Now\u2026 How do I put this delicately\u2026? You\u2019re not a switch, in BDSM terms, right?<\/p>\n
\u201cCalling myself \u2018switch\u2019 while only offering sessions from dominant position might be a little confusing. But I\u2019ve just kept the name since I was known by it for 5 years.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI used to work as a professional Switch.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Okay; gotcha! Thank you for clearing that up.<\/p>\n \u201cI wouldn\u2019t call myself submissive in the slightest sense, but I do enjoy pain \u2013 both on the receiving end\u2026 and to inflict it.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n What \u201ctitles\u201d do you prefer to be addressed by?<\/p>\n \u201cDomme\/Domina, Mistress \u2013 though, these have the same connotations, I sense.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cSadist, also. Well\u2026 I am a dominant sadist.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI hate a lot of the other terms \u2013 like \u2018Goddess\u2019 or \u2018Mean Girl.\u2019 But, apart from that, \u2018Brat\u2019 might fit as well,\u00a0since I often have a rather wild, young, involved way of interacting.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cThis is diametrically opposed to the kind of detached interactions of \u2018goddesses.\u2019 I am not a \u2018goddess.\u2019 I\u2019m far too primal for that.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I totally get the drift of what you\u2019re saying. \u201cGoddess\u201d is sometimes used by very plastic-looking females, with ultra-high heels and heavy makeup and other such things. But, the word \u201cprimal\u201d is interesting. Many mythology enthusiasts would probably be quick to point out that a number of ancient goddesses \u2013 like maybe Adrestia, Artemis, Hecate, Kali, Sekhmet, etc. \u2013 were often associated with death and violence.<\/p>\n \u201cBeing being called \u2018goddess\u2019\u00a0by random strangers rather makes me cringe.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! Fair enough.<\/p>\n How long have you been, well\u2026 doing what you do?<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019ve been doing this for almost 15 years.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n You consider it a lifestyle, then?<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s pretty much a lifestyle, yes.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cThough, my partner is my equal. I do not keep him chained to a bedpost.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n That\u2019s funny that you need to say that. I was afraid to ask!<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s a big part of who I am.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n What else does this sort of thing mean to you?<\/p>\n \u201cFor certain aspects, it veers into roleplay<\/em>, sure. But it can definitely reach a spiritual level as well \u2013 depending of the type of session, and the trust given by the sub.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n As far as go the people who seek you out\u2026 how do you think of them?<\/p>\n \u201c\u2018Alphas\u2019 and \u2018betas\u2019? I really hate such terms. And words like \u2018losers\u2019? I\u2019ll leave that kind of talk to those self-proclaimed \u2018findommes.\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI respect my clients.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cSubmitting is a choice; it requires strength. It\u2019s not a deficiency.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cTherefore, I\u2019d say that my audience consists of subs<\/em>, masochists<\/em>, slaves<\/em>, wrestlers<\/em>, and fetishists<\/em> of various kinds.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How did you start down this path?<\/p>\n \u201cIt was a childhood dream.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n No kidding? Including Forced-Bi?<\/p>\n \u201cForced bi. Well\u2026 in general, I have a very bi-curious audience \u2013 maybe because of my androgynous look.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you have an online presence?<\/p>\n \u201cI don t really work online, apart from flexing on HerBicepsCam.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cFor the rest I only engage in real-time, face-to-face sessions. And I\u2019ve been doing this for almost 15 years.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Very cool! So, you have a physical space for this?<\/p>\n \u201cYes; I have my own dungeon. Currently, I\u2019m in Bucharest (Romania). Before that, I was in Antwerp (Belgium). And, from next spring on, I\u2019ll be in Madison, Wisconsin.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Aha, nice\u2026 coming stateside, as it were.<\/p>\n What drives you? Are you doing this for pleasure? Money? Both?<\/p>\n \u201cMy concern is both pleasure and money. Money, logically, since I make a living at this \u2013 it\u2019s my job.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I hear you. Full time?<\/p>\n \u201cFull time.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Is that the amount of involvement you prefer?<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019d like to be less involved, actually.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Really. Interesting. Anything else about yourself that you\u2019re willing to share?<\/p>\n \u201cI recently got married.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Congratulations!<\/p>\n \u201cAnd I am bisexual. Well\u2026 pansexual, if you want to avoid the male-female dichotomy.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Nice segue! Do you think that bisexuality<\/em> is possible?<\/p>\n \u201cYes. I believe everybody is latently bi \u2013 whether consciously or unconsciously.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n That\u2019s a bold position.<\/p>\n \u201cWhether some people explore bisexuality has both to do with personal history and cultural norms \u2013 and the acceptance of those.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cWith the old Greeks everybody was bi (at least the guys). That says enough, no?<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cAnd concerning \u2018forced bi\u2019:\u00a0 it\u2019s not a fetish where openly self-accepting bi people come to see me. Hence the word forced<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBasically,\u00a0you can divide the \u2018forced-bi\u2019 subs into two categories.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cFirstly, you have the bi-curious\/or latently gay\u00a0guys. They want to be guided into it. There are a couple of possibilities, here. On the one hand, they might come to be either because of trust or because I can provide a safe place\u00a0in which forced-bi activities can occur. (That is, if they\u2019re open to it.) But, on the other hand, they may find comfort in the \u2018forced\u2019 aspect \u2013 in the sense that they can leave afterwards with a clean conscious. After all, they were \u2018forced\u2019; it was against their will!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n I\u2019m gratified to hear you put it that way. I\u2019ve often made a similar point myself.<\/p>\n What\u2019s the second sort of sub?<\/p>\n \u201cThe second type is just a real submissive. It\u2019s a person for whom forced bi would be the ultimate humiliation and, therefore, proof of his ultimate submission to his mistress.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cOf course, one can argue\u00a0to what extent\u00a0one\u2019s biggest fear is connected\u00a0with one\u2019s biggest fantasy.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Very thought-provoking, indeed.<\/p>\n What do you get out of the exchange?<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s just a power trip for me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right to the point! Admirable.<\/p>\n Do you call the fetish \u201ccoerced bi,\u201d or \u201cforced bi,\u201d or \u201cforced gay\u201d? Any preference?<\/p>\n \u201cNah. Any of those. Same difference.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Is forced bi just something males get involved in, in terms of submission, I mean? Or are there female forced-bi subs as well?<\/p>\n \u201cIn principle, it can pertain to both male or female submission.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cThough, there\u2019s one big difference. It is far more stigmatizing\/taboo for a guy to be fucked or to give oral service to other guys than there is\u00a0for girls to perform sexual activities on girls.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cWhereas a man would be emasculated by such acts, a girl is often just be perceived as being sexier in homosexual, girl-on-girl encounters.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cMoreover, bisexual girls are a straight man\u2019s fantasy. These kinds of scenes are even categorized under \u2018straight\u2019 in porn collections.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cSince stigma\/taboo and fantasy always go hand in hand, a \u2018forced-bi\u2019 fantasy will in most cases be left for males.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n As a practical matter, as opposed to a theoretical one. I follow you.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s talk a bit more about the \u201cforced\u201d part of the fetish. What does it come down to for you?<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s a mixture of coercion<\/em> \u2013 where I apply certain kinds of pressure; commandment<\/em> \u2013 where my subs are expected to obey my orders; instruction<\/em> \u2013 where I am teaching a guy how to behave; and permission<\/em> \u2013 for those for just need a safe space with which to satisfy their latent homosexual urges.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n So, I think from what you\u2019ve already said, I can guess your answer. But\u2026 does a guy change his sexuality in a \u201cforced-bi\u201d situation? Or\u2026 after numerous such situations?<\/p>\n \u201cMostly, I\u2019ll say a weak \u2018No.\u2019 As I stated, some subs may be latent homosexuals. Not all are. Others submit to forced-bi as acts of submission. So, the bottom line is that I don\u2019t think that I modify anyone\u2019s sexuality.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Can a guy be a \u201cswitch\u201d? That is, can he both \u201ctop\u201d or \u201cbottom\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cSure; why not?<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Some Mistresses profess that males are inherently one or the other.<\/p>\n Would you say that you derive sexual satisfaction from watching guy-on-guy encounters? Amusement only? Little bit of both?<\/p>\n \u201cNo, it does not turn me on, sexually. The only turn-on I experience is that of power.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Why am I not surprised to hear you say that?<\/p>\n Do you think that a guy who gets into bisexuality \u2013 participates in homosexual activities \u2013 is more or less attractive? Or\u2026 does it not affect his attractiveness?<\/p>\n \u201cI would not mind dating a bi person. Like I said earlier, I think everybody is latently bi. It\u2019s just a matter of history, curiosity, and the acceptance of norms that makes the difference in terms of acting on that, or not.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you think of the fetish as healthy for a guy, or unhealthy?<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019d say: It\u2019s neither.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n You mean: It\u2019s neither healthy nor unhealthy, or it could be either?<\/p>\n \u201cFrom a healthy point of view, it could be productive exploration.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Any religious aspect to this, for you?<\/p>\n \u201cNo.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Many people these days are conscious of so-called \u201cbinary language\u201d: masculine<\/em> versus feminine<\/em>, for example. Some people are opposed to the use of such language on the grounds that it\u2019s too restrictive or confining \u2013 similar, perhaps, to the way you designated yourself \u201cpansexual\u201d as oppose to \u201cbisexual.\u201d<\/p>\n Do you see the \u201cforced-bi<\/em> fetish\u201d as problematic, since \u201cbisexuality\u201d \u2013 and, therefore, binarism \u2013 is baked into its name?<\/p>\n \u201cNot at all. The entire fetish has it source in heteronormativity. It is an outgrowth of the taboo of queerness,\u00a0and it is based on the dichotomy of male and female.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cA pansexual genderqueer\u00a0wouldn\u2019t visit me for forced bi because,\u00a0if he regards genders to be fluid, he wouldn\u2019t\u00a0feel repressed by gender labels or the cultural stigma of\u00a0\u2018emasculation.\u2019<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Interesting.<\/p>\n What homosexual activities do you most enjoy having guys do in a session?<\/p>\n \u201cI order cock sucking and anal fucking.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you think the forced-bi fetish is gaining in popularity?<\/p>\n \u201cNo clue.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you perceive it to be promoted in any way by the \u201cmainstream media\u201d?<\/p>\n \u201cNo.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you prefer having guys in dedicated top\/bottom roles? Or do you prefer them to switch off?<\/p>\n \u201cDedicated roles, for sure. In fact, the sub who gets fucked is the one who pays. The bull who does the fucking is paid. Usually, the bull is a friend or escort. If I only have two subs, then the session is probably just going to involve oral play. Cock-sucking subs aren\u2019t made for fucking.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n So, are you aroused by any of this? Amused?<\/p>\n \u201cMeh. Neither, really. As I said, I enjoy the power trip.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you think that a guy can \u201cjust try\u201d getting assfucked and then quit? Or would he become hooked on it?<\/p>\n \u201cNah. I think he could quit. Maybe he likes it; maybe he doesn\u2019t.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n What interests you, mainly? Online chatting and fantasy, or in-person forced-bi sessions?<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m not interested in anything online. I\u2019m a real domina, meeting real subs in real, live meetings.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n You\u2019re certainly real!<\/p>\n Where can interested readers find out more about you?<\/p>\n \u201cReaders\u00a0 can find me on <\/strong>www.mistressemmaswitch.com<\/strong><\/a> and email me at <\/strong>sw*********<\/span>@***<\/span>il.com<\/span><\/strong><\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI have two clip stores, too. See the following links.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cESB\/wrestler Emma Switch (concerned with wrestling, etc.) at Clips4Sale: <\/strong>http:\/\/clips4sale.com\/91413<\/strong><\/a> and MistressEmmaSwitch (more usual BDSM-related stuff), also at Clips4Sale: <\/strong>http:\/\/clips4sale.com\/92243<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n \u201cSee, also, my FetLife account: <\/strong>https:\/\/fetlife.com\/users\/1956458<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n \u201cAnd my Twitter: emma switch@emma_switch.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n That\u2019s awesome! Thank you so much for your time!<\/p>\n (All images Copyright 2019 Mistress Emma Switch; reproduced here with express permission.)<\/p>\n For other Mistress interviews, see the following links!<\/strong><\/p>\n Today, Forced-Bi.com welcomes the erotic and epicene hardbody, Mistress Emma Switch! Hello, Mistress, and thank you for being with me today. So\u2026 let me just get this perfectly clear from the outset: What name by you actually go by? \u201cMy name is Emma Switch.\u201d Now\u2026 How do I put this delicately\u2026? 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