Right on.<\/p>\n
\u201c<\/strong>\u2018Mommy\u2019 or \u2018Daddy\u2019 can work, too; but are more context-dependent.<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Ooh! How suggestive!<\/p>\n All right, so\u2026 basic background question: How did you get into fetishes in general and forced bi in particular?<\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>I\u2019ve always been more dominant and sadistic and enjoyed different kinks, especially cuckoldry and sissification. As a bisexual woman, I was drawn to forced bi because I like the idea of fetishizing and exploring male bisexuality, which is often ignored.<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n That may open up some additional questions! But, first, how do you think of Forced Bi? What is it, in your opinion?<\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>I think it can be different things for different people \u2013 from a fetish to dabble in, to the start of someone\u2019s self-discovery about their bisexuality.<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Interesting! Who do you think it applies to? Most of the time, it appears to concern male submissives. Does it \u2013 or can it \u2013 apply to others as well?<\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>For me, the focus is on male bisexuality, though I think forced bi as a fetish could include women.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>For forced-bi fetishes, I prefer focusing on men because there isn\u2019t that same level of fetishization as there is with female bisexuality. It feels almost like a sort of turning-the-tables on men fetishizing women sleeping with each other, and instead, I\u2019m fetishizing getting men to sleep with each other.<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n I can totally see that! And I\u2019ll bet it makes for some intense interactions.<\/p>\n What do you do \u2013 within legal bounds, of course \u2013 to compel, entice, or otherwise \u201cforce\u201d the submissive into participating in bisexual encounters?<\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>A combination of seduction and commands.<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Seduction\u2019s always an intriguing angle!<\/p>\n \u201cAnyone participating in forced bi has at least some<\/em> interest in the encounter \u2013 even if it\u2019s just to sate some curiosity, or to test his mettle in something he\u2019d otherwise hesitate to do.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n So, do you even think of it as Forced<\/em> Bi, strictly so called?<\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>What I do might be more accurately considered \u2018coerced\u2019 or \u2018encouraged\u2019 bi, but I like the flare of the word \u2018forced.\u2019<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s certainly evocative! A term of art, doubtless.<\/p>\n So what do you think happens to the sub\u2019s psychology or sexuality because of one or more Forced-Bi experiences? Does a sub change his \u201corientation\u201d? What do you think?<\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>Sexuality is a very individualistic, subjective thing. I don\u2019t feel it\u2019s my place to decide for others.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>What I will say, though, is anytime I\u2019ve posted a forced-bi blog or discussed forced bi with clients, I always get several private messages from guys either telling me they\u2019re bisexual or that they\u2019ve fantasized about other men but haven\u2019t told anyone about it.<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Imagine that! Speaking of your, um\u2026body of work (!), you look stunning in the \u201cSEX\u201d choker! Just sayin\u2019! \ud83d\ude09 But, sorry to interrupt, lol! Please, continue\u2026<\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>I think forced bi gives men the space to name those feelings they\u2019ve had for years, rather than the encounter itself \u2018turning\u2019 them bi.<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s sort of an occasion for expression of something innate, rather than a modification of someone\u2019s \u201corientation\u201d? Interesting view!<\/p>\n All right\u2026 reader-favorite query: Does Forced Bi arouse you, or just amuse you?<\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>Both.<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Ha! That\u2019s the best!<\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>I\u2019m attracted to men and women and find any sexual encounter with any gender-pairing to be very sexy \u2013 which includes men expressing interest in and being involved with men, sexually.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>But the fetish also amuses me because of how much it appeals to self-identifying straight men.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>Before having as much professional experience with the fetish as I do now, I figured that just a few bi men here and there would like it. But quite a few straight and bi men love<\/em> it.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>And just the notion that I\u2019m \u2018forcing\u2019 them to do something they asked me to do is always amusing.<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Haha! Fair point!<\/p>\n Do you think of yourself as operating on the lighter side of things, perhaps somewhat playfully promoting health exploration? Or do you think of what you do in darker terms?<\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>I think a bit of both.<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Okay! Can you explain a bit?<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>On one hand, forced bi does<\/em> give men the opportunity to explore their attraction to other men, which is a good thing.<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n And, hence\u2026 healthy?<\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>On the other hand, male bisexuality is very stigmatized. So, men who engage in that, even if those men walk away from it feeling as straight as ever, can feel internal or external shame around that.<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n I follow you. In a way, it depends on the disposition or psychology of the sub.<\/p>\n Is Forced Bi usually kept within the confines of fantasy chat, or do you encourage guys to have real, in-the-flesh homosexual encounters?<\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>Within my work, it\u2019s focused on calls\/chats. But clients have told me about their in-person experiences, which I always find very hot.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>As long as whoever else they\u2019d want to engage with is a consenting adult, I\u2019d definitely encourage taking things from fantasy to reality.<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Very sexy!<\/p>\n So\u2026 what Forced-Bi activities do you enjoy directing, observing, or talking to subs about?<\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>Anal, bukkake, cock sucking, cum eating, and facials are all activities I enjoy talking to subs about \u2013 preferably in the context of threesomes or gang bangs; the more the merrier!<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Oh, my! That\u2019s dirty-hot!<\/p>\n Do you want dedicated bottoms and tops, or guys who are willing and able to perform either role?<\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>I focus more on bottoms, so they\u2019re ready and able to take plenty of cock.<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Readers: take note!<\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>But switches are acceptable as well.<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Can a guy \u201cjust try\u201d getting ass-fucked or sucking cock and then quit, or would he become addicted to it?<\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>I don\u2019t think someone would actually<\/em> become addicted to either, but it\u2019s certainly something that sticks with guys.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>I\u2019ve had guys tell me about same-sex encounters they had decades ago that they still jack off to!<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Are you more fascinated with or focused upon the homosexual acts and behaviors themselves<\/em>, or with your influence and power<\/em> over the sub?<\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>Definitely more interested in the power\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n \u2026not uncommon!<\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>\u2026but the acts themselves are very arousing; that\u2019s why forced bi is so much fun \ud83d\ude09<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n I think a lot of people on here would tend to agree with you!<\/p>\n If you invite actual, physical guy-on-guy rendezvous, do you insist that the participants use condoms and protection, or do you prefer that they go without \u2013 that is, \u201cbareback\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>In my work, I focus on calls\/chats. In my personal life, I prefer going without condoms \u2013 whether it comes to me or anyone else involved.<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n I gotcha.<\/p>\n Do you have any limits that prospective subs should know about?<\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>My personal limits are no incest roleplay and no race play\/race-based-fetish play.<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n And where can interested readers discover more about you, or interact with you?<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>You can find me on the <\/a>Phone Sex Bar<\/a> and on Twitter<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>http:\/\/www.thephonesexbar.com\/cynthia.html<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>https:\/\/twitter.com\/TSCynthiaPSB<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI do calls, chats, and Skype sessions.<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Awesome! So cool of you to join me! Thanks so much! And all the best to you!<\/p>\n (All images of Mistress Cynthia Santana on this post are Copyright 2020 by Cynthia Santana. 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