Howdy, Forced-Bi land! Today we speak with a clip creator whose fetish-related interests veer over into our neck of the woods!<\/p>\n
Hello!<\/p>\n
First of all, what is your name? What do you go by?<\/p>\n
\u201cKayla Obey.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Are there any title that you enjoy \u2013 or insist upon?<\/p>\n \u201c\u2018Mistress\u2019 or \u2018Goddess\u2019 are preferred. But they\u2019re not necessary.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right on! Welcome, Mistress Kayla!<\/p>\n Can you elaborate on the \u201cnot necessary\u201d part?<\/p>\n \u201cI do enjoy a dominant role, but it doesn\u2019t need to have a title. I like the \u2018girl next door\u2019-taking-advantage-of-you type role.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! Understood! And\u2026 appreciated!<\/p>\n So\u2026 you use the word \u201crole.\u201d Can I assume that you see all this as role play? Or is there another layer?<\/p>\n \u201cI like to play this way for fun. It happens naturally in some circumstances, with some men. But I also play this way for work \u2013 where I create customs based on the fantasies of others. It\u2019s a lighthearted way to act out some of my own pleasures.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I gotcha. Yummy!<\/p>\n Given that you have a light touch, how do you see the people who seek you out for this?<\/p>\n \u201cI prefer \u2018slaves.\u2019 I like that term, as it implies they\u2019re at my beck and call.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Haha! Oh?<\/p>\n \u201cAnd, sometimes\u2026 \u2018loser.\u2019 It\u2019s fun to be bratty \u2013 because I usually wouldn\u2019t go around calling someone a loser. Haha! Although I wouldn\u2019t call myself a Brat, either.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n That\u2019s the essence of role play, n\u2019est-ce pas<\/em>?<\/p>\n How did you get into this\u2026 world?<\/p>\n \u201cI work in the field. But, also, I\u2019ve always been rather open and exploratory with my partners and my own sexuality.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ooh! Very sexy!<\/p>\n And how long have you been at it?<\/p>\n \u201cYears.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Okay\u2026<\/p>\n \u201cNot sure exactly how long\u2026<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Just curious; time flies!<\/p>\n Do you also have a \u201cdungeon,\u201d studio, or other space for face-to-face, in-person, or real-time meets?<\/p>\n \u201cNo, it\u2019s just something I offer online.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Fair enough.<\/p>\n \u201cMy partner is not into it. So, it doesn\u2019t apply to my life outside of online.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n It\u2019s not everyone\u2019s cup of tea!<\/p>\n Are you aiming to make money, or derive pleasure \u2013 or\u2026 both?<\/p>\n \u201cWhy not both?<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right on!<\/p>\n \u201cIf I can offer a service where people can have their desires fulfilled, I feel like that\u2019s wonderful.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Well\u2026 most of my readership would wholeheartedly agree, I\u2019m sure!<\/p>\n \u201cOutside of online, it would be for the pleasure of my partner(s).<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How much of your energy and time does this take up?<\/p>\n \u201cI create customs as a sole occupation. However, it is just part-time hours.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Sounds like an ideal combination!<\/p>\n Do you feel comfortable sharing anything else about yourself, on either personal or professional levels?<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m 29 and am currently in a conventional relationship. I\u2019m bisexual \u2013 no \u2018forced\u2019 required. Haha! But, it is<\/em> fun with women to play that way.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! Yes, it is, isn\u2019t it?!<\/p>\n Let me dive more into the fetish itself. May I?<\/p>\n On the face of it, the \u201cForced-Bi fetish\u201d has two components: (1) \u201cforce\u201d and (2) \u201cbisexuality.\u201d Let\u2019s handle both, but in reverse order.<\/p>\n Do you think that true \u201cbisexuality\u201d \u2013 where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males is possible?<\/p>\n \u201cSexuality is unique to each individual. Someone can be bisexual and be more or less attracted to any gender. Their attraction can range in sexuality or romanticism.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cFor example, they could be bisexual and a-romantic, etc.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n A-romantic? You mean\u2026 not romantic? I gotcha.<\/p>\n \u201cSome people prefer being pansexual<\/em>. Some prefer to only date one gender, or sleep with one gender.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s a colourful thing.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! That\u2019s one way to put it!<\/p>\n So\u2026 in your experience, is the fetish itself a role play for all involved?<\/p>\n \u201cI think of it as an easy way to explore another side of yourself. Maybe you\u2019re a bit afraid or ashamed; so, it can help take the pressure off.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI enjoy the dominance of it as well, personally. It can be more or less to each person.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cMaybe, for some people, it\u2019s a lifestyle. But, for others it\u2019s just an occasional degradational treat \u2013 or an exciting roleplay.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I give \u201cdegradational treat\u201d the quote-of-the-day award! Love it!<\/p>\n Before I go too far\u2026 what name do you refer to the fetish as?<\/p>\n \u201cForced bi or coerced bi.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Same difference? Fair enough.<\/p>\n In practice, \u201cForced Bi\u201d seems most often to apply to men being somehow impelled to perform sexually (or to imagine performing sexually) with other men. However, in theory, it seems that it could apply to other things \u2013 for example, to women being impelled to perform sexually with other women \u2013 as well.<\/p>\n Do you see it primarily in terms of male submission, male and female submission, both, or neither?<\/p>\n \u201cI would more so relate it to a male submitting to another male, or to acts, like pegging, from a woman on a male. It can most definitely apply to women as well, but I don\u2019t see that as often.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n That\u2019s a pity!<\/p>\n As far as goes the second core idea, the idea of being \u201cforced\u201d is a little vague. For legal reasons, \u201cforced\u201d means something less than literally compelled by threat of force<\/em>. But\u2026 how, exactly, do you see it?<\/p>\n \u201cHmm. Again, I do think it is a great means for men to explore this side of themselves. So, I see it as encouragement<\/em> and permission<\/em>. But\u2026 also inducement<\/em>, because I do like that whole \u2018beck-and-call\u2019 aspect of a slave.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n What do you think is going on with \u201cForced Bi\u201d? Does a guy actually \u201cchange\u201d his sexual orientation?<\/p>\n \u201cI don\u2019t think I\u2019m capable of changing someone\u2019s entire sexuality. Perhaps I\u2019m leading them further down the bisexual path.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I follow you.<\/p>\n Do you think it\u2019s possible for a guy to be a \u201cswitch\u201d or \u201cversatile\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cYep! I\u2019ve dated men who were switches \u2013 as am I!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Oh? Haha! Hot!<\/p>\n \u201cI think it strongly depends on others involved, or even their mood that day.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Very true!<\/p>\n \u201cBut there is something extra hot about a guy who usually never \u2018bottoms\u2019 to want to \u2026for me<\/em>.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I was just going to ask you!<\/p>\n Do you like the optics? Or is it more or a spectacle to you? You like the role-reversal aspect?<\/p>\n \u201cI am all for gender bending and switching up \u2018traditional\u2019 roles. But, if I have no part in it, then I don\u2019t get off on watching two men together.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Understandable!<\/p>\n \u201cI also don\u2019t care to watch two women together if it seems like it might only be for exhibitionism.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIf the man is doing it to please me in some way then\u2026 great \u2013 now I\u2019m involved! Haha!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n A few women claim to want to date bisexual guys, participate in threesomes with them, etc. Others seem to think that once a guy tries guy-on-guy sex, he\u2019s less<\/em> desirable to women.<\/p>\n What do you think?<\/p>\n \u201cIf someone finds a bisexual man less desirable then \u2013 quite frankly \u2013 they\u2019re homophobic. I think it\u2019s rare for a man to acknowledge that side of himself, and often I find bisexual men are much more openminded.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right on!<\/p>\n So\u2026 I assume that \u2013 overall \u2013 you\u2019re thinking of all this as basically a \u201chealthy\u201d pursuit for those involved. Is that a fair assessment?<\/p>\n \u201cI think it\u2019s healthy.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cEveryone has their own kinks. Well, not everyone<\/em>, but \u2026you know.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n No, I gotcha.<\/p>\n \u201cAnd if it helps them to express themselves, or get sexual gratification, then I\u2019m not going to judge. I don\u2019t think it\u2019s shaming men either, unless they want<\/em> to be shamed! Then I can go off on another tangent.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Haha! I guess I\u2019d have to start another website to really get into that!<\/p>\n \u201cIf it\u2019s consensual, then it\u2019s consensual.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I can\u2019t argue with that!<\/p>\n \u201c\u2026even consensual \u2018non-consent.\u2019<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m not spiritual or religious.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Okay\u2026 let me ask you a little about the Forced-Bi activities, themselves.<\/p>\n What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?<\/p>\n \u201cOne-sided oral sex, one-sided penetrative sex.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! Mmm\u2026 hot!<\/p>\n Are you aroused by Forced Bi, or just amused by it?<\/p>\n \u201cI like providing pleasure \u2013 even if it doesn\u2019t directly relate to my own.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you think that a guy can \u201cjust try\u201d sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?<\/p>\n \u201cYeah, definitely. He can even decide partway through.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! I suppose that\u2019s true!<\/p>\n \u201cBut I think once someone is that<\/em> curious, they probably won\u2019t want to go back.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Again\u2026 readers: beware! Lol!<\/p>\n What are you interested in doing? You said\u2026 fantasy chat and online play, only, right? I mean\u2026 professionally speaking \u2013 your private encounters aside.<\/p>\n \u201cI have only engaged in forced bi gently online. And gently in my own life.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How \u201cinvolved\u201d do you like to be? I mean\u2026 are you just issuing instructions and stepping out of the picture? \u00a0Are you asking for photographic evidence? Are you directing via webcam?<\/p>\n \u201cI would be down with being 100% there and involved, or playing from afar.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ah! That\u2019s hot!<\/p>\n What is your biggest focus\/turn on?<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s a bit of a power trip.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Let me ask a few things about limits. Firstly, well\u2026 do you have any? Haha!<\/p>\n \u201cYes. I am not into shaming for the acts because of the bisexual aspect of it.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Gotcha.<\/p>\n Any feelings about married men?<\/p>\n \u201cNo married men \u2013 unless it\u2019s consensual in the relationship, or I don\u2019t know about it!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! Don\u2019t ask; don\u2019t tell??<\/p>\n Readers: Take note!<\/p>\n How do you feel about amyl-nitrite inhalers \u2013 that is, \u201cpoppers\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cI oppose them.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you have any other fetishes or activities that you like to participate in, direct, or instruct?<\/p>\n \u201cI enjoy edging and pegging and physical domination in my \u2018real\u2019 life. In my online life, I enjoy physical domination, muscle humiliation, height humiliation, blackmail, pegging, and forced pegging.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! Mmm\u2026 You sound like a blast, for sure!<\/p>\n So, please tell everyone: Where can you be found online?<\/p>\n \u201cAll my work is available at <\/strong>www.SleepyKaylaObey.com<\/strong>, which will forward you to my Clips4Sale store<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m also available for customs<\/a> and am always open to new stuff!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I totally believe you!<\/p>\n Thank you so much for taking time to speak with us, today!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Howdy, Forced-Bi land! Today we speak with a clip creator whose fetish-related interests veer over into our neck of the woods! Hello! First of all, what is your name? What do you go by? \u201cKayla Obey.\u201d Are there any title that you enjoy \u2013 or insist upon? \u201c\u2018Mistress\u2019 or \u2018Goddess\u2019 are preferred. 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