Many “dominatrixes,” “mistresses,” and the like of that have procedures for “training” males to suck cock and get fucked in the ass. A good deal of these involve the insertion of some sort of device or item into the guys’ assholes. These items could be household objects like flashlights (or, in a pinch, lint-roller handles), vegetables like the proverbial cucumbers and carrots, or actual sex toys such as dildos and strap-ons.
A “strap-on,” for those who are unaware, is a plastic or rubber penis simulacrum that is attached to a belt or “harness,” allowing a woman (usually) to wear it over her pelvis for the purpose (again, usually) of penetrating someone’s anus, mouth, or vagina. It is essentially a “wearable” dildo. (See HERE.)
In the context of the forced-bi fetish, mistresses use these devices to get male submissives used to putting penis-shaped objects into their butts and mouths. The action of inserting the strap-on into a man’s rectum is sometimes termed “pegging.”
A key to this “training,” which is really just a form of psychological conditioning or desensitizing, is sexual arousal. The Mistress has got to get the man aroused. There are many possible explanations for this.
At a basic level, emotions are behavioral triggers. And strong emotions are strong behavioral triggers. People are arguably highly suggestible while in intense emotional states. Two such powerful, and primal, states are fear and sexual arousal.
Fear states might surround anxiety over the possibilities of accident, blackmail, death, dismemberment, divorce, emasculation, exposure, and many other things. When combined with sexual arousal, these states can be especially transformative.
The “BDSM scene,” broadly construed, incorporates many of these elements. For example, we see some mistresses advertising themselves as “blackmail” or “home-wrecking” specialists. We see bondage being incorporated into face-to-face scenes. Occasionally, we also see more dangerous pastimes like “asphyxia” – a fetish in which a person chokes him- or herself, or one’s partner, for sexual gratification.
Even when considered separately, sexual arousal by itself is powerful.
Therefore, we see sometimes scantily clad mistresses enticing males into sodomizing themselves – or allowing themselves to be sodomized. When these men are aroused by their mistress, they are more deeply and effectively conditioned into being aroused by anal penetration.
In effect, sexual arousal puts the male’s mind into a suggestible state. Once in that state, the Mistress’s job becomes incredibly easy. She just intimates or states that she would love to see the guy with something in his ass. And…voila! He complies.
Suggestions are then multiplied. And, ideally, the man is moved from inserting fingers and objects in his asshole, to letting himself be penetrated by an actual cock.
Whether the Mistress wants to see him take the cock bareback or protected is a matter of taste. But, frequently, the sex will be unprotected.
So-called “coerced” cum eating is another facet of this training. And it works the same, basic way. First the male is persuaded to taste his own sperm. By turns, this advances to the point where he is willing to swallow the baby batter of another guy.
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