Who meets in real life? And…where can you find her??
One answer used to be simple (even if a bit, well… sketchy): Backpage, Craigslist, and any of a handful of lesser online “personal-ad” web pages. But in the aftermath of recent legislation, this easy answer has gone bye-bye. At least for U.S.-based readers.
So, I suppose that the answer partially depends on where in the world you are.
There are of course sex-oriented “dating” websites. For example, there’s Adult Friend Finder (aff.com), and a host of other, more fetish-themed competitors such as FetLife and AFF’s own sister site, Alt.com.
And if you’re content to just chat about Forced bi, then there’s a blue million websites for that. (My list will appear in a forthcoming post.)
Beyond this, at least in the U.K., there is AdultWork. You can find at least one or two “Mistress types” on there.
But in my cyber wanderings I have so far found two women who seem to be up for in-person forced-bi encounters.
Lady Yce
The first one I’ll name calls herself Lady Yce. So… what to say?
I used to notice her posts on Craigslist — that is, before that website’s more interesting oubliettes were sealed off. Last I checked, she was based in Las Vegas.
In any event, from what I gathered, Lady Yce is (or was) the real deal. Actually willing to meet — and to arrange man-on-man kinkiness.
That she also does (or did) strap-on play (or “pegging”) is obvious from several of her photographs, available online last I looked for them.
She looks 40-ish and seems messed up — in a good way.
Warning
The only cautionary note is that, from my reading of her internet “footprint,” I can’t rule out that she’s into some kind of drug scene — which, I hasten to add for legal purposes, I in no way condone or recommend.
I’m not for sure, but “Yce” could be a play on “Ice” — a common nickname for a type of methamphetamine, or “meth,” known as Crystal Meth. (Or… it could just be a reference to her calculating, cool, or otherwise icy and aloof demeanor.)
I’m just shooting from the hip, here (hell if I know what I’m talking about), but a few of her photos show her exhaling some kind of smoke. This could be cigarette smoke or “vape” vapor or whatever the fuck. But…it could be an indication that she “blows clouds” — another meth reference, if Urban Dictionary is to be believed.
So, know your limits in advance. And take my “warning” with a grain of salt.
But have fun! Because…she strikes me as kinky af (as you crazy kids might say).
Goddess Lilith
This sexy degenerate runs something she calls “Exalted” (it’s a “FemDom” thing). Billed as a “fetish party,” this event is organized periodically by the Goddess herself.
As of this writing, the last event was held sometime in February 2019 (around Valentine’s Day — maybe the 12?) in or near Providence, Rhode Island. Another had been conducted in April of 2018. Perhaps there were a few in between. I don’t know. What am I? Her personal assistant?
Anyway…the event has at least sometimes been divided into “dungeon” play — where, presumably, there is an emphasis on bondage, foot-fetish activities, corporal punishment, and the like of that — and a “dark dance floor area” — which, for all I know is modeled after a “rave.”
However, from correspondence with Goddess Lilith, as well as from my own inferences from posted comments, Instagram posts, Tweets, and so on, Exalted appears to me to be, well… whatever the hell you want it to be! Or, to put it more carefully, it’s whatever participating Mistresses would like it to be for their submissives. This includes… wait for it… Forced bi 😉
Yep. It seems that Goddess Lilith has a taste for presiding over guy-on-guy fuckery.
Condoms? Well, they’re somewhere between optional and forbidden. I’m leaning towards discouraged. This probably depends on the president’s proclivities.
Warning
Stranger barebacking (i.e., condomless sex with random people) is inherently risky. So, attend at your own risk. (I know ya wanna.)
Because Goddess Lilith — while she may be sweet as pie to her friends — has a decidedly black/Satanic vibe to everyone else (or maybe it’s just me). And, frankly, she probably couldn’t care less about the well being of the man flesh interlocking for her viewing pleasure.
For our Exclusive Interview with Goddess Lilith, click HERE.