Hi, Goddess.<\/p>\n
So\u2026 a couple preliminaries. Besides \u201cGoddess,\u201d are there any other adjectives or titles you enjoy? \u201cAlpha,\u201d \u201cMistress,\u201d etc.<\/p>\n
\u201cJust Goddess.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Fair enough.<\/p>\n \u201cI feel \u2018Mistress\u2019 means I am the \u2018other woman.\u2019 Goddess<\/em> is one to be adored and, above all, one to be thought about all day but never actually reach physically \/ sexually.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n An unattainable object of devotion. I follow you.<\/p>\n In light of that, what do you see yourself doing<\/em>, fetish-wise? I mean, is this a religious expression or spiritual exercise? A lifestyle? Just a bit of fun?<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s a lifestyle, for sure. This is who I am.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut there is a definite spiritual element as well.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right on.<\/p>\n Thinking about it from the standpoint of the people who seek you out\u2026 what adjectives apply to them? \u201cBetas\u201d? \u201cLosers\u201d? \u201cSubs\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cMostly, I call them \u2018slaves\u2019 or \u2018subs.\u2019<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n It\u2019s not uncommon.<\/p>\n \u201cI prefer a longer-term relationship which has many levels \u2013 not just one aspect of play.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Things can certainly get to deeper levels that way. (No pun intended!)<\/p>\n Really basic question: What got you into the world of domination and fetishes, in general \u2013 and into forced bi in particular?<\/p>\n \u201cI enjoy control in many forms. I have grown, over the years, to enjoy a huge mix of delicious fetishes, as I have explored more.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Delicious<\/em>! I like that!<\/p>\n \u201cI first got into kink with my sexual awakening.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIt was a huge eye opener and I did have a name for being a little kinky. But this aspect of myself didn\u2019t explode until I started more online and I learned that there is more to kink besides bedroom play.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Interesting!<\/p>\n \u201cI enjoy being a voyeur as well as being in control.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cWhen I had a sissy offer a real-time session with another sissy, I enjoyed the exploration of such together in a wonderfully close connection.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n You mostly enjoy watching, passively?<\/p>\n \u201cI can get aggressive \u2013 for example, by forcing the head, or teasing \u2013 or playing games such as cock or strap on.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n So many options!<\/p>\n \u201cThe options create more creativity in play.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n No regrets?<\/p>\n \u201cI haven\u2019t looked back!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How long have you been doing this online?<\/p>\n \u201cAs a Professional Domme? Several years.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut many more years beyond that in terms of dabbling, exploring and learning.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you also have a \u201cdungeon,\u201d studio, or other space for face-to-face, in-person, or real-time meets?<\/p>\n \u201cYes. I have a personal play space as well as touring in apartments in the United Kingdom.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cInterested readers could apply.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I was just going to ask!<\/p>\n Are you aiming to make money, or derive pleasure \u2013 or both?<\/p>\n \u201cMy concern is both pleasure and money.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How much of your energy and time does this take up?<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s a full-time occupation. But I do work part time elsewhere \u2013 \u2018vanilla\u2019 life.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Are you looking to expand? Do more? Less?<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m satisfied where things are at.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Good for you.<\/p>\n Do you feel comfortable sharing anything else about yourself, on either personal or professional levels? E.g., How old are you? Are you in a relationship? (Conventional? Alternative\/BDSM?) What is your sexual orientation? Etc.<\/p>\n \u201cI was born in October of \u201986. (So\u2026 do some math!) And I have been in a relationship with my partner for over 13 years.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cThey are not really into kink, but come along to munches and rope classes \u2013 as well as let me practice on them.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cKink relationships\u2026 I have a few under me \u2013 \u2018owned\u2019 or in training, but always look for further projects to learn and play with.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI love the training aspect, making contracts and building a relationship together. They all pay to be under me, and prices vary depending on the level of training, contact and offerings.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cTop kinks vary depending on mood. Generally. its petplay, strapon, bondage, water sports, sissification and impact play. I love selling my worn panties especially if it\u2019s the ones used in real-time sessions.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI am bisexual but prefer the female form. What\u2019s not to like? <\/strong>\ud83d\ude09<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Indeed!<\/p>\n \u201cRandom other information\u2026 I am a fully trained counsellor, as well as many other professional qualifications.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI play dungeons and dragons; I am a gamer, avid reader and huge horror fan!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n That\u2019s awesome!<\/p>\n \u201cMy favourite drinks are coffee, local beers and local gins.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Thank you so much for sharing!<\/p>\n I want to ask you some theoretical questions for a few minutes.<\/p>\n On the face of it, the \u201cforced-bi fetish\u201d has two components: (1) \u201cforce\u201d and (2) \u201cbisexuality.\u201d Let\u2019s handle both, but in reverse order.<\/p>\n Do you think that true \u201cbisexuality\u201d \u2013 where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males (but see a further question about problems with so-called \u201cbinarism\u201d) \u2013 is possible?<\/p>\n \u201cOn the one hand, I want to say: \u2018Yes, of course!\u2019 How could you have a bisexuality<\/em>-related fetish without that?<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut, on the other hand, I really don\u2019t care!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n In other words, just get the guy to follow orders?<\/p>\n \u201cI do it that way, also \u2013 which is what makes me hot! Subs following orders but not into the kink? True submission!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Which of the following, if any, do you think of the Forced-Bi fetish as?<\/p>\n \u201cFor me, it\u2019s a combination of a power trip and just a fun activity!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n There are actually a few names for this fetish. \u201cCoerced bi,\u201d \u201cCoerced gay,\u201d \u201cEncouraged bi,\u201d \u201cEnforced bi,\u201d \u201cForced bi,\u201d yada, yada. Which, if any, do you prefer?<\/p>\n \u201cI refer to it as \u2018coerced bi\u2019 or \u2018forced bi.\u2019<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n In practice, \u201cforced bi\u201d seems most often to apply to men being somehow impelled to perform sexually (or to imagine performing sexually) with other men. However, in theory, it seems that it could apply to other things \u2013 for example, to women being impelled to perform sexually with other women \u2013 as well.<\/p>\n Do you see it primarily in terms of male submission, male and female submission, both or neither?<\/p>\n \u201cFor sure, it mostly pertains to male submission.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI think this is due to females being more open about their sexuality and exploration. So, it\u2019s more taboo and exciting for males to be \u2018pushed\u2019 into bi experiences.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I can see that.<\/p>\n As far as goes the second core idea, the idea of being \u201cforced\u201d is a little vague. For legal reasons, \u201cforced\u201d probably means something less than literally compelled by threat of force. Which, if any, of the following do you think is most fitting? Coercion? Commandment? Encouragement? Enticement? Inducement? Instruction? Permission? Persuasion? Provocation? Seduction? \u2026other?<\/p>\n \u201cFor me, it\u2019s a blend of commanding or ordering and encouraging.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIt is definitely about my power to get the sub to do what I want. But, it\u2019s also sometimes more laid back \u2013 where I egg him on.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n What do you think is actually going on with \u201cforced bi\u201d? Does a guy actually change his sexual orientation?<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019d say: \u2018weak yes.\u2019 I think some guys can be trained to respond to male-on-male stimulation and this can alter their orientation over time. Maybe not all guys. It depends.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Is it possible for a guy to be a \u201cswitch\u201d or \u201cversatile\u201d? (That is, to be able to take on the role of either bottom or top with more or less equal facility, if not enthusiasm.)<\/p>\n \u201cSure! Why not? Some people are both somewhat active and somewhat passive. Again\u2026 depends on the person and situation.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Some women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex. Straight women sometimes liken their enjoyment to that expressed by straight men who like witnessing two women together sexually. And in the case of two women, it is reasonable to think that participants are not always lesbians or even bisexual. They could just be exhibitionists. Other women might just like viewing gay spectacles. And a few, more dominant types perhaps, seem to find the gender-bending and role-reversal aspects appealing.<\/p>\n \u201cI do like gender-bending and reversing traditional roles!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n A few women claim to want to date bisexual guys, participate in threesomes with them, etc. Others seem to think that once a guy tries guy-on-guy sex, he\u2019s less desirable to women). This may be a difference of opinion between more dominant and more submissive women.<\/p>\n What do you think?<\/p>\n \u201cDoesn\u2019t make a difference at all. You date who you like, and it doesn\u2019t matter the orientation of their sexuality.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n All right.<\/p>\n Is the forced-bi fetish \u201chealthy\u201d or \u201cunhealthy\u201d? (Here, we mean it is positive and helpful for a male sub\u2019s flourishing, or is it negative and unhelpful?)<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s healthy.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI want my subs to fulfill their cock-whore destinies! I\u2019m really freeing them and doing them a service \u2013 as long as it\u2019s safe!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n If you think it\u2019s healthy, why is it healthy?<\/p>\n \u201cIt aids in self-discovery.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI think you should always build and explore; never stagnate.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right on.<\/p>\n Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?<\/p>\n \u201cI think it\u2019s a power dynamic. But not as in spiritual<\/em> power or anything religious, exactly.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cThough\u2026 it can be a form of offering \u2013 to me<\/em>!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! Interesting point.<\/p>\n Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called \u201cbinary language\u201d \u2013 e.g., thinking in terms of \u201cfeminine\u201d versus \u201cmasculine,\u201d etc. \u2013 when it comes to John Money\u2019s concept of \u201cgender\u201d and sexuality. But forced bi, arguably, has a kind of \u201cbi-narism\u201d built into its name.<\/p>\n Do you see this as a problem for the \u201cforced-bi\u201d fetish?<\/p>\n \u201cI haven\u2019t given it any thought.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right on.<\/p>\n And now for the moment readers have been waiting for! Let\u2019s touch on the Forced-Bi activities.<\/p>\n What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?<\/p>\n \u201cCock sucking or oral sex! And also cum eating and cum swallowing.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you think that Forced Bi, as a fetish, is getting more popular?<\/p>\n \u201cYeah. I do actually think it\u2019s getting more popular.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you perceive that the Forced-Bi fetish is being promoted in any way by the so-called \u201cmainstream media\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cNo. I don\u2019t think that.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Okay.<\/p>\n So\u2026 Which do you prefer? Having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role I want?<\/p>\n \u201cI definitely prefer having one dedicated bottom bitch, and one dedicated top! But \u2026I\u2019m equally happy for both to be bottoms in this!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Oh, and you use peg them both?<\/p>\n Does that arouse you? Amuse you? Forced bi, I mean.<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m aroused only. It\u2019s hot!<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut I think it\u2019s mainly the control and power of the situation rather than the act.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you think that a guy can \u201cjust try\u201d sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?<\/p>\n \u201cSure.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cMaybe he likes it; maybe he doesn\u2019t.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cTry it to see if fantasy and reality work.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n What are you interested in doing?<\/p>\n \u201cI encourage guys to have real, in-the-flesh encounters with other males. Chat might be the gateway; but I want to see how far they\u2019ll go. And push them further.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cMany back out for real-time meets but it\u2019s fun to discuss how they would be used.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I\u2019ve heard that more than once. A few Mistresses stress that just going for it is vital \u2013 if, I mean, it\u2019s to be more than masturbatory fantasizing.<\/p>\n How \u201cinvolved\u201d do you like to be?<\/p>\n I mean, do you just give an order and then leave it to the subs to carry out? Do you ask for photos or video? Do you direct or watch via webcam? Direct in real-life, face-to-face situations?<\/p>\n \u201cAll of the above! I have done \u2013 and enjoy doing \u2013 all that stuff!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n So, your biggest focus or turn on is \u2026the power?<\/p>\n \u201cHonestly? Yeah. I love the power angle. I get off on my ability to get a guy to do extreme \u2013 even gay \u2013 things.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n What sexual acts, if any, really charge your batteries?<\/p>\n \u201cI love cocksuckers! I really get off on getting guys to suck cock.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut I also love cum eating. And I have inventive ways guys can suck condoms clean of cum.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you have any limits?<\/p>\n \u201cYes, of course.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI have many limits. And I insist upon certain limits with respect to my subs as well.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n For example? How do you feel about guys having gay sex without condoms (i.e., \u201cbarebacking\u201d)?<\/p>\n \u201cI totally oppose guys barebacking.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI insist on safe sex; it\u2019s too dangerous otherwise.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n An understandable position.<\/p>\n Relatedly, some Mistresses insist on safety because Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) in a sub are completely undesirable. How do you feel about STDs and STD risk?<\/p>\n \u201cThe sub must stay clean. He needs to practice safe sex.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Again, thinking about Forced-Bi encounters, how do you feel about married men?<\/p>\n \u201cOn this one, I don\u2019t care either way. I don\u2019t even ask.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How do you feel about amyl-nitrite inhalers \u2013 so-called \u201cpoppers\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cI tolerate their use. Whatever floats your boat.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How do you feel about guys really getting addicted to gay sex? Is that a thing?<\/p>\n \u201cI have no idea. But \u2026we can perform the experiment!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! Right?<\/p>\n \u201cLet me grab my lab coat and clipboard. Any willing subjects???<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Lol! You\u2019re a blast.<\/p>\n Do you have any other fetishes or activities that you like to participate in, direct, or instruct?<\/p>\n \u201cMany, many, many<\/em> other fetishes!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Why am I not surprised? What are you into? Give us a few examples.<\/p>\n \u201cI use and explore a lot, from \u2018pet play\u2019 and strapon sessions to cum-eating tasks and CBT.[1]<\/a> And, of course, sissification.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Sweet.<\/p>\n And how can fans and other interested persons check out your work? Hit me with your social-media links.<\/p>\n \u201cwww.onlyfans.com\/kikkaj<\/a> \u2013 updated daily.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cwww.kikkaj.com<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cwww.twitter.com\/kikkaj<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cwww.fetlife.com\/users\/2372787<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI am on many \u2018clips\u2019 sites which are linked to my twitter \u2013 and updated with a clip weekly.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Fantastic!<\/p>\n Goddess Kikka Jennie, thank you so<\/em> much!<\/p>\n Take care!<\/p>\n (All photographs of Goddess Kikka Jennie in this post are Copyright 2020 Goddess Kikka Jennie. They are reproduced here with permission.)<\/p>\n [1]<\/a> CBT = Cock-and-ball \u201ctorture.\u201d This fetish typically employs gadgets such as clamps and chastity or penis \u201ccages,\u201d weights, and so on. One has to be careful, here!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Hello! Thanks for being here. Tell readers, what name do you go by? \u201cGoddess Kikka Jennie.\u201d Hi, Goddess. So\u2026 a couple preliminaries. 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