Hello, Forced-Bi aficionados, and welcome to the latest in our interview series. Today, we welcome an ethereal and exquisite Mistress.<\/p>\n
First of all, what is your name? What do you go by?<\/p>\n
\u201c\u2018Galactic Goddess,\u2019 or \u2018Goddess Asari\u2019.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n There are various different adjectives, epithets, modifiers, or monikers that women in your area use. Which \u2013 if any \u2013 do you think of yourself as, or prefer?<\/p>\n \u201cI think of myself as a combination of \u2018Brat\u2019 \/ \u2018Mean Girl,\u2019 Domme, and \u2013 of course \u2013 Goddess<\/em>.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Oh course! These seem fitting, if I do say so!<\/p>\n May I ask? Do you have any special reasons for this preference? As if I couldn\u2019t guess!<\/p>\n \u201cI am a domineering, bratty Goddess!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Lol! That\u2019s awesome.<\/p>\n What do you think of yourself as doing? I mean \u2026is this a \u201clifestyle\u201d or just a bit of fun, or\u2026 what is it?<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s definitely a lifestyle. This is who I am! <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut it\u2019s also got a social-activist component, for sure. And it\u2019s also a bit of a spiritual exercise.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right on. Let me ask a related question. People \u2013 guys<\/em>, probably \u2013 seek you out. Right? How do you think of them? What descriptors do you use?<\/p>\n \u201cI am inclined to call them \u2018betas,\u2019 \u2018losers,\u2019 \u2018slaves,\u2019 or \u2018subs\u2019 \u2013 depending on the situation and person.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Any special reason?<\/p>\n \u201cI like to remind weak men of their place.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Alrighty, then!<\/p>\n Speaking of cream puffs<\/em> (pun intended), here\u2019s another: What got you into the world of domination and fetishes, in general \u2013 and forced bi in particular?<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019ve always had a dominant personality. I also like to make people think outside of their programming and societal internalization. I believe if it weren\u2019t for such taboo and borderline-negative views of being gay\/bi, more<\/em> men would admit that they feel this way!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n It\u2019s an intriguing perspective, no doubt.<\/p>\n So\u2026 how long have you been doing this online?<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019ve been an online sex worker in a general sense for 10 years. A Dominatrix for 5+.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you also have a \u201cdungeon,\u201d studio, or other space for face-to-face, in-person, or real-time meets?<\/p>\n \u201cNope. It\u2019s just online for me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Fair enough.<\/p>\n What\u2019s your goal? Are you aiming to make money, or derive pleasure \u2013 or both?<\/p>\n \u201cWhile I do take pleasure in what I do \u2013 and<\/em> I personally get off to this kink \u2013 at the end of the day, what I provide is a service. And I\u2019ve never met a therapist, trainer, or service provider who gave away their talent and knowledge for free.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Right? To quote the Joker character from Christopher Nolan\u2019s Dark Knight<\/em> movie: \u201cIf you\u2019re good at something, never do it for free\u201d!<\/p>\n How much of your energy and time does this take up?<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s a full-time occupation.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Are you satisfied with this level of involvement?<\/p>\n \u201cExtremely satisfied! And \u2026you will be too<\/strong> \ud83d\ude09<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! Oh, my!<\/p>\n Do you feel comfortable sharing anything else about yourself, on either personal or professional levels? For example: How old are you? Are you in a relationship? (Conventional? Alternative\/BDSM?) What is your sexual orientation? Etc.<\/p>\n \u201cI am 30 years young, in a Female-Lead Relationship, (open on my end), and I am pansexual.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Fantastic!<\/p>\n Let\u2019s talk a little about the Forced-Bi fetish.<\/p>\n On the face of it, the it\u2019s made up of two things: (1) \u201cforce\u201d and (2) \u201cbisexuality.\u201d Let\u2019s handle both, but in reverse order.<\/p>\n Do you think that true \u201cbisexuality\u201d \u2013 where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males (but see a further question about problems with so-called \u201cbinarism\u201d) \u2013 is possible?<\/p>\n \u201cYes; it\u2019s possible, of course! What would this fetish be about if it weren\u2019t?<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n What do you think of the Forced-Bi fetish as<\/em>? Maybe it’s a combination of things.<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s a lot of things: a lifestyle (for all involved), a role play, a fun kind of game\u2026 But it\u2019s also a power trip for me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n There are actually a few names for this fetish \u2013 \u201ccoerced bi,\u201d \u201cforced bi,\u201d etc. Which, if any, do you prefer \u2013 and why?<\/p>\n \u201cAny of the these: \u2018coerced bi,\u2019 \u2018forced bi,\u2019 \u2018forced gay.\u2019 Same difference.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Okay.<\/p>\n In practice, \u201cforced bi\u201d seems most often to apply to men being somehow impelled to perform sexually (or to imagine performing sexually) with other men. However, in theory, it seems that it could apply to other things \u2013 for example, to women being impelled to perform sexually with other women \u2013 as well.<\/p>\n Do you see it primarily in terms of male submission, male and female submission, both, or neither?<\/p>\n \u201cIt can<\/em> pertain to male or female submission. Although, I prefer to deal with cis, \u2018straight,\u2019 male subs.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n As far as goes the second core idea, the idea of being \u201cforced\u201d is a little vague. For legal reasons, \u201cforced\u201d probably means something less than literally compelled by threat of force. Which, if any, of the following do you think is most fitting? Coercion, commandment, encouragement, enticement, inducement, instruction, permission, persuasion, provocation, seduction, etc.<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s a blend. Encouragement. I am<\/em> like a cheerleader, egging the guy on.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut I also entice, persuade, and seduce \u2013 as the occasion calls for it. So, it\u2019s a bit like I\u2019m like a mythical siren, tempting guys to their bisexual \u2013 or gay \u2013 doom. It\u2019s obvious that they\u2019re attracted to me. I just aim this attraction in a homosexual direction. I suppose that I provoke as well.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cStill\u2026 I\u2019m also kind of an instructor \u2013 teaching the guy to come to terms with his curiosities. And for some guys, it\u2019s like I just give them permission to act on their true desires.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIt varies. Different guys, different situations, different approaches.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n There\u2019s a lot of nuance, isn\u2019t there?<\/p>\n What do you think is actually going on with \u201cforced bi\u201d? Does a guy actually change his sexual orientation? A. Strong no; B. weaker no; C. You don\u2019t know; D. You don\u2019t care; E. weak yes; F. strong yes.<\/p>\n \u201cI think it\u2019s an even mix of B. and E.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n That\u2019s an oddly appropriate letter combination! \u201cB&E\u201d: Like Breaking and Entering into a guy\u2019s psyche.<\/p>\n \u201cOn the one hand, it\u2019s a weak \u2018no\u2019 because I don\u2019t think that all<\/em> guys who come to me are latent homosexuals. Some might be. But I also don\u2019t think that I modify anyone\u2019s sexuality. Straight men might engage in forced-bi activities as expressions of obedience, submission, and subordination.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cOn the other hand, it\u2019s a weak \u2018yes.\u2019 I think some<\/em> guys can be trained to respond to male-on-male stimulation and this can alter their orientation over time.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Is it possible for a guy to be a \u201cswitch\u201d or \u201cversatile\u201d? (That is, to be able to take on the role of either bottom or top with more or less equal facility, if not enthusiasm.)<\/p>\n \u201cAll men, deep down, are betas. They are only \u2018alpha\u2019 to each other and never to a Woman. But, a Woman can choose<\/em> to use men for fun, pleasure, or pain\/domination. Just because She has sex with one doesn\u2019t make him Her equal.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Some women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex. Straight women sometimes liken their enjoyment to that expressed by straight men who like witnessing two women together sexually. And in the case of two women, it is reasonable to think that participants are not always lesbians or even bisexual. They could just be \u201cattention whores.\u201d Other women might just like viewing gay spectacles. And a few, more dominant types perhaps, seem to find the gender-bending and role-reversal aspects appealing.<\/p>\n Do any of these resonate with you?<\/p>\n \u201cI love guy on guy sex because it\u2019s hot<\/em> and passionate<\/em>! I also love watching a man be coaxed to suck another\u2019s dick. I like first times\/first experiences.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n A few women claim to want to date bisexual guys, participate in threesomes with them, etc. Others seem to think that once a guy tries guy-on-guy sex, he\u2019s less desirable to women). This may be a difference of opinion between more dominant and more submissive women.<\/p>\n What do you think?<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s this all the way: Bisexual guys are (or can be) attractive and desirable (They\u2019re just one type of guy and their bisexuality doesn\u2019t affect their attractiveness.)<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Is the forced-bi fetish \u201chealthy\u201d or \u201cunhealthy\u201d? (Here, we mean it is positive and helpful for a male sub\u2019s flourishing, or is it negative and unhelpful? For physical health and STD risk, see \u201cLimits\u201d section, below.)<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s healthy. Absolutely. I want my subs to fulfill their cock-whore destinies. I\u2019m really freeing them and doing them a service.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n If you think it\u2019s healthy, why is it healthy?<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s productive exploration and it aids in self-discovery.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m all about giving a safe, non-judgmental space to enjoy a kink that\u2019s somewhat taboo.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI also think it can be a bit neutral, like a little harmless diversion or fun.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIt can be aimless experimentation. But I also think it\u2019s aimed<\/em> exploration: Truly accepting one\u2019s self and admitting your truths.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?<\/p>\n \u201cYes. Forced Bi is a bit like a ritual. I think of it as sex magic or psychological programming.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cAlso, I certainly derive power from Forced Bi, or from getting guys to subject themselves to this. Totally.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called \u201cbinary language\u201d \u2013 e.g., thinking in terms of \u201cfeminine\u201d versus \u201cmasculine,\u201d etc. \u2013 when it comes to John Money\u2019s concept of \u201cgender\u201d and sexuality. But forced bi, arguably, has a kind of \u201cbi-narism\u201d built into its name.<\/p>\n Do you see this as a problem for the \u201cforced-bi\u201d fetish?<\/p>\n \u201cI don\u2019t really care.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cLots of kinks are \u2018problematic,\u2019 but if we take away kinks based on being \u2018right\u2019 or \u2018moral\u2019 (which are both perspectival<\/em>), then I don\u2019t get how else people are supposed to get their kinks met. If we<\/em> (that is, sex workers) don\u2019t offer a safe space of cathartic healing, then who will? How will that manifest for those who can\u2019t get their rocks off in a safe format?<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Let\u2019s shift from the abstract to something more, well\u2026 physical: Forced-Bi activities.<\/p>\n What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?<\/p>\n \u201cCock sucking\/oral sex all day. It can be non-reciprocal or 69.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role I want?<\/p>\n \u201cI prefer both guys to be versatile \u2013 flexible.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Are you aroused by forced bi, or just amused by it?<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m both aroused and amused.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Awesome!<\/p>\n Do you think that a guy can \u201cjust try\u201d sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?<\/p>\n \u201cI don\u2019t know. Wanna find out?<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Ha! Um\u2026<\/p>\n So\u2026 what are you interested in doing? I mean, fantasy-only? Or encouraging guys to get down and dirty for real?<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m open to either. I can keep things at the level of fantasy chat.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut I\u2019m also happy to encourage guys to have real, in-the-flesh encounters with other males (Chat might be the gateway; but I want to see how far they\u2019ll go. And push them further.)<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How \u201cinvolved\u201d do you like to be?<\/p>\n \u201cOften, I just issue the instruction, order, suggestion, whatever. And then it\u2019s up to the guys to do what they will with it.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut I prefer to see photographic evidence. I want proof that they went through with whatever was discussed.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n What is your biggest focus\/turn on?<\/p>\n \u201cHonestly, it\u2019s mostly about my power. I really get off on my ability to get a guy to do extreme \u2013 even gay \u2013 things.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut I love the gay sex, too!<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBoth A and B. Ugh<\/em>! It\u2019s just so hot \u2013 and<\/em> a power trip.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n You can\u2019t decide! Lol. I love it.<\/p>\n What sexual acts, if any, really charge your batteries?<\/p>\n \u201cAs I said earlier: I love cocksuckers. I really get off on getting guys to suck cock.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Kinky!<\/p>\n So, readers likely want to know: Do you have any limits?<\/p>\n \u201cWe all<\/em> have limits. Respect and communication are keys<\/em> to serving Me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How do you feel about guys having gay sex without condoms (i.e., \u201cbarebacking\u201d)?<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m fine with guys barebacking in a limited sense. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cGet tested<\/em>!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Relatedly, some Mistresses insist on safety because Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) in a sub are completely undesirable. Others don\u2019t care either way. Some even profess to find it a turn on to see a guy engage in risky gay sex. I think I can guess, but\u2026How do you feel about STDs and STD risk?<\/p>\n \u201cBareback all day, slut. But keep clean.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cNo, I won\u2019t drop a sub who gets an STD. (That\u2019s so fucked up \u2013 and aids stigma.) But I will encourage they get help.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Again, thinking about Forced-Bi encounters, how do you feel about married men?<\/p>\n \u201cIn a way, I don\u2019t care either way. I usually don\u2019t even ask.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut, in another sense, I prefer<\/em> married men. I like defiling marriages and ruining things!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How do you feel about amyl-nitrite inhalers (\u201cpoppers\u201d)?<\/p>\n \u201cI tolerate their use. Whatever floats your boat.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI pretty much don\u2019t care either way. It\u2019s not my body or health.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cAnd, yes, I cater to the poppers fetish too.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How do you feel about guys really getting addicted to gay sex?<\/p>\n \u201cI have no idea! But we can perform the experiment.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n Lol!<\/p>\n \u201cSeriously! It\u2019s a risk I\u2019m willing to take. I mean, it\u2019s what you guys really want anyway.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n It does attract a certain kind of person, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n Do you have any other fetishes or activities that you like to participate in, direct, or instruct? (E.g., \u201cblackmail,\u201d cock-and-ball \u201ctorture\u201d [CBT], crossdressing, cum-eating, cum-eating instruction [CEI], humiliation, pegging\/strapon, small-penis humiliation [SPH], Etc.)<\/p>\n \u201cSo<\/em> many! Check out My clip stores and use the search bar! I most likely cater to your kinks!<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut to name a few: CBT, SPH, Ebony Domination, BBC Slut Training, Verbal Humiliation, Goddess Worship, Femdom, Findom, Tease and Denial, Ass Worship, Foot Fetish, Lips\/Lipstick Fetish, Roleplay, Cuckolding, Chastity and more<\/em>!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n How can fans and other interested persons check out your work? (Do you have any social media accounts or websites to share?)<\/p>\n \u201cWebsites: iWantGalacticGoddess.com<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cClips4Sale.com\/store\/73481<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cSubscription Sites: OnlyFans.com\/GalacticDomme<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cStars.avn.com\/galacticdomme<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cSext Me: Sextpanther.com\/Galactic-Goddess<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cTwitter: @GalacticDomme<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cEmail: Tr**************<\/span>@***<\/span>il.com<\/span>.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n It\u2019s been a hot pleasure, Goddess Asari! An out-of-this-world, Galactic experience! Thank you so much!<\/p>\n Just a reminder to Forced-Bi fans, we now have a Subreddit (Reddit.com\/EnforcedBi<\/a>) devoted to our brand of deviance as well as a few weeks-old Twitter account (Twitter.com\/forcedbisexual<\/a>)! Find us in either corner of the web — or both places! — and say “hi”!<\/p>\n (All photographs in this post are Copyright 2019, Goddess Asari. They are reproduced, here, with express permission of the copyright holder.)<\/p>\n For other Mistress interviews, see the following links!<\/strong><\/p>\n Hello, Forced-Bi aficionados, and welcome to the latest in our interview series. Today, we welcome an ethereal and exquisite Mistress. First of all, what is your name? What do you go by? \u201c\u2018Galactic Goddess,\u2019 or \u2018Goddess Asari\u2019.\u201d There are various different adjectives, epithets, modifiers, or monikers that women in your area use. 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