Priestess? Right on, Priestess Mariko!<\/p>\n
So\u2026 how did you end up traversing this path?<\/p>\n
\u201cI trained by observing my first pro Domme in action with her sub around 2011.\u00a0 I came out as queer in 1997 so I am \u2018truly\u2019 or \u2018really\u2019 bi<\/em>.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! Nice!<\/p>\n \u201cI have been different types of sex workers for over twenty years. As an escort, I created \u2018Jenna Bie\u2019 as a brand to attempt to sell my bisexuality, and maybe get more paid for threesomes.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m no longer an escort and now mainly practice Sacred Sexuality<\/em> \u2013 which includes \u2018Kink Therapy\u2019 and \u2018Conscious BDSM.\u2019<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Okay! Both of those are new to me!<\/p>\n \u201cI first came out thinking I was a lesbian, but I\u2019m definitely bi.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cAnd the people that I attract<\/em> and are mostly attracted<\/em> to<\/em> are also bisexual, if they are queer.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI don\u2019t believe in \u2018forcing\u2019 people to be straight, bi, or gay.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I gotcha.<\/p>\n \u201cIf they choose this scene, it is from a deep desire that is already in them \u2013 and you. So, no \u2018forcing\u2019 needs to be done, really.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cForced Bi\u201d is just a term of art<\/a>!<\/p>\n \u201cAs with everything in safe kink, there is willing, enthusiastic consent<\/em> \u2013 either internal or beforehand.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBecause I\u2019ve been in sex work too long, the word \u2018fetish\u2019 \u2013 to me \u2013 is a seeker who says, \u2018Do you do fetishes?\u2019 And it\u2019s almost always<\/em> an annoying time waster that I should outright refuse for my own sanity.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201c\u2018Fetish\u2019 means it is something exotic, rare, super nasty or \u2018weird.\u2019 And, I guess, since BDSM has been a part of my adult life the whole time, it has none of those associations for me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n That\u2019s interesting. I suppose I\u2019m thinking of the word \u201cfetish\u201d as something more like the object of sexual focus<\/em>. So, for example, a person might talk about a \u201cfoot fetish\u201d or a \u201clatex fetish\u201d \u2013 meaning, like\u2026 tight, \u201crubber\u201d-like bodysuits.<\/p>\n But, I follow your use, for sure.<\/p>\n \u201cI grew up in San Francisco. We used to go to 18+ Fetish clubs at the Trocadero wearing my silver Docs!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! No kidding?!<\/p>\n I\u2019m curious, then\u2026 what do you think the Forced-Bi fetish is<\/em>? For example, is it just a bit of fun? A hobby? Experimentation? A lifestyle? Role play? \u2026A \u201ctrap\u201d? \u2026in a playful sense, of course.<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s what I\u2019d call \u2018Shadow Play,\u2019 from a Tantric perspective.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I think Church-of-Satan-founder Anton LaVey\u2019s daughter, Zeena Schreck, once referred to that as, what\u2026 V\u0101ma M\u0101rga<\/em>?<\/p>\n \u201cPart of your Shadow Self is part of your subconscious being: messages you\u2019ve collected from others in your life, energy<\/em> that you want to release, that you must<\/em> release \u2013 because it is gnawing at you too often!<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIt must<\/em> mean something! Or it\u2019s just energy that needs to be released in this way. I think these expressions are mostly great and safe ways to release feelings regarding needs which might otherwise manifest as bullying or homophobia in a non-consensual scene somewhere else.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n So, who do you think it \u201capplies\u201d to? Is it exclusively for males? Or\u2026 no?<\/p>\n \u201cForced bi is a product of the heteronormative patriarchy; so, it does<\/em> refer to just hetero-identifying males.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cThe assumption is that no heterosexual woman has to be \u2018forced\u2019 to be bisexual.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I thought you might have a unique \u201ctake.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cIf I have ever seen this on a porn site, it soon turned into the typical \u2018lipstick-lesbian,\u2019 pussy-eating show soon enough \u2013 without any \u2018forcing\u2019 required.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha!<\/p>\n \u201cA real pop-culture reference that comes to mind is one of R. Kelly\u2019s \u2018slave\u2019 girlfriends was forced to be gender-queer \/ bi for him, during their time together. If women are punished for being truly bi or lesbian, the punisher is the men in power \/ standing to lose power.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cWhat I have found, in my years playing in the BDSM world \u2013 and what I learned quickly \u2013 was that the character \/ persona you play in your scene is just a psychological aspect of the actual you<\/em> \/ shadow desire. This is different from being \u2018closeted.\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI don\u2019t use cruelty in my work, because I realize that it actually poisons me<\/em> versus heals me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n There\u2019s a saying, attributing to the Christian religious figure, Augustine; it\u2019s something like: \u201cResentment is drinking poison and hoping that the other<\/em> person will die.\u201d<\/p>\n In light of your interesting answers, I have to ask: How do you get into bi scenes? Do you have any \u201cforced\u201d element at all? \u2013 within legal bounds, of course!<\/p>\n \u201cI like to do public flirtation \/ daring games at gay clubs.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ooh. That sounds intriguing!<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m very comfortable with gay men, and in I\u2019m in the LGBTQ scene. So, perhaps the kink that I do could be coined, \u2018Forced Out<\/em>.\u2019<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Lol! Point taken!<\/p>\n How does that, um\u2026 play out?<\/p>\n \u201cI take a bi-curious sub to a club with me. I send him to the bar to buy us drinks \u2013but, also, to say hello to the men there. I am close by to oversee if he does it.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I follow you! That\u2019s kinky!<\/p>\n \u201cIn thinking about the \u2018who is this for?\u2019 question, I think I would \u2013 again<\/em> \u2013 only be able to do this by bringing a man<\/em> to a gay-male club, because Lesbians aren\u2019t so aggressive \u2026and don\u2019t get so overtly slutty so easily!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Haha!!! That\u2019s quote of the day!<\/p>\n \u201cIt usually takes hours of drinking!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Lol! I can totally see that!<\/p>\n \u201cBut men \u2013 and, certainly<\/em>, most gay<\/em> men \u2013 will be slutty very<\/em> easily \u2026with almost no<\/em> \u2018forcing\u2019 required.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I love it! Lol!!!<\/p>\n Mmmm\u2026<\/p>\n \u201cI am a fun and gorgeous goddess to serve, if you are game to take me out.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Readers: Need I say more?!?<\/p>\n \u201cGay clubs are super fun and comfortable for me. It is very easy for me to find subs\u2019 willing partners.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mmm\u2026 Now I\u2019m all hot and bothered!<\/p>\n I think I forgot the next question! Lol!<\/p>\n But, seriously\u2026 what happens to the sub\u2019s sexuality because of one or more Forced-Bi experiences? That is, do you believe that a sub\u2019s sexual orientation changes; or that some possibly latent \u201ctrue self\u201d emerges? Is that what you\u2019re basically saying?<\/p>\n \u201cSometimes it does become full-time in the sexual orientation and gender-play worlds. Sissification and forced bi are ways for people to have an outlet for this expression.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cMy Pro Dominant self is the only<\/em> place that I get to be this person in my life, and I love<\/em> and need<\/em> it in my life! I only want to do most of my kink professionally because the exposure and outlet I get from my clients is enough for me to feel fulfilled.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cMy Pro Domme is an expression outlet for my Narcissism. It is very different from the Tantra Goddess work I do, which is super nice and loving \u2013 caring, in a very<\/em> different way!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Oh? Is the Domme side a little darker?<\/p>\n \u201cThe pro Domme persona is still loving kindness \u2013 but\u2026 more devious<\/em>!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mmm\u2026 That\u2019s a turn on!<\/p>\n \u201c\u2026Caring in a different less obvious way. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI have met a transwoman who said that I once encouraged her to go full-time \u2013 and that was how she remembers me. I hope to make all my clients better<\/em>, not worse \u2013 whatever<\/em> that looks like for them.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIn my \u2018forced-bi\u2019 scenes, I am already working with bi-curious guys. I have no attachment to what happens to anyone after<\/em>; the intention is always to make people feel more accepting of themselves.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cEven after shit accidentally shoots out their ass, and they feel embarrassed!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Occupational hazard, surely!<\/p>\n \u201cWith my work, a sub can\u2019t say in the end that they only did it because they were serving me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cIn the end\u2026\u201d? I like it! But, sorry\u2026 (lol!)<\/p>\n \u201cI want them to do things because they know that they wanted to do them anyway, but just needed pushing into the pool to swim.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n No, I totally understand what you\u2019re saying.<\/p>\n Okay, so\u2026 I gotta know: does Forced Bi \u2013 or, \u201cforced out<\/em>\u201d \u2013 arouse you? Amuse? Something else?<\/p>\n \u201cThe way that the scene is typically done goes against my ethics and boundaries, personally. So, I wouldn\u2019t be a match for someone who wants the standard fantasy. This applies to almost everything<\/em> I do, not just Kink.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut, if they want to play by my rules<\/em>, and not theirs<\/em>, and they come to a club with me, then\u2026 it is<\/em> amusing and arousing<\/em>.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mmm\u2026 Yeah! Love it!<\/p>\n Is this as \u201cdark\u201d as you get, so to speak? Do you think of yourself as operating on the lighter<\/em> side<\/em> of things, perhaps somewhat playfully promoting healthy exploration? Or\u2026 ?<\/p>\n \u201cWhile I try to be working in the light \u2013 and on the conscious side \u2013 I am still human and dealing with my own Shadow\u2026 which is the darker part of my personality.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Is there a crossover point? Maybe\u2026 a point at which you call off a scene?<\/p>\n \u201cOnce a safe word is called, I disengage energetically and start to take the person down. I am extremely conscious of people\u2019s emotional and psychological needs \u2013 as I would be of my own.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cEven though I am not making someone take the loads of ten sumo wrestlers while being buried to their neck in sand, I believe that what I do is<\/em> very edgy, unique, fun, funny and kinky. People can be permanently damaged very easily, and I try not to be the one responsible for that.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Fair point. Where does that line usually get drawn?<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019ve had subs call a safe word because I threw water in their face, and others who let me soccer kick them in the groin repeatedly.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Oh, my!<\/p>\n \u201cEveryone\u2019s limits are going to be different; it\u2019s your job, as a dominant, to be aware of this for each of your different subs.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I see what you mean. That\u2019s a lot to keep track of!<\/p>\n Is any of this confined to fantasy chat? Or is it all about the trip to the gay club?<\/p>\n \u201cI could instruct a sub to set up a NiteFlirt profile, or something online. Some subs think it is \u2018forced bi\u2019 for them to suck my strap-on cock, because I am gender-queer when I wear a dick \u2026and consider myself to be a dude when I wear a dick. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cPeople who have hard limits must tell me what they are beforehand. But, I start people off slowly, so they can pull out if they need to.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mmmm\u2026 I get the feeling that sometimes no one ends up, um\u2026 pulling out<\/em>!<\/p>\n Which reminds me: What Forced-Bi activities do you enjoy directing, observing, or talking to subs about?<\/p>\n \u201cI like getting my strap on dick sucked by my subs. They\u2019re often really terrible at it.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Oh?!?<\/p>\n \u201cYes, I can feel it!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Interesting!<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m a very<\/em> sensitive, energetic being. I have an energy cock the length of my body. I like playing out the role of some hetero-porn top on them and straddling their necks and fucking their faces.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Holy shit! You just caused my mind to blank! Lol\u2026<\/p>\n Are you more fascinated with or focused upon the homosexual acts and behaviors themselves, or with your influence and power over the sub?<\/p>\n \u201cI like the power of certain scenes \u2013 like the one, above, when I am in the pure top space of allowing myself to be that guy. It\u2019s fun.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I\u2019ll bet!<\/p>\n Do you have any limits that prospective subs should know about?<\/p>\n \u201cThere is more that I don\u2019t<\/em> do versus what I do<\/em>, these days. I like newer subs, who don\u2019t have an agenda and script in hand already.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! Fair enough!<\/p>\n \u201cI don\u2019t do scripts. People who have fetishes often have scripts. Haha!<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI have a sub \u2018contract\u2019 that talks about my dick and the things that I require service \/ task wise \u2013 explanation of my kinks.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cSober\u2026 except weed welcome. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI will do more, if I am attracted to my client.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI want to have fun no matter what.\u00a0 I am not trying to traumatize people.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right on.<\/p>\n Any final thoughts?<\/p>\n \u201cMaybe my assignment is for you to take a selfie of you about to suck someone\u2019s cock in the bathroom. Perhaps I\u2019ll send you on a scavenger <\/strong>hunt looking for an obscure item \u2013 and asking people in the room if they have it. I will order food and drinks \u2013 on your tab<\/em> \u2013 while you work on the <\/strong>mission. And of course we\u2019ll\u00a0have a blast doing it.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Oh, gawd! Well… there you have it!<\/p>\n Thank you so, so much, Priestess Mariko! It was a unique conversation for me, for sure! I appreciate your time!<\/p>\n And\u2026 all good wishes for the New Year!<\/p>\n Interested readers can find Priestess Mariko online at her website: https:\/\/www.tantratokyolovehawaii.com\/<\/a> <\/strong>and on her OnlyFans account: https:\/\/www.onlyfans.com\/marikopassion<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n Just a reminder to Forced-Bi fans, we now have a Subreddit (Reddit.com\/EnforcedBi<\/a>) devoted to our brand of deviance as well as a few weeks-old Twitter account (Twitter.com\/forcedbisexual<\/a>)! Find us in either corner of the web \u2014 or both places! \u2014 and say \u201chi\u201d!<\/p>\n (All photos of Priestess Mariko are Copyright 2021, Priestess Mariko. They are reproduced by Forced-Bi.com or its affiliates and associates with permission.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Hello, hello, and it looks like 2021 is already shaping up to be every bit as crazy as 2020! We need a little balance and perspective, perhaps. 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