Hello to all Forced-Bi enthusiasts! Here, today, we have a sophisticated practitioner of your favorite fetish (and mine). Don’t let her petite frame mislead you: she’ll kick your ass – right before she does other things to it 😉 (And maybe afterwards, too!)
Welcome! Thank you for being with us!
Please, tell the audience: What is your name? Or, at least, what do you go by?
“Ms. Vivian.”
Hello, Ms. Vivian!
So… basic question: How do you see yourself, in the world of fetishes, broadly?
“I am a Professional Dominatrix.”
Right on! Is it fair to say that professionalism is your focus? I mean… as compared with other things – maybe pleasure seeking or social activism?
“I insist on being treated as a professional – with respect and deference.
“I have ‘6 Perfect Principles’ for those that seek time with Me. They are: Deference, Respect, Punctuality, Quiet, Trust/Honesty and Generosity.
“See more at: https://dommesnation.com/ms-vivians-six-perfect-principles/.”
Would-be admirers, take note! And… do your homework!
“I also want it known I cannot be bought. I routinely turn down appointments from those that are not worthy. If you do not treat Me with respect or deference, I will not spend time with you.”
That’s awesome.
It reminds me of Robert Downey, Jr.’s line in Guy Ritchie’s 2009 movie, Sherlock Holmes: “Well, of great benefit to being a consulting detective is that I can pick and choose my clients.”
I suppose the same goes for an independent and professional Dominatrix! So… I felicitate you!
Many interviewees have defined themselves – in one way or other – as “lifestylers.” I’m sensing a different current running through your work.
“I am a professional. I enjoy my work, but I would not do it for free; nor should I. In life you generally get exactly what you pay for.”
Ha! Very true!
How, then, would you characterize the kinds of people who seek you out?
“They call themselves ‘sissies.’ But, too often they are misogynists, or they think I will fall all over them because they are so interested in being a girl.”
Interesting.
“Yet, they also send dick pics.”
People can be contradictions, for sure.
“I like the real gurls that do want to explore their bisexuality with Me, at My direction. Unfortunately, this is one of the fetishes that attracts large numbers of wankers that want to waste My Time.
“When dealing with Me, know two things: I make boys better and My Time is your money. Do not approach without knowing that you will pay – and without being willing to be better.”
“My time is your money” has to get the quote-of-the-day award!
Given your business-like manner, it’s obvious that you take this seriously. I’m extremely curious: How did you come to this as a profession in the first place?
“I started to get frequent requests for forced bi from customers.
“I like My boys to be able to explore areas that are important to them, and this can also work for those interested in cuckolding or humiliation. There are a lot of ways to approach forced bi.
“And I also find it amusing.”
I’m gratified that you volunteered that. It was one of my burning questions – whether you derived any satisfaction from this at all, beyond remuneration.
How long have you been in your current occupation?
“A long time.”
Fair enough. With experience comes wisdom, n’est-ce pas?
This is a naïve question, but… you’re not an “online-only” Dominatrix, are you?
“I am a Professional Dominatrix, with a dungeon that I own and operate.”
That’s what I thought. In Dallas, Texas? That’s fabulous!
Do you aim at money, mostly? Or is a combination of motivations?
“I do this for the money and respect.”
I gotcha.
And… may I ask another question, the answer to which is probably also fairly apparent? How much of your time does this take up?
“It’s full-time.”
Is that kinda where you want it?
“I’m satisfied where things are at.”
Congrats, Ms. Vivian!
Do you feel comfortable sharing anything else about yourself, on either personal or professional levels?
“In my personal life, I have a hung, bull partner and we enjoy seeing cuckold couples, hot wives, and well as subs / sub couples.
“My personal involvement informs how I approach My professional sessions.”
That’s a great position to have obtained!
“I also do have merchandise for sale, including heavily used panties. I do sell panties from threesome sessions that involve bareback sex to completion in My [censored][1] – and I am a prodigious squirter.”
Oh, gawd!
“I wear the panties home and then vacuum seal them and send along a personal note. Interested parties may contact Me through dallasdomination.com. These are a really special treat.”
Mmm… So hot!
Now that readers are good and riled up, let me ask you a bit about the Forced-Bi fetish, itself.
On the face of it, the “Forced-Bi fetish” has two components: (1) “force” and (2) “bisexuality.” Let’s handle both, but in reverse order.
Firstly, do you think that true “bisexuality” – where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males is possible?
“Yes – of course! What would this fetish be about if it weren’t?”
Kinsey and all the rest of it?
Fair enough.
Now, you’ve said unequivocally that your fetish involvement, generally, is a professional endeavor. I’m just curious whether Forced Bi takes on any additional motivational layers, so to speak.
“It’s work for Me.”
Right on.
“I introduce boys to a lot of unusual activities. I offer full toilet training, for instance. So, forced bi is just another form of training.”
Before we traverse this line of inquiry too far, let me ask: what name do you give to the fetish? “Coerced bi”? “Forced Bi”? Etc.
“‘Liberty’ is what I call it.”
Ha! I love it! That is original!
“These boys beg for it. They do so for My strapon, and also when I bring in others – especially if it’s a hung bull.
“Boys do not want to talk about it, but they are way into big cock.”
So, that intriguing point makes me wonder: is Forced Bi an exclusively male enterprise?
“It mostly pertains to male submission.”
Okay, now… the trickier word.
The idea of being “forced” is a little vague. For legal reasons, “forced” obviously means something less than literally compelled by threat of force.
But, what does that leave? Coercion? Encouragement? Seduction?
“Permission.
“There’s nothing ‘forced’ about it.”
Ah, yes: males begging for cock!
What about the psychology of it? Does a guy actually “change” his sexual orientation?
“This is a really big question to unpack.”
No doubt.
“It varies with all these boys, and I enjoy seeing them find themselves. For some, it may be accepting My Big, Black Strapon. And for others it’s important to take the actual BBC.”[2]
And maybe the outcome evolves.
Is it possible for a guy to be a “switch” or “versatile”? Or he going to be one way or the other – either bottom or top?
“Sure; why not?
“Some people are a bit of both – active and passive.”
Some women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex. Straight women sometimes liken their enjoyment to that expressed by straight men who like witnessing two women together sexually. And in the case of two women, it is reasonable to think that participants are not always lesbians or even bisexual. They could just be exhibitionists. Other women might just like viewing gay spectacles. And a few, more dominant types perhaps, seem to find the gender-bending and role-reversal aspects appealing.
Do any of these resonate with you?
“It’s some of both of these: viewing guy-on-guy sex the way men might enjoy viewing girl-on-girl sex as well as bending genders and reversing traditional roles.
“I like pushing boundaries, and it can be amusing to Me.”
Ha! Why am I not surprised?
“I enjoy all type of high-level domination that challenges boys physically, mentally, and emotionally. Forcing them to grapple with how they will take another cock can be an important and dramatic lesson for them.”
Ha! I imagine that’s true!
A few women claim to want to date bisexual guys, participate in threesomes with them, etc. Others seem to think that once a guy tries guy-on-guy sex, he’s less desirable to women. Is bisexuality in general a “positive” quality in a guy? How about past participation in forced bi?
What do you think?
“I see all types of customers, and I judge them as they are and who they want Me to help them become.”
Fair enough!
Is the Forced-Bi fetish “healthy” or “unhealthy”? – psychologically, I mean.
“It’s healthy.”
Right on – helping guys become cockwhores.
“I also want to say it’s so unfair that girl-girl scenes are considered hot and that guy-guy is not.”
Ms. Vivian, I think the Forced-Bi.com readership shares your sentiment! 100%!
Haha!
But, seriously… healthy… in what sense?
“It’s productive exploration and can assist a guy in self-discovery.”
Can it be neutral, so to say?
“If it’s aimless experimentation, sure.”
Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?
“Yes, Forced Bi is a bit like a ritual.”
No kidding? Wow. You surprised me with that answer, frankly.
“I think of it as sex magic or psychological programming.”
I can totally see that.
Here’s a language-oriented query for you.
Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called “binary language” – e.g., thinking in terms of “feminine” versus “masculine,” etc. – when it comes to John Money’s concept of “gender” and sexuality. But Forced Bi, arguably, has a kind of “bi-narism” built into its name.
Do you see this as a problem for the “Forced-Bi” fetish?
“No, not at all.”
Okay! I always ask…
Now onto the fun part!
What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?
“Penetrative sex/anal sex.”
Right on.
“I don’t spend a lot of time on this. I do have room if two guys are hot for it. It can’t be fake.”
Interesting.
I wonder: do you think that Forced Bi is getting more popular?
“I think it’s getting more popular. Access to the internet and the FOMO (‘fear of missing out’). People are taking a cold, hard look – and some want to suck cock, and I can make it happen.”
Yay for everyone!
Do you perceive that the Forced-Bi fetish is being promoted in any way by the so-called “mainstream media”?
“No.”
And… which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role you want?
“I prefer having one of each – a dedicated bottom and a total top.”
Are you aroused by Forced Bi, or just amused by it?
“I am more amused than aroused. Let’s say: I find guy-on-guy sex amusing and …entertaining. And I certainly like to control and choreograph it.”
Ooh… that’s excellent! And… I’m sure the males are aroused enough on their own!
Do you think that a guy can “just try” sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?
“Nope. Once a guy takes cock in his ass, he’ll be a cockwhore thereafter. Yes, they feel liberated. It does not happen by accident.”
How “involved” do you like to be?
“I’m fully in charge and may video with multiple angles and still photography.”
Oh! That’s hot!
“Anything that occurs at Dallas Domination is under My direction. I do a lot of planning before a session. This is the real mark of professional domination.”
What is your biggest focus?
“It’s helping someone explore an area of interest and where I am in charge.”
What sexual acts, if any, really charge your batteries?
“I like being respected, having boys do as I command, and having them defer to My wishes.”
Power is intoxicating.
Lemme ask about limits. Firstly… do you have any?
“A few, but they apply to me rather than to my subs.”
Oh?
“Subs can do it all.”
Mmm… Hot.
Relatedly, some Mistresses insist on safety because Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) or Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) in a sub are completely undesirable. Others don’t care either way. Some, well… how do you feel about STD / STI risk?
“The sub must stay clean. He needs to practice safe sex.”
Fair enough. What about married men?
“I am a professional dominatrix and discreet.”
How do you feel about amyl-nitrite inhalers – that is, “poppers”?
“I oppose their use; keep them away from me.”
How do you feel about guys really getting addicted to gay sex?
“I don’t like the term ‘addicted.’ It’s a clinical term, and I’m not talking about it in that way. I do find that boys are enthusiastic and want to repeat the experience.”
Point taken! Um… in the bottom’s case – literally!
Any final reflections on Forced Bi to share?
“I enjoy forced-bi scenes, and they can be memorable. I enjoy referring back to them with clients because they are so memorable.
“I also love adding a second dominatrix or more to the mix. Anytime you can overload a boy’s senses, there’s a chance for a real breakthrough.
“I will also say that there are far too many men that are repressed in this area and call or write Me to waste My time about their fantasies.
“Stop wasting the time of a professional.
“Instead, go find a dick to suck. In most cases, I am just granting boys permission because they are desperate and so excited to do it.”
Thanks for that!
“There’s very little forcing in ‘forced bi.’ The boys that ask for this fetish are highly attuned to it.
“Part of their fantasy is to have a Professional Dominatrix require them to do it. But I have found, most often, they simply enjoy a broader audience.
“I know they appreciate the direction I provide for them, but the forced bi is similar to the fetish of forced strapon play. I see that there are lots of kinky boys wanting to get to know themselves better and I enjoy taking them on that voyage.
“There is, however, often confusion when they expect a ‘porn-star reaction’ of the activity making Me hot. I enjoy the control and it’s amusing.
“My favorite activity is impact play. So, forced bi may be a boy’s top interest – and I will accommodate this – but it’s not mine.
“I have no loss of allowing them the permission they need to suck cock in a safe, judgment-free zone.”
I understand. I have noted that your Twitter account makes reference to Clothed-Female-nude-male (CFnm) fetish. And your previous mention of “impact play” makes me curious: what else do you get into, in your professional capacity?
“I am a professional dominatrix of many years. My favorite activity is impact play. But, I’m well versed in many areas.
“My most frequent requests are for bondage, pegging, CBT,[3] and electrical.
“My favorite are multiple-Dominatrix sessions.”
That would be delicious, I’m sure! Any other names for us?
“The women I enjoy work with me at Dallas Domination.”
Right on.
Readers: See, again, dallasdomination.com!
“I want to also stress that Dallas Domination requires that boys accept CEI.[4] I simply insist on this.”
Oh… wow! That’s kinky…
“If you are going to get some release, then you must experience it fully.
“It’s shocking to Me how many boys I see that have not done so.
“I also do have a number of boys that have become quite familiar and understand why I administer CEI each time. I also can – and do – provide My bull’s cum for some customer’s that are true connoisseurs.”
Mmm…
Before you leave us, please tell us how can fans and other interested persons check out your work?
Of course, there’s your website.
“https://www.dallasdomination.com/
“Twitter: @femdommevivian
“I’m also a frequent blogger for DommesNation.com.”
“I will add that I have a stable of loyal patrons and supporters. I would always welcome respectful additions to that roster. The best way to contact Me is through My website.”
Thanks so much, Ms. Vivian! It was a real pleasure having you with us!
(All photographs of Ms. Vivian are Copyright 2021, Ms. Vivian. They are reproduced by Forced-Bi.com or its affiliates and associates with permission.)
Notes:
[1] It’s too provocative to reveal to just anyone! Readers who think they’re worthy should dee Ms. Vivian’s website — https://www.dallasdomination.com/ – for the salacious details!
[2] “BBC” = “big, black cock” – not “British Broadcasting Corporation” 😉
[3] “CBT” = “cock-and-ball torture”
[4] “CEI” = “cum-eating instruction”