Hello and welcome!
So, what name do you go by?
“Mistress Luci White.”
There are various labels that women in your area use. Which – if any – do you think of yourself as, or prefer?
“I think of myself as an Alpha. But also as a Domme and Mistress. I’m definitely also Mischievous!”
Oh, are you?! Intriguing!
What makes you gravitate towards these adjectives?
“They just match My Role and Personality.”
Fair enough.
What do you see yourself as doing? I mean… is this a lifestyle? A bit of fun? Something else?
“It’s a professional role, but also an extension of My personality.”
I think I gotcha. It’s a job. But…it’s meaningful.
How do you describe the people who seek out your services? “Betas”? “Subs”? Etc.
“It depends on the person. They’re a mix of clients, slaves, subs, masochists, kinksters.”
In other words, a range.
“Yeah. I don’t generalize about those who come to see Me.”
Cool.
And – standard, background question – what got you into the world of domination and fetishes, in general – and forced bi in particular?
“I enjoy the control over men.”
Why am I not surprised?
Are you doing this online?
“I see more subs real-time, though do scheduled online sessions.”
Do you also have a “dungeon,” studio, or other space for face-to-face, in-person, or real-time meets?
“Yes; I offer sessions Tuesday to Saturday every week.”
Readers: take note!
Are you aiming to make money, or derive pleasure – or both?
“My concern is both pleasure and money.”
Right on.
How much of your energy and time does this take up?
“It’s a full-time occupation.”
Are you satisfied with this level of involvement? Would you prefer it to be a little less? Maybe expand and do more?
“I’m satisfied where things are at.”
Congrats!
Do you feel comfortable sharing anything else about yourself, on either personal or professional levels? E.g., How old are you? Are you in a relationship? (Conventional? Alternative/BDSM?) What is your sexual orientation? Etc.
“I am early 30s and am an animal and art lover. I love the psychology of BDSM and am forever learning about the art of Domination.
“I am BiSexual; I fall for the person, not the gender, it seems.”
Thank you so much!
Let me segue into some questions about the Forced-Bi fetish itself.
On the face of it, the “forced-bi fetish” has two components: (1) “force” and (2) “bisexuality.” Let’s handle both, but in reverse order.
Do you think that true “bisexuality” – where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males (but see a further question about problems with so-called “binarism”) – is possible?
“As with many aspects in life, it is down to each individual.
“Humans are obsessed with labels, for how else can the brain comprehend without?”
I gotcha. So, you think there’s a continuum?
“A person can feel many different ways throughout their life; sexuality is fluid.”
Which of the following, if any, do you think of the Forced-Bi fetish as? A game? A lifestyle? Role play? A trap? A combo? …something else?
“Just to point out: I only see male slaves, hence there’s a focus on men.”
I have a question about that that I’ll ask in a minute.
“For Me, it’s a combination of role play, power trip, and a fun activity / game.
“But it’s also a release for the sub – to either act out sexual feelings towards men or to explore sexual feelings of the Dominance of a woman ‘forcing’ it to happen.”
Just to backtrack for a minute… what do you call this fetish? “Coerced bi”? “Encouraged bi”? “Forced bi”?
“The classic BDSM term is ‘Forced bi,’ but I will use different terminology, as above, depending on the slave and the situation. Some want to feel that they have no choice but to do it, and that I am making them.”
In practice, “forced bi” seems most often to apply to men being somehow impelled to perform sexually (or to imagine performing sexually) with other men. However, in theory, it seems that it could apply to other things – for example, to women being impelled to perform sexually with other women – as well.
Do you see it primarily in terms of male submission, male and female submission, both, or neither?
“It can pertain to male or female submission. It just seems to be more publicly shown as males, maybe because there is more humiliation to it – or because there is more of a call for men who want to watch it in clips as opposed to females.”
A lot of factors.
“It’s a very interesting topic!”
I think so!
Okay; let’s talk about the word “forced.”
I’m sure it goes without saying that we’re not literally talking about compelling anyone by an actual threat of force.
But, that still leaves it fairly wide open as to what (licit!) meaning of “forced” a particular practitioner has in mind.
Which, if any, of the following do you think is most fitting? Coercion? Commandment? Encouragement? Enticement? Inducement? Instruction? Permission? Persuasion? Provocation? Seduction? Some combo? Something else entirely?
“Again, it can be any of the above, depending on the slave and the situation.
“As with all forms of BDSM, it is as much psychological as it is physical. Each scenario is unique to the Domme and sub in each event.”
Fair enough. I’m always interested in whether a specific Domme has a trajectory that she prefers.
What do you think is actually going on with “forced bi”? Does a guy change his sexual orientation?
“Some may be opening a box they have kept locked; some may love the kick of pleasing Me. Some may be intrigued – maybe they have had past thoughts, even played with themselves thinking of it.”
It seems more common these days.
“But fantasy can be very different from reality. So, being ‘forced’ / ‘co-erced’ helps explore that.”
I can see that.
“Some like the thrill.”
True!
“Some are just kink bags.”
Ha! I give that the quote-of-the-day award!
“There is not one answer.”
Is it possible for a guy to be a “switch” or “versatile”? (That is, to be able to take on the role of either bottom or top with more or less equal facility, if not enthusiasm.)
“Sure; why not?”
Some Mistresses insists that, deep down, a sub is either one or the other.
“Just as a person can be both in everyday life, that can be the same ‘in the bedroom.’”
Some women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex. Straight women sometimes liken their enjoyment to that expressed by straight men who like witnessing two women together sexually. And in the case of two women, it is reasonable to think that participants are not always lesbians or even bisexual. They could just be exhibitionists. Other women might just like viewing gay spectacles. And a few, more dominant types perhaps, seem to find the gender-bending and role-reversal aspects appealing.
Do any of these resonate with you?
“For Me, I only enjoy watching it if I am the one controlling it.”
Right on!
Lemme ask you this…
A few women claim to want to date bisexual guys, participate in threesomes with them, etc. Others seem to think that once a guy tries guy-on-guy sex, he’s less desirable to women). This may be a difference of opinion between more dominant and more submissive women.
What do you think?
“It is part of their personality, just as with Bi-sexual women.
“It seems that it is more ‘acceptable’ for women to be Bi-sexual, whereas if a guy is, then he must be gay.
“No! He’s Bi.
“His attraction is sexual, physical and also individual.
“It is the person they fall for not the gender!
“For some women, they are put off and think that if they have a relationship with them then they won’t be totally satisfied. In some cases, that may be true. But there are so many non-conventional relationships types that, if so, it can be explored together.
“Other women are just put off to think that their guys fancy guys as well. As with any relationship, sometimes things don’t work out and they are not sexually compatible.
“Relationships need honesty, no matter the orientation. Just because a guy is Bi doesn’t necessarily mean he is submissive!”
Thanks for the detailed answer.
Based upon that, I’m going to guess that you think the Forced-Bi fetish is “healthy” as opposed to “unhealthy.” Would that be fair?
And, just to clarify, by “healthy,” in this context, I mean that Forced Bi is positive and helpful for a male sub’s flourishing.
“Every situation is unique and totally depends on the relationship between the Domme and sub. If done right, it is a very healthy exploration.”
What would it look like if done wrong?
“I explain that sometimes fantasy can be way better than reality, and mentally it may not be for them. I don’t offer Force Bi to just anyone who asks. I have to know that person and decide who I think would suitable and what scenario it is carried out in.
“I want it to be a positive experience for them and also Myself! It can be an extremely freeing experience also, especially if it is something they have desired for some time.”
If you had to put a finer point on why it’s healthy, what would you say?
“It’s productive exploration.”
Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?
“For Myself, it has nothing to do with Religion or spirituality. But I am always aware that it may be for them, hence why I don’t offer it unless I have built up a relationship, trust and have discussed things.”
Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called “binary language” – e.g., thinking in terms of “feminine” versus “masculine,” etc. – when it comes to John Money’s concept of “gender” and sexuality. But forced bi, arguably, has a kind of “bi-narism” built into its name.
Do you see this as a problem for the “forced-bi” fetish?
“As humans, we are obsessed with having things ‘labelled’ – even people who don’t want to be labelled have a label! The irony!!
“The phrase ‘Forced Bi’ is an explanation of an act.”
Let me get to the crowd-pleasing queries…
What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?
“A mixture of cock sucking/oral sex, kissing, rimming/tongue-fucking, cum eating & swallowing.”
Sidebar: Do you think that Forced Bi, as a fetish, is getting more popular?
“I do think it’s getting more popular. I think this is due to the internet and the access to clips, websites, etc.”
Do you perceive that the Forced-Bi fetish is being promoted in any way by the so-called “mainstream media”?
“I don’t know. I am not aware of it outside the BDSM scene that I have seen.”
Which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role I want?
“This, for Me, depends on the reasoning behind it. If I am filming clips, then the more versatile the better. If it is session-based, then it will be tailored around the boundaries of My client.”
Ah. That makes sense.
Are you aroused by forced bi, or just amused by it?
“The power is arousing!”
Do you think that a guy can “just try” sucking cock or getting ass fucked and then quit?
“Totally. As I said before, sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality. Some are completely put off, others are just like, ‘yeah, that’s not for me.’”
What are you interested in doing? Do you… keep things at the level of fantasy chat? Encourage guys to have real, in-the-flesh encounters with other males? Etc.
“Completely depends on the guy, sometimes just the talk is enough to excite them. Others I know it is actually something they would like to try.”
How “involved” do you like to be? Are you one of these Dommes that just issues instructions and then turns things over to the guys to do what they will? You request photographic evidence? You watch via webcam? Etc.
“100% real-time!!!”
Ha! Okay, then!!
“I am in charge. And, also… I need to keep in touch with the vibe and make sure both sides are okay. Plus, I get off on the power in person more, haha! 😉”
Right on! That’s hot.
What is your biggest focus/turn on? I mean…besides the power angle.
“Basically, it is the power and control. But, as long as I know My boy is in some way getting off on it…”
Then… everyone’s happy?
“I take care of My boys.”
Aw! 😛
What sexual acts get you going the most?
“I love cocksuckers. I love making them get on their knees and making Me proud!”
Do you have any limits?
“Yes, of course. I have many limits. And I insist upon certain limits with respect to my subs as well.”
How do you feel about guys having gay sex without condoms (i.e., “barebacking”)?
“I offer whatever the participants are comfortable with.
“I make sure My clients and boys are 100% informed on sexual health and the risks, I encourage testing and screening. Condoms are always on offer. I explain that if they do it without, then they may put others at risk in their personal life. I will not allow sexual drive to overtake their common sense.”
How do you feel about STDs and STD risk?
“I actively encourage regular screening and always inform clients/boys of the risks. I will kill a boner to ensure they know what the true risks are.”
That paints a picture!
“They then have the choice. Condoms are always at hand and they can change their mind and use one, even if initially said ‘no.’”
How do you feel about married men?
“I never ask questions, but if they offer that information then I ensure they know the full risks of health, if certain choices are made.
“I am more likely to encourage protection for married men. Ultimately, though, the decision is theirs. They may do it without My knowledge somewhere else so I can only offer sexual health education.”
How do you feel about amyl-nitrite inhalers – that is, so-called “poppers”?
“For those who don’t know, poppers are used to increase the blood flow, give a ‘rush.’”
Which, coincidentally enough, happens to be one of the leading brands.
“They help relax the sphincter for potential anal – and they also help with pain tolerance. They can help relax someone who is nervous.”
I should say that I think they’re marketed as air deodorizers or something like that.
“Before use I always check that the client/boy has not had Viagra as that can have a very negative effect when used together or alcohol, and certain other things. Poppers aren’t for everyone and can make someone light-headed (in a bad way), cause nausea, and even fainting. If being used for the first time they should be used sparingly and see how the body reacts. They should never be used if there are heart issues!”
I want to interject again to say that Forced-Bi.com doesn’t condone or encourage non-recommended uses. Whatever readers choose to do, they do at your own risk!
“Now that all sounds so serious!”
Ha! Right?!
“On the positive side they can be amazing for the user and really enhance an experience!”
Switching gears, again… how do you feel about guys really getting addicted to gay sex? Is that even a thing?
“I provide a safe environment for guys to experiment. I give full explanations of risks. Yes, I want them to have fun, be sluts, etc.
“But I will always ensure they are informed.
“Sometimes it releases a desire they have kept locked away for many years and it can be life altering, but I will be there to support if so.
“Some just want to have fun every now and then.”
I gotcha.
Thank you so much for all the detailed answers, by the way!
You’ve pretty much exhausted my supply of questions!
Wrapping up…
Do you have any other fetishes or activities that you like to participate in, direct, or instruct? (E.g., “blackmail,” cock-and-ball “torture” [CBT], crossdressing, cum-eating, cum-eating instruction [CEI], humiliation, pegging/strapon, small-penis humiliation [SPH], Etc.)
“I offer a vast array of BDSM activities. I see clients who are at the very start of their journey through to the more experienced kinksters.”
Readers: take note!
“I mainly offer real-time sessions. Though, I do have Online services available also. I regularly film for clips and My Onlyfans, so I am quite busy in the BDSM world 😉”
It sounds like it! That’s awesome.
So… how can fans and other interested persons check out your work? (Do you have any social media accounts or websites to share?)
“My Website is: https://www.mistressluci.co.uk/
“Twitter: https://twitter.com/MistressLuciW
“Onlyfans: https://onlyfans.com/missluciwhite
“iWantClips store: https://iwantclips.com/store/580319/MistressLuciWhiteOfficial”
Nice!
Thank you for being with us today!