Hi! Hello! Please, introduce yourself for readers.
“My name is Mistress Volga, Russian Dominatrix based in Marylebone, London.”
Awesome! Welcome!
And…I take it that you’re preferred label is…
“Mistress.”
Right on.
“According to the dictionary the definition goes: Mistress is a woman in a position of authority or control.”
Indeed. And… that’s you?
“I am always a Mistress in any situation – coolly self-possessed.”
So, does that mean that this is a lifestyle for you? Or is it something else?
“It’s actually more of a role play. I act differently in other areas of my life.”
Gotcha.
And how do you refer to people who seek you out? I mean, are they “betas,” “losers,” etc.? What are they? “Subs”?
“Either ‘slaves’ or, yes, ‘subs.’”
Does it depend on you or on them?
“People who contact me for in-person sessions prefer to be called ‘slaves’ or ‘subs.’ It is merely their own preference.”
How long have you been doing, well… this?
“I just created my OnlyFans account where I post daily kinky, fetish and Femdom content as well as behind-the-scene and exclusive photo/video sets. I also offer custom photos, videos and audio notes. Join me, subscribe at https://onlyfans/mistressvolga.”
Cool! Thanks! Readers will also be able to see a collection of your contact information at the bottom of the text, as usual.
But it’s not exclusively online, right? You mentioned in-person sessions.
“I have my chambers in Marylebone, Baker Street for in-person sessions.”
Ah, yes… I see.
What motivates you?
Are you aiming mostly for money? Or this fun for you, too?
“My concern is both pleasure and money.”
Sweet!
And how much of your time does it take up?
“It’s definitely a full-time occupation for me.”
How do you feel about that? Would you like your involvement to me more? Or…less? Same?
“I’d like my involvement to be greater.”
Okay. How are you looking to branch out?
“By offering online domination and creating Femdom content for sale.”
Oh, those would be amazing additions.
Let me ask you about the Forced-Bi fetish itself.
What do you think about the concept of bisexuality?
Can a person be truly “bi”? I mean… roughly 50-50 about their sexual preferences?
“I think so, yes.
“The fetish couldn’t really get off the ground without that!”
Right on.
So… how do you think of Forced Bi? Do you approach it in the same light as you explained, previously?
“Pretty much it’s all about role playing for me.”
Fair enough.
How do you refer to the fetish, by the way?
“Either ‘enforced bisexuality’ or ‘Forced Bi.’”
Let me ask… Forced Bi often seems to be directed toward male subs. Do you think that this is the case? Or do you see it as possibly pertaining to females or others as well?
“Nah. It mostly pertains to male submission.”
Males do seem to be the ones paying, at least!
Let me get into something a little touchier. “Force.” What does it mean? So, obviously, nothing illegal. But… what else?
I usually give a list of possibilities like “coercion,” “commandment,” “encouragement,” “enticement,” “inducement,” “instruction,” “permission,” “persuasion,” “provocation,” or even “seduction.”
Do any of these resonate with you?
“I choose four options, here; as I can relate to them.”
Cool. What are you thinking about, most?
“Enticement, firstly. I definitely think of myself as a temptress.
“It’s also permission. A lot of men already have these desires. They just want someone to tell them that it’s okay.
“And for some of them, I then become an instructor – teaching them how to indulge in guy-on-guy sex.
“But, sure, it’s also got an element of seduction. The guys are certainly attracted to me. I redirect this away from sex with me and onto sex with other males.”
And does a guy change his sexual orientation through any of this?
“Weaker ‘no.’”
So, it’s not like all your subs are latent homosexuals. But it’s also not like you see yourself modifying anyone’s sexuality?
“Right.”
Is it possible for a guy to be – or at least function as – a “switch”?
“Sure; why not?”
Both a bottom and a top?
“Some people are a bit of both – active and passive.”
How do you feel about the guy-on-guy sex itself?
“I actually like viewing guy-on-guy sex. You know how a lot of men like watching girl-on-girl sex? That’s the way I like this.”
Oh, I see.
So, your enjoyment isn’t part of the role play? That part is genuine? That’ll make some readers happy! Lol.
Do you find bi guys attractive? Or…let me put it more carefully than that. Does a guy’s bisexuality undermine his attractiveness, in your opinion?
“No. Bisexual guys can be attractive! They can also be ugly.”
Ha! Okay… touché.
Is this healthy for guys, then?
Psychologically, I mean…
“It’s healthy, yeah.
“I want my subs to fulfill their cock-whore destinies.”
Haha! Okay, then!
But seriously… how do you think it’s healthy? Healthy in what way?
“I think it helps guys figure out who they are.”
Does it always have that weighty, self-exploratory vibe?
“Oh, not necessarily. A lot of times it’s just an escape from life. A play break.”
Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called “binary language” – e.g., thinking in terms of “feminine” versus “masculine,” etc. – when it comes to John Money’s concept of “gender” and sexuality. But forced bi, arguably, has a kind of “bi-narism” built into its name.
Do you see this as a problem for the “forced-bi” fetish?
“No, not at all.”
All right… reader-favorite time!
What Forced-Bi activities do you like?
“Cock sucking and oral sex, definitely.”
Nice!
“But, also, anal sex. Whatever they’re willing to do.”
Do you think the fetish is gaining in popularity?
“Not really. I think it’s staying about the same as it ever was.”
Do you think it’s being promoted by the so-called “mainstream” media?
“Yes.”
Oh, really? How so?
“I mean, in general, sexual fluidity has become mainstream.”
Oh, I gotcha.
“LGBT communities have taken an increasingly proactive stand in defining their own culture with a primary goal of achieving affirmative visibility in mainstream media.”
That’s probably a fair assessment.
Shifting gears a bit, let me inquire: Which would you rather have? Dedicated tops and bottoms or switches?
“Personally, I prefer that one sub be either a total top or bottom and the other guy be willing to switch for me.”
Okay; interesting!
“Either that… or that both be ‘versatile.’”
Is that so you can mold them into whatever positions you desire?
Does that turn you on at all?
“I’m both aroused and amused by all the forced-gay activity.”
Ha! As if we didn’t hope!
What do you personally do, mostly? I mean… are your Forced-Bi scenarios involving guys in real one-on-one fuck fests? Or is it kept mainly to chatting?
“I encourage guys to have real, in-the-flesh encounters with other males!
“I work with the Australian-born London escort Oz and actually facilitate real, guy-on-guy interactions in person sessions.”
Involvement-wise… you’re just mainly chatting about this stuff. Do you ever encourage guys to have real encounters?
“I may suggest one. But it’s totally up to sub if he acts on it.”
No, I follow you. Totally.
Tell me a bit about your limits.
For example, how do you feel about guys having “bareback” sex? …no condoms?
“I’m totally against that. It’s just too dangerous.”
So, I’m also guessing you don’t get into STD/STI-related fetish chat.
“The sub must stay totally clean. I’ll just say that.”
No problem.
How about married guys?
“I’m fine with married men. It’s not my marriage, after all.”
True.
“But I don’t necessarily seek them out.”
They just find you, somehow!
And what about amyl-nitrate inhalers? So-called “poppers”? That’s one of the other biggies that often finds itself in Forced-Bi scenes.
“As far as that goes, I tolerate poppers. I’m not for or against. It’s up to the sub.”
Right on.
What else are you into?
“I offer the ultimate creative range of BDSM- and fetish-based entertainments in various forms, personalized to your needs, including: feminisation, crossdressing, sissification, humiliation, financial domination, foot fetish, chastity play, role play, corporal punishment (CP), interrogation, CBT,[1] double domination with another mistress or master, and more.”
Quite an array!
“Regarding Forced-Bi sessions I prefer to work with the number one male escort in the world, Oz. Australian. Very good looking. TallL 6’5”. He’s authentic and very well endowed – 9 in. (22cm), uncut.
“Duo sessions with Oz are perfect for nervous first timers – for example, bi- or kink-curious guys who’ve never been with a man and are trying Forced Bi for the first time.
“Check his website https://ozinlondon.co.uk for more information.”
Awesome! Thanks!
And hit us with your own social-media information, again!
“Please check my website for more info contact details for in-person bookings.
“https://www.mistressvolga.co.uk/
“Follow me on Twitter – @VolgaMistress – for daily updates.
“Subscribe to my OnlyFans (https://onlyfans/mistressvolga) for exclusive fetish and FemDom content and order custom kinky photos/videos.
“Finally, follow me on IG: @VolgaMiss.”
Fantastic! Thank you so much!
(All photographs of Mistress Volga are Copyright 2020, Mistress Volga. They are reproduced with permission.)
[1] “CBT” = “cock-and-ball torture”