I always enjoy some of the creative neologisms that intelligent coerced-bi practitioners come up with!<\/p>\n
\u201cSissy whisperer\u201d is one of the best I\u2019ve come across \u2013 absolutely delicious!<\/p>\n
So, besides \u201cMs.,\u201d are there any other titles that you use? \u201cGoddess,\u201d \u201cMistress,\u201d etc.?<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m not too keen on \u2018Goddess,\u2019 \u2018Mistress,\u2019 \u2018Lady,\u2019 or anything like that. I\u2019m Southern, and manners are very important.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIn the South, it\u2019s Ms. and Ma\u2019am… no exceptions.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ah! I won\u2019t gainsay that at all \u2013 so, yes, ma\u2019am<\/em>!<\/p>\n How do you see yourself, I mean\u2026 as a fetishist, in general?<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s certainly a lifestyle; this is who I am, pretty much all the time.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut there\u2019s also a bit of social activism.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Advancing feminism? That sort of thing?<\/p>\n Let me ask this: How do you think about the people who approach you? For instance, what label \u2013 or labels \u2013 do you apply to them? \u201cSlaves\u201d? \u201cSluts\u201d? Subs\u201d? And that\u2019s just the \u201cs\u201d-words!<\/p>\n \u201cPrincesses.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n No kidding? Okay!<\/p>\n \u201cBut\u2026 my sissies have to earn<\/em> that title.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n That<\/em> sounds like an interesting process.<\/p>\n \u201cThere is a difference between \u2018betas\u2019 and \u2018sissies.\u2019 Betas<\/em>, to me at least, are just worthless men who can\u2019t do anything without being told. They really aspire to nothing. They are happy being slaves and being ignored or not acknowledged \u2013 whenever. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cA sissy<\/em>, on the other hand, knows he is worthless as a man and that he will never be a woman. So, every moment, they are doing anything they can<\/em> to be useful to an Alpha<\/em> (Alpha Male or<\/em> Alpha Female). This involves waxing, dressing as a sissy, chastity, milking, becoming a housemaid \u2013 anything they can do to make themselves useful.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Intriguing taxonomy.<\/p>\n I take it that this categorization has been developed over some period of time. How did you actually get into \u2013 well\u2026 as this?<\/p>\n \u201cOh, lord. Okay.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! Here we go?<\/p>\n \u201cI first got a taste of \u2018sissification,\u2019 and fetishes as a whole, when I modeled chainmail for a friend of a friend at a fetish convention here in Atlanta.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n This interview is full of \u201cfirsts\u201d for me! You modeled chainmail? All right.<\/p>\n \u201cToday they call it \u2018Frolicon,\u2019 but \u2013 a hundred years ago \u2013 it was just a small little convention.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI was 21 years old then, and just discovering myself. But that convention really changed my outlook on sex and sexuality. I saw slaves with their Dommes, Drag Queens, men in chastity, men in panties and lingerie. It was wild.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cFast forward ten years. I started diving into the world of phone sex. I started as just a quick suck-and-fuck submissive, but it wasn\u2019t long till I took my first call from a panty-wearing sissy who wanted to suck cock for me<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIt was all downhill from there.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Haha! Indeed!<\/p>\n \u201cI love the fetish community, LGBTQ+ community, Drag community, and the like. It\u2019s a running joke that I\u2019m a Drag Queen stuck in a woman\u2019s body.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n That paints quite a picture!<\/p>\n \u201cThe other reason I love sissies so much is that I come across a lot of men who are gay, but hiding it.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n So, you see what you do, partially, as \u2026therapeutic<\/em>?<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m able to give them an outlet to explore being the gay, effeminate princess they truly are. I\u2019ve helped so many men come out of the closet, and they are now living their best lives!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Fascinating!<\/p>\n Now, when you meet this princesses-to-be, do you mean via telephone or webcam? Or do you also have a \u201cdungeon\u201d or other space for face-to-face, in-person, or real-time meets?<\/p>\n \u201cNot at the moment. Life happens\u2026<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Agreed.<\/p>\n \u201c\u2026and I\u2019ve been online since 2006, raising my family and adulting.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI do<\/em> want to begin live sessions. There is a place out here in Atlanta, the Atlanta Sissy Training Academy (through the Atlanta Dungeon), that I would love to start working though.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cSo, I guess you can say that\u2019s my five-year plan.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Fair enough. You have to have goals!<\/p>\n What\u2019s your main ambition? I mean, are you aiming to make money, or derive pleasure \u2013 or both?<\/p>\n \u201cBoth. This is my career.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m not for \u2018draining men\u2019s wallets.\u2019 But, yes, I would<\/em> like to make a comfortable living in my career.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right on.<\/p>\n How much of your energy and time does this take up? I take it that it isn\u2019t just a hobby, then.<\/p>\n \u201cAs I said, this is my career. So, it takes up a lot of my time.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n You\u2019re \u201cgood\u201d with that?<\/p>\n \u201cI don\u2019t mind. I love it<\/em>. But, yes, it takes up a lot<\/em> of my time.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m a businesswoman. So, if it didn\u2019t<\/em> take up my time, then I\u2019m not running my business correctly. Am I?<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n You can\u2019t delegate everything<\/em>.<\/p>\n On a personal level, do you feel comfortable sharing anything else? <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cForty-five years old; happily married; 2.5 grown kids; four cats; two dogs; huge baseball fan; lover of music; former ballet dancer; a follower of the Pagan Path for over twenty-five years… I\u2019m an open book.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n 2.5? Lol!<\/p>\n \u201cMost of the time, my fans are curious if my husband is a sissy, or submissive, or whatnot.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cNo, he\u2019s not.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIn fact, our married life is separate from my professional life as a Sissy Domme.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I can see how that question would be of interest to your clientele.<\/p>\n From a philosophical-sexological perspective, so you think that true \u201cbisexuality\u201d \u2013 where a person is more or less equally attracted to females and males is possible?<\/p>\n \u201cPersonally, I believe everyone<\/em> is bisexual, period.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cMen will take a \u2018dick sucking\u2019 no matter who is doing it. And women are emotional creatures; we will gravitate to other women easily.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cWhat I think stops most from evolving in their natural bi curiosities, is the community, family, friends, and all that surrounds us. For example, my kids were raised in the Pagan community, where gay, straight, trans, poly, swingers, crossdressers \u2013 everything under the sun \u2013 was a norm for them.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cWhen my oldest \u2018came out\u2019 it wasn\u2019t a big deal. Telling someone you\u2019re gay, to me, is like telling someone you\u2019re wearing a green shirt.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cSo many others are not that lucky. So, they are raised to believe that a man isn\u2019t a man if he sucks cock. It\u2019s sad. But, I also see it changing in the newer generations \u2013 which is fabulous!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Okay, that\u2019s interesting. But it makes me wonder: How do you see the forced-bi fetish, then? Is it a lifestyle? A game? An informal \u201ctherapy\u201d session? <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cReally, it depends on the person\/s involved. There isn\u2019t one \u2013 or even ten \u2013 right answer to this question.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Now, you mentioned the ease with which both males and females might be attracted to, or participate in, oh\u2026 let\u2019s just say: bisexuality<\/em>. So, I\u2019m wondering\u2026 do you see the Forced-Bi fetish primarily in terms of male submission, male and female submission, both, or neither?<\/p>\n \u201cMainly males… Males have a nasty little thing called pride<\/em>, and forced-bi can break that pride so quickly…lol.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Okay, then!<\/p>\n How hard do you have to press, so to speak? Or, to put it another way, how forced<\/em> is \u201cforced\u201d?<\/p>\n Just for the record: \u201cforced\u201d doesn\u2019t involve anything illegal! Call it a \u201cterm of art.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m not fond of the word \u2018forced,\u2019 because of the negative meanings associated with it. But, I don\u2019t mind using it.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cTo me, forced-bi isn\u2019t really that much of a force<\/em>. I mean, come on\u2026 these Princesses want<\/em> to please. And if that requires a cock in the mouth, then… so be it.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Not all that much force. I follow you.<\/p>\n So, the obvious follow-up question would be something like: What do you think is going on with \u201cforced bi\u201d? Does a guy actually change his sexual orientation?<\/p>\n \u201cNo. A fetish or kink has nothing to do with a person\u2019s sexual orientation.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201c\u2018Turning someone gay\u2019 is a fantasy; it\u2019s not realistic. You\u2019re born gay, you\u2019re not \u2018turned\u2019 gay.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cThis is a pet peeve of mine because it takes the LGBTQ+ community and makes it a fetish. Just because a man sucks cock or takes anal does not make him gay.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Is it possible for a guy to be a \u201cswitch\u201d or \u201cversatile\u201d? (That is, to be able to take on the role of either bottom or top with more or less equal facility, if not enthusiasm.)<\/p>\n \u201cSure. But not with me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha. Fair enough.<\/p>\n Is the forced-bi fetish \u201chealthy\u201d or \u201cunhealthy\u201d? \u2013 psychologically speaking, I mean. Emotionally. Whatever.<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s not really the fetish<\/em> that should be in question; it\u2019s the relationship<\/em> between the Domme and submissive.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIf it\u2019s a Domme who doesn\u2019t give a shit about the submissive\u2019s feelings, health, or anything else, then I would say unhealthy<\/em>. If the Domme does<\/em> care about the submissive, and is careful, then it\u2019s healthy.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Okay. I follow you.<\/p>\n What else do you get into? Anything? Any other fetishes or activities that you like to direct? Or\u2026 preside over?<\/p>\n \u201cI do work mainly with sissies. But \u2018sissification\u2019 is such an umbrella term.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI do enjoy what I consider the \u2018basics\u2019: chastity, humiliation, panty worship, training, and the like. But I\u2019m not limited to that.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cFor example, I have assisted many \u2018sissies\u2019 who have been questioning their true sexuality or gender. Although I am not<\/em> a medical professional, I love giving them support and many have come out and begun to live their true lives.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cOf course, there are fetishes I love to dabble in \u2013 CBT[1]<\/a> being my favorite. I have a twisted side, and if a man wants<\/em> to ruin his own cock, then let\u2019s do it!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Oh, mercy!<\/p>\n \u201cIn my tenure of phone sex (since 2006), I\u2019ve been a part of so many fetishes. I\u2019m very well versed just due to experience, so it\u2019s rare I say \u2018no.\u2019 However, I do have one very hard<\/em> \u2018no\u2019<\/em>: No race play \/ racial slurs \u2013 ever.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right on.<\/p>\n How can fans and other interested persons check out your work?<\/p>\n \u201cI have a personal website \u2013 https:\/\/ameliadivine.com\/<\/a> \u2013 where I sell clips, videos, personal training and items.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI also offer phone sessions through my site, where you can call me directly \u2013 1-866-MY-SISSY (1-866-697-4779).<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m also host of The Sissy Whisperer<\/em> podcast, https:\/\/www.thesissywhisperer.com\/<\/a>, where I upload new podcasts the third Wednesday of every month.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cFor a little socializing, you can follow me on Twitter @MsMilieDivine<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut, in case you live outside the United States, you can connect with me and purchase my clips on: NiteFlirt<\/a>, Clips4Sale<\/a>, APClips<\/a>, ManyVids<\/a>, & AVNStars<\/a>. Or just search Google for \u2018Amelia Divine\u2019.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Thank you so much for all that!<\/p>\n My audience and I appreciate your time, today!<\/p>\n Good luck with your future endeavors!<\/p>\n (All images of Amelia Divine posted by Forced-Bi.com are Copyright 2020, Ms. Amelia Divine. They are used with permission.)<\/p>\n [1]<\/a> \u201cCBT\u201d = \u201ccock-and-ball torture\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Hello! Thank you so much for being with us! First of all, please let the audience know, what name do you go by? \u201cAmelia Divine, a.k.a., The Sissy Whisperer. 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