing to watch people open themselves up to a new existence within their sexual being.
“It’s like watching puppies play with a noise-making toy they’ve never seen before. They’re so excited – and scared – and I love being a part of them finding out more about themselves.”
That analogy is quite evocative!
Do you think of yourself as operating on the “lighter side” of things, perhaps somewhat playfully promoting healthy exploration? Or do you think of what you do in darker terms – maybe something like a mythical siren who was reputed to beckon hapless sailors to shipwreck and disaster? Or… something in between?
“Definitely on the healthier side of exploration.”
I kinda figured…
Does that mean that you may – or even usually – keep the encouraged bi within the confines of fantasy chat, or do you encourage guys to have real, in-the-flesh homosexual encounters?
“Oh, I absolutely encourage them to have real, homosexual encounters – or, at the very least, masturbate to gay porn more and incorporate pegging and anal play.”
Readers: Are you paying attention?!?
Ha!
So… to expand on that for just a moment…
What Forced-Bi activities do you enjoy directing, observing, or talking to subs about?
“All. Of. It. Haha!”
Lol! Yeah?? So… we’re talking, anal sex, bukkake, cock sucking, creampies, cum eating, facials, kissing, rimming, etc. – the whole shebang? Or… he-bang, as it were!
“But especially cum eating and cock sucking because, it is very, well… in your face – and harder for them to deny their bisexuality.”
Lmao! In your face! That’s delicious!
That would make it, um… harder, I’m sure!
Do you want dedicated bottoms and tops, or guys who are willing and able to perform either role?
“I am a switch; playing with other switches is very fun.”
Aha!
“But… I like it all, honestly.”
So… come one, cum all?
Can a guy “just try” getting assfucked or sucking cock and then quit, or would he become addicted to it?
“They certainly can. But, I notice that by the time people get to me, it’s very obvious that they are bisexual and scared – or in denial. Hence… the ‘addiction’ aspect.”
I think I follow you. This has already become an obsession by the time the sub finds you?
“Besides, giving head is really fun and addictive in its own right.”
Are you more fascinated with or focused upon the homosexual acts and behaviors themselves, or with your influence and power over the sub?
“Oh, I adore that feeling of power and influence. It also makes me feel very good inside – and honored – that the submissive chose me to be privy to all of this.”
Ah, yeah… I can see the attractiveness of that.
“That they chose me over all others to help them admit to their queerness.”
So, okay, in the actual, physical, guy-on-guy-rendezvous scenarios, do you insist that the participants use condoms and protection, or do you tolerate – or even demand – that they “bareback” (i.e., go condomless)?
“I absolutely insist on condoms and protection – or, at the very least, getting routine STD[1] checks.”
That’s the responsible thing.
“Although…”
Ha! Yes… ?
“I will admit that, sometimes, I too get caught up in their fantasy of just being a bareback slut and forget to mention it until after the session or the next time we meet.”
Lol! Mmm…
“I was born in the 80’s and grew up through the 90’s when the AIDs epidemic was at its peak. I have heard so much, and was taught so much, about the AIDs epidemic that plagued the gay community during that time. It also continues to disproportionately affect the queer community to this day.
“I also am friends with positive people that had to live through that – and people that have lost fathers and relatives and friends because of that. Encouraging safe experimentation is always something I do.”
I get that. And… condolences for your afflicted friends and acquaintances.
“…I almost feel that as a member of queer society and as the Dominant it is my duty to do so.”
Any other limits that prospective subs should know about?
“I really don’t like using poppers, or any other drugs – except for maybe weed.”
A fair few Dommes and Mistresses are popper fans.
“It doesn’t make me feel in control. And if something goes wrong, especially because a lot of my sessions are over the phone or through cam, I don’t feel confident that I can assist as well as I could if we were face to face.”
Again… responsible.
“I also want them to be sober-minded, because I want them to know – fully and completely – that they are getting off to sucking a dick or taking it up the ass.”
Ha! Nothing and no one to blame!
“They can’t just explain it away by saying they were ‘high at the time.’
“Nein, mein Freund; you wanted this.
“It’s why you’re paying me, after all.”
Ha! Too true!
Before you go, where can interested readers go for more?
“I can be found on so many places.”
Hit us!
“My favorite ones to link to are Twitter: @NoodayAbbie,
“my personal website: https://princessnooday.wixsite.com/addictedtoabbie/about-your-princess
“my Niteflirt profile: https://www.niteflirt.com/users/Abbie+Nooday
“…and my sextpanther account, where I am always available to text, no matter what my status is: https://www.sextpanther.com/Abbie-Nooday.”
Hurray for sexting! Lol!
Thank you so much, Princess Abbie! I’m glad this finally worked out!
Just a reminder to Forced-Bi fans, we now have a Subreddit (Reddit.com/EnforcedBi) devoted to our brand of deviance as well as a few weeks-old Twitter account (Twitter.com/forcedbisexual)! Find us in either corner of the web — or both places! — and say “hi”!
(All images of Princess Abbie are Copyright 2020, Princess Abbie. They are reproduced by Forced-Bi.com or its associates/proprietors with permission.)
Notes:
[1] “STD” = “sexually transmitted disease,” also sometimes called a sexually transmitted infection, or “STI.”
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