Greetings, Coerced-Bi nation! Today, we have a busty fetishist for your entertainment!
Hello! Welcome, welcome!
How may we address you?
“Mistress Charlotte.”
Thank you, Mistress Charlotte!
Any other titles that you use, Mistress?
“I think of myself as a Dominatrix.”
Right on. May I ask a little about that?
Do you see your Dominatrix/Mistress side as just an outgrowth of who are all the time? I mean, is this a “lifestyle” for you? Or… something else?
“It’s really a role play, more than anything.”
Fair enough!
And may I ask: What word do you use for those who seek out your role-playing services?
“Mostly, they are ‘subs’ or ‘submissives.’”
So, how did you end up on this path?
“I know what I like, and I am a natural leader.”
Self-knowledge is so important!
How long have you been at this?
“Over 9 years.”
Wow. Cool. Coming up on a decade; congrats!
Now… is this exclusively online for you? Or do you also have a “dungeon” (or whatever!) for face-to-face sessions?
“I do, but… I’m picky about who I invite there.”
Understandable.
“Interested readers can apply, though.”
Okay! Readers: Take note of that. And, remember: first impressions matter!
So, what are you after? What’s your aim? Money, I’m guessing. But… pleasure, too? Or does that not really enter into the picture?
“Oh, sure… I would like both!”
The best of both worlds.
How much of your energy and time does this take up?
“I’m full-time.”
That’s great! I mean… is it great? Lol.
Would you like it to be less of a commitment? Or… more?
“No, I’m happy with where I’m at.”
Okay!
Let me segue into some deeper questions about the ‘Forced-Bi’ fetish, itself.
First of all, do you think that true “bisexuality” – where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males (but see a further question about problems with so-called “binarism”) – is possible?
“Oh, sure. I mean… this fetish couldn’t get off the ground, otherwise.
“I’m actually bisexual, myself.”
Oh? Cool!
In that case, let me ask you… if you’re role playing with “Mistressing,” in general, how do you think about Forced Bi, in particular? I mean… is it also a role play? Or is there more to it? An extension of your own identity, perhaps?
“It’s basically a role play.
“There’s also an element of fun to it, also.”
What label do you prefer for the fetish? “Encouraged gay? “Forced Bi”? Other?
“I actually prefer ‘coerced bi,’ personally.”
Right on.
Usually, most – but not all – of the Dominant practitioners that I interview are female, and the, well… less dominant participants are male.
Do you think that Forced Bi is for males, mainly? – or exclusively?
“Not necessarily. It can pertain to male or female submission.”
I want to ask you about the “forced,” part – or, in your preferred terminology, the “coercion” aspect.
But, first, let me make the usual legal disclaimer.
Everything related to this fetish is strictly within the bounds of legality. We don’t actually condone, endorse, recommend, suggest, or in any other way “traffic in” illicit behavior or literal compulsion.
But, that still leaves a lot of ground.
What does “coerced” come down to, in your opinion?
“I’m a role player, remember. So, within the context of the fantasy – and the mutual consent – I figure, ‘fuck it; I’ll threaten if I want!’”
No, I gotcha.
It can be part of the role-play scenario to act the part of the bullying Dominatrix.
“At least, I can apply particular kinds of psychological pressure.”
It’s what the subs sign up for.
Let me ask this follow-up, then. What do you think is “going on” with a coerced-bi scene? Does a guy actually change his sexual orientation?
“No! Not in my opinion.”
No?
“I’m of the belief that if a guy comes to me for this fetish, he’s pretty obviously a – possibly closeted – homosexual, already. I don’t ‘change’ anything.
“The role play just gives his homosexual urges an expression.”
Is it possible for a guy to be a “switch” or “versatile”? (That is, to be able to take on the role of either bottom or top with more or less equal facility, if not enthusiasm.)
“I don’t see why not.”
Do you stand aloof in all this? Or do you get anything out of the optics?
“For sure, I like viewing guy-on-guy sex.”
So, if participation in this fetish makes reveals a guy’s homosexuality you’re your opinion – does bisexuality, in general, make a man unattractive?
“No, I think that bisexual guys are attractive.”
Is this “healthy”? And, just to clarify, I’m thinking about emotional health – mental health.
“Yeah, sure. It’s healthy, yes.”
Okay. And you’re thinking…
“Well, it’s productive self-exploration, for one thing.”
Fair enough.
Any religious or spiritual dimension to any of this?
“No.”
And do you see coerced bi having any, well… call them, “language problems”? I mean, nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called “binary language” – e.g., thinking in terms of “feminine” versus “masculine,” etc. – when it comes to John Money’s concept of “gender” and sexuality. But forced bi, arguably, has a kind of “bi-narism” built into its name.
Do you see this as a problem for the “forced-bi” fetish?
“No, not at all.”
Okay… activities!
What’s your favorite coerced-bi activity?
“For me, it’s got to be cock sucking and oral sex.”
Do you think that Forced Bi, as a fetish, is getting more popular?
“I do, yeah. It certainly seems to be getting more popular.”
Do you perceive that the Forced-Bi fetish is being promoted in any way by the so-called “mainstream media”?
“Yes.”
Which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role you want?
“I prefer both guys to be versatile – flexible enough to be in different positions.”
Are you aroused by forced bi? Amused? Something else?
“I’m aroused!”
Oh? No kidding? All right, then!
“It’s hot.”
Do you think that a guy can “just try” sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?
“I don’t know. Wanna find out?”
Oh, mercy!
Um…readers: are you paying attention?!?
What are you most involved with? I mean, is this mostly online role playing? Or do you cheer lead for real, in-the-flesh encounters?
“No, I pretty much keep everything in the realm of fantasy.”
Right on.
“It’s just make believe.”
So, these are mostly one-on-one chat sessions?
“Sure, yep. I just issue the instructions. What a sub does with it is up to him.”
So, what turns you on about it?
“My power.”
Ha!
I’m not surprised.
“I get off on my ability to get a guy to do extreme – even gay – things.”
Now, you said you were partial to cock suckers. Is that the limit for you? Oral? Or, what all do you enjoy?
What sexual acts, if any, really charge your batteries?
“I love it all!”
So…anal se? Creampies? Facials? The whole nine, um… inches?
“I don’t have a preference. I just like gay scenes!”
Talk to me about limits for a moment.
“Sure. I have limits. And I insist upon certain limits with respect to my subs as well.”
Okay. What are some limits, for instance? Barebacking? No-condom sex?
“I totally oppose guys barebacking.
“It has to be safe sex; other than that, there are too many dangers.”
So… no STD/STI-related chat?
“No. The sub’s got to remain clean, practice safe sex, etc.”
Fair enough.
What about married guys? Another limit? Or… not so much?
“Nah. I’m fine with married men.”
It’s not your marriage, right?
“I don’t necessarily seek them out, though.”
How about poppers? Yay or nay? Amyl-nitrite inhalers.
“Now, these… I prefer.”
Oh?
“Poppers make subs more pliable and suggestible.”
Ha! Juicier chat sessions?
Any feelings about guys getting “addicted” to gay sex?
“I don’t think a guy will become addicted.”
Ha! So… no worries, there!
What else do you get into?
“Crossdressing, pegging and strapon sessions, and SPH.”[1]
Thanks so much!
All right, before we sign off, please tell us: How can fans and other interested persons check out your work?
“My website is http://www.bustymistress.co.uk.
“And you can find me on Twitter, @bustymistress1.”
Right on; thanks a lot for being with us!
(Images of Mistress Charlotte are Copyright 2020, Mistress Charlotte. They are reproduced by Forced-Bi.com with permission.)
Notes:
[1] “SPH” = “small-penis humiliation”