Miss Mae Ling: Forced-Bi Interview Sextravaganza Exclusive

Hi! We’re so happy you could be with us!

So, please tell us, how may we properly address you?

“I am Miss Mae Ling. I prefer Miss Mae, though. ‘Miss Ling’ sounds like she’d be my mom.”

Ha! Fair enough.

If you had to give us an “elevator pitch” about your “Mistressing style,” what would you say?

“I’m like a Sour Patch Kid. At first, I’m sweet; then, I’m sour.”

How delicious!

“Sweet girlfriend next door that lures you in and lowers your guard, and then… boom! You just got hit with a bratty, sadistically sensual Goddess. And you can’t help but do everything to make me smile.”

I love it!

So, do you go through this gustatory transformation “on the regular,” or is it situation-dependent?

“It depends on my mood, depends on the day, and depends on who I’m playing with.”

I had a feeling!

“I love switching around and getting to explore my sensuality – my bratty side. And I’m just an overall sweetheart when I’m not in a role.”

Aw! Okay, then!

Well, I’m so happy to get this opportunity to chat!

I’m wondering: how do you see your fetish-directed activities? I mean, is this a lifestyle? Just a bit of fun? Social activism? How do you see things?

“This is a lifestyle. It has been very therapeutic for me, to help me move on from my past traumas. It has given me so much life that I want to be able to hold that space for others and give back.

“Serving a Domme is to be a better person, be a better sub, and if everyone were to do so, the world would be better.

“It’s always fun to add in role playing, as I truly do make a kick-ass Chun-Li.”[1]

You obviously have a deliberate approach. That’s amazing!

So, you used the word “better” several times. Given this focus on betterment, how do you refer to the people who seek you out? I mean, you said “sub,” but I’m almost thinking, like – I don’t know – “patient” or “case study” sounds too clinical and detached. Do you know what I’m saying?

“The toys that I attract are the sweetest subs – truly putting my happiness as a priority and giving more than they take.

“They are my puppies.”

Okay… “puppies.” That makes sense. Almost… there’s a kind of motherly angle?

“I train them the same way you would train a puppy. Teach them tricks and give them positive reinforcements and they’ll follow me around with their little puppy eyes, begging for any of my scraps.”

Ha! That’s quite an image! It’s Dominance, but with a soft edge, perhaps…

“They wait patiently for my attention and just want to cuddle up by my feet and hear that they are my good boys.”

It strikes me as a unique perspective. What got you into this? How did you end up going down this particular path?

“I had always been a dominant person when I was young, leading and bossing people around. When I found a community where it was celebrated, I felt like I had found my tribe.”

I hear you, there.

“All oddities, weird things that people were grossed out with, I had an affinity to – just to draw and evoke emotions in others.”

How long have you been doing this online?

“I started focusing my online work due to the pandemic. March 2020, I hunkered down and focused my energy to dominating the world.”

When life gives you lemons…?

Are you… exclusively online? Do you also have a “dungeon,” studio, or other space for face-to-face, in-person, or real-time meets?

“I prefer sessions to be in hotels.”

Gotcha. The low-overhead approach.

“Yes. There is no fancy furniture, but it allows me to be creative and use the space, and what’s available, to truly blow their minds. It keeps me on my toes. So, in that sense, the world is my dungeon.”

I see your point!

Are your motives mercenary? Are you aiming to make money, or derive pleasure – or both?

“I do it because I enjoy it! I love living the life I have created for myself and being paid to be me.”

Ha! Right?!

“The amount of money is the cherry on top. But it is also a sign of respect and a symbol of power that my subs lay at my feet. Some of my pleasure is simply derived from taking money from subs such as financial domination.”

I can see how that would be appealing.

You’re at this full time?

“It’s my life. It’s a lifestyle, so it’s all the time.”

I thought so! Online and…off?

“If I’m not focused on my online work, then I am focusing on my personal D/s relationships.”

And… this suits you fine?

“The more pets I own, the more I am able to delegate my work.”

Oh, I see.

“They learn my quirks and likes, and they assist me in building my empire, so that I can lay back and relax while they truly work for me.”

Your money-making machine sounds as well-oiled as a sub’s… well! We’ll get to that in just a moment!

But first: Do you feel comfortable sharing anything else about yourself, on either personal or professional levels?

“I am polyamorous with multiple partners – all of which are super supportive of my work, and enjoy messing with my subs.”

Oh? That’s important.

“My relationships are also based on a D/s dynamic as well; it just wouldn’t work with two people butting heads at the top.”

No, I expect that it wouldn’t.

Thank you for that.

Let’s dive into some Forced-Bi concepts and lingo, if we can.

So… there’s some type of “force” and something to do with “bisexuality.” That much seems clear.

But! There are questions.

For example, do you think that true “bisexuality” – where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males is possible?

“Nothing in life is black or white, that’s what makes it so fun.

“We get to enjoy the different ranges of colors, and our curiosity is like an itch that we want to keep scratching. And, sometimes, you have an itch in a spot where you can’t quite reach and need a bit of help.”

Ha! Are you the one who gets called in to scratch hard-to-reach itches? Or are you triggering itchiness?

And… how does Forced Bi fit into this picture?

“Forced bi is something that I’ll always try to secretly play with.

“Like inception, where someone who has no previous thought of it and then, suddenly – after playing with me – wants to go deeper, and be pushed to the limits, where he’ll do anything just to hear my laugh. And… boom! He has a cock in his mouth.”

Oh, my. You distracted me a moment, there. I forgot what I was going to say!

“The power that I feel as a master puppeteer pulling the strings is phenomenal.”

I can only imagine!

What a rush!

But, back up just a sec, if you would.

I usually ask about the label. You said “Forced Bi.” But, is that what you typically call it? As opposed to – I don’t know – “coerced bi” or “encouraged gay” or… something else?

“The word ‘forced’ just has a lot more weight to it. Forcing someone to do something that they don’t really want to do (consensual non-consent) is just so hot.[2]

“‘Coerced bi’ is another that I often use, but that is for situations in which a sub is wanting to suck dick but doesn’t want to seem gay. So, he goes through me to make it seem like I controlled him to do so, so he can absolve himself of his own personal guilt.”

I’ve had several conversations about that guilt-avoidance game. The submissive can say, “the Mistress ‘made’ me do it.” The Dominant can think that, “the sub would have done it anyway.”

“The mind games – and the physical aspect of ‘forcing’ someone to suck a dick – now that is the true fun of it all.”

Ha! Yes, well… um…

Am I getting red in the face at all?

Never mind!

Obviously, you’re speaking like the focus is on acts that revolve around, well… dick. Do you think that “forced bi” is exclusively for male subs, then?

“It can be either or male or female submission. However, I surround myself with beautiful women who are queer, so there is no forcing required!”

Ha! Fair enough.

“It’s more like forcing them to get off of each other!”

Oh, my! That’s a distracting thought!

So, within legal limits (of course) how much force goes with “forced”?

“Anybody can do anything; all they need is a little encouragement.”

Encouragement?

“Cheer them on, and throw in the fact that they want to impress you and – voilà! – a dick is in their mouth.”

Oh? Just one?!? Haha!

“A sensually sweet deviant is dangling a carrot in front of his face. If he wants it, well… he can try to get it – by eating another carrot.”

I don’t think we’re talking about actual carrots, are we?

Mercy!!!

Isn’t it a tad warm in here???

So, in your opinion, what’s “going on” with Forced Bi? Does a guy change his sexual orientation? Does it “make him gay”?

“Depends on so many things: the person and where his underlying root of curiosity is, on the dick he’s sucking.

“Sex, dick sucking – anything – can be awful the first time, and until you find the right one that works for you. Like Goldilocks… but with cocks! Goldi-cocks!”

Omg!!! Too funny!!!

Quote of the day, gentle readers!

But… you were listing factors that can shape the experience.

“The Domme who is guiding this journey for the sub could not be a great match, and so the sub may not feel as compelled to give it his all.

“This is a high-variance question.”

Right on.

Are some guys “switches” or, I mean… “versatile”? Either bottoms or tops?

“Again, another high-variance question.

“It is dependent on the person. It could be a hard limit for some to get their dick sucked, and others may secretly want to enjoy both parts of it.

“When it comes down to it, though, during my play, subs are just toys – toys to be sucked. And… holes! They are my Ken dolls that are to be whatever I want them to be.

“Of course, as they consented to being downgraded to such role.”

What do you think about the visuals? You like watching gay sex, generally?

“I’ve always enjoyed watching gay porn, even when I was young and discovered what porn was.

“There was something about same-sex porn that I found to be more real, authentic, or passionate. It was always something that warmed my heart… and my pussy.”

Oh, fuck.

Whoops. Did I say that?

Warmed your pussy.

I have to go to my notes, because… my mind just sort of blanked.

Are bisexual guys desirable? Or does a Forced-Bi-type scenario sort of “corrupt” him, in your mind – make him less desirable?

“Bisexual guys are attractive, because I am attracted to people who can view things in many different perspectives.

“As a sapiosexual I find bisexual men to be more open-minded about a lot of things – and more willing to try new, adventurous experiences.”

Right on.

Thinking about emotions or psychology, are all these Forced-Bi shenanigans “healthy”? “Unhealthy”? Depends?

“It’s healthy. It allows a safe outlet for those who are curious to scratch that itch and dig deeper as to who they are, and learn more about themselves.”

So… sort of self-exploratory. I gotcha.

“It’s healthy to explore your sexuality, opening yourself to more alternative connections. It allows for a sub to discover more of himself, and perhaps understand – and come to terms with – who he is.”

Or maybe construct who he – or you – wants him to be? Ken doll?

“I don’t think it is unhealthy to uncover the truth about someone and make them understand and experience their deepest desires.”

Do you think of any of this in religious or spiritual terms?

“All sex is a magical and spiritual experience.”

Okay, interesting answer.

“The exchange of energy between the people is powerful and transformative. No one is truly the same after it – and each time it is different.”

I’m with you, there.

This is going to seem bland or pedestrian after your previous answers. But, I want to ask: Do you think that the way of speaking about “Forced Bi” runs afoul of a certain current of “political correctness” that warns people away from so-called “binary language” – e.g., thinking in terms of “feminine” versus “masculine,” etc. – when it comes to John Money’s concept of “gender” and sexuality.

Do you see this as a problem for the “forced-bi” fetish?

“As the world becomes progressively more fluid in the mixture of what we do, some find it easier to label and categorize things to understand them better. And that’s fine.

“But I do see this ever changing, to become something else, rather than ‘forced bi.’”

Thanks for that.

Now… onto something more, well… cock-hardening and pussy-warming!

What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?

“Ooh! The juicy stuff!”

Ha! Yes!!!

“Specifically, watching a man on his knees before another man, sucking his cock, is so hot. Bonus points if there are tears in his eyes from his confusion – and deep throating.”

Holy fuck.

“Extra bonus points if he can hardly speak afterwards because he had his throat fucked so hard.”

You’re making it, um… hard to continue! (Pun intended, or…not? You decide!)

“Another is cum eating or facials. Being covered in another man’s cum is so hilarious and fun, especially when they’re begging for it to be over – but it only ends with this last, humiliating act.”

I like the way you think!

What do you say, is Forced Bi getting more popular?

“I think that more people are exposed to kink and fetishes and BDSM now. It is featured on shows and what not, and so there is an influx of curious subs – people who may have never have thought of doing something like this, but have started going down the rabbit hole so much, that they are at this corner of the tunnels of their journey.”

I totally follow that. Yeah, that makes sense.

Do you perceive that the Forced-Bi fetish is being promoted in any way by the so-called “mainstream media”?

“Hmm, not that I can think of.

“Makeup has definitely paved the way for sissies to look prettier, but it doesn’t necessarily promote forced bi. That is, unless… it’s planting the seed of an idea in their minds, like in Inception: an idea like ‘wearing this makeup would make me look super-hot – especially if the makeup were smeared from sucking on a cock’.”

Ha! That’s awesome!

You’re something else!

Here’s a practical question. Which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role I want?

“I’d enjoy if they were flexible and could switch, as it’s easier to set up such situations by having flexible people to work with.

“But what I’d really love is to have a couple of dedicated roles of just bottoms and tops so that the forced play can go deeper.”

Go deeper, huh? Lol!

As if readers didn’t hope!

Are you aroused by Forced Bi, or just amused by it?

“Both. I’ve always been into it since I was discovering porn and watching it and now, I get to live it!”

Mmm… Lucky you! And lucky us, too!

Do you think that a guy can “just try” sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?

“Yes. Sometimes, you dream about donuts and you see it all the time and you crave it. Hearing about how others talk about it, you must feel even more drawn to it until you taste I for yourself. But when you taste it, it may be too sugary for you.”

Donuts? Are you just trying to plant the seed of “something with a hole”?!

But, seriously, what are you interested in doing? Are we talking about chat scenarios? Face-to-face stuff?

“I love the fantasy chat about it. It gets so hot that it leads to the actual thing.”

Mmmm…

You keep throwing me off, here!

“There truly is no feeling like pushing a man’s head down onto another man’s cock and making him suck it. That is on a whole other level for me, and I love it.”

(Okay, self: take a deep breath. Breathe!)

So! Lol… How “involved” do you like to be? I mean, like…

“Hands on!”

Ha!!! Okay, then!!!

“I want to feel some resistance from the guy not wanting to suck the cock, and then, giving into me and my power that he does suck it.

“Photos and videos are fun and all, but… there’s seeing – and breathing in – the man’s tears. And that truly fuels my body and its pleasure.”

Oh, goodness.

What is your biggest focus/turn on?

“I love gay sex!

“It’s so hot!

“Mix it together with the power of me controlling the situation, and having a man do something to please me, is a synergy of hotness.”

“Synergy of hotness” is quite a turn of phrase!

Anything in particular that really ratchets that synergy up a level or two?

“So many good things are hot: from cocksuckers to cum dumps to tops using their dicks just to be sucked. But if I had to choose a single one, it’d be cock suckers. Suck that dick for me!”

So hot!

Tell me about limits. First, I guess… do you have any? Lol.

“My limits apply mostly to me and what I am willing, and not willing, to do.

“As for my subs, if there is consensual non-consent mixed in with it as well, I push to the limits where I see fit.”

Or… to see what fits!

What about barebacking? Any thoughts about condom-less gay sex?

“I’m fine with guys barebacking, in a limited sense.

“If they are both clean, and can provide proof that they are clean, then it’s way hotter to do so.”

How do you feel about STDs and STD risk?

“My subs must remain clean. If they were to contract something and then pass it along without knowing, that is extremely irresponsible and rude. If people have STDs, they lose their sex drive and may brew negative emotions towards it. And there goes our fun!”

I hear you.

“Sex is fun. In order to continually participate in it, one should take necessary precautions to remain healthy.”

Very pragmatic of you!

How do you feel about married men?

“Being married or not has no effect upon a person’s curiosity. It’s a deep-rooted itch that they want to scratch. I’m a person that believes in scratching that itch.”

Nuff said!

What about amyl-nitrite inhalers (“poppers”)? Any thoughts?

“So much fun! Sometimes people just need a little help with getting a little loose. What’s the difference of normal people doing a little liquid courage to go talk to a girl? One just involves two dicks instead of one.”

Ha!

How do you feel about guys really getting addicted to gay sex?

“If you enjoy doing something, if you love something, then… do it!

“So what if pulls you into it deeper?

“As long as you aren’t becoming a heroin addict that no longer functions – enjoy the ride!

“Life is about growth and experiencing new things. Do it.”

Well, Forced-Bi fanatics, there you have it!

Thanks so much!

Just a few last items…

Do you have any other fetishes or activities that you like to participate in, direct, or instruct? (E.g., “blackmail,” cock-and-ball “torture” [CBT], crossdressing, cum-eating, cum-eating instruction [CEI], humiliation, pegging/strapon, small-penis humiliation [SPH], Etc.)

“Cock and ball torture – 100%. Nothing really hits a man like a straight kick or knee to the balls.”

I imagine you’re correct, there!

“Pegging and strap on. I love receiving blow jobs myself.”

Readers: Take note of that!

“A man on his knees, tears running down his face, unable to speak because my dick is filling him up. Pegging itself is so much fun, truly makes me feel like I’m taking his soul from his asshole.”

Omfg!

“Diaper play and age play is another favorite – turning a man into a ‘baby’ or a ‘boy’ is just so adorable.

“I’ve always loved playing [non-sexually] with kids, but not really wanted to have my own. So, it’s a win-win.

“Financial domination – the amount of power that is involved in this play, as I take what I want, and they give to please me. They work hard only to lay it all at my feet.”

I can see how it would be intoxicating!

Don’t leave us without letting readers know where they can go to check you out!

“Website: www.missmaeling.com

“Twitter: www.twitter.com/missmaeling

“Instagram: www.instagram.com/adorabledomme

“Clips4Sale: https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/152275/miss-mae-ling/

“Iwantclips: iwantmaeling.com 

“Onlyfans: www.onlyfans.com/missmaeling

“Niteflirt: https://www.niteflirt.com/users/MissMaeLing

“SextPanther: https://www.sextpanther.com/Mae-Ling”

You’ve been amazing, Miss Mae! Thank you so, so much!!!

(All images of Miss Mae Ling are Copyright 2020, Miss Mae Ling. They are reproduced by Forced-Bi.com with permission.)

Notes:

[1] “Chun-Li” is a character from the video game, Street Fighter, released by Capcom. See HERE.

[2] “Consensual non-consent” could be construed as a manifest contradiction. However, the best way to understand the phrase, here, is probably something like this. One person (the “sub”) agrees to act the passive part in a spatiotemporally limited role-play scenario (the “scene”). As the passive role player, what the sub consents to is being managed by another person (the “Domme,” “Mistress,” etc.) during the scene – in a manner not too dissimilar from stage or screen actors following instructions from a director. This idea of “giving up control” is, therefore, not unbounded. It’s limited to the time and place of role-play encounter; it is generally coupled with some express or implied “veto” power that the sub retains over the Domme’s directions, but which power is deemphasized for the sake of the role-play story; and so on.