There are various different adjectives, epithets, modifiers, or monikers that women in your area use. Which \u2013 if any \u2013 do you think of yourself as, or prefer?<\/p>\n
\u201cMistress\/Ma\u00eetresse.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you have any special reason(s) for this preference?<\/p>\n \u201cIt seems to be a natural title for My European clients. My regulars progress to calling Me Mia – anyone can be Mistress, only I am Mia.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Thinking generally of your role as defined above, do you see yourself as engaging in any (or a combination) of the following?<\/p>\n \u201cMy whole life is a role play \u2013 Mia the Dominatrix is just one side of Me, but activism around sexual freedom and the politics of sex work are things essential to My core being.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Similarly, there are a number of words that sometimes describe the people who seek out the services of someone like you. What word do you prefer for these kinds of people?<\/p>\n \u201cI refer to My clients as bois or girls.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you have any reason(s) for this word choice?<\/p>\n \u201cThey are in My care and My property, they\u2019re My bois and girls.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n What got you into the world of domination and fetishes, in general \u2013 and Forced Bi in particular?<\/p>\n \u201cYears of experimentation with My own sexuality and visiting clubs I naturally seemed to adopt the role, particularly with women. Then a club owner suggested I try it professionally, and it all went from there.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How long have you been doing this online?<\/p>\n \u201cA few years.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you also have a \u201cdungeon,\u201d studio, or other space for face-to-face, in-person, or real-time meets?<\/p>\n \u201cYes, I have a personal studio only available to regulars or guests, and co-run a dungeon in Bristol UK with the amazing Mistress Melia. Both are very aesthetic places and just keep growing more beautiful.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Are you aiming to make money, or derive pleasure \u2013 or both?<\/p>\n \u201cI do what I want, and I take great pleasure in doing it. The money is never enough for the dedication a true Dominatrix pours into the job.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How much of your energy and time does this take up?<\/p>\n \u201cIt is a full time occupation \u2013 anything else in My life runs parallel or won\u2019t survive.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Are you satisfied with this level of involvement?<\/p>\n \u201cAs we are currently in the Pandemic lockdown in the UK, I have had a lot of time to think on My involvement in the scene and how much I miss it.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m happy being the devoted pervert I am.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you feel comfortable sharing anything else about yourself, on either personal or professional levels? E.g., How old are you? Are you in a relationship? (Conventional? Alternative\/BDSM?) What is your sexual orientation? Etc.<\/p>\n \u201cI am a Sicilian Roma\/ English born woman, currently living in Wales, and proudly love whoever I want whenever I want. I don\u2019t generally engage in relationships, but I\u2019m never without company if I want it.\u201d<\/p>\n On the face of it, the \u201cForced-Bi fetish\u201d has two components: (1) \u201cforce\u201d and (2) \u201cbisexuality.\u201d Let\u2019s handle both, but in reverse order.<\/p>\n Do you think that true \u201cbisexuality\u201d \u2013 where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males (but see a further question about problems with so-called \u201cbinarism\u201d) \u2013 is possible?<\/p>\n \u201cI think the time bisexual itself is fast losing meaning as we question sexuality and move more toward seeing gender as a spectrum. I have never met anyone who hasn\u2019t felt strong feelings towards someone of the same gender, and the more we normalise that the more time we have to focus on important things like buying Me a mansion…<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Which of the following, if any, do you think of the Forced-Bi fetish as? \u00a0It\u2019s all a game to Me; I aim to extinguish shame within My clients, and if I have to push you to the edge of yourself to do it, so be it.<\/p>\n \u201cThere are actually a few names for this fetish. Which, if any, do you prefer \u2013 and why?<\/strong> My legal department advises Coerced bi…<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n In practice, \u201cForced Bi\u201d seems most often to apply to men being somehow impelled to perform sexually (or to imagine performing sexually) with other men. However, in theory, it seems that it could apply to other things \u2013 for example, to women being impelled to perform sexually with other women \u2013 as well.<\/p>\n Do you see it primarily in terms of male submission, male and female submission, both, or neither?<\/p>\n \u201cIt comes back to the shame game: two women having sex has been much eroticised and accepted by the mainstream, where are two men fucking is still seen as niche.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cThe taboo gives power to the kink that I generally cannot wield over women, though it can still be a useful threat.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n As far as goes the second core idea, the idea of being \u201cforced\u201d is a little vague. For legal reasons, \u201cforced\u201d probably means something less than literally compelled by threat of force<\/em>. Which, if any, of the following do you think is most fitting? If possible, please answer in your own words!<\/p>\n \u201cI never force anyone to do anything.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cSure I will command, and apply pressure but I am a sadist<\/em>, and if you\u2019re not taking the pain and the shame for Me willingly, then I’m not interested at all. I\u2019ll take you to the ledge, but you\u2019re the one jumping off.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cConsent, always consent…<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n What do you think is going on with \u201cForced Bi\u201d? Does a guy actually<\/em> \u201cchange\u201d his sexual orientation?<\/p>\n \u201cIf a man is \u2018straight\u2019 and wishes to engage in this activity as an act of submission to Me, if it gives him the excruciating ecstasy of doing so, I\u2019ll allow it. But rarely is it My suggestion. The very fact a man mentions it tells me it is floating around in there somewhere begging to be let out.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Is it possible for a guy to be a \u201cswitch\u201d or \u201cversatile\u201d? (That is, to be able to take on the role of either bottom or top with more or less equal facility, if not enthusiasm.)<\/p>\n \u201cSwitches are rare and wonderful things. They are My favourite kind of toy.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Some women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex. Straight women sometimes liken their enjoyment to that expressed by straight men who like witnessing two women together sexually. And in the case of two women, it is reasonable to think that participants are not always lesbians or even bisexual. They could just be exhibitionists. Other women might just like viewing gay spectacles. And a few, more dominant types perhaps, seem to find the gender-bending and role-reversal aspects appealing.<\/p>\n Do any of these resonate with you?<\/p>\n \u201cI enjoy watching people having engaged and enjoyable sex, in person or on screen. I\u2019ve always found it odd and rather sad that people wouldn\u2019t find two men together a hot combo. Misogyny is such a sneaky thing, it\u2019s infiltrated our culture so hard.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cMemories of guys together often keep Me warm on lonely nights.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n A few women claim to want to date bisexual guys, participate in threesomes with them, etc. Others seem to think that once a guy tries guy-on-guy sex, he\u2019s less desirable to women. (This may be a difference of opinion between more dominant and more \u201cswitchy\u201d or submissive women.)<\/p>\n What do you think?<\/p>\n \u201cI think that if you think a man being touched by another man soils him, then you\u2019re possibly soiled goods yourself.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cTo me there’s nothing more sexy than a man who fucks who he wants to fuck, or is fucked in ways he enjoys in a way he finds healthy and good. Those men are treasures to women, and a lot of women would benefit from seeing that free of the constraints of traditional hetrosexuality. Luckily, that old teaching is disappearing.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Is the Forced-Bi fetish \u201chealthy\u201d or \u201cunhealthy\u201d? (Here, we mean it is positive and helpful for a male sub\u2019s flourishing, or is it negative and unhelpful? For physical health and STD risk, see \u201cLimits\u201d section, below.)<\/p>\n \u201cIt’s fun and it\u2019s healthy if it’s safe, sane, and consensual.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n If you think it\u2019s healthy, why is it healthy?<\/p>\n \u201cLet the little sluts get what they really want while Mistress watches on. If they were left to their own devices, we all know what messes they would make…<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?<\/p>\n \u201cI am not religious or a spiritual person, but there is beauty in submission. There is wonder in top space and bottom space, and the transient hypofrontality bois can experience is definitely healing, even if only temporarily.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called \u201cbinary language\u201d \u2013 e.g., thinking in terms of \u201cfeminine\u201d versus \u201cmasculine,\u201d etc. \u2013 when it comes to John Money\u2019s concept of \u201cgender\u201d and sexuality. But Forced Bi<\/em>, arguably, has a kind of \u201cbi<\/em>-narism\u201d built into its name.<\/p>\n Do you see this as a problem for the \u201cForced-Bi\u201d fetish?<\/p>\n \u201cWithout the idea of binary gender and the shame of subverting hetro-normality, the fetish wouldn\u2019t work. So it both embraces and pushes it. BDSM is wonderful that way.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?<\/p>\n \u201cIf you\u2019re not taking a dick for Me in every hole possible, you\u2019re not playing properly. Do a job well, or not at all.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cHaving said that many men need a LOT of blow job training.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI often pity the bull.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you think that Forced Bi, as a fetish, is getting more popular?<\/p>\n \u201cIn certain sectors yes, but generally the more toxically masculine the profession, the more prone the gentleman is to coercion, in My humble experience.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you perceive that the Forced-Bi fetish is being promoted in any way by the so-called \u201cmainstream media\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cI have seen some rape scenes in movies that positively fetishised the incident – the idea of subjugating a man through sodomy remains prevalent, and will always feed the fetish. The semiotics of desire fascinate Me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role you want?<\/p>\n \u201cI assign top and bottom, but will join in and top them both as I see fit.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Are you aroused by Forced Bi, or just amused by it?<\/p>\n \u201cAnyone who gets a little tingle from the look of submission in a client\u2019s eye, or savours the flow of top space, knows how i feel about it.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cit\u2019s a different button it\u2019s pressing.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you think that a guy can \u201cjust try\u201d sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?<\/p>\n \u201cNot when I’m supervising it. Most extend the session, and all return.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n What are you interested in doing?<\/p>\n \u201cThis is entirely down to the journey of the person. If I feel they are safe, and sane enough to consensually engage IRL, then I’ll supervise it.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut often it\u2019s a fantasy or a threat I wield over willing victims to keep them squirming.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How \u201cinvolved\u201d do you like to be?<\/p>\n \u201cI prefer to be present to make sure everyone is doing a decent job.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m a dedicated professional that way.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n What is your biggest focus\/turn on?<\/p>\n \u201cSeeing a boi literally bend under My control, any pain he encounters is a sadistic bonus.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n What sexual acts, if any, really charge your batteries?<\/p>\n \u201cA willing cum dump for a group of bulls would convince Me to work on a Sunday morning even.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you have any limits?<\/p>\n \u201cYes, I am a professional and it\u2019s my job to ensure RACK.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI apply that to Myself; if I\u2019m uncomfortable with a scene or the dynamic within it, it ends.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How do you feel about guys having gay sex without condoms (i.e., \u201cbarebacking\u201d)?<\/p>\n \u201cI think the fact that this is even a consideration is why so many men require My supervision. Safety first bois.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Relatedly, some Mistresses insist on safety because Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) in a sub are completely undesirable. Others don\u2019t care either way. Some even profess to find it a turn on to see a guy engage in risky gay sex.<\/p>\n How do you feel about STDs and STD risk?<\/p>\n \u201cFantasise about it all you like, I\u2019ll happily chat to you about it in session, but if you\u2019re actually doing it you\u2019re a risky client and I don\u2019t care for those.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Again, thinking about Forced-Bi encounters, how do you feel about married men?<\/p>\n \u201cI maintain I have saved more marriages, and freed more women who deserved better than many counsellors i know.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cSeeing a professional who has no interest at all in stealing a partner trumps going and risking the wellbeing of others for a quick fix.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How do you feel about amyl-nitrite inhalers (\u201cpoppers\u201d)?<\/p>\n \u201cStimulants and poppers in particular are a big part of the boy on boy scene, and mechanically necessary for many. But My sessions are sober spaces for everyone. Plus, they give Me a headache and I\u2019m the boss.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How do you feel about guys really getting addicted to gay sex?<\/p>\n \u201cI think that getting addicted to things that feel nice or provide that elusive rush is always an issue, and that personal responsibility and guidance from your Dominant is part of preventing anything that may become unhealthy.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut, if you are predisposed to reckless behaviour, you need to address that with a trained professional.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you have any particularly memorable Forced-Bi session(s) to share or summarize? (This could be a session that was especially entertaining for you.<\/p>\n \u201cMy wonderful friend Domina Jemma and I recently filmed a Coerced Bi scene with her personal sub boi and a newbie. You can purchase the clip yourself if you\u2019d like to try and spot at which point I started growling internally.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI rarely film Coerced Bi scenes, so it’s a rare treat.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you have any other fetishes or activities that you like to participate in, direct, or instruct? (E.g., \u201cblackmail,\u201d cock-and-ball \u201ctorture\u201d [CBT], crossdressing, cum-eating, cum-eating instruction [CEI], humiliation, pegging\/strapon, small-penis humiliation [SPH], Etc.)<\/p>\n \u201cCorporal punishment and puppy play are great favourites of mine, however My sadism is wide ranging. I like blood, sweat. and tears, combined with a heady sensuality.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cMy sessions are not for the faint hearted, but I encourage fresh meat that wants to work its way up.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How can fans and other interested persons check out your work? (Do you have any social media accounts or websites to share?)<\/p>\n \u201chttps:\/\/admireme.vip\/BDSMMIA\/<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIG: b.d.s.m.m.i.a<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cTwitter: @bdsmmia<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cWebsite: bdsmmia.com (currently under redevelopment during UK lockdown)<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Mistress BDSM Mia kindly filled out one of our questionnaires! Here are her answers! About You First of all, what is your name? What do you go by? \u201cBDSMMIA.\u201d There are various different adjectives, epithets, modifiers, or monikers that women in your area use. 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<\/p>\nAbout the \u2018Forced-Bi\u2019 Fetish<\/h1>\n
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<\/p>\nForced-Bi Activities<\/h1>\n
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<\/p>\nOn Arousal (Skip Section if Inapplicable)<\/h1>\n
On Limits<\/h1>\n
Final Questions<\/h1>\n