{"id":990,"date":"2021-03-04T20:18:14","date_gmt":"2021-03-04T20:18:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/forced-bi.com\/?p=990"},"modified":"2021-03-06T20:18:50","modified_gmt":"2021-03-06T20:18:50","slug":"mistress-ruby-enraylls-forced-bi-w-dominatrix-fetish-icon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/index.php\/2021\/03\/04\/mistress-ruby-enraylls-forced-bi-w-dominatrix-fetish-icon\/","title":{"rendered":"Mistress Ruby Enraylls: Forced Bi w\/ Dominatrix\/Fetish Icon"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hello! Welcome!<\/p>\n<p>First of all, what is your name? What do you go by?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>My name is Ruby Enraylls. You may call me \u2018Mistress Ruby,\u2019 if that suits our dynamic.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Right on, Mistress Ruby!<\/p>\n<p>So, besides \u201cMistress,\u201d any other titles you enjoy? \u201cAlpha\u201d? \u201cBrat\u201d? \u201cDomme\u201d? \u201cGoddess\u201d? \u201cPrincess\u201d? Etc.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-994\" src=\"http:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/2-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"399\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/2-2.jpg 399w, https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/2-2-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 399px) 100vw, 399px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I honestly could use any of those titles.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Oh, my!<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>For me, it really depends on the relationship dynamic, which can be quite personal.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I gotcha.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Most frequently, I would say that I use \u2018Mistress\u2019 as a moniker for simplicity\u2019s sake, and as a default.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I would describe myself as a <em>dominatrix<\/em> simply because that is the job title, and I enjoy being a dominatrix.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>However, you can\u2019t go wrong with \u2018Goddess\u2019 or \u2018Princess,\u2019 as long as you\u2019re treating me with respect.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I find \u2018Alpha\u2019 to be a bit redundant as a title, though.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Fair enough.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>To be honest, I don\u2019t really use a title in a play context other than for formal training and to instill respect.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I do use \u2018Domina,\u2019 \u2018Dominatrix,\u2019 and \u2018Mistress\u2019 in online contexts, because I think those are words that most people are familiar with but I think that my name stands alone and doesn\u2019t need to be modified for me to be superior.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Haha! Well said!<\/p>\n<p>And how do you think of yourself? I mean\u2026 is this a lifestyle for you? A profession only? A hobby? Something else? Social activism?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I describe myself as <em>a lifestyle Dominatrix<\/em>. To me, this means that I am involved in the BDSM lifestyle, that I am kinky, and that I primarily identify as \u2018Dominant.\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I\u2019m also passionate about the activism surrounding BDSM. But I don\u2019t view that as my <em>primary<\/em> motivation for being involved in BDSM, or the lifestyle of being a Dominatrix.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-999\" src=\"http:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/4-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/4-2.jpg 400w, https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/4-2-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let me change gears for a second. How do you view those who seek you out? Are they \u201cbetas\u201d? \u201cLosers\u201d? \u201cMasochists\u201d? \u201cSlaves\u201d? \u201cSubs\u201d? Etc.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Similarly to my answer about my own title, I don\u2019t think that it is fair to apply a blanket term to <em>everyone and anyone<\/em> who might identify as a \u2018bottom,\u2019 \u2018submissive,\u2019 \u2018slave,\u2019 etc.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I think it makes a lot more sense to ask each person what word represents them.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I can appreciate that.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>A \u2018masochist\u2019 is <em>someone who enjoys pain<\/em>, whereas a \u2018loser\u2019 is <em>someone who feels like a \u2018loser<\/em>.<em>\u2019<\/em> It\u2019s a title, whereas \u2018masochist\u2019 is an <em>identifier<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Calling everyone you play with either one of those terms would be\u2026 odd to me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>For every two BDSM practitioners, you\u2019ll get three opinions! Haha!<\/p>\n<p>What got you into the world of domination and fetishes, in general \u2013 and Forced Bi in particular?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I\u2019ve always been interested in domination, BDSM and fetish. I started getting involved in the lifestyle when I was eighteen. And, for me, it has progressed, evolved, and grown since then.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I gather that!<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>What got me interested in forced bi was the control that you have over someone else. The lengths to which someone will go to obey you and to respect the relationship is very alluring to me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mmm\u2026 Yes!<\/p>\n<p>And how long have you been online?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Honestly, I have been doing this online for over ten years. I started in real life earlier than that, though.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I was just going to ask you that!<\/p>\n<p>Is it exclusively online now for you? Or do you have an in-person space, also?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Yes, I have my own dungeon.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Many people in my area have their own private dungeons and I think everyone here puts their own spin on their space, and it becomes very unique to them.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Right on. That\u2019s Seattle, Washington, yes?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>My dungeon is like my sanctuary.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Oh? No kidding? I can imagine! A slice of the world that you control 100%.<\/p>\n<p>I am sensing that this is about more than money for you. What drives you?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I enjoy what I do.\u00a0 Plain and simple.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-998\" src=\"http:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/3-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/3-2.jpg 600w, https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/3-2-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>What really gets you going?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>What I enjoy the most about being a Dominatrix is connecting with the people that I play with, getting to understand them, and controlling them. I get a lot out of controlling people and having them serve me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Power can be intoxicating!<\/p>\n<p>How much of your life does this take up?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Domination is a full-time gig for me \u2013 and then some.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>It\u2019s a lifestyle and it\u2019s also like six jobs rolled up into one.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I can see how it might become fairly consuming!<\/p>\n<p>But, well\u2026 are you satisfied with where things are at?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I love my job.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s awesome!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1003\" src=\"http:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/5-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"399\" srcset=\"https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/5-1.jpg 600w, https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/5-1-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I love doing this. I love <em>so<\/em> much about this.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>But, I don\u2019t like how much you have to stay plugged in. The connections you make are worth it though.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s difficult to disconnect, sometimes.<\/p>\n<p>Anything else you feel comfortable sharing with the audience?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>This year I\u2019m turning 30.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Oh, well! Happy birthday, in advance! That\u2019s a milestone!<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I am polyamorous.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I am a dominatrix in my personal life. So, you can extrapolate whatever you want from that.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Haha!<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I\u2019m pansexual; you can also extrapolate whatever you want from <em>that<\/em>.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re a breath of fresh air!<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I\u2019m pretty \u2018out\u2019 about most of this information. I don\u2019t know if everybody is, but I don\u2019t give a shit if people know how old I am or if people know things about me in that regard.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I don\u2019t give a shit if people invade my privacy though.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1004\" src=\"http:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/12.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/12.jpg 450w, https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/12-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let me ask you a bit more about the fetish, itself.<\/p>\n<p>For example, do you think that true \u201cbisexuality\u201d \u2013 where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males \u2013 is possible?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I honestly don\u2019t think anything is ever really black and white. And I don\u2019t really think that the fetish of a \u2018forced\u2019 bisexuality is forcing a <em>black-and-white<\/em> attraction.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I think it\u2019s more about having someone explore something. And it\u2019s a power game. But, I mean\u2026 really, it kind of depends on the person you\u2019re playing with.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I can see that.<\/p>\n<p>You explained how important your BDSM involvement is in your life, generally. Do you feel the same way about Forced Bi, specifically?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Like everything in kink, this is also a lifestyle. Being a Dominatrix is really all-consuming.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Although it <em>could<\/em> be described as a \u2018power trip,\u2019 a \u2018game,\u2019 a \u2018fun activity,\u2019 a \u2018trap\u2019 for males, a \u2018pastime,\u2019 etc.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s a wide variation.<\/p>\n<p>Let me back up and ask\u2026 what do you refer to this fetish as? \u201cCoerced bi\u201d? \u201cEncouraged Gay\u201d? \u201cForced Bi\u201d? \u201cMake Me Gay\u201d? Etc.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I think a lot of the different names for this fetish are because of censorship. So, I think as long as someone understands what you\u2019re talking about doesn\u2019t really matter what you call something, as long as you\u2019re speaking the same \u2018language,\u2019 as it were, about the same fetish.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Fair enough!<\/p>\n<p>Is it exclusively for males? Sub-wise, I mean.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I mean, in <em>my<\/em> experience, it\u2019s mostly been male submission. However, that is just one perspective.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I do also think that there is a lot of societal pressure for men to <em>not<\/em> explore feelings of bisexuality or homosexuality. So, it makes sense to me that there would need to be a \u2018force\u2019 component for many people to feel comfortable doing something.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1002\" src=\"http:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/6.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/6.jpg 450w, https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/6-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Right on.<\/p>\n<p>Let me actually ask you more about that, if I may.<\/p>\n<p>For legal reasons, \u201cforced\u201d means something less than <em>literally compelled by threat<\/em>. But, what does that leave us with?<\/p>\n<p>For you, is it more coercion, commandment, encouragement, enticement, inducement, instruction, permission, persuasion, seduction? What do you do?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>My tactics and my approach really change depending on the person.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>For example, with many people, certain tactics don\u2019t work. However, others are extremely effective.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>As a dominatrix, it is your job to figure out what the best approach is going to be, and how to do that quickly and successfully.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I think that only having one approach is very shortsighted and amateurish. Being versatile is very important.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>At least, if you ask <em>me<\/em>. Some people just make coercion their style.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Again, the variation is interesting. Personalities factor in too, of course.<\/p>\n<p>Some Dominatrixes seem to view themselves as <em>fantasy facilitators<\/em>; in which case, many of them profess to tailor their approaches to their clients\u2019 desires.<\/p>\n<p>Others represent themselves as thoroughgoing well\u2026 <em>supremacists<\/em>. In that case, some don\u2019t appear to care one way or the other what the sub fantasizes about! Or, at least, that\u2019s the impression. Maybe it\u2019s just another layer of roleplay.<\/p>\n<p>What, in your opinion, is actually \u201cgoing on\u201d in the psychology of the sub? Specifically, does \u2013 or can \u2013 a guy \u201cchange\u201d his sexual orientation because of Forced Bi?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1000\" src=\"http:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/7.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"399\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/7.jpg 399w, https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/7-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 399px) 100vw, 399px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I\u2019m not necessarily sure that you can forcefully change someone\u2019s sexual orientation.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>This might break the fantasy.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Haha!<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>However, why would someone ask for forced bi, unless they were interested in it in the first place?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>That\u2019s not true of everyone. But, I do see a common trend.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Right. I gotcha.<\/p>\n<p>And, it\u2019s a fair question, for sure.<\/p>\n<p>Answers that get seem to suggest that some guys requesting the fetish \u2013 perhaps most guys \u2013 could very well have latent, homosexual urges.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, some Mistresses will gesture towards the possibility that, in requesting Forced Bi, a sub may crave degradation, humiliation, or even transformation for its own sake.<\/p>\n<p>Who knows?!<\/p>\n<p>Let me ask you this: Do you think a guy can be a true \u201cswitch\u201d? I mean\u2026 not necessarily in the sense of going back and forth from submissive to Dominant \u2013 but in being able to function as either a bottom or a top in a gay-sex encounter.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1001\" src=\"http:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/8.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"399\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/8.jpg 399w, https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/8-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 399px) 100vw, 399px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Sure, why not? There are often shades of gray.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>In this context, if I have told a guy to go suck a dick, and another guy is topping him but he\u2019s \u2018bottoming\u2019 to me, that makes him <em>versatile<\/em>, does it not?<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it does. I suppose the shades of gray flood this area, as well.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps some guys could function as indiscriminately as bottoms or tops with other males, whereas a few might only be able \u2013 or willing \u2013 to do so in a case like what you described: where you\u2019re a participant in the scene. \u2026beyond as the director or facilitator, I mean!<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s one for you\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Some women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex. Maybe you enjoy the optics. Maybe you see it as a spectacle! It\u2019s like the car crash you can\u2019t look away from!<\/p>\n<p>Do any of these resonate with you?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Honestly, I like all of those.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Right on. I guess it can depend on who the players are, for sure!<\/p>\n<p>What about a guy\u2019s attractiveness or desirability? It that affected by his involvement in this fetish \u2013 or by his identification as \u201cbisexual\u201d?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Someone\u2019s sexual preference doesn\u2019t necessarily matter to me. All that really matters is if they are attracted to me and resonate with me.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>And if we wanna talk about what that means, I can go into detail about it. But I also don\u2019t want to give a casual reader \u2018cheat codes.\u2019<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>You know, I was just speaking with another interviewee about that very thing!<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m happy to leave it a bit vague.<\/p>\n<p>Readers: Take note! You have to work for your rewards!<\/p>\n<p>Do you think the Forced-Bi fetish is \u201chealthy\u201d or \u201cunhealthy\u201d? \u2013 in terms of psychology, I mean.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1006\" src=\"http:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/9.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/9.jpg 400w, https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/9-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I want people to follow their dreams and be happy.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>If their desire falls into their health-risk tolerance, that\u2019s fine.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>It\u2019s for them to decide those limitations, and it\u2019s my job to provide information.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>If someone is my property, I am going to be quite strict about rules. But if we are just casually playing, there are different rules.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Anything can be healthy or unhealthy depending on the person. But I think that following your fantasies in your dreams \u2013 as long as it doesn\u2019t destroy you \u2013 can be wonderful.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAs long as it doesn\u2019t destroy you\u201d; that\u2019s sometimes the tricky part, isn\u2019t it?!<\/p>\n<p>But, by \u201cfollowing dreams\u201d is healthy\u2026 you mean\u2026?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>\u2018Healthy\u2019 because it\u2019s explorative, and it\u2019s important to do things that you deeply want to do. Period.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Understood! Thanks for that.<\/p>\n<p>Do you think of any of this in religious or spiritual terms?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I don\u2019t view myself necessarily as religious <em>or<\/em> spiritual. But, I do think that this can be viewed like a ritual. And, from talking to many people, it does seem to have that type of effect \u2013 speaking strictly from a state-of-mind standpoint.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Roger that.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s another question that\u2019s also got an abstract \u201cflavor.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called \u201cbinary language\u201d \u2013 e.g., thinking in terms of \u201cfeminine\u201d versus \u201cmasculine,\u201d etc. \u2013 when it comes to John Money\u2019s concept of \u201cgender\u201d and sexuality. But Forced Bi, arguably, has a kind of \u201cbi-narism\u201d built into its name.<\/p>\n<p>Do you see this as a problem for the \u201cForced-Bi\u201d fetish?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Unfortunately, many fetishes have \u2018-isms\u2019 built into them. And that is part of the fetish.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>So, until we decide that homosexuality is \u2018OK,\u2019 this type of fetish will exist.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I gotcha.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I honestly don\u2019t know if it is my place to judge other people based on their fetishes. It\u2019s certainly isn\u2019t my place to make a judgment call, because I think I fall into the lines of \u2018binary.\u2019 So, I wouldn\u2019t be someone who would stand out as being offended.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I am <em>for<\/em> accepting all people, though. So, it kind of becomes a gray area for me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1008\" src=\"http:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/16.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/16.jpg 400w, https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/16-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I think I follow you. I was just curious.<\/p>\n<p>Okay! Activities!<\/p>\n<p>So\u2026 what do you like ordering \u2013 or watching? Are we talking anal sex? Oral only? Kissing? Cum eating? Facials? What do you enjoy?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Literally all of it \u2013 within limits, of course.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mmm!! And\u2026 <em>yes<\/em>, of course!<\/p>\n<p>Do you think this fetish is getting more popular?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I think there\u2019s more access available now to exploring things. So, it may <em>appear<\/em> that something is more popular. I think it\u2019s just more <em>visible<\/em>.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Fair enough. That could be true.<\/p>\n<p>Do you think this fetish is being \u201cpromoted\u201d in any way by the so-called \u201cmainstream media\u201d?<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAbsolutely!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>How so?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Do you remember when a lot of folks in politics were using the word \u2018cuck\u2019? That\u2019s the first thing that comes to mind for me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ah! I see what you mean. You\u2019re saying that this fetish is getting a boost due to the fact that BDSM and fetishes in general are starting to become more mainstream?<\/p>\n<p>Right on.<\/p>\n<p>Do you prefer having guys in dedicated top\/bottom roles? Or do you prefer them to just do whatever you feel like seeing them do?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-995\" src=\"http:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/15.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"399\" srcset=\"https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/15.jpg 600w, https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/15-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I think dedicated roles makes sense. But, having some versatility is important. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Really, though, as long as they were doing what I say, it\u2019s all good to me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Haha!! Okay, then!!<\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s your reaction to this? Are you aroused at all? Amused only? Something in between? Something else, entirely?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Oh, it depends.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I\u2019m typically <em>amused and entertained<\/em>, but sometimes I\u2019m turned on.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Right on!<\/p>\n<p>Do you think that a guy can \u201cjust try\u201d sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Sure. You can <em>try<\/em> anything.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>You just may end up coming back to it.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Haha!! Mmm\u2026<\/p>\n<p>What are you interested in doing? Do you usually deal in fantasy and chat, or\u2026 are you encouraging guys to have real, in-the-flesh encounters with other males?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Ha. What do you think?<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p><em>Well<\/em>\u2026 frankly, I don\u2019t know! I know what I <em>hope<\/em>, though!! Lol!<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I am a total instigator.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mmmmm!! That\u2019s hot!!<\/p>\n<p>How \u201cinvolved\u201d do you like to be? For instance, are you mainly sitting back, issuing orders? Are you collecting photographs from encounters that \u201cgo down\u201d elsewhere? Are you observing live-streams via webcam? Or\u2026 are you presiding over real-life fuck fests?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Literally. All. Of. Those. Options.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Haha! Mmm!!! I getting distracted\u2026<\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s your main focus? Your control?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I enjoy having power and influence over men \u2013 well \u2026over <em>people<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>And I enjoy seeing how far someone will go.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Oh, gawd! Blood flow redirecting! Haha!!!<\/p>\n<p>And what homosexual acts \u2013 <em>if<\/em> <em>any<\/em> \u2013 really get you going?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1007\" src=\"http:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/10.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"399\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/10.jpg 399w, https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/10-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 399px) 100vw, 399px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I honestly love cocksuckers and cumdumps the best.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mmmm\u2026fuck\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I like imagining that I\u2019m turning them in to cumsluts. And \u2013 <em>maybe<\/em>, if they\u2019re <em>really lucky<\/em> \u2013 little whores.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Omg!!!<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re going to make me forget my final questions!<\/p>\n<p>But, seriously\u2026 let me ask about limits, briefly.<\/p>\n<p>I mean\u2026 are you, A), an anything-goes kind of Dominatrix? Or\u2026 B), do you have limits, but subs can do whatever? Or\u2026 C), do you have rigid and well-defined limits for all involved?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>It depends on the person \u2013 could be a B) or C). So, you know\u2026 reader beware!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1005\" src=\"http:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/11.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/11.jpg 600w, https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/11-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/11-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mmmm!!!<\/p>\n<p>I think I\u2019m falling in lust with you!<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s a specific: what about condomless gay sex? \u2013 so-called \u201cbarebacking.\u201d Yay, or nay?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I typically trust other people to make their own health decisions because it\u2019s their bodies and, for some people, using condoms ruins it.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mmm\u2026 Fair point!<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>It\u2019s not what <em>I<\/em> would do with my body, and it\u2019s not what I would do with <em>my<\/em> <em>property<\/em>. But, if someone that I\u2019m playing with says that it\u2019s their limit \u2013 using condoms, as opposed to not \u2013 then I will respect that.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Wow! Alrighty, then!!<\/p>\n<p>So, with respect to STD\/STI risk, it\u2019s\u2026 everyone for himself?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>The sub should be educated about what he\u2019s doing with his body. And I provide education. But if he wants to do something stupid, that\u2019s his choice.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mmm\u2026 I like your style!<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I will, however, create an environment that is as safe as possible for him.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Respect.<\/p>\n<p>Any opinion about married men?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>It\u2019s honestly not really any of my business.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Roger that.<\/p>\n<p>What about amyl-nitrate inhalants? \u201cPoppers\u201d? Any thoughts, there?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>As long as safety is considered.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Fair enough.<\/p>\n<p>How do you feel about guys really getting addicted to gay sex?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I mean\u2026 what did you think was <em>gonna<\/em> happen? <em>Really<\/em>?!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Oh, gawd, Mistress Ruby!!<\/p>\n<p>I have to know: any especially memorable Forced-Bi scenes you don\u2019t mind sharing?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-997\" src=\"http:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/14.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/14.jpg 400w, https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/14-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>One of my first \u2013 since I put someone in a straight-jacket, and we arranged to have several men come over and turn him into a slut.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Have mercy!!! Lol\u2026 mmmm!<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>He was wearing a hood; so, he couldn\u2019t see what was happening.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I can relate to that wish.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I just watched while he was defiled.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Quite an, um\u2026 eye full \u2013 I\u2019m sure!!!<\/p>\n<p>Mmmmm\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Okay! Before you go\u2026<\/p>\n<p>What else do you get into?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-996\" src=\"http:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/13.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/13.jpg 450w, https:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/13-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I love so many things!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I was hoping you\u2019d say that!<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Crossdressing, cum eating, toilet-slave training, \u2018intox,\u2019 bimbo training, hypnosis, CEI,<a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\">[1]<\/a> JOI,<a href=\"#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\">[2]<\/a> Mind control, humiliation of all types, strapon, CBT,<a href=\"#_ftn3\" name=\"_ftnref3\">[3]<\/a> sissification, blackmail, slave training, feminization\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>You name it!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Oh, Lord! So hot!!!<\/p>\n<p>Mistress Ruby, it\u2019s been so fun! Thanks for stopping by! I need a cold shower, now!<\/p>\n<p>Check out Mistress Ruby online:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Website: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.rubylovesyou.com\">www.rubylovesyou.com<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Clips and Customs: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.iwantruby.com\">www.iwantruby.com<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Serve Daily: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.onlyfans.com\/rubyenraylls\">www.onlyfans.com\/rubyenraylls<\/a>.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And be sure to follow her on Twitter:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/rubyenraylls\">https:\/\/twitter.com\/rubyenraylls<\/a>.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And don\u2019t forget to find Forced-Bi.com on our own, recently minted Twitter account: <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/forcedbisexual\">@ForcedBisexual<\/a> as well as on our kink-themed <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/EnforcedBi\/\">Subreddit<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>Notes:<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> \u201cCEI\u201d = \u201ccum-eating instruction\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\">[2]<\/a> \u201cJOI\u201d = \u201cjerk-off instruction\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref3\" name=\"_ftn3\">[3]<\/a> \u201cCBT\u201d = \u201ccock-and-ball torture\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hello! 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