Hello, Forced-Bi universe. Or, should I say: Hi, again, after the coronavirus hiatus.
I hope that our readers haven’t been too badly impacted. I look forward to things getting back to normal – if only so that we can introduce a little encouraged-bi-flavored abnormality into our lives.
And to help us do that, we welcome a breathtaking, alabaster-skinned mistress.
Hi! Welcome.
What name do you go by?
“I go by Goddess Tay or Princess Penguin (to some).”
I feel like there’s a story, there. Maybe we’ll get to that.
But, for right now… what do you think of yourself as? I mean, are you an “Alpha,” “Brat,” “Mean Girl,” “Mistress,” etc.?
“I am a Goddess.”
Okay; fair enough! The royal vibe.
What appeals to you about that?
“I find it the most fitting for myself and domination style.”
Right on.
Is being a Goddess, what…? Is it a role play for you? More of a lifestyle? I’ve had women talk as if they see themselves engaged in social activism. What is it for you?
“Lifestyle with a bit of roleplay.
“While my relationships are more vanilla, I am myself in this industry. I am just as lighthearted, silly, and addictive in real life as I am in this industry.
“The role play comes in because I do love playing characters and I’ve invented a bunch of them for my own amusement.”
That sounds interesting!
All right… what do you call the – I’m guessing mostly guys (but more on that in a moment) – who seek you out? “Betas,” “losers,” etc.
“I call them ‘subs.’”
Not at all uncommon!
What seems fitting to you about that word? Anything?
“It’s a word that comes naturally to me, and I refrain from using words like ‘loser’ because I am aware not every sub is into humiliation.”
Some mistresses don’t seem to care much what the sub is into. So, that says something about you, or at least about your style, for sure.
How did you get into fetishes and Forced Bi?
“Technically it was out of financial necessity at the time…”
I hear ya!
“…but I am glad I found it, because I was not previously aware that domination was a ‘thing’ and that there were as many fetishes as there are.”
Gotcha! And… you enjoy it, I take it?
“I could not be happier upon finding it out!”
Nice.
“I gradually expanded my fetish interests until I found forced bi. I have a sub who is into it and I discovered I enjoy it.”
So, got into it because of a sub? Cool.
How long have you been at it?
“Several years. 5 years to be precise.”
Are you exclusively online, or do you have a ‘dungeon’ or other meeting space?
“I am online only.
“I’ve allowed one sub to meet me for a ‘cash meet,’ but I am so selective that I don’t like subs to even think it’s possible to meet me.”
Safety first.
What’s your main goal? I mean… is this primarily a money-making venture for you? Or is it an expression of who are, such that you’d do it even if money weren’t in the equation?
“My aim is money.”
Roger that!
“However… I only do what I enjoy.”
I respect that. And I congratulate you! Not everyone is so lucky.
Full time? Part time? Sometime?
“It’s a full-time occupation.”
Awesome.
What do you think about that level of involvement? Are you good with it?
“I’m satisfied where things are at. I love my job.”
Amazing!
Would you feel comfortable sharing anything personal about yourself?
“I am 30.
“I am married although the relationship is sadly more vanilla.
“I am pansexual.”
Thanks for that.
Lemme ask you some questions about the Forced-Bi fetish in particular.
I’m actually going to springboard from the words themselves: “Forced” and “Bi.” Let’s go with “Bi” first.
So, obviously, the reference is to bisexuality. Do you think that it’s possible to be “truly” bisexual? I mean… where a person is more or less equally attracted to males and females? Or, do you think it’s usually more one or the other?
“Yes; I think it’s possible.”
What is the Forced-Bi fetish to you? Is this also a combination of lifestyle and role play?
“I guess I would say mostly lifestyle.”
Really?
“Possibly role play.”
Little of both?
What name do you call the fetish? “Coerced Bi”? “Encouraged Bi”? “Forced Bi”?
“Any of them. I don’t really have a preference.”
Just checking.
Ever deal with women? Or are you mostly “Forcing” males to be bi?
“I think it can pertain to both, I guess. But I deal primarily with men, so I have a mental association of forced bi and men.”
Yeah. That does seem to be the typical situation.
All right…
“Forced” is nothing illegal or nonconsensual. But, what is it to you? Coercion? Commanding? Encouraging? Enticing? Giving permission? Inducing? Instructing? Persuading? Seducing?
“Mixture of ordering and instructing.”
Interesting.
“I like to give a sub guidance and help him… practice – so to speak.”
Ha! Practice makes perfect, I suppose.
“But I don’t really coerce or seduce him or anything to that effect. I expect obedience.”
I understand. All this helps give guys a glimpse into how you think and interact.
What do you think “happens” in or through the Forced-Bi encounters that a guy has? Does a male end up changing his sexual orientation?
“I don’t think a man really changes his sexuality. I think he might be gay or at the very least bi and is just looking for a push into actually doing it.”
Right on.
“Perhaps it’s easier to ‘blame’ me and act like I ‘made’ him… but he definitely wanted it to begin with. The desire was already there.”
Forced-Bi.com has an ARTICLE diving into that question as little more deeply and philosophically.
Are there actual switches? Is that possible, in your opinion?
“I believe it’s possible for a man to be a switch, sure.”
Some mistresses don’t think so. They think guys are tops or bottoms, period.
Here’s one for you…
Do you like to watch guy-on-guy? I mean… the males are often said to enjoy viewing girl-on-girl sex?
“I don’t particularly care about guy-on-guy sex.”
To each, her own!
“It doesn’t do anything for me per say.
“However, if it is a sub obeying me, then I get a great enjoyment out of it because I like being obeyed.”
The control/power angle. I get it.
Does having had guy-on-guy sex make a guy less attractive, in your opinion. More? No change?
“A man’s sexuality does not make him more or less desirable to me. If he’s bi and I find him attractive, I do not care that he’s bi. It doesn’t affect it at all.”
Do you think of the fetish itself – overall, so to speak – as “healthy,” “unhealthy,” or “neutral”? I mean, psychologically – I’ll ask you about sexually transmitted diseases and infections in a moment.
“It’s neutral.”
Just harmless fun? Exploration?
“Sure. If they’re bi or gay, they get to explore it.
“If they’re not they get to experiment.
“I see no harm in that.”
Do you see any of this in religio-spiritual terms?
“I am not religious at all.”
Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called “binary language” – e.g., thinking in terms of “feminine” versus “masculine,” etc. – when it comes to John Money’s concept of “gender” and sexuality. But forced bi, arguably, has a kind of “bi-narism” built into its name.
“I haven’t really given it any thought, but I don’t think it’s a problem.”
Now to the fan-favorite questions! Ha!
What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?
“This is a tough one.”
Too close to call?
“I get a kick out of watching cock sucking. Even on a dildo makes me laugh.”
Aha! Yeah?
“But I’m not sure anything really compares to the enjoyment and amusement of watching them eat cum. Either their own or someone else’s. It is truly hysterical to me.”
Too funny!
Do you think this fetish is getting more popular? …going more “mainstream”?
“I have no idea. I’ve never really paid attention to the popularity of a fetish. I just focus on what I enjoy.”
Have you noticed it being promoted by any mainstream outlets?
“I don’t know. I don’t pay attention to what the mainstream media promotes.”
Fair enough.
Which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role I want?
“I have no preference. I’m flexible. I work with what I’ve got.”
Does it arouse you at all? Or is it only an amusement for you? Watching…
“I can be aroused but not usually. I’m primarily just amused by it.”
Do you think that a guy can “just try” sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?
“Yes.
“You never know what you like until you try. Maybe they liked the fantasy of it, but the reality was not to their liking.”
What’s of most interest to you? I mean, do you want guys to do it – that is, have real, physical encounters? Or, are you happy to keep things at the level of fantasy chat?
“I tend to keep things at the level of fantasy chat because most men I have encountered are not ready for the involvement of another man.
“But I do love it when they show they aren’t a coward and can actually go beyond just the fantasy chat.”
How “involved” are you? Just commanding them – and them letting them do what they will with it? Do you like to watch, real time?
“I primarily just instruct but if they do actually go through with it and don’t chicken, out I want a minimum of photographic proof.”
What turns you on about it?
“It’s my power really.
“Seeing how far a man will go for me just because I told him to – isn’t really comparable.”
No doubt!
Any particular acts? You mentioned cocksucking and cum eating. Anything else?
“I like it all I don’t really have a preference on this one.”
Just pretty much whatever!? Gotcha!
What about limits. Do you have any? Insist on any for your subs?
“I have my own limits; I have lines I am not willing to cross. And I respect the limits of my subs as well.”
You’re a nice Mistress!
How do you feel about guys having condom-less sex? “Barebacking.”
“I prefer they be safe.”
That’s smart.
“If they both have a clean bill of health, that’s fine. But otherwise, nah… I prefer condoms.”
So, with respect to STD/STI risk: you insist on cleanliness?
“My preference is the sub to stay clean. Risking STDs is not something I enjoy or get any amusement out of.”
I sensed as much.
What do you think about married guys? Should they stay away? Are they welcome? Do you care?
“I don’t care if they are married. It’s not something I care to ask.”
What about so-called “poppers”? You know… amyl-nitrite inhalers.
“I tolerate their use.
“I don’t care if they’re used but they don’t do anything for me, enjoyment-wise.”
Pretty much right in the sweet spot of Safe, Sane, Consensual.
Can a guy get “addicted” to gay sex? Do you care if that happens? Do you aim at it as an outcome of all this?
“I don’t really care if they do become addicted to it, as long as they’re safe about it.
“I’m fairly positive for them to want this in the first place there was a good chance they were gay or at least bi anyway.”
What else do you enjoy? Get into any other mischief?
“I enjoy multiple other fetishes.”
Oh, good!
“CBT[1] is a personal favorite. CEI,[2] SPH,[3] and humiliation are extremely fun to me. I also enjoy orgasm denial.
“I have a long list honestly.”
Written out somewhere?
Where can interested readers discover more about you?
“My website is servegoddesstay.com where you can find all my clip sites.
“And my twitter is twitter.com/GoddessTayJ”
That’s awesome!
Thanks so much for being with me today!
Have a kinky summer! Stay healthy!
(All photographs of Goddess Tay on this website are Copyright 2020 Goddess Tay. They are reproduced here with permission.)
Notes:
[1] CBT = “cock-and-ball torture”
[2] CEI = “cum-eating instruction”
[3] SPH = “small-penis humiliation”