Forced Bi may be gaining in popularity. And, with practitioners like today’s curvy, sadistic guest, it’s easy to see why.
Hi! And… welcome!
Let’s start with the basics! How do you prefer to be addressed?
“Most of the time I prefer ‘Goddess,’ but will sometimes accept ‘Mistress,’ ‘Ma’am,’ or ‘Mommy.’”
Well… I’ll keep it simple, Goddess Reba!
How did you get into fetishes in general and Forced Bi in particular? (Are you surprised by your fame and influence?)
“I’ve always been curious and fascinated with anything that is considered ‘Taboo.’ And when you grow up in a conservative, 1970s/80s, Midwest household, what can be naughtier and more taboo than sexual fetishes?”
Haha! I see your point! Very much so!
In Forced Bi, what does “force” actually mean?[1] What are we talking about? Coercion? Commandment? Encouragement? Enticement? Inducement? Instruction? Permission? Persuasion? Provocation? Seduction? Other?
“All of the above are great ways to define the ‘forced’ aspect of Forced Bi.
“But, really, is it actually ‘forced’ when the guy is begging for it?”
Haha! Fair enough!
Do pegging or strapon sessions lead a guy into Forced Bi? Or are they separate fetishes?
“In some cases, they can be separate fetishes – sure.
“But, in my experience, pegging and strap-on play is usually a kind of ‘gateway’ – or even a trial run – to the real thing (i.e., Forced Bi).”
Sexy pegging Mistresses are the gateway drug into hardcore gay sex!
Does Forced Bi change a sub’s sexual orientation? Can it “make” a guy “turn gay”?
“I don’t think so.
“This is just my opinion, but I feel that most people are bisexual to some degree, anyway.
“Taking part in a Forced-Bi session just gives that person permission to explore something they are already interested in, and/or gives them the freedom to drop the socially acceptable mask we all wear and be their true selves – even if it is only for an hour or so.”
So… I’m picking up that you think of it mostly as healthy exploration. But… can it have a dark side? For example, is it “addictive”?
“Can Forced Bi be addictive?”
Yes.
“Absolutely – especially if you have an addictive personality.”
Readers: Beware!
Are Forced-Bi subs always/usually males? Or could they be any gender?
“In my experience, yes.
“But that is primarily because all my clients identify as male. That being said, I don’t think Forced Bi (as a fetish) is gender exclusive. Anyone – any gender – could be into it with little to no problems.”
What Forced-Bi activities do you enjoy overseeing?
Is it mostly fantasy chat for you, or do you encourage real, in-the-flesh activities like anal sex, bukkake, cock sucking, creampies, cum eating, facials, frottage, kissing, rimming, etc.?
“I love it all!”
Oh? Mmm… yummy!
“And I do encourage real in-person encounters.”
Okay… now I’m feeling warm all over…
“Everyone should expand their horizons: physically, mentally …and metaphorically.”
Does Forced Bi arouse you, amuse you, or other?
“Forced Bi amuses and delights me.”
Interesting! “Delight” is an intriguing word, here.
What delights you most: the gay sex or your power?
“It’s the power trip surrounding it that arouses me.”
How do you see yourself? Are you on the “light side,” playfully promoting healthy exploration; or the “dark side” – hinted at, earlier – for instance: corrupting and tempting men to disaster like a mythical siren?
“I had never thought about it before…”
Ha! Nice!
“But… I guess you could say that I am on the ‘light side.’ I like to keep thing playful and positive.”
Fair enough! I mean, the question is aiming at generalities, for sure. People are going to be complex and layered.
“However, I definitely have a ‘dark side’ that can be very, very sadistic.”
Ooh… that’s hot! I’m trying to guess now why you’re sometimes known as “GoddessRebaXxxTreme”!
Maybe that’s an interesting segue…
Do you have any limits?
“Of course, I have limits!”
Right on.
“Granted, they are few and far between, but I still have them.”
Haha! Love it!
How do you feel about guys “barebacking” / guys having condomeless gay sex?
“When it comes to ‘barebacking’ I think it’s super-hot, but I am aware of the risks involved. So, if a client says that he wants to do ‘barebacking,’ I make sure he is also aware of the risks involved.
“Then we proceed accordingly.”
Mmm… My mind is racing – trying to keep up with all the sadistic scenarios, here!
Any thoughts on guys incorporating amyl-nitrate inhalers – er… so-called “poppers”?
“This is going to be an unpopular opinion, but I am not a fan of ‘poppers.’ I know some people love them, but I just don’t care for them.”
To each, her own! I’m not judging… just cataloging!
Thank you so much for being with us and sharing your perspectives!
Oh! Don’t forget to let readers know where they can find you online!
“I can be found here:
“www.peplove.com/ladies/goddess-reba
“www.twitter.com/@GoddessRebaXxx
“and www.kinkacademy.com/2018/10/outskirts-of-kinky-town/.”
Oh, my! Thank you so much, Goddess Reba!
Notes:
[1] For legal reasons, obviously, it must mean something other than criminal compulsion. See HERE and HERE.