Okay! Today’s guest is intense! And her BDSM interests run to the frankly exotic – not to say… to the extreme! Bottom line? You’re in for a wild ride! So, pay attention – and watch your ass! (Because it’s highly likely your ass is precisely where some of the action will go down!)
Hello! Thanks so much for being with us!
First of all, what should we call you? What name do you go by?
“I prefer to be addressed as ‘Goddess Evanescence.’”
Right on, Goddess Evanescence. Welcome!
How did you get into fetishes in general?
“I never got turned on by the traditional things that I was told I should be turned on by.”
Okay! Interesting! Can you give us a for-instance?
“I hate kissing and vanilla sex.”
No kidding?
“I remember the first time I saw a knife-play scene. It was done with a [riding] crop and a knife on a submissive’s bare bottom. At the time, it was the steamiest thing I’d ever seen.
“I already knew I was different than my peers. I went home and tried a machete blade on myself.”
Oh, gawd! Don’t try that at home, kiddos!
“It was the best, scariest, most exhilarating brain-gasm I’d ever had. I was in tears by the end of it. It was because I had pushed myself to the edge, which is what I needed at the moment.”
So, is that an aspect of play that you’ve continued?
“The video I posted on X about blade placement remains one of my most watched videos.”
Holy crap! Who would’ve known?
How did you add Forced Bi into your repertoire?
“The first time I did forced bi, it was at a ‘play party’ with a group of people watching.”
Mmmm! An exhibitionism vibe! I dig it!
“The submissives were so turned on that I just had to leave them standing there with blue balls. When they asked me what I wanted them to do with their hard-ons, I said, ‘You figure it out! I’m not responsible for your little members.’”
Haha! Wow!
“Cruel? Yes. But I consider myself the Queen of Tease and Denial.”
Kinky!
I was surprised to hear that the knife-play video is your most viewed. But… are you surprised by how often you’re asked about a Forced-Bi scene?
“I am not surprised by the popularity of forced bi, although I do think there are a lot of misconceptions about the term.”
Well… let me ask you about that!
What does “force” actually mean to you?
“Forced Bi, from my perspective, means a pre-negotiation of consensual non-consent.”
Copy that. What does that come down to for you?
“For me, this means that – regardless of the individual’s sexual orientation or identity – they are able to step into the ‘what if,’ through a scene.”
The “what if”?
“They are able to engage in a form of psychological play that allows them to feel as if they are being ‘made’ to do something they may consider ‘humiliating,’ ‘exhilarating,’ or ‘taboo.’”
I think I gotcha. The “forcing” is just pretense?
“It is a way to safely explore a part of themselves without fear or judgment.”
Right on. A safe space for exploration.
Do crossdressing, pegging or strap-on sessions lead a guy into Forced Bi?
“I wouldn’t say that crossdressing, pegging or strapons ‘lead’ a guy into forced bi.
“I would say that if he/they/she has a desire for that type of play, then the interest is already there, innately. For someone who is interested and may want to pursue their interest through a process, you could use any of these types of play to introduce them to the idea of it in a methodical way. It could be part of a series of steps in-session to build up to that moment.”
That makes sense. If I’m hearing you right, what you’re suggesting is that some types of play are like pathways. If you want to get to my house, you can walk up my path. My path “leads” to my house in the sense that it’s a convenient way for you to get there. But you have to decide, on your own, to go to my house before the path matters.
Based on that, I think I know what you’ll say, but – in your opinion – does Forced Bi change a sub’s sexual orientation?
“I don’t feel that forced bi changes a sub’s orientation.
“There is a great article by Sabra L. Katz-Wise, PhD, Assistant professor in social and behavioral sciences at Harvard that indirectly addresses this question. In it, she talks about the stigma behind bisexuality, understanding sexual orientation and sexual fluidity.
“You can read more on it here: https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/bisexuality-and-health-the-cost-of-invisibility-2019102918059.”
Thanks! We’ll check it out!
“If you look at ‘sexual orientation,’ it can also be defined as sexual fluidity – something that changes over time. In her article, Sabra says, ‘As people experience the world and learn more about themselves, their views, beliefs and feelings may change, and sexual fluidity reflects one possible change over time, a change that fits into the greater diversity of sexuality.’
“So, in the process of exploring yourself and your interests, you could find that your sexual orientation has changed. However, I wouldn’t say that engaging in forced bi would be the sole factor in discovering and cultivating more awareness about your sexual orientation.
“I would say it could be a way to explore what makes you tick. And… afterwards? You begin to ask more questions about yourself and define what those experiences mean for you.”
It’s kind of an evolutionary perspective applied to sexuality.
Are Forced-Bi subs always/usually males?
“I feel that forced-bi subs could be of any gender, sexual identity or orientation.”
Right on.
Preference-wise, are you equally open to “Tops” and “bottoms”?
“I prefer clients who are bottoms because of the power dynamic. For this type of play, I enjoy topping.”
Haha! Fair enough!
Speaking of what you enjoy…
Are there specific Forced-Bi activities that you really get into?
“Activities that I enjoy overseeing while including forced-bi play are ‘kidnapping-and-interrogation’ scenes, edge play, fantasy chat, role play, chastity, sensory deprivation, objectification, verbal degradation, humiliation, ‘sluttification,’ and sensual domination.”
Oh, wow! Haha! That’s an intense assortment!
I have to ask: Does Forced Bi arouse you, or just amuse you?
“Forced bi amuses me, as I feel tickled by watching my sub(s) become aroused. This is because the more they are aroused, the more I like to torment them. This is where my sadistic side comes into play.”
I can surmise!
What fascinates you most: the gay sex or your power? Something else?
“What fascinates me the most is the desperation and desire I see in their eyes – knowing I am in full control of giving them more pain or pleasure or… taking it away.”
Interesting!
How do you see yourself? Are you on the “light side,” playfully promoting healthy exploration; or the “dark side,” corrupting and tempting men to disaster like a mythical siren?
“I consider myself a duality.”
Why am I not surprised?!?
“On one hand, I can be playful and fun. But, on the other hand, forced bi activates my dark, inner temptress. Like a siren, I enjoy luring willing subs into a heart-pounding scene.”
Mmmm… I think I forgot the next question!
Let me come back down to earth for a moment.
Do you have any limits? For example, what are your thoughts about subs using “poppers”?
“Even though poppers are legal, the side effects can be serious health problems, hospitalization, and even death.”
No joke. Any of that would be a total buzzkill.
“Because of this, I wouldn’t allow my subs to use poppers pre-session or during a session.”
Right on. How do you feel about guys “barebacking”?
“In terms of barebacking, my motto is, ‘always use protection,’ because… better safe than sorry.”
Respect.
What do you think about married men?
“What is my opinion on married men coming to me?”
Right… for Forced Bi, obviously.
“I don’t usually session with couples. However, for me, lifestyle play has a different set of rules depending on the day and what I desire.
“In terms of married men coming to sessions, I don’t judge anyone who comes to me – their interests, or their relationship status.
“I feel that sex and sexuality are more stigmatized than violence in our society. It is not my job to place my moral compass as a standard for those who choose to session with me.”
Thank you for sharing that.
Before you go, don’t forget to let readers know where they can find you online!
“You may find me on my website: www.goddessevanescence.cuties-sites.com. I book with national, traveling and international clients directly through my website intake form.
“I’m also on Instagram: @goddessevanescence. Though, my Instagram DM is for photographers only.”
“X: @goddessevanesce
“Prospective subs may also reach me in real-time to chat or request a live connection through LoyalFans.: www.loyalfans.com/goddessevanescence.
“And international clients may send booking inquires through DM on X, through my website intake form, or to my email goddessevanescence@gmail.com.”
Okay! Interested readers: You know where to go!
“Also… I am always in the market for willing film slaves.”
Oh, boy! That’s great! Apply at your own risk! Haha!
Thank you so, so much for being with us today, Goddess Evanescence!
It’s been both enlightening and stimulating!
If you haven’t already, please connect with us on Twitter / X! @ForcedBisexual!
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