Oh, boi! Today, we have a self-styled Sizzling Seductress from Down Under and she\u2019s ready \u2013 and willing! \u2013 to violate your, um\u2026 Outback!<\/p>\n
Hello, and welcome!<\/p>\n
First of all, what is your name? What do you go by?<\/p>\n
\u201cI am Victoria Gray. Although, many call me \u2018Queen.\u2019 <\/strong>\ud83d\ude09<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! Nice!<\/p>\n Well, thank you for being with us, Queen Victoria Gray!<\/p>\n Tere are various different adjectives, epithets, modifiers, or monikers that women in your area use. Which \u2013 if any \u2013 do you think of yourself as, or prefer?<\/p>\n \u201cPerhaps it\u2019s up to the boys who serve me from their knees \u2013 with a cock in their mouth \u2013 to answer. I usually hear \u2018Goddess,\u2019 \u2018Queen,\u2019 and \u2018Mistress,\u2019 however.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Why am I not surprised?!<\/p>\n In general, as a fetishist, is this a lifestyle for you? A roleplay? Social activism?<\/p>\n \u201cI am a lifestyler and professional Dominatrix.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right on!<\/p>\n How about the people who seek you out \u2013 what do you call them? \u201cBetas\u201d? \u201cLosers,\u201d maybe? \u201cMasochists\u201d? \u201cSlaves\u201d? \u201cSubs\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cFrankly, I like all of those words. Pulling a man\u2019s hair and calling him a \u2018bitch\u2019 or \u2018faggot\u2019 is also fun, too.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mmm\u2026 Kinky!<\/p>\n Any specific reason you can put your finger on?<\/p>\n \u201cI guess that they\u2019re bitches and faggots might have something to do with it.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Haha!!!<\/p>\n Touch\u00e9!<\/p>\n What got you into the world of domination and fetishes, in general \u2013 and forced bi in particular?<\/p>\n \u201cI have been kinky all of my adult life. But, the city of London allowed me plenty of opportunities to explore my kinks, which was amazing.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cThen I went home to Melbourne, Australia only to keep returning to the big, kinky city on a regular basis for work and for fun.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI especially enjoyed the dogging scene in the U.K. \u2013 taking submissives out to places in Essex in their cutest little sissy outfits only to allow other men to use them was one of the best things about London and the U.K. for me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mmm!!! Now I\u2019m feeling flush!<\/p>\n How long have you been doing this online?<\/p>\n \u201cProfessionally I have been working as an online dominatrix and content creator for a little over a year.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Oh? How\u2019s that going?<\/p>\n \u201cIt has been a wonderful year!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you also have a \u201cdungeon,\u201d studio, or other space for face-to-face, in-person, or real-time meets?<\/p>\n \u201cI have been a lifstyler for years. Back in Australia, my spare room is kitted out as a private dungeon.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Haha! That\u2019s awesome! It\u2019s not the first time I\u2019ve heard someone say that, either!<\/p>\n \u201cI don\u2019t play in-person with people I meet online, however. I only play in-person with my personal slaves.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Of course. That\u2019s totally understandable!<\/p>\n Are you aiming to make money, or derive pleasure \u2013 or both?<\/p>\n \u201cBoth. All the way.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Why not?! Lol! Both are best.<\/p>\n How much of your energy and time does this take up?<\/p>\n \u201cDifficult to answer.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cAs a professional, I would say a few hours a day, five to seven days a week. As a lifestyler, well\u2026 it\u2019s a lifestyle.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right on. So\u2026 24\/7!<\/p>\n And\u2026 are you satisfied with where things are at?<\/p>\n \u201cMore playthings! I am a greedy Goddess.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mmmm\u2026 Yummy! That\u2019s hot!<\/p>\n Do you feel comfortable sharing anything else about yourself, on either personal or professional levels?<\/p>\n \u201cI am in my twenties. 28 at the time of writing. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI have a number of submissives. I play with when I am in Melbourne or London. And, when I am in Melbourne, I date fairly actively as I am pretty damn hot! <\/strong>\ud83d\ude09<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mmmm!<\/p>\n Yes; indeed!<\/p>\n \u201cMost of the people I date are more of the alpha type, though, which helps when I want to remind my submissives how cuckolded they are.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cGenerally speaking, I think sexual orientation is a bit silly, because I don\u2019t know anyone who really agrees with the binary of \u2018heterosexual or homosexual?\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cFor this reason, I guess I have to identify as bisexual<\/em>, because I adore both men and women. It isn\u2019t a label that sits comfortably, however.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Fair enough. And\u2026 thanks for sharing!<\/p>\n May I ask you about the Forced-Bi fetish, itself?<\/p>\n On the face of it, the \u201cforced-bi fetish\u201d has two components: (1) \u201cforce\u201d and (2) \u201cbisexuality.\u201d Let\u2019s handle both, but in reverse order.<\/p>\n Do you think that true \u201cbisexuality\u201d \u2013 where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males is possible?<\/p>\n \u201cSure. Why not? Although, many of the people who I play with in a forced-bi context don\u2019t identify as bisexual<\/em> or gay<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIt is more about the power dynamic of them doing this to please me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I gotcha.<\/p>\n You said that, for you, fetishism was both a lifestyle and a profession. How do you think of Forced-Bi, specifically?<\/p>\n \u201cThat is a really difficult question. I guess I cannot answer broadly, as it is different for everyone.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n That\u2019s fair.<\/p>\n \u201cI have played with new people, people who only want to try this once, people who want to serve me in a more long-term capacity.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n It can be a lot of things.<\/p>\n I forgot to ask: What do you call the fetish?<\/p>\n \u201cI like \u2018forced bi.\u2019<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I like it too \ud83d\ude1b<\/p>\n But, seriously: In practice, \u201cforced bi\u201d seems most often to apply to men being somehow impelled to perform sexually (or to imagine performing sexually) with other men. However, in theory, it seems that it could apply to other things \u2013 for example, to women being impelled to perform sexually with other women \u2013 as well.<\/p>\n Do you see it primarily in terms of male submission, male and female submission, both, or neither?<\/p>\n \u201cI have never \u2018forced\u2019 a woman to play with another woman. Although, I would be open to it.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cThe fetish, for me, has always been something I enjoyed with male submissives.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I understand!<\/p>\n What do you think is actually going on with \u201cforced bi\u201d? Does a guy actually change his sexual orientation?<\/p>\n \u201cLol<\/em>! No.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! I always ask!<\/p>\n We do get a variety of replies!<\/p>\n Some women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex. Straight women sometimes liken their enjoyment to that expressed by straight men who like witnessing two women together sexually. And in the case of two women, it is reasonable to think that participants are not always lesbians or even bisexual. They could just be \u201cattention whores.\u201d Other women might just like viewing gay spectacles. And a few, more dominant types perhaps, seem to find the gender-bending and role-reversal aspects appealing.<\/p>\n Do any of these resonate with you?<\/p>\n \u201cIt is a power play, and a fetish.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cSure, it\u2019s hot to watch two guys playing together. But, that\u2019s not all that is going on here. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cLike everything in the world of BDSM, from the outside, it might look one way. But, to those of us in the middle of playing, it can be something else entirely.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Oh?<\/p>\n \u201cThe way it feels to play with someone who shares this fetish is what I love.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cThe way I feel when I say words that push his buttons, call him names, watch the cock go down his throat.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Oh\u2026fuck!<\/p>\n I\u2019m going to forget where I am\u2026<\/p>\n \u201cThere is nothing hotter.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cThere is more going on here than men acting like attention whores. Although, that can be part of it.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cOf course, there is some gender-bending when my plaything is cross dressing. But, not all forced bi is about gender bending.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n It\u2019s always fascinating to get other\u2019s opinions on this fetish!<\/p>\n A few women claim to want to date bisexual guys, participate in threesomes with them, etc. Others seem to think that once a guy tries guy-on-guy sex, he\u2019s less desirable to women.<\/p>\n What do you think?<\/p>\n \u201cI think people need to chill out. We\u2019re only here once. If you ever enjoyed sucking dick, you have to accept you probably aren\u2019t the only one.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cThat being said, this sort of treatment of people who participate in my favorite fetish means there are more subs for me. So, I shouldn\u2019t complain too much.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Haha! I never thought of it like that!<\/p>\n Is the forced-bi fetish \u201chealthy\u201d or \u201cunhealthy\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cLike anything in life, it could be healthy or unhealthy depending on why and how you do it.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Very true.<\/p>\n Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?<\/p>\n \u201cNo. I just think it\u2019s fucking hot!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mmm\u2026 Now my blood is redirecting south!<\/p>\n Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called \u201cbinary language\u201d \u2013 e.g., thinking in terms of \u201cfeminine\u201d versus \u201cmasculine,\u201d etc. \u2013 when it comes to John Money\u2019s concept of \u201cgender\u201d and sexuality. But forced bi, arguably, has a kind of \u201cbi-narism\u201d built into its name.<\/p>\n Do you see this as a problem for the \u201cforced-bi\u201d fetish?<\/p>\n \u201cNo.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Okay\u2026 Forced-Bi activities!<\/p>\n So\u2026 What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching? Cock sucking? Anal sex? Kissing? Rimming? Cum eating? Facials? Creampies?<\/p>\n \u201cAll of the above.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Yum!!<\/p>\n Do you think that Forced Bi, as a fetish, is getting more popular?<\/p>\n \u201cI hope it\u2019s getting more popular \u2013 more people to play with, then!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Haha! You\u2019re fun!<\/p>\n Do you perceive that the Forced-Bi fetish is being promoted in any way by the so-called \u201cmainstream media\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cNo, but I would love to hear if anyone sees this happening. Tweet me @IAmVictoriaGray<\/a>.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Readers: Take note!<\/p>\n Which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role I want?<\/p>\n \u201cBoth, depending on the situation.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Gotcha.<\/p>\n And\u2026 are you aroused by forced bi, or just amused by it?<\/p>\n \u201cBoth, actually. More aroused though.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mmm\u2026 Yay!<\/p>\n Do you think that a guy can \u201cjust try\u201d sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?<\/p>\n \u201cLol<\/em>! I mean, he is welcome to give it a try.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI have never had a sub turn back though.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mmmm\u2026 Now I\u2019m sure my mind went blank!<\/p>\n What are you interested in doing? I mean\u2026 for you, is it a mix of fantasy chat and, well\u2026 real-life situations?<\/p>\n \u201cBoth.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right on.<\/p>\n How \u201cinvolved\u201d do you like to be? Are you just sitting back, issuing orders? Are you soliciting photographic \u2013 or videographic! \u2013 proof? Are you watching via live stream or webcam? Or\u2026 directing in-person guy-on-guy confabs?<\/p>\n \u201cAll of these answers, actually.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n That\u2019s hot.<\/p>\n And your biggest focus\u2026?<\/p>\n \u201cIt is more about the power for me. Although, it is hot as hell to watch two men playing, for sure.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mmmm\u2026<\/p>\n On limits\u2026 well, do you have any? Haha.<\/p>\n \u201cI have limits \u2013 and expect submissives to have them, too. All limits will be respected.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Fair enough.<\/p>\n Do you have any other fetishes or activities that you like to participate in, direct, or instruct?<\/p>\n \u201cI love a bit of small-penis humiliation[1]<\/a> actually. I have had a number of SPH calls, lately, and always appreciate the laugh right now.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Haha!<\/p>\n \u201cPegging is a long-held favorite, as is sissification \/ feminization \/ cross dressing. Cum-eating instructions (CEI) and jerk-off instructions (JOI) are things I got into in a much bigger way since becoming a pro-Domme.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cFor a full list of my fetishes, though, you\u2019re better off hitting up my profiles online, or my website.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Perfect segue!<\/p>\n How can fans and other interested persons check out your work?<\/p>\n \u201cThe best place to find me online is victoriagray.blog<\/a>. That is where I post my latest happenings, and link to my profiles<\/a> on sites like NiteFlirt<\/a>, AdultWork<\/a>, AVN<\/a>, OnlyFans<\/a>, Clips4Sale<\/a>, iWantClips<\/a>, etc.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIt is an ever-growing list.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I believe you!<\/p>\n \u201cI am also available on social media.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cYou can find me on twitter (@IAmVictoriaGray<\/a>) or Fetlife (Victoria_Gray<\/a>).<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Thank you so much for joining us, today!<\/p>\n All good \u2013 and kinky! \u2013 wishes for 2021!<\/p>\n [1]<\/a> \u201cSPH,\u201d for short \u2013 no pun intended \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Oh, boi! Today, we have a self-styled Sizzling Seductress from Down Under and she\u2019s ready \u2013 and willing! \u2013 to violate your, um\u2026 Outback! Hello, and welcome! First of all, what is your name? What do you go by? \u201cI am Victoria Gray. Although, many call me \u2018Queen.\u2019 \ud83d\ude09\u201d Ha! 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