Hello to all you perverts out there in Forced-Bi Land! Today, for your masturbatory indulgence, I’m welcoming a fair-skinned and feisty practitioner of your favorite fetish.
Thank you for joining me today!
Why don’t you introduce yourself? How do you prefer to be addressed?
“Queen Sheridan.”
All right. Now, there are numerous titles that women use in your line of work. I’m thinking of “Alpha,” “Brat,” “Domme,” “Goddess,” “Mean Girl,” “Mistress,” “Princess,” and so on. You’ve referred to yourself as “Queen.” But… do any of the others resonate?
“I’m just all of it!”
Ha! That’s awesome!
Thinking of your activities, then… along the lines of any of the above, what do you see yourself as doing? I mean… is this a pastime? A Lifestyle? A social crusade?
“It’s a lifestyle, for sure. This is actually who I am, in a sense!
“But, there’s an element of role play – and even of cosplay – as well.”
Similarly, there are a number of words that sometimes describe the people who seek out the services of someone like you. “Masochists,” “slaves,” “subs,” etc. What word do you prefer for these kinds of people?
“There are ‘losers’ or just ‘subs.’”
Is this for psychological reasons?
“Just sounds better in my opinion.”
What got you into the world of domination and fetishes, in general – and forced bi in particular?
“I love toying with men and realize I have so much control over them. Men are dumb.”
Ha! No argument. Gotta love how stupid guys are!
How long have you been doing this online?
“Nine years.”
Aha. Coming up on the big ten-O. Congrats in advance!
Do you also have a “dungeon,” studio, or other space for face-to-face, in-person, or real-time meets?
“Nope. It’s just online for me.”
Are you aiming to make money, or derive pleasure – or both? Is it a business first and foremost, or a kink? …Or a kinky business?
“Honestly, my primary focus is the money.”
Go you!
How much of your energy and time does this take up? Is it a full-time job?
“It’s basically at the level of a hobby right now.”
Right on. A side gig.
Are you satisfied with this level of involvement?
“I’d like to be doing a lot more with it.”
Do you feel comfortable sharing anything else about yourself…
“No.”
…either on a personal, or… Oh, no problem.
“Subs are obviously fucked up in the head. As much as I like fucking with them, it’s risky. Many women have been stalked down and murdered. That’s why I don’t do face-to-face meets.”
Alrighty, then…
Well… lemme take a step back, here, and talk for a moment about something a little less volatile and a little more philosophical.
I mean… your thoughts on the contours of the fetish, itself.
On the face of it, the “forced-bi fetish” has two components: (1) “force” and (2) “bisexuality.” Let’s handle both, but in reverse order.
Do you think that true “bisexuality” – where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males (but see a further question about problems with so-called “binarism”) – is possible?
“Yes, of course. What would this fetish be about if it weren’t?”
Which of the following, if any, do you think of the Forced-Bi fetish as? Same as above? Combination of lifestyle and roleplay?
“Yep.”
There are actually a few names for this fetish: “coerced bi,” “encouraged gay,” “enforced bi,” etc., etc. What do you call it?
“Forced bi.”
In practice, “forced bi” seems most often to apply to men being somehow impelled to perform sexually (or to imagine performing sexually) with other men. However, in theory, it seems that it could apply to other things – for example, to women being impelled to perform sexually with other women – as well.
Do you see it primarily in terms of male submission, male and female submission, both, or neither?
“I think it definitely pertains mostly to male submission.”
As far as goes the second core idea, the idea of being “forced” is a little vague. For legal reasons, “forced” probably means something less than literally compelled by threat of force. Which, if any, of the following do you think is most fitting? If possible, please answer in your own words!
“I guess I think of it as a composite of several things.
“Sometimes, I’m seducing guys into it. I exploit their attraction to use them. Or I use forced-bi scenarios as tasks that guys have to do to get my attention.
“Occasionally, I’m more of a teacher – explaining to a guy how to become a good cocksucker.
“But, often, I’m just in the position of ordering a sub to do it.”
What do you think is actually going on with “forced bi”? Does a guy actually change his sexual orientation?
“I wouldn’t say that every sub is really gay underneath. But, it’s not like I’m changing anyone. Maybe a guy does it just to obey me, or to please me.”
Is it possible for a guy to be a “switch” or “versatile”? (That is, to be able to take on the role of either bottom or top with more or less equal facility, if not enthusiasm.)
“I don’t see why not.”
Some women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex. Straight women sometimes liken their enjoyment to that expressed by straight men who like witnessing two women together sexually. And in the case of two women, it is reasonable to think that participants are not always lesbians or even bisexual. They could just be “attention whores.” Other women might just like viewing gay spectacles. And a few, more dominant types perhaps, seem to find the gender-bending and role-reversal aspects appealing.
“I like viewing guy-on-guy sex the way men might enjoy viewing girl-on-girl sex.”
A few women claim to want to date bisexual guys, participate in threesomes with them, etc. Others seem to think that once a guy tries guy-on-guy sex, he’s less desirable to women). This may be a difference of opinion between more dominant and more submissive women.
What do you think?
“Honestly? I think bisexual guys are much less attractive or desirable from a relationship standpoint, but they’re fun to watch fuck. They’re the male equivalent of strippers. Guys like to watch strippers, but not have relationships with them.”
Is the forced-bi fetish “healthy” or “unhealthy”? (Here, we mean it is positive and helpful for a male sub’s flourishing, or is it negative and unhelpful? For physical health and STD risk, see “Limits” section, below.)
“It’s healthy, sure… ha! I want my subs to fulfill their cock-whore destinies. I’m really freeing them and doing them a service.”
If you think it’s healthy, why is it healthy?
“I guess it can be productive exploration.
“But, really, who cares about the sub’s health? It’s fun for me; that’s all that matters.”
Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?
“No. I’m not religious or spiritual at all and this doesn’t factor in for me.”
Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called “binary language” – e.g., thinking in terms of “feminine” versus “masculine,” etc. – when it comes to John Money’s concept of “gender” and sexuality. But forced bi, arguably, has a kind of “bi-narism” built into its name.
Do you see this as a problem for the “forced-bi” fetish?
“No, not at all.”
Thanks for your answers.
Can I tackle some juicier topics?
What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?
“I like ordering guys to suck cock and eat or swallow cum.
“But, I also love seeing them take creampies.”
Do you think that Forced Bi, as a fetish, is getting more popular?
“I have no idea.”
Do you perceive that the Forced-Bi fetish is being promoted in any way by the so-called “mainstream media”?
“No.”
Which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role I want?
“I have no preference; I’ll work with whatever they’re willing to do.”
And I take it they’re often willing to do quite a lot.
Are you aroused by forced bi, or just amused by it?
“I’m definitely aroused by it. It’s hot. But also amused, for sure.”
Do you think that a guy can “just try” sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?
“Nope! Once he sucks cock – or takes cock in his ass – he’ll be a cockwhore thereafter. It’s highly addictive.”
What are you interested in doing? I mean… just fantasy-chatting? Or getting them to do some of this shit for rea?
“I encourage guys to have real, in-the-flesh encounters with other males.
“Chat might be the gateway; but I want to see how far they’ll go. And push them further.”
How “involved” do you like to be?
“I just issue the instruction, order, suggestion, whatever. It’s up to the guys to do what they will with it.”
What’s your biggest turn on?
“I get off on my power. To get a guy to gay stuff… Like I said: they’re dumb.”
What sexual acts, if any, really charge your batteries?
“I love cocksuckers. Getting guys to suck cock is hot.
“But I also enjoy a good cumdump – letting himself getting fucked and filled like a whore.”
Do you have any limits?
“Yes, I do.”
Like not meeting in person?
“I have many limits.”
Just for you? Or subs, too?
“For the subs, also.”
How do you feel about guys having gay sex without condoms (i.e., “barebacking”)?
“I insist on it! No doubt that barebacking is hotter. Gay cumdump for stranger loads.”
Relatedly, some Mistresses insist on safety because Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) in a sub are completely undesirable. Others don’t care either way. Some even profess to find it a turn on to see a guy engage in risky gay sex.
How do you feel about STDs and STD risk?
“I don’t care either way, to be honest. It’s not my body.”
Again, thinking about Forced-Bi encounters, how do you feel about married men?
“I’m fine with married men. Again… I’m not married to him. But I don’t necessarily seek them out.”
How do you feel about amyl-nitrite inhalers (“poppers”)?
“They’re all right.”
You’ll tolerate them, you mean?
“Sure, yeah. Whatever floats your boat.”
How do you feel about guys really getting addicted to gay sex?
“I couldn’t care less. It’s not my health or my life.”
Do you have any other fetishes or activities that you like to participate in, direct, or instruct? (E.g., “blackmail,” cock-and-ball “torture” [CBT], crossdressing, cum-eating, cum-eating instruction [CEI], humiliation, pegging/strapon, small-penis humiliation [SPH], Etc.)
“I also enjoy teasing, forcing, … All of the above fetishes. Pretty much all you said.”
How can fans and other interested persons check out your work? (Do you have any social media accounts or websites to share?)
“Twitter, my ClipStores or my website. My name is ‘QueenSheridan’ on Twitter. All other links I have are on there.”
Thank you for being with us.
(The image of Queen Sheridan in this post is Copyright 2020 by Queen Sheridan. It is reproduced here by permission.)