Right on; welcome, Mistress!<\/p>\n
Are there any other adjective or terms that you allow \u2013 or that you enjoy?<\/p>\n
\u201cWhen it comes to titles, I am always interested in how the submissive feels called to address me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Oh, really? Interesting!<\/p>\n \u201cIf the submissive feels deeply in their bones that I am King, and it inspires their headspace to call me such, then when they say it, I will feel it.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n So, context and rapport carry a lot of weight.<\/p>\n \u201cThat said, the titles I most commonly use are \u2018Mistress,\u2019 \u2018Sir,\u2019 and \u2018Daddy.\u2019<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n You just think they have a nice ring to them?<\/p>\n \u201cI love using titles that celebrate my masculine energy as well as my femininity. \u2018Daddy\u2019 encapsulates all that I am: Strict disciplinarian, nurturer, guardian, boss.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Okay! I see where you\u2019re coming from.<\/p>\n How do you see your general involvement in the fetish world? I mean, is it a lifestyle? A hobby? Social Activism? A roleplay?<\/p>\n \u201cBDSM is my 24\/7 lifestyle as well as my profession. This is not just<\/em> a job. This is who I am.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n That\u2019s awesome!<\/p>\n \u201cI also love that it has grown into a way for me to educate others about consensual, risk-aware kink.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n On the other side of the fence, how do you think of the people who seek you out? Are they\u2026 \u201cbetas\u201d? \u201cLosers\u201d? \u201cSlaves\u201d? \u201cSubs\u201d? Or\u2026 something else?<\/p>\n \u201cIt depends on the person.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I gotcha.<\/p>\n \u201cJust as my title might be different depending on the submissive I\u2019m engaging with, the names I use for them<\/em> will differ, too.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n That makes sense. You tailor the experience \u2013 including the language.<\/p>\n \u201cI am most interested in creating an environment that brings pleasure and fulfillment to all involved.<\/p>\n \u201cThat said, I\u2019d say the most common for me are \u2018slaves,\u2019 \u2018devotees,\u2019 \u2018piggies,\u2019 \u2018bitches,\u2019 and \u2018sluts.\u2019<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! \u201cDevotees.\u201d I\u2019ll have to remember that one!<\/p>\n How do you determine what label is the most appropriate?<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s about what their flavor of submission is.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Interesting! Could you give a few examples?<\/p>\n \u201cA slave<\/em> is here to offer themselves to me in various forms of service and training.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cA devotee<\/em> is focused on worship \u2013 the way you would be to royalty or a to deity.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cA piggy<\/em> is a \u2018pay pig,\u2019 or financial submissive.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cA bitch<\/em> is typically someone who desires to be degraded and objectified \/ dehumanized in some way.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cA slut<\/em> will want their play to revolve around sexuality \u2013 being sexually used, feminized, fucked.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I can totally see what you\u2019re saying!<\/p>\n Let me take a step back and ask you a basic question about your own history.<\/p>\n What got you into the world of domination and fetishes, in general?<\/p>\n \u201cWhen I first moved to L.A., I was working in the film industry and wanted inspiration for a story. My friend invited me to a circus-themed fetish event, and I decided to go \u2013 for \u2018research.\u2019<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! I gotcha!<\/p>\n \u201cI was immediately sucked in by everything, and dove headfirst into the lifestyle. Years later, I made it my profession.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n And how did things take a turn toward and Forced Bi in particular?<\/p>\n \u201cAs my brand as a Daddy developed, I found more and more men started to come to me for sissification, \u2018sluttification,\u2019 strap on, and forced bi.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIt seems to be a natural fit for the energy I offer.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I think you\u2019re right on the money, there!<\/p>\n How long have you been doing this online?<\/p>\n \u201cBefore COVID-19, I was an entirely in-person Domina.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I was going to ask that.<\/p>\n \u201cThe pandemic has pushed me to explore the virtual realm \u2013 which has been exciting!<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019ve been working online for almost a year now.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you still maintain a space for face-to-face meets?<\/p>\n \u201cYes. I have a couple dungeons in the Los Angeles area that I utilize for sessions.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Are you actively seeking clients for in-person encounters?<\/p>\n \u201cFor the duration of the COVID-19 pandemic, I will be considering in-person meets on an extremely limited and selective basis, for the sake of safety.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Understood.<\/p>\n \u201cStrict requirements and safety measures apply.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Is that something interested readers could \u201capply\u201d for?<\/p>\n \u201cThose who are interested may request to book via my website, <\/strong>www.WorshipWileyWolfe.com<\/strong><\/a>.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Readers: Take note!<\/p>\n What\u2019s motivating you? Are you aiming to make money, or derive pleasure \u2013 or both<\/em>?<\/p>\n \u201cI make money doing something that brings me pleasure. It is also pleasurable to make money. So\u2026 both<\/em>.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Haha! Congratulations!<\/p>\n How much of your energy and time does this take up?<\/p>\n \u201cI have my own side hustles, but this is a full-time job.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n And are you \u2026good with where things are at?<\/p>\n \u201cI always strive for more.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I can relate!<\/p>\n Do you feel comfortable sharing anything else about yourself, on either personal or professional levels?<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m currently 27 years old and identify as a gay, genderqueer woman. (My pronouns are \u2018she\u2019 \/ \u2018they\u2019).<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m ethically polyamorous. I have multiple partners, including a live-in partner, Princess Raven Gray, who is a Professional Dominant as well. We love Co-Dominating and cuckolding together, and co-top regularly.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Oh? That sounds hot!!<\/p>\n \u201cOur dream is to co-own a house slave that we use \u2013 and drain \u2013 as our own personal, 24\/7 toy.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Oh, my!<\/p>\n Again: readers: There\u2019s something to shoot for!<\/p>\n Let\u2019s get more into the Forced-Bi fetish, itself, if you don\u2019t mind.<\/p>\n It appears that Forced Bi has two \u201cpieces\u201d to it. Something about \u201cforce\u201d and something about bisexuality<\/em>.<\/p>\n So, the first question maybe is: Do you think that true \u201cbisexuality\u201d \u2013 where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males is possible?<\/p>\n \u201cOf course. it is possible. To suggest otherwise is the basis of \u2018bi erasure\u2019 \u2013 the invalidation of someone who is attracted to more than one gender.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cSexual attraction is a spectrum, and all consensual expressions of it are valid.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n So, how do you think of Forced Bi, specifically? I mean\u2026 are we talking lifestyle, here, as well? Or, is this particular fetish more on the professional side, only? Something else? Make-believe?<\/p>\n \u201cLike every kink and fetish, the meaning and intention behind Forced Bi will differ depending on the person and what it means to them.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBecause I am not romantically interested in cis<\/em>-gendered men, there will be an element of role-play in it, for me. For example, this happens if the scene centers around, say, \u2018bringing a man home for my boyfriend,\u2019 or something.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I gotcha.<\/p>\n \u201cBut it might also be about genuine exploration<\/em> \u2013 helping them on their self-discovery journey. To do that for someone is humbling and empowering.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right on. I\u2019ll ask you a bit more about that in a few moments.<\/p>\n \u201cHowever, making submissives fuck each other in my name is most certainly a wonderful power trip. I love doing that.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mmm! Is it getting warm in here??<\/p>\n Let me pause and ask you\u2026 what do you call this fetish? \u201cCoerced bi\u201d? \u201cEncouraged gay\u201d? \u201cForced Bi\u201d? \u201cMake Me Gay\u201d? Something else?<\/p>\n \u201cThese are all names that can be used. I have no preference.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Fair enough.<\/p>\n In practice, \u201cForced Bi\u201d seems most often to apply to men being somehow impelled to perform sexually (or to imagine performing sexually) with other men. However, in theory, it seems that it could apply to other things \u2013 for example, to women being impelled to perform sexually with other women \u2013 as well.<\/p>\n Do you see it primarily in terms of male submission, male and female submission, both, or neither?<\/p>\n \u201cIt could technically be both, but I typically engage with it from the perspective of male submission, since that is who requests it from me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I hear that quite a bit.<\/p>\n \u201cWomen tend to be more sexually flexible, overall. So, you don\u2019t see women asking to be \u2018forced\u2019 to fuck other women very often.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! I see your point!<\/p>\n Now\u2026 on to the trickier word.<\/p>\n As far as goes the second core idea, the idea of being \u201cforced\u201d is a little vague. For legal reasons, \u201cforced\u201d means something less than literally compelled by threat of force<\/em>.<\/p>\n But\u2026 what does<\/em> it mean?<\/p>\n Are you talking coercion? Instruction? Seduction?<\/p>\n \u201cDifferent strokes for different folks, right?<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n True enough.<\/p>\n \u201cMy style tends to lend itself towards commandment<\/em>, coercion<\/em>, enticement<\/em>, inducement<\/em>, and permission<\/em>.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Quite a range!<\/p>\n \u201cIt can be about power, the taboo of pressure, the lure of temptation or reward, the emboldening approval to do something you would otherwise fear \u2013 and so\u2026 much more.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Again, we\u2019re back to the idea of custom-made fetish experiences.<\/p>\n What do you think is going on with \u201cForced Bi\u201d? Does a guy actually \u201cchange\u201d his sexual orientation?<\/p>\n \u201cI find that many of the clients who come to me for Forced-Bi sessions are looking for a safe space to explore or to experiment with their sexuality.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cPerhaps they\u2019re closeted, nervous, or simply curious.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cThere are also some who get off on the taboo humiliation of it, but are straight in their daily lives.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n It does seem to attract a wide array of people.<\/p>\n Is it possible for a guy to be a \u201cswitch\u201d or \u201cversatile\u201d? \u2026that is, to be able to take on the role of either bottom or top with more or less equal facility, if not enthusiasm.<\/p>\n \u201cYes, of course. I\u2019m just not personally interested in male Tops at all.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I gotcha.<\/p>\n Okay. Here\u2019s one.<\/p>\n Some women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex. Straight women sometimes liken their enjoyment to that expressed by straight men who like witnessing two women together sexually. And in the case of two women, it is reasonable to think that participants are not always lesbians or even bisexual. They could just be exhibitionists. Other women might just like viewing gay spectacles. And a few, more dominant types perhaps, seem to find the gender-bending and role-reversal aspects appealing.<\/p>\n Do any of these resonate with you?<\/p>\n \u201cAs a gay person myself, I love seeing two same-sex people enjoying each other. And yes, I think seeing two men together is hot.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cAnyone can be an exhibitionist.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right on.<\/p>\n A few women claim to want to date bisexual guys, participate in threesomes with them, etc. Others seem to think that once a guy tries guy-on-guy sex, he\u2019s less desirable to women. Is bisexuality in general a \u201cpositive\u201d quality in a guy? How about past participation in forced bi?<\/p>\n What do you think?<\/p>\n \u201cI don\u2019t support discrimination against someone based on their sexual orientation. It\u2019s not just a \u2018quality\u2019 about them, it\u2019s an aspect of their identity. To love someone is to love them for who they really are, not what you want them to be.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cWomen who find a man who has enjoyed another man to be suddenly \u2018undesirable\u2019 are no better than men who won\u2019t fuck a woman unless she\u2019s a virgin.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI say that because it generally boils down to one of two things: insecurity or perceived \u2018dirtiness.\u2019 Either way, I would encourage them to unpack that shit rather than projecting it onto the other person.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIt doesn\u2019t make a man any less of a man to identify as bisexual, or to have participated in forced bi. Regardless of how much I love degradation within a scene, it\u2019s important to me that my clients know that.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cThat said \u2013 I <\/em>don\u2019t \u2018date\u2019 men; I just own them.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Haha!!<\/p>\n \u201cIf a submissive I own is bisexual, well, that just expands the possibilities of how he can entertain me, doesn\u2019t it? <\/strong>\ud83d\ude1c<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mmm\u2026 It does<\/em>!<\/p>\n Is the Forced-Bi fetish \u201chealthy\u201d or \u201cunhealthy\u201d? \u2026psychologically speaking, I mean.<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s healthy when done in a consensual, risk-aware, personal responsibility informed way.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cSTD[1]<\/a> testing, access to mental health support, disclosure of triggers \/ past relevant trauma, and self-awareness are all very important.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n And this goes back to the self-learning process you alluded to, earlier?<\/p>\n \u201cIt can promote better self-understanding, exploration, learning, and growth.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Now\u2026 I\u2019m not missing the word \u201ccan.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cIt can also become unhealthy if it becomes compulsive; if physical health like STDs are not taken into consideration; or if mental health\/emotional support needs are not taken care of.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Fair enough.<\/p>\n \u201cLike every other kink, there is risk involved. And that must be taken into consideration before you start having fun!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Would-be Forced-Bi players, beware!<\/p>\n Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?<\/p>\n \u201cChristian blasphemy role-play is one of my favorite kinks.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Oh, gawd\u2026 really?<\/p>\n \u201cSo, if the submissive is into that, it certainly can go that way.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Wow!<\/p>\n \u201cSodomy is a grave sin, after all <\/strong>\ud83d\ude09<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mmm\u2026Yes, it is!<\/p>\n \u201cWhy not punish two priests after catching them in the act, or force them to swallow a certain \u2018Holy Spirit\u2019?<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n My head is feeling a little light\u2026<\/p>\n \u201cWhen intertwining Christianity and kink, nothing is too taboo for me<\/em>.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n No kidding?<\/p>\n \u201cHowever, it is important to tread carefully when integrating religion and fetish. It can be important healing work for the right person, but for the wrong person, it can be extremely triggering, or bring up past trauma that they are not ready to work through. Deep, detailed negotiation is required.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Speaking of \u201ctriggering,\u201d let me ask another query about words themselves.<\/p>\n Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called \u201cbinary language\u201d \u2013 e.g., thinking in terms of \u201cfeminine\u201d versus \u201cmasculine,\u201d etc. \u2013 when it comes to John Money\u2019s concept of \u201cgender\u201d and sexuality. But Forced Bi, arguably, has a kind of \u201cbi-narism\u201d built into its name.<\/p>\n Do you see this as a problem for the \u201cForced-Bi\u201d fetish?<\/p>\n \u201cLike many fetishes, Forced Bi comes from a place of taboo and denial \u2013 that is, the oppression, erasure, and societal denial of those who enjoy same-sex activities.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIt is still considered \u2018wrong\u2019 to be gay in many places.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cThis fetish plays within that taboo space and, therefore, it will exist as long as homosexuality is considered taboo.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n So\u2026 you look forward to the day when this fetish disappears?<\/p>\n \u201cMaybe as society evolves, this fetish will evolve with it.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Okay! Onto the topics of Forced-Bi activities!<\/p>\n What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?<\/p>\n \u201cRimming, cock sucking, deep throating, and ass fucking.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mmm\u2026 Fuck!<\/p>\n \u201cBoth submissives can bottom to each other at different times, or I also love facilitating \u2018breeding\u2019 scenes, where one is put in bondage as the bitch and the other is ordered by me to be the stud.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I\u2019m sorry, wuuttt? Lol! I think my mind went a little blank for a sec!<\/p>\n But, seriously: Do you think that Forced Bi, as a fetish, is getting more popular?<\/p>\n \u201cI have no idea. I do<\/em> get a lot of requests for it.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you perceive that the Forced-Bi fetish is being promoted in any way by the so-called \u201cmainstream media\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cNot really. Mainstream media seems more focused on promoting actual same-sex relationships, lately \u2013 which I think is great \u2013 not the fetishizing of it.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Um\u2026 logistically \/ mechanically: Which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role you want?<\/p>\n \u201cEither way.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right on.<\/p>\n \u201cBut, they\u2019re not topping me. Ew.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Haha! Fair enough!<\/p>\n That leads me to ask, though: Are you aroused by Forced Bi, or just amused by it?<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s mostly entertainment to me. The arousal comes from the power<\/em> of making it happen more than the actual activities they\u2019re doing.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I gotcha.<\/p>\n Do you think that a guy can \u201cjust try\u201d sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?<\/p>\n \u201cSure, if he was curious and discovered it wasn\u2019t for him.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut more often than not, a man is interested in trying this because it has been a major fantasy for some time. It\u2019s been a long road of repression and self-denial. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cOdds are, if he gets to this<\/em> point, he\u2019ll like it <\/strong>\ud83d\ude09<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Lol! Like\u2026 really, really<\/em> like!<\/p>\n What are you interested in doing? I mean\u2026 do you prefer issuing commands via text message and then just assuming everything works out? Are you watching via webcam? Or would you rather have participants in your dungeon?<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019ve done a bit of everything. Fantasy chat, giving detailed orders and requiring photo or video proof, webcam, and live sessions. I\u2019m open to most anything.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Fair enough.<\/p>\n Biggest focus\u2026?<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s absolutely about my power to command sluts to my will.\u201d<\/p>\n Any sexual acts that charge your batteries? I mean\u2026 form a voyeuristic point of view.<\/p>\n \u201cI love it all \u2013 whatever the two men interested in exploring, I can shape into something that heats me up, too.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mmm\u2026 What a hot way to put it!<\/p>\n Do you have any limits?<\/p>\n \u201cWithin the Forced Bi fetish, my primary limits are ignoring safety \u2013 for example, no STD tests, removing safe words, ignoring limits, etc. And I will not<\/em> bottom.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n What about guys have sex without condoms? So-called \u201cbarebacking\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cIf the participants are both comfortable with it, I can offer it.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mmm\u2026<\/p>\n \u201cHowever, I ensure they are informed of the safety and health risks \u2013 not only to each other, but also to anyone else that they may be involved with.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI have a basket of condoms that are always available at any time.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n It\u2019s kind of kinky to bareback next to a basket of condoms.<\/p>\n And\u2026 how do you feel about married men? \u2026in the context of this fetish, of course.<\/p>\n \u201cI don\u2019t ask those questions. But, if they disclose that they are married, I will strongly encourage them to use extra protection such as condoms and testing for the safety of their married partner.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cThe last thing I want to do is cause harm to someone who did not have the opportunity to consent to the risk.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Respect.<\/p>\n How do you feel about amyl-nitrite inhalers \u2013 \u201cpoppers\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cI generally prefer that my submissives be sober for the duration of our time together. However, within Forced Bi or other fetishes that include penetrative sex, poppers can help the sphincter relax and improve pain tolerance.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cSo, it is something I am open to discussing, with additional risk-awareness in mind.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n What do you have in mind, there?<\/p>\n \u201cPoppers can have some negative side effects, such as nausea, and should not be used by someone with heart issues \u2013 which anyone who has not tried them before should consider.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right on.<\/p>\n How do you feel about guys really getting addicted to gay sex? Is that even a \u201cthing\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cSexual addiction is real for anyone<\/em> in any<\/em> lifestyle.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cThat\u2019s why risk-awareness, self-analysis, and avenues for mental health support are so important.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cMy goal is to provide an accepting space for those who wish to engage in these activities, and to help them do so in the safest, most informed way possible.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n All right\u2026 here\u2019s another, lighter one\u2026<\/p>\n Do you have any particularly memorable Forced-Bi session to shar?<\/p>\n \u201cMy favorite sessions have involved \u2018forced\u2019 breeding between human slaves or human pups, Christian blasphemy, and \u2018offerings of entertainment\u2019 in the form of two men doing as I instruct, in order to please me as I watch.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mmm!!! That\u2019s cool.<\/p>\n Just a few more items\u2026<\/p>\n What other mischief do you get into?<\/p>\n \u201cMy interests within BDSM are vast and expansive. CBT,[2]<\/a> ball busting, sissification, CEI,[3]<\/a> humiliation\/degradation, strap on, SPH,[4]<\/a> slut training, and so much more are among them.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I figured your interests would be pretty broad!<\/p>\n \u201cI offer both real-time and virtual sessions, and encourage interested sluts to peruse the \u2018Interests & Offerings\u2019 section of my website for the full list of what I enjoy.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n That\u2019s a fairly complete list? Fantastic!<\/p>\n Be you leave us, let fans and other interested persons know where they can find you online!<\/p>\n \u201cMy Website: <\/strong>www.WorshipWileyWolfe.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n \u201cSextPanther: <\/strong>www.TextWileyWolfe.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n \u201cTwitter: <\/strong>https:\/\/twitter.com\/WileyxWolfe<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n \u201c![\"\"](\"http:\/\/forced-bi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2-5.jpg\")
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