Right on. Do you sometimes fly under a different label?<\/p>\n
\u201cMy online handle tends to be \u2018Chicago Mistress\u2019.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I think that\u2019s exactly what I was thinking!<\/p>\n Any other titles that you enjoy, prefer, or\u2026 tolerate, as it were?<\/p>\n \u201cMa\u2019am.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Okay! Any special reason? Just like the sound of it?<\/p>\n \u201cIt was given to me by my leather community — especially the LGBT segment. So, I prefer it as an honorific.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n It\u2019s got sentimental appeal.<\/p>\n \u201cI know some ladies do not like this word. But, I find it incredibly arousing coming out of the mouth of a submissive.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n To each, her own!<\/p>\n Fantastic!<\/p>\n How do you see the people who seek you out? Or, at least, what do you call them?<\/p>\n \u201c\u2018Subs\u2019 or \u2018submissives\u2019.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI feel it fits those that seek me out better than other words \u2013 like \u2018beta,\u2019 \u2018loser,\u2019 etc.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI also enjoy \u2018masochists.\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cHowever, I hate placing people in boxes. So, I tend to only use labels when one reveals oneself to me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n They\u2019re \u201ctrue nature,\u201d so to say? Because of the variation?<\/p>\n \u201cNot everyone is submissive that seeks a Dominatrix out.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n What got you into the world of domination and fetishes, in general?<\/p>\n \u201cI ran the largest fetish store in Chicago in the 90s, and many of my customers were local Dominatrices.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ah. Interesting!<\/p>\n And how to you end up venturing into Forced Bi?<\/p>\n \u201cForced bi grew on me as my career developed \u2013 especially once I started working with other Mistresses, and we found double teaming on a bitch\u2019s holes amusing.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Haha! Mmm\u2026<\/p>\n How long have you been at it, then?<\/p>\n \u201cA long time!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Lots of experience!<\/p>\n Now, this isn\u2019t just online for you?<\/p>\n \u201cI have two fully equipped dungeons.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! That\u2019s a big \u201cno!\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cAs well, I prefer IRL[1]<\/a> over online.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Fair enough!<\/p>\n \u201cMore fulfilling for all! Lol!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Haha! Agreed! In so, so<\/em> many ways!<\/p>\n Are you aiming to make money, or derive pleasure \u2013 or both?<\/p>\n \u201cWhile I do not engage in this lifestyle only<\/em> for money, I am a professional and my time is valuable.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Understood.<\/p>\n \u201cFor a submissive to garner my attention, they must realize that and make it worth my time to give them attention.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Readers \u2013 and would-be Chicago-Mistress subs \u2013 take note!<\/p>\n How much of your energy and time does this take up?<\/p>\n \u201cFull time! It has been my career for 27 years.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Congratulations!<\/p>\n And, are you satisfied with where things are for you?<\/p>\n \u201cYes\u2026 even though COVID has hampered IRL connections.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right.<\/p>\n Before we move on, would you care to add anything about yourself \u2013 on either a personal or a professional level?<\/p>\n \u201cI am a mature Mistress \u2013 over 50.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI have been in this profession for 27 years.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI identify as bisexual. So, all genders are welcome to see me.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI live my life as a Mistress, with a main partner and a personal stable of submissives.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Awesome! Thank you for that, Mistress Simone!<\/p>\n Now\u2026 about the \u201cForced-Bi\u201d fetish, itself.<\/p>\n On the face of it, there are two pieces: (1) something about \u201cforce\u201d and (2) something about \u201cbisexuality.\u201d Let\u2019s handle both, but in reverse order.<\/p>\n Do you think that true \u201cbisexuality\u201d \u2013 where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males \u2013 is possible?<\/p>\n \u201cYes, but with qualifications.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cEverything is on a scale. Sexuality can range from 1 to 10 in terms of attraction. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut, as I identify as bisexual, why would I not feel others are as well?<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Given that frame of reference, how do you see the fetish, particularly? For example, is it an extension of your lifestyle? Is it a game or pastime? A roleplay? \u2026A trap?? Haha.<\/p>\n \u201cI would say that it fits a combo of these \u2013 specifically, power trip, fun activity and can be a game.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Fair enough!<\/p>\n What do you call the fetish?<\/p>\n \u201c\u2018Coerced bi.\u2019\u00a0 Forced<\/em> can imply lack of consent which, to me, is important in scenes.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cCoerced<\/em> can include consent, especially if someone desires to do \u2018forced bi\u2019 to please me as the main goal.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cRegardless\u2026 whether they want to take cock or not, if it makes me happy, then\u2026!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Haha!<\/p>\n Right on, Mistress!<\/p>\n In practice, \u201cForced Bi\u201d seems most often to apply to men being somehow impelled to perform sexually (or to imagine performing sexually) with other men. However, in theory, it seems that it could apply to other things \u2013 for example, to women being impelled to perform sexually with other women \u2013 as well.<\/p>\n Do you see it primarily in terms of male submission, male and female submission, both, or neither?<\/p>\n \u201cIt can pertain to male or<\/em> female submission. It can pertain to overall sexuality \u2013 for either gender.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cHowever, in my industry, it primarily pertains to males.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Practically. I gotcha.<\/p>\n As far as goes the second core idea, the idea of being \u201cforced\u201d is a little vague. You explained your preference for the word \u201ccoerced.\u201d But, even here, it seems to me that there could be some variation.<\/p>\n For legal reasons, \u201ccoerced\u201d obviously has to mean something less than literally compelled by threat<\/em>. But, what does that leave us with?<\/p>\n Commanding? Encouraging? Enticing? Inducing? Instructing? Permitting? Persuading? Provoking? Seducing? Just what does \u201ccoercing\u201d come down to?<\/p>\n \u201cAll of these can pertain. It depends on the individual scene.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Fair enough.<\/p>\n \u201cOne scene can be fun with it as a game, egging on the participants. Another can be a heavy prison fantasy, with commanding<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIt would be narrow-minded of me to reduce this, or any other, fetish down to one, single methodology.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n What do you think is going on with coerced bi? Does a guy actually \u201cchange\u201d his sexual orientation?<\/p>\n \u201cNo. I do not think that sexual orientation always plays into this activity.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Interesting.<\/p>\n \u201cThere can be other reasons for doing forced bi such as obedience, submission, etc.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cTo say that all<\/em> people who engage in this activity are gay is narrow-minded.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Is it possible for a guy to be \u201cversatile\u201d? That is, to be able to take on the role of either bottom or top with more or less equal facility, if not enthusiasm.<\/p>\n \u201cPeople can be switches, sure. In fact, people who switch have the best of both worlds! In many ways they have more variety to choose from.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Haha! Maybe so!<\/p>\n Some women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex.<\/p>\n I\u2019m curious, do the \u201coptics\u201d do anything for you?<\/p>\n \u201cI do like the gender-bending and role-reversal aspects.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you see it as a sort of activism or \u201ctherapy\u201d? \u2026in a loose manner of speaking?<\/p>\n \u201cI like gender play and bending the norms of what society thinks gender means \u2013 but without the therapy aspect.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I gotcha.<\/p>\n Do you think bisexuality affects a guy\u2019s attractiveness, or desirability?<\/p>\n \u201cBisexual men are very hot.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cPlus, why should one fit into another\u2019s box?<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cSex is about fluidity and expression. More freedom to express oneself comes from being open to different ideas.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Is the Forced-Bi fetish \u201chealthy,\u201d then? \u2026psychologically speaking, that is.<\/p>\n \u201c\u2026If done with consent and positivity, overall. There can be dark scenes, boundary pushing and extreme edge-play \u2013 all within agreement.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n But, when it\u2019s consensual and \u201csex positive,\u201d it\u2019s healthy, because\u2026<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s productive exploration and it assists subs in self-discovery.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Roger that.<\/p>\n Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?<\/p>\n \u201cI would say that, if it has a component such as this, it lies along the lines of sex magic \u2013 ritual.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Fair enough.<\/p>\n \u201cAlso, it could take on the roleplay of anti-religious and rebelling against societal norms, which then brings in the possibility of humiliation and degradation.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n A lot of different avenues \u2013 some of which a few people find verboten<\/em>.<\/p>\n On a similar wavelength, nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called \u201cbinary language\u201d \u2013 e.g., thinking in terms of \u201cfeminine\u201d versus \u201cmasculine.\u201d This appears to be a consequence of John Money\u2019s concepts of \u201cgender\u201d and sexuality.<\/p>\n But coerced bi, arguably, has a kind of \u201cbi-narism\u201d built into its name. Do you see this as a problem for the fetish?<\/p>\n \u201cAs stated earlier, gender is fluid. It can be 100% male, 100%female, or absent of either.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Okay! On to the coerced-bi activities!<\/p>\n What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?<\/p>\n \u201cCock sucking! Followed by cum eating \/ cum swallowing!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Haha! Mmmm\u2026<\/p>\n I\u2019m feeling a bit absent-minded, all of a sudden!<\/p>\n Do you think that coerced bi, as a fetish, is getting more popular?<\/p>\n \u201cThe more a specific fetish is shown in porn clips, the more it is requested.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Haha! I\u2019m hearing \u201cyes\u201d!<\/p>\n Programming at its finest!<\/p>\n Do you perceive that the coerced-bi fetish is being promoted in any way by the so-called \u201cmainstream media\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cI don\u2019t care.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Fair enough!<\/p>\n Which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role you want?<\/p>\n \u201cI prefer both guys to be flexible. I like to rotate the dynamics based on my mood.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mix and match?! Love it!<\/p>\n I have to ask: Are you aroused<\/em> by coerced bi, or just amused<\/em> by it?<\/p>\n \u201cBoth. Aroused and amused.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mmm\u2026 Yummy!!<\/p>\n Do you think that a guy can \u201cjust try\u201d sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?<\/p>\n \u201cAs my mother said, \u2018How do you know you don\u2019t like it \u2019til you try it?\u2019.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Haha!<\/p>\n What are you interested in doing? You mentioned your two dungeons. But, with COVID\u2026 Is this mostly fantasy chat, lately? Or do you encourage subs to have real, in-the-flesh, guy-on-guy encounters?<\/p>\n \u201cBoth.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cOnce again, it depends on who I am playing with and where I want the scene to go.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How \u201cinvolved\u201d do you like to be? Are you sitting back, just issuing instructions \u2013 or commands<\/em>??\u00a0 Are you watching sub-created home movies? Looking at candid \u201cSnaps\u201d sent from the local gloryhole? Are you tuning in to a live stream? Or\u2026 directing in one of your two physical locations?<\/p>\n \u201cAll the above.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut\u2026 I prefer<\/em> to either direct in person, or issue instructions.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right on.<\/p>\n Anything really get you going, as it were?<\/p>\n What sexual acts, if any, really charge your batteries?<\/p>\n \u201cCocksuckers!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Lol! Mmmm\u2026<\/p>\n Let\u2019s talk limits for a sec.<\/p>\n First of all\u2026 do you have any?<\/p>\n \u201cOh, yes; sure. Many.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n May I follow up?<\/p>\n So, for instance\u2026 condomless sex? \u201cBarebacking\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cSafety is a priority for me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Respect.<\/p>\n \u201cI strive to keep my stable \u2013 as well as clients \u2013 clean.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Understood.<\/p>\n So, with respect to STD\/STI risk, it goes without saying, then\u2026<\/p>\n \u201cThe sub has to be clean. That means safe sex, for sure.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n What about married men? Limit for you?<\/p>\n \u201cI don\u2019t care either way. I don\u2019t even ask.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How do you feel about amyl-nitrite inhalers \u2013 so-called \u201cpoppers\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cNo. I want my engagement with the sub to be<\/em> the high.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cGet off on what we are doing. Feel the natural<\/em> high.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Fair enough!<\/p>\n Do you have any particularly memorable coerced-bi session \u2013 or sessions<\/em> \u2013 to share?<\/p>\n \u201cAt one of the femdom parties we had, we held a blow-job contest to see which of the males could give the best head!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Oh, gawd! Mmm\u2026<\/p>\n \u201cAnother time, I had one male sub bound to my spanking bench while other males used his holes repeatedly.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mmmmm.. Is it getting warm in here?<\/p>\n What else are you into?<\/p>\n \u201cI am a huge CBT[2]<\/a> aficionado, loving all aspects of it. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cSissification and crossdressing are enjoyments.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cHeavy bondage is one of my main kinks.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Mmm\u2026 Kinky stuff!<\/p>\n Before you go\u2026!<\/p>\n How can fans and other interested persons check out your work?<\/p>\n \u201cwww.chicago-mistress.com<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cwww.twitter.com\/chicagomistress<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cwww.niteflirt.com\/Mistress_Simone<\/a>.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Thank you so much, Mistress Simone!<\/p>\n Just a reminder to coerced-bi fans, we now have a Subreddit (Reddit.com\/r\/EnforcedBi<\/a>) devoted to our brand of deviance as well as a recently minter Twitter account (Twitter.com\/forcedbisexual<\/a>)! Find us in either corner of the web \u2014 or both places! \u2014 and say \u201chi\u201d! You can always quit later. We promise. Wink, wink!<\/p>\n (All images of Mistress Simone are Copyright 2021, Mistress Simone. They are reproduced by Forced-Bi.com, or its affiliates \/ associates, with permission.)<\/p>\n [1]<\/a> \u201cIRL\u201d = \u201cin real life\u201d<\/p>\n [2]<\/a> \u201cCBT\u201d = \u201ccock-and-ball torture\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" W are so happy to bring you a Domme who has accomplished and exceptional, Midwest-based Domme who has, well… She\u2019s has seen a lot. And, today, we\u2019re going to be benefiting from her experiences and insight. Hi! Welcome! Thank you for being here. 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