Thanks for being with us, Mistress Holly!<\/p>\n
I\u2019m eager to dive right into some of the juicy particulars. But let\u2019s lay a little groundwork first. There are various adjectives, epithets, modifiers, or monikers that women in your area use. I\u2019m thinking of \u201cAlpha,\u201d \u201cBrat,\u201d \u201cSadist,\u201d etc. Which \u2013 if any \u2013 do you think of yourself as, or prefer?<\/p>\n
\u201cI refer to myself as a Mommy Domme<\/em> but have recently rebranded as an \u2018Educatrix.\u2019\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Okay! That\u2019s one I haven\u2019t run across. Would you tell us about that?<\/p>\n \u201cI consider myself a healer \u2013 one with a nurturing presence. Many of those I see are new to the lifestyle and have been repressing their urges for some time. Or else they are coming back after a bad prior experience. I give them a gentle reintroduction and help them recover from their past emotional scars \u2013 whatever they are. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m also a bit of a sadist.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Bwahaha!!!<\/p>\n \u201cBut if I\u2019m hurting you\u2026 it\u2019s for your own good!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Have mercy!<\/p>\n \u201cMost of my sessions include a heavy amount of education! <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI want those who see me to know how to serve me well, but I also want to make sure they know how to keep themselves safe when they leave. I go over many aspects of screening a new play partner (lifestyle or professional), how a scene should run, and communication. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI also have a background in mental health, so I make sure to emphasize emotional safety as well.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Oh? That\u2019s interesting! Thank you for all that!<\/p>\n Based on what you\u2019ve said, I\u2019m wondering how you see your brand of Domination. I mean\u2026 I\u2019m sensing it\u2019s more than role play or a bit of fun. Is this a lifestyle? Social activism? Is it spiritual?<\/p>\n \u201cThere are so many things rolled up into who I am as a dominatrix and why I enjoy it. This profession truly \u2018checks all my boxes\u2019 for job satisfaction. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cWho I am in-session isn\u2019t a far cry from who I am as a person; it\u2019s a more exaggerated version of my personality. But it is similar to who I am outside of the dungeon. All smiles and laughter are natural \u2013 beliefs are the same. <\/strong><\/p>\n Domination is fun, but it\u2019s more than \u2018messing around.\u2019 I feel it can<\/em> be<\/em> therapeutic. Though, it\u2019s not therapy!<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cAnd it assists in self-discovery. I believe that as a woman in power I do have a platform, and therefore should engage in discussion with men who might not otherwise hear a feminist point of view.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Thus, an activist strain.<\/p>\n \u201cTaking notes from a few other Dommes, I have begun tasking slaves with reading articles and questioning their points of view on certain topics. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cMy ultimate aim is to leave you better than I found you \u2013 hopefully with emotional growth.\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n Fascinating!<\/p>\n How do you think of the people \u2013 guys? \u2013 who seek you out? Students?<\/p>\n \u201cI typically refer to them as \u2018slaves\u2019 or \u2018subs\u2019 \u2013 as that is whom I frequently see. But, I ultimately leave the descriptor up to the person.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI also see sissies, sluts, \u2018lifestylers,\u2019 cross-dressers, \u2018spankos,\u2019 and those who are simply clients. I don\u2019t like to define someone before getting to know them or they have defined themselves.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cSpankos?\u201d Wow! I can surmise!<\/p>\n Okay \u2013 here\u2019s an unimaginative question. But it\u2019s one that I think helps readers form a picture of what you\u2019re \u201call about,\u201d as it were.<\/p>\n How did you get \u2026here? I mean: What got you into the world of domination and fetishes, in general \u2013 and Forced Bi in particular?<\/p>\n \u201cOnce upon a time, I thought it would be fun to get tied up. After I actually started playing with BDSM and reading up on it, I realized that I fell more onto the \u2018domination side\u2019 rather than the \u2018submissive side\u2019 (especially since I hadn\u2019t met anyone who could dominate me). <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cWhen I first started into sex-work I was working via Craigslist Personals.\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n No kidding? Craigslist! I remember those days!<\/p>\n In fact, we have several Craigslist-posting archive pages!<\/p>\n \u201cAnyway\u2026 one of my clients convinced me to \u2018go pro\u2019 rather than continue dabbling, as I was.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cDuring a few educational Pro-Domme events, I saw some \u2018forced bi\u2019 and was amused by it.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Oh, man\u2026 I will ask you to revisit that reaction in a few minutes. But, please! Continue!<\/p>\n \u201cNow that I\u2019ve been in this career for several years, forced-bi is a bit more of a common request, but by no means a primary demand. In general, I tend to go where my clients\u2019 interests are, and therefore forced-bi sessions are firmly on my radar.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Well\u2026 we\u2019re thrilled to hear that!<\/p>\n \u201cAs many clients come to see me to fulfill forbidden fantasies that they haven\u2019t dared to mention to<\/em> \u2013let alone explore with<\/em> \u2013 their partners; and since many men see bisexuality as reducing their masculinity and status; I have seen quite a few individuals who want to experiment with men but can\u2019t bring themselves to do so without being \u2018forced.\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI have happily obliged those requests.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Mmmm! We hoped you\u2019d say that!<\/p>\n Okay, practical question: How long have you been doing this online?<\/p>\n \u201cI have been doing this online on and off for a few years now. I\u2019m trying to get back to steady hours on NiteFlirt again. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cHowever, I much prefer face-to-face sessions as I love getting out of the house and into the dungeon!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n I was just going to ask about that!<\/p>\n So\u2026 you do also have a \u201cdungeon\u201d space, then?<\/p>\n \u201cYes, I have a private suite that serves as my dungeon in an otherwise nondescript commercial building.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Haha! Incognito!<\/p>\n \u201cI love my dungeon! It\u2019s very warm, welcoming, and more of a domestic setting than most traditional spaces. Interested readers may apply to see me via my website: www.mistressgolightly.com<\/a>.\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n You talked about your goal of educating subs. But\u2026 what\u2019s the goal for yourself? Are you aiming to make money, or derive pleasure \u2013 or both?<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s pleasurable, but I do need to be compensated for my time. I\u2019ve invested a lot of time, energy, and money into learning my trade \u2013 to make sure I\u2019m playing to the best of my ability, safely, and with quality toys. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cAlso, I legitimately have a money fetish; so, money is my pleasure! I practically purr<\/em> when receiving crisp, freshly tended bills.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Do you, now?!?<\/p>\n How much of your energy and time does this take up? Are you\u2026 full time with it?<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s a side job. Though I do have a rich, full life outside the dungeon.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Do you wish it were more than that?<\/p>\n \u201cI wish it were a full-time occupation, and I treat as such as much as I can!<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m definitely a \u2018lifer.\u2019 I have a twenty-year plan that I\u2019m slowly working toward, and I am always looking for ways to be more involved. Even after I\u2019m no longer taking sessions (which won\u2019t be anytime soon!) I have plans for teaching, running events, and perhaps writing books.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Right on!<\/p>\n Before we move into the central area of our discussion, let me ask: Do you feel comfortable sharing anything else about yourself, on either personal or professional levels? E.g., How old are you? Are you in a relationship? (Conventional? Alternative\/BDSM?) What is your sexual orientation? Etc.<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m 38, actually a mom, and polyamorous. In my relationships, we engage in power-exchange as well as non-power-exchange BDSM which I feel is best embodied with Midori\u2019s[1]<\/a> definition.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Oh?! What did she say?<\/p>\n \u201cBDSM is childhood joyous play with adult sexual privilege and cool toys.\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n Haha!<\/p>\n \u201cThe dynamic of my relationships varies between partners, and I never fall into the exact same role each time. I have a background in art and psychology and enjoy combining those two subjects in my work or with kink as often as possible.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n It makes for a more nuanced and textured experience, I\u2019m sure.<\/p>\n Ready to talk about Forced Bi, specifically?<\/p>\n I usually start with this. On the face of it, the fetish has two obvious components: \u201cforce\u201d and \u201cbisexuality.\u201d Let\u2019s handle both, but in reverse order.<\/p>\n Do you think that true \u201cbisexuality\u201d \u2013 where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males (but see a further question about problems with so-called \u201cbinarism\u201d) \u2013 is possible?<\/p>\n \u201cJust like gender is a spectrum, so is sexuality. If you imagine a scale with \u2018Straight\u2019 on one side and \u2018Gay\u2019 on the other, I think that people fall all along it rather than strictly on either side.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Something like a Kinsey Scale?<\/p>\n \u201cEven the straightest of people will occasionally say, \u2018I\u2019m not gay, but I\u2019d totally do<\/em> so-and-so.\u2019\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Haha!<\/p>\n \u201cIn studies of sexual practices, there is a category defined as \u2018men who have sex with men\u2019 rather than \u2018gay\u2019 or \u2018bisexual.\u2019\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n The tendency with science is to approach a subject via \u201cpublic\u201d phenomena. That\u2019s a good illustration. A person\u2019s \u201corientation\u201d is interior and private. But what they do<\/em> \u2013 their behavior \u2013 is open to inspection.<\/p>\n \u201cAdditionally, there\u2019s the literal meaning of \u2018bisexuality\u2019: being attracted to two sexes or genders<\/em>. And that doesn\u2019t have to be only male and female. There are also the genders of intersex, nonbinary, genderfluid, androgenous, etc. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cAccording to science, there is no such thing as a \u2018gender binary.\u2019\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n I may try to go from heavier questions to ones that are lighter. In that vein, which of the following (if any!) do you think of the Forced-Bi fetish as? Lifestyle\u2026 role play\u2026 power trip?! Just a bit of fun? A game?<\/p>\n \u201cI think of forced-bi as a game or a fun activity. And, sometimes<\/em>, it is a power trip for me. But, other times, it is a fun role play. Or it could even be a lifestyle.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n So\u2026 it runs the gamut, you might say!<\/p>\n You know, I should have asked this earlier. But\u2026 since there are numerous names for this fetish, which, if any, do you prefer \u2013 and why?<\/p>\n \u201cI prefer \u2018slut training.\u2019\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Ooh! Hot!<\/p>\n \u201cCalling it \u2018forced\u2019 or \u2018coerced\u2019 makes the act sound inherently wrong or homophobic \u2013 when it isn\u2019t. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI will never make my subs do anything they didn\u2019t already want to. And, clearly, they want to \u2013 which is why I lovingly call them sluts<\/em>.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n In practice, \u2018Forced Bi\u2019 seems most often to apply to men being somehow impelled to perform sexually (or to imagine<\/em> performing<\/em> sexually<\/em>) with other men. However, in theory, it seems that it could apply to other things \u2013 for example, to women being impelled to perform sexually with other women \u2013 as well. Do you see it primarily in terms of male submission, male and female submission, both, or neither?<\/p>\n \u201cI see it in terms of submission. So, the same would apply to women. In fact, regardless of gender, you have submitted your body to me to do what I want with.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201c\u2018Slut training\u2019 is an act that can be demonstrated by everyone, just like any other kink.\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n Fair enough. But let me bear down on the notion of \u201cbeing forced.\u201d You\u2019ve said that it\u2019s not a matter of going against the will or wishes of the sub. And we could frame something of the same point around the legalities.<\/p>\n And you\u2019ve also touched on the ideas of educating or instructing.<\/p>\n But that still leaves quite a lot of ground. So\u2026 thinking of \u201ctraining\u201d \u2013 in your conception of slut training \u2013 which, if any, of the following do you think is most fitting? Coercion? Commanding? Encouraging? Enticing? Granting permission? Inducing? Persuading? Provoking? Seducing?<\/p>\n \u201cFor me, it means exploring your boundaries<\/em>, venturing beyond your comfort zone<\/em> \u2013 to try something new and get to know yourself better.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Interesting! We might say: Expanding horizons!<\/p>\n \u201cNow, the avenue through which we get there may vary. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI will encourage<\/em> you<\/em> and educate<\/em> you<\/em> as we take that journey together. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cPerhaps you want to please me<\/em> with your submission and servitude. Maybe you\u2019re terribly curious<\/em> to see if it\u2019s as good as you\u2019ve heard it can be. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cPerchance you\u2019ve simply been seeking a safe place to explore the urges that you\u2019ve been held back for so long and are seeking permission<\/em>. Or it could be that you can\u2019t bring yourself to give in and try it until you\u2019re \u2018forced\u2019 to do so \u2013 at which point you can\u2019t blame yourself for your actions as you\u2019re not truly acting on your desires.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n That latter point is one that I\u2019ve given a little thought to. And it\u2019s come up in past conversations. Sometimes it rises to something akin to a guilt-avoidance game. The sub is merely carrying out his Mistress\u2019s commands! So, he\u2019s not to blame \u2013 as you say. At the same time, the Mistress can say: \u201cI\u2019m just freeing the sub to do what he wants to do, anyway \u2013 deep down. So, I\u2019m not to blame!\u201d<\/p>\n Let me ask this: Can or does Forced Bi (and related play) actually \u201cchange\u201d a guy\u2019s sexual orientation? Or does it have the capacity to do so?<\/p>\n \u201cI don\u2019t think you change your orientation as much as you go through a process of self-discovery over your lifetime and want to continually have new experiences.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cSome generations never had a chance to experiment sexually. They were forced to conform to a social script, and only now have the opportunity to experiment like they would have as teen.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n So\u2026 it\u2019s not so much that the fetish is \u201cForced Bi\u201d as it is that the society is \u201cForced Straight\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cOften, there\u2019s a lot going on psychologically and it varies heavily from person to person. Everyone has their own reasons, and I am always surprised by them \u2013 which is why I try not to make assumptions.\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n The idiosyncrasies, n\u2019est-ce pas<\/em>? On a purely formal-linguistic level, a \u201creason\u201d could be seen merely as the answer to a \u2018Why? Question\u2019<\/em>. In other words, it\u2019s just whatever a person would say<\/em> when asked: \u201cWhy did you do \u2013 or say \u2013 that?\u201d<\/p>\n We\u2019d have to get to a different level of analysis or discourse in order to ask about whether there were such a thing as a \u201cgood reason\u201d or a \u201cbad reason.\u201d<\/p>\n How about this? Is it possible for a guy to be a \u201cswitch\u201d or \u201cversatile\u201d? (That is, to be able to take on the role of either bottom or top with more or less equal facility, if not enthusiasm.)<\/p>\n \u201cI definitely think it\u2019s possible. And I have seen it done!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n You don\u2019t have the video, do you? (Kidding!)<\/p>\n \u201cHowever, that isn\u2019t true for every guy.\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n Some cis-\/trans- women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex. Straight women sometimes liken their enjoyment to that expressed by straight men, who like seeing two women together sexually. With \u201cgirl-on-girl\u201d sex, it\u2019s reasonable to think that participants are not always lesbians \u2013 or even bisexual. (E.g., they could be exhibitionists.) Others may just like viewing gay sex as a \u201cspectacle.\u201d A few (\u201cdominant types,\u201d perhaps) find the gender-bending and role-reversal aspects appealing.<\/p>\n Do any of these resonate with you? Do you actually enjoy the show? Or is it like pausing to watch a car crash? \u2026Other??<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cMy reasons vary depending on the scenario.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Fair.<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019ve definitely enjoyed guy-on-guy porn as eye candy.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIn real life scenes, it\u2019s more the spectacle \u2013 like watching a performance, though (not a car crash!).\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Bwahaha!<\/p>\n \u201cThere\u2019s a range of emotions that a guy goes through. And it\u2019s a range that one doesn\u2019t often get to see because guys typically don\u2019t allow themselves to be vulnerable.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cWhen a guy is engaging in same-sex intercourse they have to relax and let their guard down. You can see their defenses fall, the emotions shine through becoming overcome with feelings, lost in abandon \u2013 senseless \u2013 and then\u2026 they slowly come back to themselves. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cSometimes\u2026 it is with a shock of realization. And you can almost see them pick their psychic shield back up. It\u2019s quite something to behold. If it\u2019s someone I\u2019m close to, then I have a sense of pride: seeing my good boy being his true self; giving in to pleasure; enjoying his humanity and sexuality; reveling in the experience \u2013 despite the still-sometimes-stigmatized-and-\u2018taboo\u2019 nature of the acts.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIt truly warms my heart! Pleasure is one of the rights of being human, and nobody should be denied that through the judgment of others.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n What do you think, does bisexuality decrease or increase a guy\u2019s overall \u201cappeal\u201d? I mean\u2026 ceteris paribus<\/em>. Or do you not have an opinion, there?<\/p>\n \u201cBisexual guys are people, and I don\u2019t hold any prejudice.\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n Is the Forced-Bi fetish \u201chealthy\u201d or \u201cunhealthy\u201d? And, here, I\u2019m talking about its psychological effects. From what you\u2019ve said already, I\u2019m getting the feeling that you side with those who think of it as healthy exploration. Am I off base?<\/p>\n \u201cA fetish is only unhealthy if it is negatively affecting other aspects of their lives, such as their mental health, livelihood, or family. As Lilyisthatyou says, \u2018everything in moderation, drugs, sex, gin and masturbation.\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIf they\u2019re using forced bi as a form of self-harm or risk taking, or if they\u2019re mentally abusing themselves out of guilt or shame for trying such things, it\u2019s unhealthy. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cOn the whole, I\u2019d say the act is neutral<\/em>. However, it could aid in self-discovery and become a point of pride for trying something new, overcoming a fear, reclaiming a trauma, or accomplishing a personal sexual goal.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Right on.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s one. Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?<\/p>\n \u201cI haven\u2019t considered the spiritual aspects of forced bi, specifically. Though, I am<\/em> spiritual and enjoy the transfer \u2013 and building \u2013 of energy during sex. (Think tantra and sex magick<\/em>.)\u201d[2]<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n So\u2026<\/p>\n \u201cIt could be if you wanted it, but that could be said of any kink or sex act.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Haha! Fair enough.<\/p>\n Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called \u201cbinary language\u201d \u2013 e.g., thinking in terms of \u201cfeminine\u201d versus \u201cmasculine,\u201d etc. \u2013 when it comes to John Money\u2019s concept of \u201cgender\u201d and sexuality. But Forced Bi, arguably, has a kind of \u201cbi-narism\u201d built into its name.<\/p>\n Do you see this as a problem for the \u201cForced-Bi\u201d fetish?<\/p>\n \u201cAgain, haven\u2019t really thought about that. But I don\u2019t see a particular problem with it. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cPart of the appeal of the \u2018forced-bi fetish\u2019 is the taboo, or humiliating, nature of it. And those wouldn\u2019t exist without the social mores to rebel against. We could still have the fetish if we classified it under \u2018consensual non-consent,\u2019 but it wouldn\u2019t \u2018hit the same\u2019 as the specific focus on forced male-on-male action.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Do you have any preference in terms of specific, homosexual-related activities?<\/p>\n \u201cI don\u2019t discriminate; they\u2019re all fun!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Haha! Okay!<\/p>\n Do you think that Forced Bi, as a fetish, is getting more popular?<\/p>\n \u201cIt may be. I feel like I\u2019m hearing more about it and getting more requests. Possibly this could be because society is becoming more open to sexual exploration and orientation.\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n Right on.<\/p>\n Do you perceive that the Forced-Bi fetish is being promoted in any way by the so-called \u201cmainstream media\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cThat<\/em> I have not noticed. But I also don\u2019t pay much attention to mainstream media.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n A wise policy! We don\u2019t blame you in the least!<\/p>\n Which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role you want?<\/p>\n \u201cI enjoy having options, though I\u2019m not going to press anyone\u2019s hard limits for a scene.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Thanks for that. That\u2019s an important qualification.<\/p>\n Are you aroused by Forced Bi, or just amused by it?<\/p>\n \u201cDepends on the scenario. I could be aroused, amused, both, or neither.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Fair enough.<\/p>\n Do you think that a guy can \u201cjust try\u201d sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?<\/p>\n \u201cYes, if they\u2019re confident in their reasons for not<\/em> doing it again. I have a wonderful, slutty friend who said they\u2019d try anything seven times.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Haha. Really? Why seven?<\/p>\n \u201cThe first time, you really don\u2019t know what to expect. The second time, you\u2019re still trying to get used to the experience. The third through fifth times, you\u2019re trying to make up your mind about it. By the sixth or seventh time, you can give a confident answer.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n That\u2019s curious. I seem to recall a particular strand \u201carithmancy\u201d (so-called \u201cdivination\u201d involving number associations) that some trace back to the fifteenth-sixteenth-century German occultist Heinrich Cornelius Agrippa.[3]<\/a> According to Numerology-101-level explanations, the numeral seven is correlated with analysis<\/em>.<\/p>\n What are you interested in doing? I mean\u2026 is it mostly fantasy-chat for you? Or\u2026?<\/p>\n \u201cI enjoy fantasy chat, but if you\u2019re able to have safe in-the-flesh encounters, go for it!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Oh, boy!<\/p>\n And how \u201cinvolved\u201d do you like to be?<\/p>\n \u201cSometimes I direct; sometimes I watch; and, sometimes, I\u2019m told stories of their escapades for erotic-humiliation fodder.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI do<\/em> love photo evidence, though \u2013 especially if it\u2019s a candid shot, where they\u2019re lost in the moment.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Aha! Readers: Take note!<\/p>\n What is your biggest focus\/turn on?<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s about compersion<\/em> \u2013 I\u2019m having fun because they are having fun! My favorite kink is whatever evokes a fun response from my bottom. If that\u2019s them engaging in male-on-male sex, then\u2026 great!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cCompersion\u201d? Wow. 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