Greetings, fellow bisexual-encouragement connoisseurs!
Today, we have a buxom and mischievous cheer leader for your ultimate corruption! – and for her viewing pleasure 😉
Hello, hello!
What shall we call you?
“Goddess Venom.”
Welcome, Goddess Venom!
And thank you for being here!
Besides “Goddess,” is there any other manner you like to be addressed?
“Mistress.”
Very cool.
Any particular reasons?
“I am a goddess; so, you would be addressing me correctly!”
Oh! Indeed!
Please tell me a little bit about your background, if you would be so kind.
“I am a second-generation dominatrix! My mum is Mistress Paris, and my sister is Goddess Serena. We are a very well-established Domme family.”
Wow! That’s awesome!
So, did your mom steer you in this direction?
“Since my mother is a Domme, I grew up in a strong female environment. Being dominant is in my make up. Forced bi is one of my favourite sessions…”
Yay!
“…watching 2 men do something so unnatural – and enjoying it – because they are doing it to please me.”
How long have you been doing this online?
“Many years.”
Do you also have a “dungeon,” studio, or other space for face-to-face, in-person, or real-time meets?
“Yes! I work in The Oubliette, a dungeon in Bedfordshire.”
How very Labyrinth-esque!
And how do you refer to guys who seek you out?
“It depends on the person as to what I would call them – mostly, ‘slaves’ or ‘subs’ but sometimes ‘losers,’ ‘paypigs.’ Etc.”
I gotcha.
“It depends on the persons character.”
Is this just a money-making venture? Or…something more?
“I’m concerning with money and pleasure. Mine.”
How much of your energy and time does this take up?
“It’s a full-time occupation for me.”
Oh, congratulations!
How are you feeling about things? Wish you were doing more? Less?
“I’d actually like a bit more. There’s always room for more playtime!”
I guess so!
Do you feel comfortable sharing anything else about yourself, on either personal or professional levels? E.g., How old are you? Are you in a relationship? (Conventional? Alternative/BDSM?) What is your sexual orientation? Etc.
“I’m 39 and in a long-distance relationship.”
How’s that working?
“He’s vanilla; he knows I’m not. He supports me and lets me do my thing.”
That’s important.
“I’m bisexual and have non-sexual relationships with my subs. I fuck them with my mind and not my body.”
Well put!
I’d like a glimpse into your mind…
Let’s talk about the “Forced-Bi” fetish more specifically.
On the face of it, there’s two words: (1) “force” and (2) “bisexuality.”
I’d like to ask you about both, but in reverse order.
So, firstly, do you think that true “bisexuality” – where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males (but see a further question about problems with so-called “binarism”) – is possible?
“Yes, of course! You can’t have ‘forced bisexuality’ without the bisexuality.”
Right on.
Now, you said that being a Domme is really a lifestyle. May I ask… does that extend to Forced Bi as well? Is that part of your lifestyle conception?
“It is, yes. I think it’s a lifestyle for me and for the subs too.”
Let me back up for a moment and ask… how do you refer to the fetish?
“Forced Bi / forced bisexuality.”
In practice, “Forced Bi” seems most often to apply to men being somehow impelled to perform sexually (or to imagine performing sexually) with other men. However, in theory, it seems that it could apply to other things – for example, to women being impelled to perform sexually with other women – as well.
Do you see it primarily in terms of male submission?
“No. It certainly can pertain to male or female submission. Forced bi is forced bi – so either sex.”
Onto “force.” For legal reasons, “forced” obviously has to mean something less than literally compelled by threat of force.
But that leaves a lot of ground open, right? I mean, there’s coercion, encouragement, instruction, permission, persuasion – even seduction, sometimes!
How do you think of it?
“All of the above.”
Quite a wide range.
“It’s a whole new world and my subs love it.”
So…what do you think is going on with “forced bi”? Does a guy actually change his sexual orientation?
“Not exactly. Some subs may be closeted homosexuals. But, I don’t think that all are, necessarily.
“But, also, I don’t think of what I do as ‘changing’ anyone’s sexual orientation.”
I don’t think that all guys who come to me are latent homosexuals. Some might be. But I also don’t think that I modify anyone’s sexuality. Straight men might engage in forced-bi activities as expressions of obedience, submission, and subordination.)
Is it possible for a guy to be a “switch” or “versatile”?
“I think it’s possible for him to function as a switch.”
But inside he’ll either be a bottom or a top?
“Pretty much.”
Some women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex. Straight women sometimes liken their enjoyment to that expressed by straight men who like witnessing two women together sexually. And in the case of two women, it is reasonable to think that participants are not always lesbians or even bisexual. They could just be exhibitionists. Other women might just like viewing gay spectacles. And a few, more dominant types perhaps, seem to find the gender-bending and role-reversal aspects appealing. Do any of these resonate with you?
“I like to see people getting aroused getting pushed out of their comfort zones.”
A few women claim to want to date bisexual guys, participate in threesomes with them, etc. Others seem to think that once a guy tries guy-on-guy sex, he’s less desirable to women). This may be a difference of opinion between more dominant and more submissive women.
What do you think?
“For me, it’s a no brainer. Bisexual guys absolutely can be attractive. Bisexuality doesn’t affect attractiveness, in my opinion.”
Is the forced-bi fetish “healthy” or “unhealthy”? I mean…psychologically…
“It’s healthy.”
Oh?
“It can be an aid to self-discovery.
“Although, for others, it can simply be aimless experimentation.”
There’s variation, I’m sure.
“But, either way, I love seeing a fantasy unfold before my eyes.”
Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?
“Not really.”
Just wondering.
“I mean, I consider myself ‘spiritual,’ but I don’t see how it applies to this.”
Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called “binary language” – e.g., thinking in terms of “feminine” versus “masculine,” etc. – when it comes to John Money’s concept of “gender” and sexuality. But forced bi, arguably, has a kind of “bi-narism” built into its name.
Do you see this as a problem for the “forced-bi” fetish?
“Honestly? I haven’t given it any thought.”
Ha! Fair enough.
“It is what it is.”
All right…
The Forced-Bi activities!
So… what homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?
“Um… all of them?”
Haha! Okay, then!
“Let’s see… cock sucking, cum eating, facials, anal sex, creampies…”
Do you think that Forced Bi is getting more popular?
“All I can say is: I get asked for it a lot.”
Do you think it’s being in any way “promoted” by in the media?
“No.”
Sub-wise, what would you rather have: a pair with a dedicated bottom and a dedicated top, or guys willing to do whatever?
“I prefer both guys to be flexible, for sure.”
Are you aroused by forced bi, or just amused by it? Neither?
“Both! Sure… aroused and amused.”
Do you think that a guy can “just try” sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit? Or does it not work like that?
“Sure, I think he could stop. Perhaps he doesn’t like it.”
He won’t get “addicted”?
“I don’t think so, no.”
What are you interested in doing? I mean… is this mostly fantasy chat? Or…encouraging real-life encounters?
“Real life – if I can make it happen. I like to make fantasy into reality.”
Is that usually just you issuing instructions over webcam? Or do you watch, also? Direct?
“I’ll do whatever needs to be done!
“I sometimes direct and watch in real-life situations.”
Do you, now?
“Oh, yes. And help if they need some.”
Hot!
And…that gets you going?
Speaking of which…what would you say your biggest turn on is? Power?
“Seeing them so needy – and trying so hard.”
What sexual acts, if any, really charge your batteries?
“I love cocksuckers!
“It’s like art.”
Delicious! Also, it totally fits with the connoisseur theme!
Let me ask about a limits for a moment.
I guess… first, do you have any? Lol.
“Oh, sure. Of course, yes.
“I have many limits.”
Just for you? Or for subs, too?
“No, not just for me. For subs, also.”
Safe, sane, consensual?
“I always check with them about their limits, too.”
Is condomless sex a limit for you?
How do you feel about guys having “bareback” sex?
“I’m okay with it. But…only if it’s safe.”
Aha. Like… participants have recent, clean test results?
And how do you feel about married men?
“I don’t really care. I feel that it’s not my business.”
All right.
Any opinion on so-called “poppers”? What are they…amyl-nitrite inhalants, I guess.
“Actually, in terms of that, I prefer subs use poppers.
“They loosen arses and lower inhibitions.”
Both of which are conducive to fantasy-cum-reality scenarios!
What else are you into?
Do you have any other fetishes or activities that you like to participate in, direct, or instruct? (E.g., “blackmail,” cock-and-ball “torture” [CBT], crossdressing, cum-eating, cum-eating instruction [CEI], humiliation, pegging/strapon, small-penis humiliation [SPH], Etc.)
“Everything above!”
Well…aren’t you a bunch of fun!!
Ha!
So, tell us: How can fans and readers check out your work?
“My website is www.goddessvenom.com
“I have an OnlyFans: GoddessVenom
“And a Twitter account.”
Amazing! Thank you so much for talking with us!
Just a reminder to Forced-Bi fans, we now have a Subreddit (Reddit.com/EnforcedBi) devoted to our brand of deviance as well as a few days-old Twitter account (Twitter.com/forcedbisexual)! Find us in either corner of the web — or both places! — and say “hi”!
(All photographs of Goddess Venom are Copyright 2020, Goddess Venom. They are reproduced by Forced-Bi.com with permission.)