There are various labels that women in your area use. Which \u2013 if any \u2013 do you think of yourself as, or prefer?<\/p>\n
\u201cI think of myself as an Alpha. But also as a Domme and Mistress. I\u2019m definitely also Mischievous!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Oh, are you?! Intriguing!<\/p>\n What makes you gravitate towards these adjectives?<\/p>\n \u201cThey just match My Role and Personality.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Fair enough.<\/p>\n What do you see yourself as doing<\/em>? I mean\u2026 is this a lifestyle? A bit of fun? Something else?<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s a professional role, but also an extension of My personality.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I think I gotcha. It\u2019s a job. But\u2026it\u2019s meaningful.<\/p>\n How do you describe the people who seek out your services? \u201cBetas\u201d? \u201cSubs\u201d? Etc.<\/p>\n \u201cIt depends on the person. They\u2019re a mix of clients, slaves, subs, masochists, kinksters.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n In other words, a range.<\/p>\n \u201cYeah. I don\u2019t generalize about those who come to see Me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Cool.<\/p>\n And \u2013 standard, background question \u2013 what got you into the world of domination and fetishes, in general \u2013 and forced bi in particular?<\/p>\n \u201cI enjoy the control over men.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Why am I not surprised?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Are you doing this online?<\/p>\n \u201cI see more subs real-time, though do scheduled online sessions.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you also have a \u201cdungeon,\u201d studio, or other space for face-to-face, in-person, or real-time meets?<\/p>\n \u201cYes; I offer sessions Tuesday to Saturday every week.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Readers: take note!<\/p>\n Are you aiming to make money, or derive pleasure \u2013 or both?<\/p>\n \u201cMy concern is both pleasure and money.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right on.<\/p>\n How much of your energy and time does this take up?<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s a full-time occupation.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Are you satisfied with this level of involvement? Would you prefer it to be a little less? Maybe expand and do more?<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m satisfied where things are at.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Congrats!<\/p>\n Do you feel comfortable sharing anything else about yourself, on either personal or professional levels? E.g., How old are you? Are you in a relationship? (Conventional? Alternative\/BDSM?) What is your sexual orientation? Etc.<\/p>\n \u201cI am early 30s and am an animal and art lover. I love the psychology of BDSM and am forever learning about the art of Domination.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI am BiSexual; I fall for the person, not the gender, it seems.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Thank you so much!<\/p>\n Let me segue into some questions about the Forced-Bi fetish itself.<\/p>\n On the face of it, the \u201cforced-bi fetish\u201d has two components: (1) \u201cforce\u201d and (2) \u201cbisexuality.\u201d Let\u2019s handle both, but in reverse order.<\/p>\n Do you think that true \u201cbisexuality\u201d \u2013 where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males (but see a further question about problems with so-called \u201cbinarism\u201d) \u2013 is possible?<\/p>\n \u201cAs with many aspects in life, it is down to each individual.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cHumans are obsessed with labels, for how else can the brain comprehend without?<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I gotcha. So, you think there\u2019s a continuum?<\/p>\n \u201cA person can feel many different ways throughout their life; sexuality is fluid.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Which of the following, if any, do you think of the Forced-Bi fetish as? A game? A lifestyle? Role play? A trap? A combo? \u2026something else?<\/p>\n \u201cJust to point out: I only see male slaves, hence there\u2019s a focus on men.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I have a question about that that I\u2019ll ask in a minute.<\/p>\n \u201cFor Me, it\u2019s a combination of role play, power trip, and a fun activity \/ game.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut it\u2019s also a release for the sub \u2013 to either act out sexual feelings towards men or to explore sexual feelings of the Dominance of a woman \u2018forcing\u2019 it to happen.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Just to backtrack for a minute\u2026 what do you call this fetish? \u201cCoerced bi\u201d? \u201cEncouraged bi\u201d? \u201cForced bi\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cThe classic BDSM term is \u2018Forced bi,\u2019 but I will use different terminology, as above, depending on the slave and the situation. Some want to feel that they have no choice but to do it, and that I am making them.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n In practice, \u201cforced bi\u201d seems most often to apply to men being somehow impelled to perform sexually (or to imagine performing sexually) with other men. However, in theory, it seems that it could apply to other things \u2013 for example, to women being impelled to perform sexually with other women \u2013 as well.<\/p>\n Do you see it primarily in terms of male submission, male and female submission, both, or neither?<\/p>\n \u201cIt can pertain to male or female submission. It just seems to be more publicly shown as males, maybe because there is more humiliation to it \u2013 or because there is more of a call for men who want to watch it in clips as opposed to females.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n A lot of factors.<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s a very interesting topic!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I think so!<\/p>\n Okay; let\u2019s talk about the word \u201cforced.\u201d<\/p>\n I\u2019m sure it goes without saying that we\u2019re not literally talking about compelling anyone by an actual threat of force.<\/p>\n But, that still leaves it fairly wide open as to what (licit!) meaning of \u201cforced\u201d a particular practitioner has in mind.<\/p>\n Which, if any, of the following do you think is most fitting? Coercion? Commandment? Encouragement? Enticement? Inducement? Instruction? Permission? Persuasion? Provocation? Seduction? Some combo? Something else entirely?<\/p>\n \u201cAgain, it can be any<\/em> of the above, depending on the slave and the situation.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cAs with all forms of BDSM, it is as much psychological as it is physical. Each scenario is unique to the Domme and sub in each event.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Fair enough. I\u2019m always interested in whether a specific Domme has a trajectory that she prefers.<\/p>\n What do you think is actually going on with \u201cforced bi\u201d? Does a guy change his sexual orientation?<\/p>\n \u201cSome may be opening a box they have kept locked; some may love the kick of pleasing Me. Some may be intrigued \u2013 maybe they have had past thoughts, even played with themselves thinking of it.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n It seems more common these days.<\/p>\n \u201cBut fantasy can be very different from reality. So, being \u2018forced\u2019 \/ \u2018co-erced\u2019 helps explore that.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I can see that.<\/p>\n \u201cSome like the thrill.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n True!<\/p>\n \u201cSome are just kink bags.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! I give that the quote-of-the-day award!<\/p>\n \u201cThere is not one answer.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Is it possible for a guy to be a \u201cswitch\u201d or \u201cversatile\u201d? (That is, to be able to take on the role of either bottom or top with more or less equal facility, if not enthusiasm.)<\/p>\n \u201cSure; why not?\u201d<\/p>\n Some Mistresses insists that, deep down, a sub is either one or the other.<\/p>\n \u201cJust as a person can be both in everyday life, that can be the same \u2018in the bedroom.\u2019<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Some women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex. Straight women sometimes liken their enjoyment to that expressed by straight men who like witnessing two women together sexually. And in the case of two women, it is reasonable to think that participants are not always lesbians or even bisexual. They could just be exhibitionists. Other women might just like viewing gay spectacles. And a few, more dominant types perhaps, seem to find the gender-bending and role-reversal aspects appealing.<\/p>\n Do any of these resonate with you?<\/p>\n \u201cFor Me, I only enjoy watching it if I am the one controlling it.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right on!<\/p>\n Lemme ask you this\u2026<\/p>\n A few women claim to want to date bisexual guys, participate in threesomes with them, etc. Others seem to think that once a guy tries guy-on-guy sex, he\u2019s less desirable to women). This may be a difference of opinion between more dominant and more submissive women.<\/p>\n What do you think?<\/p>\n \u201cIt is part of their personality, just as with Bi-sexual women.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIt seems that it is more \u2018acceptable\u2019 for women to be Bi-sexual, whereas if a guy is, then he must be gay.<\/p>\n \u201cNo! He\u2019s Bi<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cHis attraction is sexual, physical and also individual.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIt is the person they fall for not the gender!<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cFor some women, they are put off and think that if they have a relationship with them then they won\u2019t be totally satisfied. In some cases, that may be true. But there are so many non-conventional relationships types that, if so, it can be explored together.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cOther women are just put off to think that their guys fancy guys as well. As with any relationship, sometimes things don\u2019t work out and they are not sexually compatible.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cRelationships need honesty, no matter the orientation. Just because a guy is Bi doesn\u2019t necessarily mean he is submissive!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Thanks for the detailed answer.<\/p>\n Based upon that, I\u2019m going to guess that you think the Forced-Bi fetish is \u201chealthy\u201d as opposed to \u201cunhealthy.\u201d Would that be fair?<\/p>\n And, just to clarify, by \u201chealthy,\u201d in this context, I mean that Forced Bi is positive and helpful for a male sub\u2019s flourishing.<\/p>\n \u201cEvery situation is unique and totally depends on the relationship between the Domme and sub. If done right, it is a very healthy exploration.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n What would it look like if done wrong?<\/p>\n \u201cI explain that sometimes fantasy can be way better than reality, and mentally it may not be for them. I don\u2019t offer Force Bi to just anyone who asks. I have to know that person and decide who I think would suitable and what scenario it is carried out in.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI want it to be a positive experience for them and also Myself! It can be an extremely freeing experience also, especially if it is something they have desired for some time.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n If you had to put a finer point on why it\u2019s healthy, what would you say?<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s productive exploration.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?<\/p>\n \u201cFor Myself, it has nothing to do with Religion or spirituality. But I am always aware that it may be for them, hence why I don\u2019t offer it unless I have built up a relationship, trust and have discussed things.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called \u201cbinary language\u201d \u2013 e.g., thinking in terms of \u201cfeminine\u201d versus \u201cmasculine,\u201d etc. \u2013 when it comes to John Money\u2019s concept of \u201cgender\u201d and sexuality. But forced bi, arguably, has a kind of \u201cbi-narism\u201d built into its name.<\/p>\n Do you see this as a problem for the \u201cforced-bi\u201d fetish?<\/p>\n \u201cAs humans, we are obsessed with having things \u2018labelled\u2019 \u2013 even people who don\u2019t want to be labelled have a label! The irony!!<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cThe phrase \u2018Forced Bi\u2019 is an explanation of an act.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Let me get to the crowd-pleasing queries\u2026<\/p>\n What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?<\/p>\n \u201cA mixture of cock sucking\/oral sex, kissing, rimming\/tongue-fucking, cum eating & swallowing.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Sidebar: Do you think that Forced Bi, as a fetish, is getting more popular?<\/p>\n \u201cI do think it\u2019s getting more popular. I think this is due to the internet and the access to clips, websites, etc.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you perceive that the Forced-Bi fetish is being promoted in any way by the so-called \u201cmainstream media\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cI don\u2019t know. I am not aware of it outside the BDSM scene that I have seen.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role I want?<\/p>\n \u201cThis, for Me, depends on the reasoning behind it. If I am filming clips, then the more versatile the better. If it is session-based, then it will be tailored around the boundaries of My client.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ah. That makes sense.<\/p>\n Are you aroused by forced bi, or just amused by it?<\/p>\n \u201cThe power is arousing!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you think that a guy can \u201cjust try\u201d sucking cock or getting ass fucked and then quit?<\/p>\n \u201cTotally. As I said before, sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality. Some are completely put off, others are just like, \u2018yeah, that\u2019s not for me.\u2019<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n What are you interested in doing? Do you\u2026 keep things at the level of fantasy chat? Encourage guys to have real, in-the-flesh encounters with other males? Etc.<\/p>\n \u201cCompletely depends on the guy, sometimes just the talk is enough to excite them. Others I know it is actually something they would like to try.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How \u201cinvolved\u201d do you like to be? Are you one of these Dommes that just issues instructions and then turns things over to the guys to do what they will? You request photographic evidence? You watch via webcam? Etc.<\/p>\n \u201c100% real-time!!!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! Okay, then!!<\/p>\n \u201cI am in charge. And, also\u2026 I need to keep in touch with the vibe and make sure both sides are okay. Plus, I get off on the power in person more, haha<\/em>! \ud83d\ude09<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right on! That\u2019s hot.<\/p>\n What is your biggest focus\/turn on? I mean\u2026besides the power angle.<\/p>\n \u201cBasically, it is the power and control. But, as long as I know My boy is in some way getting off on it\u2026<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Then\u2026 everyone\u2019s happy?<\/p>\n \u201cI take care of My boys.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Aw! \ud83d\ude1b<\/p>\n What sexual acts get you going the most?<\/p>\n “I love cocksuckers. I love making them get on their knees and making Me proud!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you have any limits?<\/p>\n \u201cYes, of course. I have many limits. And I insist upon certain limits with respect to my subs as well.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How do you feel about guys having gay sex without condoms (i.e., \u201cbarebacking\u201d)?<\/p>\n \u201cI offer whatever the participants are comfortable with.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI make sure My clients and boys are 100% informed on sexual health and the risks, I encourage testing and screening. Condoms are always on offer. I explain that if they do it without, then they may put others at risk in their personal life. I will not allow sexual drive to overtake their common sense.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How do you feel about STDs and STD risk?<\/p>\n \u201cI actively encourage regular screening and always inform clients\/boys of the risks. I will kill a boner to ensure they know what the true risks are.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n That paints a picture!<\/p>\n \u201cThey then have the choice. Condoms are always at hand and they can change their mind and use one, even if initially said \u2018no.\u2019<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How do you feel about married men?<\/p>\n \u201cI never ask questions, but if they offer that information then I ensure they know the full risks of health, if certain choices are made.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI am more likely to encourage protection for married men. Ultimately, though, the decision is theirs. They may do it without My knowledge somewhere else so I can only offer sexual health education.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How do you feel about amyl-nitrite inhalers \u2013 that is, so-called \u201cpoppers\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cFor those who don\u2019t know, poppers are used to increase the blood flow, give a \u2018rush.\u2019<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Which, coincidentally enough, happens to be one of the leading brands.<\/p>\n \u201cThey help relax the sphincter for potential anal \u2013 and they also help with pain tolerance. They can help relax someone who is nervous.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I should say that I think they\u2019re marketed as air deodorizers or something like that.<\/p>\n \u201cBefore use I always check that the client\/boy has not had Viagra as that can have a very negative effect when used together or alcohol, and certain other things. Poppers aren\u2019t for everyone and can make someone light-headed (in a bad way), cause nausea, and even fainting. If being used for the first time they should be used sparingly and see how the body reacts. They should never be used if there are heart issues!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I want to interject again to say that Forced-Bi.com doesn\u2019t condone or encourage non-recommended uses. Whatever readers choose to do, they do at your own risk!<\/p>\n \u201cNow that all sounds so serious!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! Right?!<\/p>\n \u201cOn the positive side they can be amazing for the user and really enhance an experience!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Switching gears, again\u2026 how do you feel about guys really getting addicted to gay sex? Is that even a thing?<\/p>\n \u201cI provide a safe environment for guys to experiment. I give full explanations of risks. Yes, I want them to have fun, be sluts, etc.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut I will always ensure they are informed.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cSometimes it releases a desire they have kept locked away for many years and it can be life altering, but I will be there to support if so.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cSome just want to have fun every now and then.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I gotcha.<\/p>\n Thank you so much for all the detailed answers, by the way!<\/p>\n You\u2019ve pretty much exhausted my supply of questions!<\/p>\n Wrapping up\u2026<\/p>\n Do you have any other fetishes or activities that you like to participate in, direct, or instruct? (E.g., \u201cblackmail,\u201d cock-and-ball \u201ctorture\u201d [CBT], crossdressing, cum-eating, cum-eating instruction [CEI], humiliation, pegging\/strapon, small-penis humiliation [SPH], Etc.)<\/p>\n \u201cI offer a vast array of BDSM activities. I see clients who are at the very start of their journey through to the more experienced kinksters.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Readers: take note!<\/p>\n \u201cI mainly offer real-time sessions. Though, I do have Online services available also. I regularly film for clips and My Onlyfans, so I am quite busy in the BDSM world \ud83d\ude09<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n It sounds like it! That\u2019s awesome.<\/p>\n So\u2026 how can fans and other interested persons check out your work? (Do you have any social media accounts or websites to share?)<\/p>\n \u201cMy Website is: <\/strong>https:\/\/www.mistressluci.co.uk\/<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n \u201cTwitter: <\/strong>https:\/\/twitter.com\/MistressLuciW<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n \u201cOnlyfans: <\/strong>https:\/\/onlyfans.com\/missluciwhite<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n \u201ciWantClips store: <\/strong>https:\/\/iwantclips.com\/store\/580319\/MistressLuciWhiteOfficial<\/strong><\/a>\u201d<\/p>\n Nice!<\/p>\n Thank you for being with us today!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Hello and welcome! So, what name do you go by? \u201cMistress Luci White.\u201d There are various labels that women in your area use. Which \u2013 if any \u2013 do you think of yourself as, or prefer? \u201cI think of myself as an Alpha. But also as a Domme and Mistress. 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