Hello, everyone, and welcome to another Forced-Bi interview! Today, I have the pleasure of speaking with an exceptionally stimulating and sadistic practitioner.
Hi! And thanks for being here.
To jump right in… How do you prefer to be addressed?
“Cynthia; for titles, ‘Mistress’ and ‘Goddess’ work.”
Right on.
“‘Mommy’ or ‘Daddy’ can work, too; but are more context-dependent.”
Ooh! How suggestive!
All right, so… basic background question: How did you get into fetishes in general and forced bi in particular?
“I’ve always been more dominant and sadistic and enjoyed different kinks, especially cuckoldry and sissification. As a bisexual woman, I was drawn to forced bi because I like the idea of fetishizing and exploring male bisexuality, which is often ignored.”
That may open up some additional questions! But, first, how do you think of Forced Bi? What is it, in your opinion?
“I think it can be different things for different people – from a fetish to dabble in, to the start of someone’s self-discovery about their bisexuality.”
Interesting! Who do you think it applies to? Most of the time, it appears to concern male submissives. Does it – or can it – apply to others as well?
“For me, the focus is on male bisexuality, though I think forced bi as a fetish could include women.
“For forced-bi fetishes, I prefer focusing on men because there isn’t that same level of fetishization as there is with female bisexuality. It feels almost like a sort of turning-the-tables on men fetishizing women sleeping with each other, and instead, I’m fetishizing getting men to sleep with each other.”
I can totally see that! And I’ll bet it makes for some intense interactions.
What do you do – within legal bounds, of course – to compel, entice, or otherwise “force” the submissive into participating in bisexual encounters?
“A combination of seduction and commands.”
Seduction’s always an intriguing angle!
“Anyone participating in forced bi has at least some interest in the encounter – even if it’s just to sate some curiosity, or to test his mettle in something he’d otherwise hesitate to do.”
So, do you even think of it as Forced Bi, strictly so called?
“What I do might be more accurately considered ‘coerced’ or ‘encouraged’ bi, but I like the flare of the word ‘forced.’”
It’s certainly evocative! A term of art, doubtless.
So what do you think happens to the sub’s psychology or sexuality because of one or more Forced-Bi experiences? Does a sub change his “orientation”? What do you think?
“Sexuality is a very individualistic, subjective thing. I don’t feel it’s my place to decide for others.
“What I will say, though, is anytime I’ve posted a forced-bi blog or discussed forced bi with clients, I always get several private messages from guys either telling me they’re bisexual or that they’ve fantasized about other men but haven’t told anyone about it.”
Imagine that! Speaking of your, um…body of work (!), you look stunning in the “SEX” choker! Just sayin’! 😉 But, sorry to interrupt, lol! Please, continue…
“I think forced bi gives men the space to name those feelings they’ve had for years, rather than the encounter itself ‘turning’ them bi.”
It’s sort of an occasion for expression of something innate, rather than a modification of someone’s “orientation”? Interesting view!
All right… reader-favorite query: Does Forced Bi arouse you, or just amuse you?
“Both.”
Ha! That’s the best!
“I’m attracted to men and women and find any sexual encounter with any gender-pairing to be very sexy – which includes men expressing interest in and being involved with men, sexually.
“But the fetish also amuses me because of how much it appeals to self-identifying straight men.
“Before having as much professional experience with the fetish as I do now, I figured that just a few bi men here and there would like it. But quite a few straight and bi men love it.
“And just the notion that I’m ‘forcing’ them to do something they asked me to do is always amusing.”
Haha! Fair point!
Do you think of yourself as operating on the lighter side of things, perhaps somewhat playfully promoting health exploration? Or do you think of what you do in darker terms?
“I think a bit of both.”
Okay! Can you explain a bit?
“On one hand, forced bi does give men the opportunity to explore their attraction to other men, which is a good thing.”
And, hence… healthy?
“On the other hand, male bisexuality is very stigmatized. So, men who engage in that, even if those men walk away from it feeling as straight as ever, can feel internal or external shame around that.”
I follow you. In a way, it depends on the disposition or psychology of the sub.
Is Forced Bi usually kept within the confines of fantasy chat, or do you encourage guys to have real, in-the-flesh homosexual encounters?
“Within my work, it’s focused on calls/chats. But clients have told me about their in-person experiences, which I always find very hot.
“As long as whoever else they’d want to engage with is a consenting adult, I’d definitely encourage taking things from fantasy to reality.”
Very sexy!
So… what Forced-Bi activities do you enjoy directing, observing, or talking to subs about?
“Anal, bukkake, cock sucking, cum eating, and facials are all activities I enjoy talking to subs about – preferably in the context of threesomes or gang bangs; the more the merrier!”
Oh, my! That’s dirty-hot!
Do you want dedicated bottoms and tops, or guys who are willing and able to perform either role?
“I focus more on bottoms, so they’re ready and able to take plenty of cock.”
Readers: take note!
“But switches are acceptable as well.”
Can a guy “just try” getting ass-fucked or sucking cock and then quit, or would he become addicted to it?
“I don’t think someone would actually become addicted to either, but it’s certainly something that sticks with guys.
“I’ve had guys tell me about same-sex encounters they had decades ago that they still jack off to!”
Are you more fascinated with or focused upon the homosexual acts and behaviors themselves, or with your influence and power over the sub?
“Definitely more interested in the power…
…not uncommon!
“…but the acts themselves are very arousing; that’s why forced bi is so much fun 😉”
I think a lot of people on here would tend to agree with you!
If you invite actual, physical guy-on-guy rendezvous, do you insist that the participants use condoms and protection, or do you prefer that they go without – that is, “bareback”?
“In my work, I focus on calls/chats. In my personal life, I prefer going without condoms – whether it comes to me or anyone else involved.”
I gotcha.
Do you have any limits that prospective subs should know about?
“My personal limits are no incest roleplay and no race play/race-based-fetish play.”
And where can interested readers discover more about you, or interact with you?
“You can find me on the Phone Sex Bar and on Twitter.
“http://www.thephonesexbar.com/cynthia.html
“https://twitter.com/TSCynthiaPSB
“I do calls, chats, and Skype sessions.”
Awesome! So cool of you to join me! Thanks so much! And all the best to you!
(All images of Mistress Cynthia Santana on this post are Copyright 2020 by Cynthia Santana. They are reproduced here with permission.)
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